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Joseph T. Bartlett Jr.

1936 - 2019

Joseph T. Bartlett Jr. obituary, 1936-2019, Deerfield, MA

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Joseph Bartlett Obituary

Joseph "Joe" Thomas Bartlett Jr., son of Joseph Thomas Bartlett Sr. and Jeanette Coates Bartlett, died at home on May 27 at the age of 82.

Joe was born in Greenfield, MA, on September 4, 1936. From a young age, Joe was inspired by the history and natural wonder of the Pioneer Valley, and he remained a longtime resident of the area. He attended The Bement School and graduated from Deerfield Academy, both in Deerfield, MA. He earned his bachelor's degree from Williams College and his law degree from the University of Virginia School of Law.

Joe returned to Greenfield to practice law alongside his father, joining the firm Stoddard, Ball, and Bartlett. He later became a partner in the firm Trudel, Bartlett, Barry, and Filler, specializing in estate law. He continued to practice for over four decades. Often tapped for his insight on how to help schools and institutions excel, Joe was a board member at The Bement School, BETE Fog Nozzle, Channing L. Bete, and The Greenfield Country Club.

Joe married Penelope Chatterton of New Canaan, CT, in 1969. They raised three children: Christopher, Stephanie, and Alexander. He remarried in 2000 to his longtime partner, Barbara "Sandy" Ramsay. The wedding was held at Deerfield Academy, and they resided in South Deerfield in a home overlooking the Connecticut River and Sandy's famed day lilies. Joe was an active stepfather to Sandy's four boys: Brad, Jeff, Chuck, and Greg. He read many books to his grandkids in his booming radio-announcer voice.

Known as a "man about town," Joe could stretch a short errand into an hour-long jaunt as he stopped to chat with everyone he encountered. Although he could riff on many topics, his favorite conversation starters were, "Did you catch that Red Sox victory last night?" and "Did you get any snow up in the hills?" He could be found socializing at the Greenfield Country Club, Foster's Market, Brad's Place, Clarkdale Fruit Farm, and the Franklin County Courthouse. As an avid golfer, Joe took much pleasure in connecting with his friends over a round of golf. In his younger years, Joe burned a path on Route 2 getting in and out of Boston to attend Red Sox games with his friends and family. "Watch out for foul balls off the bats of right-handed hitters," he would tell first-timers sitting with him along the first base line at Fenway.

Joe leaves behind his wife, Sandy Ramsay; his three children and four stepchildren; his sister Joanne Bartlett Garraway; his nephew Tom Garraway; his daughter-in-law Megan Tady; two step daughter-in-laws Kathy Ramsay and Natalia Popova; and seven grandchildren: John, Turner, Vasylisa, Annabel, Rupert, Lisle, and Satchel.

The memorial service for Joe will be held at 1pm on Saturday, June 8, at the First Church of Deerfield, Main St., with reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the United Way of Franklin County, online at www.uw-fc.org

Smith-Kelleher Funeral Home in Greenfield is assisting the family. To send a message to Joe's family, please visit www.smithkelleherfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Recorder on Jun. 2, 2019.

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Doug Gortner

January 19, 2025

I first got to know Joe as my divorce lawyer; then as my ex's estate paralegal. He and wonderful Sandy were always around Deerfield where I was employed. It would be hard to name a more wonderful couple!

Tim O´Reilly

May 27, 2023

Was thinking of Joe just the other day, reminiscing about the pleasant times we shared in FL.
Joe was a joy to play golf with, laid back, humorous but still gave it his best effort and respected the game. Sitting together for a meal or a beer afterward was just as much fun, he was a great conversationalist.
He is missed!

June 13, 2019

I met Joe when he was at UVA Law School...a genial and generous fellow. We kept in touch through the years and I was delighted to meet Sandy a few years ago when she and Joe drove South to Florida. Joe was always warm, gracious and good company. We will miss him and send our condolences to his children and Sandy.


elizabeth and John Howard

David & Nancy Selover

June 8, 2019

I was saddened to read that Joe has passed away. It seems as though he would always be around. He coached our son's little league team with fairness and caring. He drafted many legal documents for us over the years. I knew him through the bank I worked at many years ago and had to deliver documents to Trudel,Bartlett and Barry. My sympathies go out to Sandy and all of his children and grandchildren. We will miss him. Hugs.

Dick & Sandy Johnson

June 6, 2019

My first meeting with Joe occurred across a dormitory hallway in 1962 as both of us were nervously preparing to enter law school.. In the years that followed we became close friends, visited each others homes, traveled together, attended each each other's wedding, and shared close friends.

Sandy and I will miss him greatly over the coming years!

June 6, 2019

Sandy and family, We are so sorry to learn of Joe's passing. He was always so upbeat and ready for conversation. The last time we saw you two - at BridgeSide Grill not too long ago - he was his usual fun and chatty self and we had a great "catch up" with him. We know that his passing will leave a void in the hearts of those who knew him With love, Claudia and David

Tim O'Reilly

June 3, 2019

Only got to know Joe and Sandy in recent years through their friends, Phebe and Peter Elliott. Had some nice times in FL on the beach, on the golf course and social gatherings.
He was one of the good guys, will be missed by many.

June 3, 2019

Chris , Stephanie and Alex
We go back many many years and the joy and the smile of your dad was very special. I would talk to him all the time at Brad's place he loved coming in and we would talk sports. I remember him coaching Alex in little league he surely loved baseball and life. I'm sending you guys my condolences and to remember that it we live life the way Joe did it would be a joyous life with alot of knowledge and fun.

Bobby Campbell

Wendy Foxmyn

June 3, 2019

Sandy and family...so sorry for your loss. A loss for all of us who knew him. Joe certainly was a "man about town", as you said. It was a joy and pleasure to work with him at the firm. For some reason that will forever remain a mystery, he called me Woo. What a wonderful smiling photo of him here.

a friend

June 3, 2019

RIP Joe

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