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Judy Costa Obituary

Judy A. Costa, 79, of Meriden passed away at MidState Medical Center on Tuesday, August 3, 2021. She was the devoted wife of John her husband of 52 years. Judy was born in Worcester, MA, the daughter of the late Reginald and Eileen Downing.

Judy was a graduate of North High School and Nasson College of Springvale, Maine, where she received her Bachelor of Science Degree in 1964 and the University of Connecticut with a Master of Science degree in 1968.

She was a teacher at Lyman Hall high School in Wallingford as a Consumer and Family Science Teacher (formerly known as Home Economics). She retired in 1999 after 35 years. It was at Lyman Hall she met John her husband.

At Lyman she was Department Chairman for a number of years. She was very active in a number of programs; AFS (American Field Service), Student Assistance Team, New England Associations of Schools and Colleges (NEASC) Evaluation and construction of numerous costumes for school plays.

As a long term Cancer survivor, she was very active as a volunteer and conducted numerous workshop training sessions.

In addition to her husband, she leaves many cousins and friends. The family would like to acknowledge the wonderful care she received from Masonic Hospice Staff and the Right At Home Agency and their numerous care givers.

Funeral services will be held on Monday, Aug. 9th, 2021 at 11 am at the First Congregational Church, 37 Main St. Burial will follow at St. Thomas Cemetery. Calling hours will be on Sunday, Aug. 8th from 2-5 pm at the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 N. Main St., Southington.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made in her memory to a charity of your choice or Masonic Care Hospice Program, 97 Barnes Rd. Suite # 4, Wallingford, CT 06492.

For online condolences and directions please visit www.dellavecchiasouthington.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2021.

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Pam Koncki

August 18, 2021

Our hearts go out to you John, as you mourn Judy. She was a kind and beautiful soul, a one-of-a-kind. Wishing you the peace and comfort of the many happy memories you have.

Pam Koncki

August 7, 2021

It was with great sadness that I read of Judy's passing. I had the pleasure of working with her, and her wonderful husband, at Lyman Hall. Our thoughts are with you, John, and with all of Judy's family and friends as you mourn the passing of such a wonderful human being.

Linda Bisnette

August 7, 2021

Judy - I have always been sorry we have not lived closer. Your courage inspired me many times. John, thank you for giving her such great love and care. She told me many times how lucky she felt to have you. Love, Linda

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Michael Gannon

August 5, 2021

Judy was a trooper, a fighter, and we all watched in awe as she waged the quiet battle with dignity and class throughout. We are sad for John, but he has been at her side for years in this quest for the good life. Thanks, Judy, for all that you taught us about courage. You were a master teacher.

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