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Jeffrey Donald Walters

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Jeffrey Walters Obituary

Stockton, CA

Jeffrey Donald Walters

October 19, 1960 - July 27, 2009

Jeffrey Donald Walters, 48, of Stockton, passed away July 27, 2009. Jeff was born in Stockton on October 19, 1960. He was a loving son, brother, uncle, nephew and cousin.

He is survived by his mother, Lavonne Gillespie, and stepfather, Dale Gillespie; brothers, Allen (Nancy) and Craig Walters; stepbrother Dean (Melissa) Gillespie; nieces and nephews, Erica, Jason, Breanne and Brett Walters. He is preceded in death by his father, Allen Jay Walters Sr., and grandparents, Jewell and Eston Baker and Maude and Loris Walters. Jeff was a petroleum truck driver for K.A.G. West.

Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial service to be held Saturday, August 1, 2009, at 11:00 a.m. at Carson Oaks Community Church, 6509 N. Alturas Ave., Stockton, 95207. In lieu of flowers, donations may be given to send a child to Camp Berea, care of Carson Oaks Community Church, 6509 N. Alturas Ave, Stockton 95207. Arrangements handled by Park View Funeral Home, 3661 E. French Camp Road, Manteca, CA.

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Published by The Record on Jul. 30, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Walters

32 Entries

Janice Sperry

July 27, 2021

Can hardly believe its been 12 yrs since you went to heaven. I love you very very much cousin and appreciate every hug, smile and kind word you shared with me. I will see you when I get there.

Lavonne (Mom) Gillespie

July 27, 2010

God blessed me with three wonderful, considerate, kind, thoughtful, helpful, caring, loving sons. A third was taken from me July 27, 2009. A year ago today was the beginning of a year of tears and heartache. Jeff, you are on my mind every day and I miss you so.

You were such a darling, delightful, happy baby that grew to be a wonderful caring, compassionate young man. The past few years I enjoyed your many visits with Dale and I when you brought in dinner or we had a home-cooked meal. July 17, 2009 was that last visit.

I've never heard anyone speak unkindly about you. Your memorial service at Carson Oaks Community Church was standing room only and so many people spoke so well of you; you were so well-mannered, polite and showed respect to all. Your supervisor at KAG, said you were a model employee. As others have said, you did have a great sense of humor and a beautiful smile. You gave great hugs. Like your dad, you had a desire to learn a variety of things. You self-taught yourself so much. I take pride in saying "that's my boy."

I have numerous photos that remind me of happy times -- baby fun activities, such as you and Allen pulling out mommy's pots and pans until you got caught, YMCA activities with Allen and Craig and learning to swim, "Y" campouts, our own family campouts with the Walters' aunts, uncles and cousins near Big Trees, swimming at Dad's Point, Unity Church membership and your participation in the church youth activities, Cub Scouts, Little League, paper routes and your excellent salesmanship winning trips along with your brothers to Disneyland, our many fun family times together. I'm reminded of Disneyland and Las Vegas with Aunt Carolyn and Uncle Lonnie. Remember room service for you, Allen and Craig! Whose idea was that?

The pictures and memories continue -- you and Denise and fun times you two shared, hanging out with Craig and Allen and their families. I chuckle every time I think of the tetherball story with Bre and Brett. I'm so glad you got to make that out of state visit to see Allen, Nancy, Erica and Jason. How sweet of you to take Uncle Jimmy's place at Ashley's wedding. Jim would be so pleased to see you, Ashley and Stephanie together at the wedding; how handsome you were and how proud I was of you, and lastly, the KAG truck you drove so cautiously and with great care and were so proud when you refered to it as "my truck."

I'm blessed with many happy memories, one of my favorites is our visits to Christmas tree farms and your patience to find the perfect tree for me. Thank you. I have begun a journal that I will continue jotting down pleasant and fun memories that will be a part of your photo album that I have kept of you for the past 48 years and will continue for many years to come. You are still alive in my heart!

I've tried to be strong losing you and not let my loved ones still with me feel any less loved because of my heartache losing you. The one thing that brings me comfort is you have now reunited with your dad and grandparents, whom you loved very much.

