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Wayne McDermott Obituary

WALLINGFORD - Wayne "Burt" McDermott Jr., 63, of Wallingford, loving husband of Cindy Wardwell McDermott passed away unexpectedly, Sunday, Nov. 10, 2013, at the MidState Medical Center.

Wayne was born in Meriden, Oct. 18, 1950, a son of the late Wayne B. McDermott Sr., and Jeanruth Anderson McDermott and had been a Wallingford resident for many years. He was a 1969 graduate of Lyman Hall High School and graduated from Middlesex Community College in 1972. He was employed by Tiger Enterprises in Plantsville.

In addition to his wife Cindy, he is survived by his son, Timothy McDermott and his wife, Elizabeth, of Meriden; and his daughter, Katherine McDermott, of Middletown; his two brothers, Paul McDermott and his wife, Elise, of Middletown and James McDermott and his wife, Gloria, of Meriden; his brother-in-law, John Wardwell, of West Haven; five nieces; and one nephew; and many cherished friends whom he considered family. Wayne enjoyed the outdoors, especially exploring the White Mountains in N.H. and S.C. He was an avid geocacher and New England Patriots Fan. Wayne loved adventures and would never pass up an opportunity to spend time with his friends and family. He will always be remembered for his outgoing and unique personality.

His family will receive relatives and friends in The Wallingford Funeral Home, 809 N. Main St. Ext., Wednesday, Nov. 13, from 5 until 8 p.m. A funeral service will be held in The Wallingford Funeral Home, Thursday at 10 a.m. Interment will be in Walnut Grove Cemetery in Meriden. Wayne's legacy will continue on in others through the gift of tissue donation. In lieu of flowers gifts in his memory may be sent to the Old Man of the Mountain Legacy Fund, P.O. Box 6, Franconia, NH 03580.

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Published by The Record-Journal on Nov. 12, 2013.

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David Sobel

June 24, 2014

Cindy and Family, growing up on Cooper Avenue was one big family. Burt was the biggest kid of all the Cooper Ave. Bunch so he kept us all in line. It was one game of football or basketball or baseball after another. Then it was lashing my sister to a telephone pole ( all in good fun ) and pelting her with red berries! I remember the day Burt went away to school in Michigan. That was a big deal for the whole neighborhood! Burt and I then worked at Wallace Silversmiths for a year. After that I left for the Army and left Wallingford. I would visit now and then. I can still hear his laugh in my head! I am better off for that I am sure. I am so sorry for your loss Cindy. God Bless

November 25, 2013

I was saddened to learn of the paasing of Wayne. I graduated from Lyman Hall H.S. with Wayne. A very nice guy. I live in Rhode Island now that was why there was a time gap. I'll say a prayer for Wayne and his family. --- Alfred Grindell of Middletown, R.I.

Aili McKeen

November 14, 2013

So sorry for your loss. We had great memories from Girl Scout Camporees with "Mr. Mc-Corn-dog" and the rather large fires he'd build and the stories we'd tell around them.

Sue Jobbagy Darmofalski

November 13, 2013

Cindy: so very sorry to hear of burt's passing. I have fond memories of him from church fellowship.

Deborah Self , Scata

November 13, 2013

To the MCDERMOTT family, may this candle always hold the love That Wayne had for his family. In prayers and good memories, with his classmates and friends always to be cherished and remembered in our hearts and yours, with love. God Bless and peace be with you.

Shelley Duchesne

November 13, 2013

Cindy & Family,
We were so shocked to hear of Bert' s passing. Our thoughts are with you. I am sorry I can't be there for services. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Shelley Andrews Duchesne and family.

Jessica Callahan-Quinlan

November 13, 2013

Dear Cindy, Tim, Kate, and the entire McDermott Family:
I am deeply saddened to hear of Burt's passing. I have many fond memories of him from picking us up from cheerleading pratice, seeing him while visiting or even saying a quick hi from my back yard. He was such a loving and caring man. My prayers and deepest sympathy are with you all during this sad time.

Jacqueline Buza-Galica, MD

November 13, 2013

To the McDermott Family,
I have fond memories of working for years with Burt's Mom at Gaylord, and also of chatting with Tim at Adamo's while he was pumping gas during his high school years. You are a wonderful and close family. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead, and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
My sincerest sympathy to the entire family.

Bobbie-Lynne (Biega) DeHart

November 13, 2013

Dear Cindy,
Was so saddened & shocked to read of Burt's passing. I have such great memories of the both of you, particularly in the Pilgrim Fellowship church group in Wallingford. My sincerest & most heart-felt sympathy to you & your family.

