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James Charles Benevides

1946 - 2010

BORN

1946

DIED

2010

James Benevides Obituary

Stockton, CA

James Charles Benevides

November 5, 1946 - May 23, 2010

James Charles Benevides, 63, passed away on Sunday May 23, 2010 in Stockton, CA. He was born November 5, 1946 in Oakland, CA. James worked for 35 years in education and retired as a Jr. High School Principal. He will be remembered for his love of cooking, boating, motorcycle riding and working with his hands. He was known for his humor and loved people especially children. He was the loving husband of Sherryl Benevides, beloved father of Gary (Sarah) Benevides, Greg Benevides, step-father of Alan Freeman and Stephanie Conner. Cherished grandfather of MacKenzie, Ty, Ellis and Bree, dear son of LaRee Benevides and the late Raymond Benevides and brother of Ron (Carol) Benevides. Friends and family are invited to attend a celebration of his life on Saturday June 5, 2010 at 2:00 p.m. at the SPOA Union Hall 2200 W. Washington St., Stockton.

Private Committal.

In lieu of flowers, family prefers donations to Special Olympics 3480 Buskirk Ave. Suite 340, Pleasant Hill, CA 94523 or Hospice of San Joaquin 3888 N. Pacific Ave. Stockton, CA 95204. Online at deyoungchapels.com

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Published by The Record from May 27 to May 29, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for James Benevides

15 Entries

Chuck Baumann

December 26, 2024

I just learned today of the passing of Jim Benevides from an old National Guard friend.... I first met Jim back in 1970 when we stood next to each other in basic training at Fort Gordon, Georgia. Jim and another teacher friend, Lee Attibit stood 1-2-3 in line up through Basic Training to AIT... we were all from an Army National Guard unit in Alameda, Ca. We pretty much served our entire 6 years together. I remember Jim as being such a stand up guy, always doing the right thing for others before himself. Some of my fondest memories serving our country was with Jim and Lee... Just by chance, the 3 of us were in Oakland one National Guard meeting, where we borrowed a jeep from the motor pool (some would say we stole it, however we did bring it back). In our joy riding we witnessed an elderly man have a heart attack while he was playing lawn bowling with his friends at Lake Merritt... The 3 of us all knew how to administer CPR and so we were able to save this gentleman's life while being at the right place at the right time... We ended up getting an honor metal for our actions, in front of 2,000 soldiers that summer..... That event will forever bond Jim, Lee and myself.... Jim always had great leadership qualities and I completely understand how he turned out to be such a respected teacher and mentor to so many... RIP Jim, your job here has been done....

Hike Hara

March 10, 2022

I know that I am very late for this. Coach/Mr.B was one of my favorite teachers ever.He was a big hearted man.Tough when he had to be.Knew how to talk with kids from all races.Always wanted to thank him for kicking me in the butt when I needed it and grading me B's when I thought that I deserved an A!Rest easy Mr.B!

Julie Culbertson-Edsell

June 4, 2010

Jim was my vice principal at Houston Middle School and he helped me thru some issues with friends and made things better for us. He was always there when you needed him. He was caring to the students but yet we all respected him and when he said "FREEZE", you did. He knew how to be tough when he needed to and when to be caring. I will never forget him and have a heavy heart for his family as I know they have lost a very special person.

Margaret Handel

June 3, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I first met Jim at Live Oak School where my son attended then as he went on the Lodi Middle,(Senior El). He was always there for my son. He gave my son self confidence and saved him from the bully of the class. Jim was always willing to help behind the scenes and always had humor and a smile on his face. My son is longer with us so now maybe he can return the favor to Jim and help him feel welcome in the Heavens above.
May Angels attend you during this difficult season of your life.
Margaret Ann Handel

Greg Clark

June 3, 2010

I first met Jim when we were in college and later again when he moved to LUSD. He was the principal at Lodi Middle School when my two younger children were students there. He had an unusual passion for education and was midful of who he really worked for - students. He was able to create a positive learning environment and disciplined students through a genuine concern for their welfare. Kids conducted themselves appropriately because they didn't want to disappoint "Mr. B". He was loved and respected and has left us all too soon with a huge void.
Rest in peace my friend!!

Sharnel Guess Crowder

May 29, 2010

Jim was an inspirational and loving person, I had the amazing experience to have known him as a mentor from first grade until I left middle school. He was very hands on with us children and took care of both me and my sister throughout our early education years. He provided nurturing guidance, laughter, and insight to our lives daily. My favorite memory with him was lining up before class started each week on the front lawn at Live Oak School and after the Pledge of Allegiance, he would have us stretch our eyeballs. On rainy days he would have all the kids in the lunch room to play games, Simon says, or crab ball and he always did it with us, instead of the teachers. I always felt loved and cared for by him. To me he was an amazing person with a passion for life and for others. He will forever live on happily in my heart.

Rod Woznick

May 28, 2010

Being around Jim was always delightful and a learning experience. In our conversations I found Jim's insight to be both humorous and down to earth. Although I never had the opportunity to work for him, I enjoyed the times on the basketball court or the softball field that we had. As an educator, it was always a treat to get into a conversation with him to see a point of view that I probably had not taken the time to see. He made many of us better at what we did. He will surely be missed.

Tracy Garvey

May 28, 2010

I will miss you and your wisdom, Jim. You taught me to stay tough and have a heart. You are missed in more ways than I can list.

Dave Hurley

May 28, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Jim's family. I had the pleasure of knowing Jim as a fellow administrator in the Lodi Unified School District, He was the rarest type of school administrator - one who loved working with kids enough to put this as his top priority instead of constantly trying to move up the ladder. He will be missed by all who have been touched by his honest efforts to improve schools, particularly by students whom he worked for. Jim - you touched many on your journey - Dave Hurley

S Phillips

May 28, 2010

Jim was a very kind man who helped me get my first "real" teaching job. I worked at Senior Elementary as a long-term substitute and his reference made all the difference when I applied for a full time position. I will never forget his kindness and generosity.

Stephanie Phillips

Wendy Coe

May 28, 2010

Jim was missed the day he left Delta Sierra Middle School. I am so thankful, grateful, for the impact that he had while I worked with him at school. He was always there to support not only students, but teachers also. He always gave 100% to our school. The lessons he taught, have not been forgotten. Thoughts and prayers to his family. He touched so many lives in such positive ways.
Wendy Coe, Teacher Delta Sierra Middle School

May 27, 2010

I have know Jim ever since his hiring at LUSD. I count him as one of the best principals that the district has ever hired. He was firm but fair with his students, they appreciated his understanding of their particular problems. Jim and I had breakfast together with a number of teachers from LUSD. They will miss him as I will.
Tom Bandelin, Assit. Supt. (retired)

Maria Contreras

May 27, 2010

I knew Mr. Benevides from Middle School, He was a great guy and he will surely be missed! My thoughts and prayers go out to all his loved ones!

Craig Jones

May 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Jim was a great man with a huge heart. He and Phyllis took me in as an employee over 20 years ago at the now defunct Oakwood lake Resort. Greg, Gary, Stefani, and Brent became very close and shared many memories that will not be forgotten. Sorry for the loss of a good man!

Susan Mahrt Petersen

May 26, 2010

Although I haven't seen my cousin in quite a few years, I will always remember his huge smile and larger than life sense of humor. Nothing can ever prepare us for the loss of someone we love,but everyday I find comfort in knowing that there are some pretty awesome people watching over us while our lives go on. My love and sympathy to LaRee and family. God Bless. Susie

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