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Traci Dalton Obituary

MIDDLEFIELD- Traci Dalton, of Middlefield, died Friday, Jan. 17, 2014, at the Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale-New Haven. By her side were her husband, Doug Dischino; her children, Lindley Donecker and Brittney Dalton; and Lindley's husband, Daniel. She was 57. After graduating from the State University of New York at Cortland in 1978 with a major in biology and health science, Traci joined Bristol Laboratories in Syracuse. She subsequently transferred to Wallingford. Over the course of her career, she held a variety of positions, retiring as an Associate Director of Global Quality and Regulatory Compliance after 33 years with Bristol-Myers Squibb.

Traci was born in Corvallis, Ore., and graduated from Liverpool High School, a suburb of Syracuse, in 1974. She was a member of the track and swim teams, captain of the gymnastics team, and an Onondaga County and Section III champion in vaulting. Through her later years at Liverpool High School and while at SUNY Cortland, she spent summers as a lifeguard. In 1976, she became the first female chief lifeguard at a state park in New York. Traci lived her life with an adventurous spirit and unlimited energy. She loved the outdoors. Everything that she put her mind to was done with zeal: downhill and cross country skiing, swimming, bicycling, scuba diving, roller blading, and hiking. She and her husband hiked extensively on Connecticut's Blue-Blazed Hiking Trail System. She was a cat lover and cared for many stray cats. She was also an avid gardener. Throughout her six-year battle with cancer, Traci was determined to remain active. Four years into the ordeal, she and her daughter Brittney hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon, stayed overnight at the Phantom Ranch Lodge and then hiked out the next day. During her last two years and while on two different clinical trials, she and her husband traveled to Scotland, New Zealand and Norway, where they crossed the Arctic Circle, organizing their trips around treatments and procedures.
More recently, no matter how she felt, Traci made sure to spend time being with and supporting Lindley, Brittney and Doug. She was devoted to her granddaughter, Kayla and grandson, Logan. When health permitted, she traveled to Apex, N.C., to be with them. Later, Skyping and video emails were a daily event.

In addition to Doug; Lindley, Daniel, Kayla and Logan; and Brittney, of St. Louis, Missouri; Traci is survived by her parents, Ron and Jan (Bogart) Dalton; her sister, Leslie Katz; brother-in-law, Mitchell; and nieces, Rebecca and Dana; all of Liverpool, N.Y.

A memorial service to celebrate Traci's life will be held at the Middlefield Federated Church, 402 Main Street, in Middlefield on Saturday, Feb. 8, at 11 a.m. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that donations be made in honor of Traci's life to the Termer Center for Targeted Therapies at Massachusetts General Hospital, 55 Fruit St., Boston, MA 02114, Smilow Cancer Hospital at Yale-New Haven, 20 York Street, New Haven, CT 06510 or the Connecticut Forest and Park Association, 16 Meriden Road, Rockfall, CT 06481.
Doolittle Funeral Home in Middletown is handling the arrangements. To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal on Jan. 28, 2014.

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Gail Wright

January 22, 2025

I had the blessing of knowing Traci starting back in Syracuse. I delivered the mail and remember Traci always being so very kind.

John MacNintch

January 23, 2020

Traci was a beautiful, well met, highly intelligent girl with whom I worked at Bristol-Myers. I was in a different Department being Corporate Director of Scientific information. We both made the move from Syracuse to CT. Traci's parents were very nice also. Her father was a clothing salesman in Liverpool where Joan and I lived. I bought many samples from him. What a crying shame that such a beautiful, personable, highly intelligent lady like Tracy could have been taken so early in life. I knew Doug, but not well and I commiserate with him in his tremendous loss. Both were very well thought of in the Bristol-Myers Research area and well matched to each other in personality. And now, even Bristol-Myers Wallingford is gone. I am terminal and in the latter stages of MDS at age 84 and I just lost the love of my life, my wonderful wife Joan. Rest in peace, Traci.

February 6, 2014

Dearest Doug, Brittney and Lindley: Knowing and working with Traci over the years was such an honor and a joy. She was kind, smart, funny and caring. I will miss her every day. Love to you all. Randy Puska

Gail Wright

February 3, 2014

I am a retired Bristol-Myers employee, who transferred from Syracuse. I knew Traci for a very long time. She was truly a wonderful person, and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Gail Wright

Helen Ernst

February 2, 2014

Dear Brittney and Lindley,
I am very sorry for the loss of your mother. My heart goes out to you both. Hugs -

Brian Holder

February 2, 2014

Dear Doug & Family,

We would like to extend to you and your family our deepest and heartfelt condolences.