God Bless YOU and I Love YOU.
Until we meet again, Mom

Allen Walters

July 15, 2010

Jeff, it has been almost a year and I miss you! You have been in my thoughts alot lately. It has been an honor to be your older brother. I will always remember growing up and the memories with you and Craig. Delivering our paper routes together, building and racing go carts, riding our bikes all over Stockton, building tree houses, playing baseball, your mini bike, camping, family picnics, Y Camp, the crushes that girls had on you, our first day of school at Edison HS when we were bused across town, our trips to Disneyland, the way we protected one another, your sense of humor, your love for your family, the time Nancy, Erica and Jason got to spend with you, the way you took care of grandma and grandpa Baker. I just wish that we had more. I have tears in my eyes. I love you Jeffy

Juli Quinlivan (Manthey)

June 17, 2010

Dear Loved Ones of Jeff, I just recently heard of Jeff's passing and am deeply sorry for your loss. Jeff and I went to SJHS and Edison together. It was in the 8th or 9th grade when I began having a crush on him. Alan was our paper boy and use to tease me a bit about it. In 9th grade Ecology class we were partners and got an A+ in the class. Jeff had always treated me with kindness and friendship despite my crush. He showed me that being good to people, especially those who have feelings for you, will leave them with memories and a fondness that will last a lifetime. These are qualities I instill on my children to have. I hadn't seen him since high school, but I always remembered him. Take care and God Bless

Aunt Carolyn

August 25, 2009

To Our Family ...
Jeff and I had a special relationship. Since we were both "night owls" his visits and phone calls (on his days off!) were usually after 11:00 PM and would last until 1:30 AM or so. Sometimes we would have a snack and coffee, but most of the time, we would just talk and catch up the happenings since our last visit.

Jeff had a great since of humor, and I loved to tell my latest "funny" (mostly corny) stories. My favorite was probably the one about "the dining room". Jeff will remember it.

As Craig said in his post, Jeff was a great listener AND confidante. Of all my family members, I feel I could have trusted him the most not to repeat information, if I had asked him not to. Lavonne and I have said many times that if you have a secret, you can tell Jeff because it would stay with Jeff (even if you tried to pry it out of him! :)

I will always be so thankful, too, for the special relationship that Jeff had with Mom especially in her last years. I believe we all had our own special relationship with Jeff.

There are so many great memories and I could go on for pages, but as others have said, I will miss that big smile ..
but most of all ... I will miss those late night phone calls and visits.

Love you Jeff!!

Aunt Carolyn

Craig Walters

August 24, 2009

Jeff,

You were always a very considerate Brother you were a great listener. I remember if anyone wanted to say something first you would let them. Jeff even though it seemed we did not spend a lot of time together we shared a lot of memory’s “Money for gas” Grandma knows” I remember one night you & Hugo ended up in Dameron Hospital & they needed permission to treat you I told them I was your older Brother then race to Stockton only to find you two had left and you were just fine. How about when you & I were fishing on Fourteen Mile Sough & the Sheriff snuck up on us. You do a great job getting us out of that one. Sanding Lonnie’s boat at Alviso what a pain that was or boating with Brett & Bre. I found out later I made you go tubing & Knee boarding with the kids I thought you went willingly. Or the time you hung out with Brett @ Circuit City so Brett could buy his Laptop computer at a big discount (I hope I paid you back) and our Christmas shopping trips 20 presents in less than 60 minutes. Spending your money was always a lot of fun. I remember when you Jerry Crabtree & I took out the wallboard replaced to Electrical wire & re sheet rocked F St. Or the time you & I painted Moms house on Sonoma. By the time I got my hi tech spray equipment working you were ½ done. Jeff I think I am most proud of your work ethic no ones shows up 30 minutes early for a 12 hour shift. You Boss Said if every one of my men was like Jeff I would need ½ any many as I have that says it all. I will always remember our last phone call on July 16 2009 it was one of the best we have had in a long time Thanks for calling Love you Brother Craig

Aunt Sue

August 23, 2009

To our Family:
I will miss so very much our times that we talked on the phone. So many times Jeff would call and I would say that I would go get Uncle Kenny and Jeff would say, I did not call to talk to Uncle Kenny, I want to talk to you.
Jeff always brought so much joy into our lives. He had the brightest smile,and always, when he left or when the phone calls were finished, it would be the best part of my day. I shall never forget, and will always cary a special place in my heart for him.
Loave Aunt Sue

Liz Arzadon

August 5, 2009

The Walters Family,
Our family was totally shocked by the news. Our deepest sympathies goes out to each one of you. I know I met Jeff working with the Stockton Record either with John or Gary. We were babies back then. I don't think he'd remember me as much as my brother Greg. Went to school with Craig. And my baby sister who was 5 had a crush with Allen. But we're glad we were part of your lives somewhere in time.
If you ever need a friend to talk to or just be there, just call the Arzadon Family we'll be there for you. Our number is (209)474-6569 or (209)323-9285. Are thoughts are with you. It was really hard to write this.

