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Alfred Siano Obituary

Alfred J. Siano

Greenfield, MA - Alfred J. Siano, 84, of Meadow Wood Drive Greenfield died Wednesday 5/21/25 at home. He was born at home in Greenfield on March 28, 1941, the son of Alfred and Ann (Iandoli)Siano, the middle child of a closely knit immigrant family.

He graduated from Greenfield High School in 1958 and from the University of Massachusetts in 1962 with a BS in biology. Following graduation, he served in the Air Force from 1962-1965. He was honorably discharged as a 1st Lieutenant.

Alfred was a pharmaceutical representative for Parke- Davis for 28 years and then worked for Johnson & Johnson until his retirement in 2001.

Alfie enjoyed golf and traveling throughout his life. He often said that one of the best undertakings of his adult life was discovering and being reunited with his father's family near Sarno, Italy. His wife, Mary, studied Italian and facilitated the communication with a whole village of first cousins and his father's last living sibling, Maria Siano.

Alfie had many civic and community activities: he served as Chair of the Planning Board in the 1970s, as a Town Meeting member, in 2003 he was elected to the first City Council after Greenfield's charter change to a city. He served on the Board of Dial-Self, as President of the Lions Club, as a Board member of the Senior Symposium as well as the Mount Grace Land and Conservation Trust. He was a founding member of Franklin County's Unico Club and for many years has been, with Mary, a member of Circolo Italiano in Amherst.

Besides his beloved wife of 55 years, Mary (Shea) Siano, Alfred leaves daughters, Cara Klempner and Amy Penna; grandchildren, David Klempner-Siano, Michaela Klempner-Siano, Antony Castro-Siano and Owen Alfred Penna; siblings, Frank (Rose Marie) Siano, James (Priscilla) Siano, Arlene Brissette and sister-in-law, Jean Siano.

Besides his parents, Alfred was predeceased by a brother, John Siano, a nephew, Joel Siano and a grandnephew, Matthew Walsh.

Alfie had a family by marriage that also treasured him: brothers-in-law, Christopher Shea, David (Arminda)Shea, sister-in-law, Victoria (William) Black and former sister-in-law, Fiona Shea. He was predeceased by sisters-in-law Jane Shea and Neal Shea Peters, brother-in-law, Matthew Williams, and niece, Katie Liimatainen. His father-in-law, Bernard Shea and mother-in-law, Blanche Shea, both deceased, were big fans of Alfie.

Additionally, he is survived by 5 nephews, 6 nieces,7 grandnephews,9 grandnieces in his birth family as well as 4 nieces, 2 nephews, and 4 grandnieces in his family by marriage.

Alfie and Mary have supported two young men who were orphaned by the 2010 earthquake in Haiti. Al admired the all-volunteer effort of an ad hoc group in Brattleboro, VT to provide material resources to sustain an orphanage outside of Port au Prince. He thought we can help, why wouldn't we? The orphanage has worked successfully despite all the political violence to raise these earthquake victims. This is one of many examples of his kindness and his belief that we are all brothers and sisters.

Alfie was an open-hearted and generous person who shared his resources with many organizations that reflected and advanced his values. He saw the possibilities in each person and affirmed their value and dignity. He supported with resources and time Greenfield Community College, as education is a foundation and an opportunity, and where he and Mary established a scholarship to honor his mother, Ann I. Siano. The health and beauty of the environment in this region, Franklin County and all of Western Massachusetts, were active concerns for Alfie and he sought to enhance and preserve both through CISA (Community Involved in Sustaining Agriculture) and the Mount Grace Land and Conservation Trust. He loved music, art, theatre and dance and was in awe of the performing artists he met. He supported the artistic endeavors of Double Edge Theatre and Antenna Cloud Farm because both have such big dreams and work to lift up the human spirit. You can honor his memory with your support of any of these fine organizations, as each one deserves community affirmation and funding.

Al and Mary enrolled in the Anatomical Gift Program at the University of Massachusetts Medical School and Al was accepted as a gift last Wednesday, May 21.

A Remembrance is being planned and will be announced on Kostanski's site as well as in the Recorder.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Kostanski Funeral Home. For condolences, please visit www.kostanskifuneralhome.com.


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Published by The Recorder on May 28, 2025.

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Terri Doherty

June 20, 2025

Cara, Mary & family, so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad, husband, grandpa; grief is hard, sending hugs and prayers, may your wonderful memories live on.

Jerry McCabe

June 16, 2025

I was saddened to read of Alfie´s passing. I have fond memories of watching him play baseball when I was a kid and he and my Dad, who was a pharmaceutical wholesale salesman used to run into Alfie often on the road. His brothers were terrific ballplayers as well. Sincere condolences to Mary and the family.

Hannah Jarrell

June 2, 2025

Al was a such a wonderful presence in community. He will be missed by us all. Our hearts are with Mary and all their family, in whom Al lives on vibrantly.

Lisa Maynard

May 31, 2025

I am so sad to see this. Alfie will forever be one of my favorite people from my childhood.

debra miller jenkins

May 31, 2025

he was my favorite teacher. i never forgot him. thank you.

Bob Drost

May 29, 2025

Alphie was a wonderful friend and a great golf partner during my years living in Greenfield and playing golf at GCC.
His family and friends were his life.Truly a special soul.
My condolences to Mary, Frankie and all his family.
RIP Alphie

Kim Blakeslee

May 28, 2025

My deepest condolences.

Pat & Deb Kelly

May 28, 2025

Pat and I are neighbors of Alphies brother Frank and we have a wonderful Christmas memory of Alphies He dressed up like Santa and surprised our three girls on Christmas morning. Our thoughts are with you all.

Annie & Paul Gilroy

May 28, 2025

We are so sorry to learn of Alfie´s passing. He was so outgoing, kind, and generous. It was always a pleasure to run into him and Mary when we lived in the area. We frequented the same restaurants and saw them often at our favorite spots. Loved our chats. Sincere condolences to Mary and family.

Bill Sampson

May 28, 2025

Condolences to the entire Siano family. My fondest memory of Alfie was while I was a youngster, playing basketball with him (and others) at the YMCA. He was always so nice to all the young kids.

Suzie Charron Hale

May 28, 2025

I was so sad to see this morning that Alfie passed away. What a beautiful soul.He has always been so kind, funny, attentive. I´ll never forget when I graduated high school, Mary and he gave me a dictionary, what a great gift! And he included a poem to me on the inside cover. So thoughtful. So glad that I got to see him about a year ago, since I don´t live in the area currently. We were both so happy to see each other. Sending lots of love to Mary, Cara & Amy.

Marge Hill & family

May 22, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Marge Hill and family

May 22, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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