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Ben Jerminario Obituary

Modena, NY

Ben Jerminario, 50, of Modena, NY, died Tuesday, October 6, 2009.

Born in Poughkeepsie, NY on July 27, 1959, he was the son of Mary R. (Trapani) Jerminario and the late Benjamin Jerminario.

He was employed by Innis Drilling in White Lake, NY. He was a devoted Dad, Brother, Son, Uncle and Step-Father. His life passion was restoration work. He was a hard worker who always put others before himself. He will be deeply missed by all who loved him.

Survivors include one daughter, Monica Jerminario of Albany; mother, Mary R. (Trapani) Jerminario; sister, Helen Polizzi of Marlboro; brother, Joseph and Virginia Jerminario of Bushkill, PA; fiancée, Elaine Harney of Milton; Elaine's children: Peter, Stacey, and Kyle Harney of Milton, NY; nieces, Nicole Polizzi and Kaitlyn Jerminario. He was predeceased by his father, Benjamin G. Jerminario.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated today, Saturday, October 10, at 11:30 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, Route 9W, Marlboro.

Arrangements were entrusted to Lawrence M. Cavazza and Carl J. DiDonato, Jr. of the DiDonato Funeral Service, Inc.; 845-236-4300.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Oct. 9 to Oct. 10, 2009.

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Kaitlyn Jerminario

October 29, 2009

Ben---You may be gone, taken from our world from which we know, but you will never leave the hearts that you have touched inside all of us. You have made an impact on our lives, our spirits, and most importantly our hearts. You will never be forgotten. I'm sure God has big plans for you and I know you won't let him down. You never let any of us down. For that we are forever grateful and are lucky to have been blessed with such a captivating and adoring spirit. Rest in Peace Uncle Ben. I love and miss you and cannot wait to be reunited with you in heaven when it is too my chance to dance merrily among the angels of God. Love your niece, Kaitlyn

Cassandra (Sandy) Hopwood

October 17, 2009

Dear Monica,
I'm so sorry for your loss, you're in my thoughts and prayers. I love you.
your cousin, Sandy

barb wild

October 14, 2009

now this is one thing i CANT fix but ill do whatever it takes to help you elaine and kiddos. barb

Paula Mannese Beach

October 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cheri Szady

October 10, 2009

Elaine, Hold tight to memories for comfort,lean on your friends for strength,and always remember how much you are cared about. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Cheri

Luisa M. Steltz

October 9, 2009

Monica & Family,
Please know how deeply sorry & saddened I as well as "Countless" people are with Benjamin's passing..
Know & "Hold On To All Your Precious Memories" you Shared with HIM...
He was a "Phenominal-Man"...And will Always watch over You Monica..He is Now "Your Personal Guardian Angel"...
I AM Here at Any Time you need me...
Love Always,
Luisa

Jennifer Levine, Paul Brower

October 9, 2009

Jerminario family,
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

October 9, 2009

Elaine, May the lord be with you and guide you thru this difficult time. Know that you are in our prayers and hearts. Ben was a great person and will be truly missed. Love, Cherie, Nicholas and Ashley.

October 9, 2009

Dear Elaine and Family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Joe and I will keep you and your family in our our prayers.

With Deepest Sympathy,
Joe and Brenda Pagentine

October 9, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Ben worked for my former Husband at Rockbusters 18 years ago. He was a well loved guy and we had many fond memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Patti Holland Huebner

October 9, 2009

Elaine - Hope you feel all the love and prayers of your friends and know that our hearts are breaking for you. May God's grace and mercy heal and strengthen you, and may you feel His presence as you go through this very difficult time.

Love,
Noel & Caitlyn

October 9, 2009

The folks at MHFPC send our condolences . . .RT dept.

October 9, 2009

The folks at MHFPC send our condolences . . .RT dept.

Margaret Cannelli

October 9, 2009

Elaine, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Ben was a good man and he will be missed. Love, Margaret

Mary Olympia

October 9, 2009

Monica

I am so sorry to hear about your dad, be strong and cherish your memories.

October 9, 2009

Ben,
Please give me the strength to get through today. I miss you.
Love,
Elaine

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