Patricia Hayes Axtmayer, 70, died on Wednesday, October 20, 2021, after enduring two years of cancer treatment.
Pat was one of the kindest humans to walk the earth. She was a nurse, Red Cross Volunteer, blood and platelet donor, mom, mentor, grandmother, sister, lover of libraries, dog rescuer, and the woman who dedicated her days to making other people happy.
She raised four children, Alfredo, Patrick, Aileen, and Caitlin, and fostered them with the mentality to give back to the world.
Those children, along with her five grandchildren, and the community she has impacted so greatly, will continue her legacy of kindness.
As she has given during life, she has donated her body to Quinnipiac Medical School. Therefore, there will be no viewing. The family will be available for people to pay their respects starting at 10 a.m. preceding an 11 a.m., memorial mass. Services will be on Saturday, October 30th at The Church of the Resurrection in Wallingford, CT. Masks are requested for those in attendance.
In lieu of flowers (no really, Pat would prefer you donate that money to someone in need!) you can make a charitable donation to The Axtmayer Family Cancer Fund: https://cfgnh.org/axtmayerfund
Published by The Record-Journal from Oct. 24 to Oct. 25, 2021.