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Rene Tompkinson Obituary

CHESHIRE - Rene Harry Tompkinson, 90, of Spring Meadow, Elim Park, Cheshire, formerly of Meriden and Stoddard, N.H., passed away on Thursday, Feb. 15, 2018. He was the beloved husband of Esther Benson Tompkinson and they celebrated their 67th anniversary on Aug. 15, 2017.

Rene was born in New Haven on July 6, 1927, son of the late William H. and Helen Truchot Tompkinson. He had been a resident of Meriden since early childhood, attending local schools, graduating from Meriden High School, class of 1945, and later from Western Pennsylvania Horological Institute in Pittsburgh, Pa., with a degree in Horology. He continued his education with the American Watchmaker's Institute and was awarded a certificate as Master Watchmaker in 1960. Rene was a veteran of World War II, having served as a torpedo man in the Navy Submarine Service in Balboa, Canal Zone, Panama, as well as the PT boat facilities in Melville, R.I. As a Master Watchmaker, he owned and operated The Time Shop in Meriden since 1950, retiring in 1996. He was an active member of the National Association of Watch and Clock Collectors, as well as the Connecticut and Massachusetts Chapters, and was a member of the American Watchmakers Institute. He was a member of the Meriden Jaycees for many years and was named outstanding State Director in 1960. He joined the Meriden Lions Club in 1962, served through the chairs and was elected President in 1967. Rene was also President of the Meriden Lions Welfare Projects for 12 years and Treasurer for 13 years. He was honored as 1986–1987 Lion of the Year, inducted as a Melvin Jones Fellow in 1988, and awarded a Life Membership in 1990 by the Meriden Lions. He served in many offices of the International Association of Lions Clubs and was elected to serve as District Governor in 1987. He was inducted at The Lions International Convention in Taipei, Taiwan. Upon completion of his term of office, he was honored with the 100 percent District Governor's Award and three outstanding Leadership Awards from Lions International. Rene had been very active in the Connecticut Lions Eye Research Foundation for many years. He had been a Corporator of the Oak Hill School for the Blind since 1992. In 2001–2002 he served as Chairman of the Y's Men of Meriden. He was also a member of the Meriden Arts and Crafts Association and The First Church of Christ Scientist in Boston, Mass. Rene truly enjoyed fishing, boating, and snowmobiling at their cottage in Pickerel Cove on Highland Lake in Stoddard, N.H., for 23 years. He also enjoyed working with wood and made many gifts for his grandkids and friends.

Besides his wife, Rene is survived by his daughter, Sandra and her husband, Marshall Dennis, of Ashburnham, Mass.; son, Mark and his wife, Cheryl Tompkinson, of Ephrata, Pa.; and five grandchildren, Joshua and his wife, Katherine Dennis, Ian Dennis, Amanda and her husband, Joel Bernard, Alicia and her husband, Eric Steinhauer, and Brian and his wife, Tiffany Tompkinson; two great-grandsons, Blake and Quentin Tompkinson; and many cousins.

Relatives and friends are invited to a memorial service for Rene on Saturday, March 3 at 1 p.m. at the Elim Park Chapel, 150 Cook Hill Road, Cheshire. Memorial donations in Rene's name may be made to the Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation, P.O. Box 142, Bloomfield, CT 06002; C.L.E.R.F., 330 Cedar St., P.O. Box 9268, New Haven, CT 06533; or Elim Park Benevolent Fund, 150 Cook Hill Road, Cheshire, CT 06410. To share a condolence with his family, please visit www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Feb. 25, 2018.

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Nick Nichols

March 4, 2018

To the Tompkinson Family,

On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS and Swamp Fox Chapter SUBVETS WWII, I offer you our sincere condolences on Ray's passing. We grieve with you on the death of your loved one and our shipmate. The SUBVETS will have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Ray, who earned his 'fish' when he qualified on submarines during World War II, will always be remembered as a Brother of the Phin, a member of our Greatest Generation, and a great Patriot. BRAVO ZULU SHIPMATE!!

TM(SS) Ray Tompkinson
US Navy WWII Submarine Veteran
Now on Eternal Patrol
Sailor Rest Your Oar
Your Shipmates Have The Watch

Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate

Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, MTCM(SS) USN Ret.
Base Chaplain

Deb Olsen

February 26, 2018

Aunt Ester & Family,
I am saddened to hear of Uncle Rene's passing. The entire Olsen family was extremely fond of him and of course more than once he saved the day fixing Dad's watch. On behalf of Nancy (Mom) and all of the family I am sending our thoughts and prayers for comfort during this difficult time.
Fondly,
Deb

Mitch Christopoulos

February 25, 2018

Ester
You and Rene were one of the kindest neighbors one could ask for..From welcoming Jobie and I back into the neighborhood,watching both of you meticulously tend to your gardening to return often to visit thee old neighborhood and stop by to say hi....my sincere condolences to you and family...

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