Though no amount of words or deeds would help ease any of the pain that you and your family are currently going through, we wanted to let you know that we have your family in our thoughts and prayers.

There is no way for us to every look back and understand God's chosen plans but we know the memories that you share and hold of Traci within your hearts will eventually lead you back to her someday.

God Bless Traci and your entire Family Doug.

Brian Holder and Stephanie Stiklus

Chester - Mac and Shasta's other son. Love you lots

Chester Bildstein

January 31, 2014

January 31, 2014

Dear Doug and Family,
I am so deeply sorry to hear of Traci's passing. May you find peade and comfort in your wonderful, loving memories of your life together and in the knowledge that she is over her ordeal and at peace.
Sincerely,
Lynn Carney
BMS - Wallingford

Chuck Sloan

January 31, 2014

Dear Doug and family. I feel great sorrow over your loss of Traci. May God lift up your hearts.

January 30, 2014

Dear Doug & Family,
May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you and keep close all the beautiful, wonderful memories you have of your precious Traci! I will never forget her smile and the joy and sunshine she spread at the office every day! Such an inspiration to us all!
God Bless and Keep You All!
Laura Dziekan

Jeff Usakewicz

January 30, 2014

I am deeply saddened by Traci's passing. She is in my thoughts and prayers. I have fond memories of Traci having worked with her in Syracuse and Connecticut. She was a colleague, a good friend, a wife and a mother and she managed to keep all these balls in the air without breaking a sweat. She will be missed. My condolences to Doug and the girls.

Leslie Bulion

January 30, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and we send you our deepest sympathies.
Leslie Bulion, and Rubin, Julia and Isabel Hirsch

Barbara Bildstein

January 29, 2014

Doug, Britt & Lindley I will always remember Traci's beautiful eyes and contagious smile. Thank you.for giving me the most wonderful Maine Coones, Chester and Bailey....joy of our home with Lab Monty. May your fond memories of Traci help you at this time. A Hug to all of you!

Shasta & Mac's son Bailey...You are forever in my heart

Bailey Bildstein

January 29, 2014

Donna Barten

January 29, 2014

Doug,
I am so sad to hear of this time of tremendous loss in your life. Prayers will be with you.

January 29, 2014

Dear Doug,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm sorry that I never had the chance to work with Traci. She sounds like she loved her family and loved life.
If i can ever do anything at all, please don't hesitate to ask.
Most sincerly,
Valerie Ghyssels
Occupational Health
BMS

Brenda Bentley

January 29, 2014

Doug and family - my deepest sympathy to you all. Traci had a light that will shine on and never be forgotten. May that light shine on in God's hands.

Brenda Bentley

January 29, 2014

Doug and family - my deepest sympathies, may your wonderful memories of Traci keep your souls at peace. Sincerely Diana Alicea

Dawn Spano

January 29, 2014

My heartfelt sympathy to the family. She was always very high sprited and fun at BMS. We used to "run into each other" at the microwave during lunch and catch up on things. Her spirit will live on with all that knew her.

January 29, 2014

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Phil

January 29, 2014

With deepest sympathy to the family during your time of grief...God is for you a refuge and strength, A help that is there to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

Erika Gamble-Brady

January 28, 2014

Dalton Family,
I was so sad to hear about the loss of Traci. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May your memories of Traci help you through this difficult time.

Cindy Piccirillo

January 28, 2014

Traci's beautiful and joyful smile will live in our hearts forever. I hope her family finds comfort knowing that many of us at BMS will cherish the opportunity to work with such a wonderful person. Gone but never forgotten!

Ted MacNintch

January 28, 2014

It is with the greatest sympathy that Joan and I extend our condolences to the family. We knew Tracy from Syracuse and I was a co worker at Bristol-Myers Squibb. She was a delightful person who was always positive and cheerful. She was also a hard and respected worker and very close to her husband Doug. W

January 28, 2014

Dear Doug and family: I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Traci's passing. My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

Sue Drechsler

January 28, 2014

God bless

Judi Frick

January 28, 2014

Doug and family - This is with sincere sympathy of the loss of Traci. She was a true friend when I was working at BMS. She was supportive in every way. May she rest in peace. She will be remembered.

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