Henry Briones

August 4, 2009

Lavonne, Dale, Allen, and Craig:

I am still shocked with what happen. All of my prayers be with you. I knew Jeff for the last 19 years. We worked together at WSP and still kept in touch when he left to drive the Big Rigs. When I moved San Diego we still kept in touch. I will surely miss our outings together (A's baseball games, Dave & Buster's, dinner and countless trips to the casino's) Jeff was such a unique person in my eyes, very polite, well mannered, and most of all the respect he gave people. He will truly be missed. Jeff will not be forgotten in my lifetime. And again my prayers to all.

Michael Menzies

August 3, 2009

Dear Walters Family,
I am very saddened to hear of Jeff's death. I don't know all the details but I do know that Jeff was a very kind, courteous, and intelligent individual. I had the privilage of working with Jeff for about 4 years at KAG. He was somebody you could trust and rely on. My only regret is not staying in touch with him as I moved on to a better life in Kansas. My thoughts and prayers are with Jeff and his family durring this tragic time of loss.

Oscar & Roberta Rambeau

August 2, 2009

Our prayers are with all of you at this time of loss. Jeff was a very special person and brough great joy to all those in his life. He will be greatly missed.

Lori Passeggi (San Julian)

August 1, 2009

Allen,Craig and Family
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of Jeff. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Norma Telcocci

August 1, 2009

My dearest Lavonne -- My heart and prayers go out to you, and to Dale, Allen, Nancy, Erica, Jason, Craig, Bre, Brett, and Carolyn. How I wish I could be there with you, and for you, at this most difficult and heart breaking time.

I know you're surrounded by living angels that care deeply about your losing Jeff, and I know that all our loved ones who have passed before Jeff are surrounding him in heaven. Comfort yourself in knowing that he is only gone from the world, that he now lives with the Lord, who will grant him and you the loving peace that only He can grant. Knowing the good hearts in your family, I came to love Jeff too, and I'm sure he will not be forgotten by those who were blessed to know him and love him.

I feel your pain and anguish, Lavonne, as I grieve with you from a distance. I am ever thankful that we consider one another as family through Allen & Nancy, our beloved son and daughter, and our precious grandchildren Erica and Jason.

Dale, thank you for being the strong, good soul that you are. You are loved - God bless you.

Carolyn, thank you for being the kind of aunt that everyone wishes for. Bless you!

I hope to see you soon.

My deepest sympathy and love to each of you,

Norma Telcocci

Patty Schroeder (Metzger)

July 31, 2009

I was so saddened to learn of Jeff's passing. Although we lost touch over the years, he was never far from my mind. I have many fond memories of times spent with Jeff during high school. Each of those memories will continue to bring a smile to my face. He had such a kind and caring soul. I will miss you my friend.

To Jeff's family, my deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

Barbara Hill

July 31, 2009

Lavonne & Family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Jeff will be missed by so many. We are sending our love and prayers to comfort you. God bless all of you
Love
Steve, Barbara & Family

Heidi Haggard (Moorefield)

July 31, 2009

To Lavonne, Dale, Allen, Craig & their families,

I am still in shock about Jeff. I want you to know that all of you are still to this day some of my best childhood memories. Jeff, it seemed , was always the "third wheel" between Me, Wendy, Craig and Allen, but we always had a place for him. He was a sweetheart, so gentle, and handsome. I remember many times with Jeff at the YMCA and either in our backyard or your house, by the train tacks, watching the bum's hang out in the box cars, playing games and just having a really good time. Those where fun filled days and nights. It breaks my heart that he has left. But we all will meet up with him again and I hope you all take comfort in knowing this. My love to you all and my entire family sends their love to every 'one' of you. Wendy, my mom Donna, and my dad Rich. I am the voice for us all today. We all love you so much. Jeff is an angel now, and he will be watching over all of you.

Denise Crutchfield

July 31, 2009

To Jeff's family and friends. I sit here tonight wanting to write something that could express the way I feel about losing such a presence in my life. But, there are just so many things that Jeff and I could only understand. I had the adventure of being in Jeff's life a long time ago. Yet, it was a different time. And we parted. I guess after awhile, you just bury a part of your heart. I was reminded by many close friends and family today of what a big part Jeff did play in my life. As, I was surprised at all of the calls I received asking me if "I" was ok. Geez, if I was ok!! What that meant to me was that Jeff had a gift that at one time I didn't even realize he gave me. And that was to care for one another so much, that there were no bounderies of the heart. We were fortunate to have shared so many young, adventurous, learn your path kind of things that somehow we both took for granted and for that, I have a heavy heart. But what we shared were family times, the love of the Rolling Stones, the backyard barbeques, a good game of ONO, and that in the end, somewhere along this crazy life we had each other. Lavonne, Allen and Craig, there are simply no words that I could say. I think you know. Jeff's Aunt Carolyn, thank you for all of the poker games and for always reminding me that I was the de-nephew. And to Grandma Jewell, Grandpa Eston, Uncle Lonnie and Uncle Jimmy, Jeff is with you. Take care of him until we meet again. Always, Denise