Michele Distasio

November 12, 2013

Cindy, I am so deeply sorry for your loss of your beloved Burt. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pamela Nolan

November 12, 2013

Many memories of Burt and our child hood in NH...we all truly were lucky to have NH to go to,and our families. Burt will be missed,...Love to all his family.

~~~~~~cousin Pam

Debbie Samuels

November 12, 2013

Hi Cindy and family, It's been a long time! I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that Burt will be missed,lots of people loved him! My thoughts and sympathy are with you and your children.

November 12, 2013

I'm so so sorry for your loss! I haven't seen all of you in a really long time. I was shocked to hear the sad news. Be well and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Debbie Samuels

Jeanie Crosby

November 12, 2013

Dear Cindy, Tim and Kate -- We are all so sad about our cousin Burt's way-too-early death. Burt grew up to be as rock solid a man as he was a child. Laurie and I will be with you on Thursday. Love Jeanie

John Walczyk

November 12, 2013

Dear Cindy, Tim, Betsy, Kate, and the entire McDermott Family, please know I am deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved Burt. My prayers and deepest sympathy are with you during this time.

Oliver Brown

November 12, 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of your Husband, my prayers are with you and your family during this tough time.

Dineen Fichman

November 12, 2013

Cindy, Tim and Kate: Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Amy Lohre

November 12, 2013

Cindy, Kate and Tim,
We are shocked and sad to learn that the ambulance on our street saturday night was for our friend Burt.

He was a wonderful husband and father, and the best neighbor from the day we moved in.
Our love and prayers to you,
Amy and Linda

Cynde Klaneski

November 12, 2013

Dear Cindy and Family - It was so sad to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lauraine Carlson

November 12, 2013

Dear Cindy & family, Please except our deepest sympathy at the loss of your cherished husband and father. May God's angels wrap their arms around all of you, give you strength and courage in this very difficult time. With much love and prayers to all of you.
Lauraine & Fred Carlson Weatogue, Ct

Bob, JoAnn, J.R. Amantea

November 12, 2013

Dear Timmy and family: Our deepest sympathy is extended to all of you on the Loss of your Dad. I will always remember him at the Lyman Hall Hockey Games when you and J.R. played (not so many years ago). With Sympathy, Bob, Jo-Ann and J.R. Amantea

November 12, 2013

My darling Cindy, I can not begin to express my condolences. I am truly sorry for your loss. I love the stories you have shared with me throughtout the years about you and your Burt. You have beautiful memories and I pray that you will continue to share them with me. My prayers are with you, Tim & Kate.

Jean McCarthy

November 12, 2013

Cindy, Kate, Tim & Betsy - I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers, and that Heaven gained a very special person. Jean

Nancy Marzano

November 12, 2013

Cindy, Tim and Kate: I am so, so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and father. Please accept my deepest condolences and know that the thoughts and prayers of all your good friends are with you now.

Beth Ann Crawford (Dupuis)

November 12, 2013

I was so sorry to hear about Burt's passing. My prayers are with you all. I had not seen him since we were younger. His parents and mine where good friends. My parents were Art and Helen Dupuis. They have also both passed on. My sympathy to all of you at this time.

Bob Baniszewski

November 12, 2013

Cindy & Family:
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time.

Sandy Moravec

November 11, 2013

I may not have "known" him that well, but I do have to say whenever I did talk with him he was extremely funny and nice to me. There are never any words to truly help at times like this, so I will only say he will be remembered and that day by day things do get better. McDermott Family you have my deepest condolences.

Kristen Ntoukiantzis

November 11, 2013

Tim, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Prayers to you and your family during this time.

Josh and Dorothy Knell

November 11, 2013

Cindy, Tim, Betsy, and Kate we are so sorry for this great loss. We love you all so much. He was amazing. I always loved seeing Burt each time I would come home. I can hear his laugh right now. I love that we can all remember him for the great man he was. You are constantly in our thoughts. Love you.

Mark Gosselin

November 11, 2013

Cindy, I am so sorry to have heard about Burt. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lori

November 11, 2013

I am so sorry :*( words cant express.. XO

Susan Fitts-Sibilia

November 11, 2013

Dear Kate and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that your many beautiful memories help you during this very difficult time.

Patti Correia -Cascio

November 11, 2013

So sorry for your loss

Beth Rose

November 11, 2013

Tim and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss and am sending prayers and healing thoughts for those he left behind. God Bless!

November 11, 2013

Cindy and Family
I am so sorry to hear about Burt. I remember the great times in high school and after, He will be missed dearly. I will always keep him in my heart.

Lynn Becroft

Lori Koczur

November 11, 2013

Tim , Betsy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't imagine how difficult this is for your Mom and the rest of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this time of sorrow. Hold tight to each other and all the wonderful memories you have made together. Rest in Peace.

Lori

November 11, 2013

Cindy, Kate, Tim, Betsy and family, we are truly sorry for your loss. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Lance and Donna

gail richli

November 11, 2013

Dear Cindy & Family, I am truly sorry for your great loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this sorrowful time.

Gail Richli

william bouton

November 11, 2013

Cindy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May you find joy among each other, friends and relatives as you are thankful for the time you got to spend with Burt.

Bill Bouton

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