Michael & Sheree Cox

July 30, 2009

Dear Lavonne & Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Jeffrey. He was a gentle soul and will be missed by many.No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you.Our number is 209-598-1906

Christina Garcia

July 30, 2009

Dear Lavonne & Family Our hearts are heavy to hear about
Jeff. We loved him dearly. What sticks out in my mind about
him was he loved his Grandmas chocolate gravy. He was kind and always willing to lend a hand. A hard worker and he loved his family. May God and his ministing angels be with you and carry you thur this very difficult time. We love you all.
Aunt Dorothy, James, Christina, Johnny and family

Fernando Azevedo

July 30, 2009

Dear Allen, Craig and Mrs. Gillespie,

I am very sorry to learn of Jeff's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your extended family and friends.

Although it has been man years since I last saw Jeff there are many thoughts that come to mind and are vivid as it if was just yesterday while hanging out with Allen. It's been a long time, but as I remember it, Jeff was always taller than Allen and I as teenagers, and loved the fact that he was! I also remember always trying to beat Jeff at calling "shotgun" for the front seat in Allen's primer gray colored Chevy Camaro.

My deepest condolences.

Your Stockton brother,

Fernando

Kay (Dotson) & John Bartoli

July 30, 2009

Dear LaVonne,

I am so sorry for your loss. I truly know the sorrow you feel for we have lost our daughter three years ago.If you would like to speak to me my number is 623-398-8973.

Suzette Brooks

July 30, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of Jeff. I grew with Allen, Jeff and Craig. I always had a crush on Jeff. I havent seen him in quite a few years but have thought about the boys often. I have fond memories of all us growing up on Lynwood Ct. My family and I send our deepest condolences to the family. Our thoughts are with you.

robert foo

July 30, 2009

Dear Lavonne & Family,
I worked with Jeff at KAG a few years ago he is a one of a kind of a person. He was never to busy to help anyone with anything. He will be missed by many. My family &' I send our deepest condolences to the family.

Valerie Nunes

July 30, 2009

To Lavonne and Family:

It is difficult to find words that express my deep sorrow upon hearing of Jeff's passing. I have fond memories of sharing summers at Lonnie and Carolyn's house in Gilroy with Lavonne and sons Allen, Craig and Jeff. I also enjoyed working with Jeff at Western Spray in French Camp. Jeff was such a gentle soul... always willing to lend a hand, always smiling while helping out. I will miss him dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,

Valerie

cindy sandau

July 30, 2009

Dear Aunt Lavonne & Family,
We are so very sorry for the loss of Jeff. He was such a wonderful, sweet, kind and loving cousin. He will be truly missed. Our hearts go out to you and our prayers go up for you.
With much love and all of God's blessings.
Ronnie & Cindy Sandau
Gary & Denise Walters and our Families

wanda covello

July 30, 2009

Dear Lavonne,
Our hearts are absolutely broken from the loss of Jeff. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
With all our love,
Wanda Covello, Oma Mann & Melvin Bibb

Sherri Jo (Walters) McGullam

July 30, 2009

With greatest love and sympathy to my family. The loss is great and my prayers are with you all.

Al Alcala'

July 30, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Patrick Finch

July 30, 2009

I am very sorry for the loss of Jeff and will continue to pray for the family. I have fond memories of hanging out with my best friend Allen and at times both Jeff and Craig would tag along. I remember when Lavonne would get us in to the "Y" to swim. That was 35 years ago. My wife Tina and myself send our deepest condolences to the family. Our thoughts are with you.

Donna Shane

July 30, 2009

Lavonne, Dale, Allen, and Craig. I am so sorry for your loss. I have great memories of all of the boys as kids. Hope the memories you have of Jeff will help you through this rough time.

Javier & Jodi Landa

July 30, 2009

We are so heartbroken over Jeff's passing. Please know that we have fond memories of Jeff, and that our hearts go out to you at this sad time. You are in our prayers...
Revelations 21:4

misty ramirez

July 30, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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