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Carlos Gonzalez Obituary
The son of Carlos and Anna Miranda Gonzalez, he was born May 23, 1983 in Passaic, N.J.
Carlos moved to the area 11 years ago and graduated Minisink Valley High School in 2001. He was a member of the ROTC during all four years of high school. After graduation, he studied at Military College in Valley Forge, PA focusing on communications.
A family statement reads: "Carlos was a happy young man who was always smiling. He was a forgiving person who could never hold a grudge. He enjoyed what he was doing and felt that joining the Army was the best thing he could do for his career and his family."
Carlos was a member of the 501st STB (Special Troop Battalion); he felt that all of the members were truly "special."
Besides his beloved wife, Kristina and cherished daughter Isabella Maria Gonzalez, both at home, he is survived by his loving parents of Middletown, he is survived by his his brother, Alex; his mother and father-in-law Kenneth and Elizabeth Oliver; grandparents Alejandrina Gildemeister, Victor Gonzalez and Ana Rosa Miranda grandparents-in-law Peter and Frances Hartman and Susan Camus; and many friends and relatives.
Family and friends are invited to call on Friday, March 24 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, Inc., 130 Highland Avenue, Middletown.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, March 25 at 9 a.m. at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, 90 Euclid Avenue, Middletown.
Burial will follow with full military honors in the family plot at Fairview Cemetery in New Jersey.
Donations in Carlos' name may be made to the Isabella Maria Gonzalez College Fund C/o Bank of America, 715 Route 211 East, Middletown, NY 10941.
Arrangements under the direction of Applebee-McPhillips Funeral Home, Inc. www.applebee-mcphillips.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Carlos Gonzalez
April 12, 2013
Thank you Carlos for your service and sacrifice for our country! You have not been forgotten.
branden taylor
July 16, 2012
Still miss you brother i can look back and remember the good times we had grilling drinking corona taking you mudding for the first time air soft gun fights in apartment complex you're truely missed bro i got you tattooed on my arm brother rest in peace
Melanie Mitchell
May 28, 2012
Rest In Paradise, Gonzo. I will always remember, and miss you. G6
Melanie Lledo (Mitchell)
May 28, 2012
I miss you Carlos! I know your family misses you. R.I.Paradise
SGT SHEENA SMITH
May 28, 2012
Every time I look at my uniform & see my Combat Action Badge I think of you because that's why it was awarded to me........ppl ask me to tell them what happend that day & I get teary eyed just thinking about it ....I rememer it like yesterday! ,.......I will never forget you....I pray your family makes it through this memorial day because I know it is very hard for them! I know how it feels to lose a loved one....you are our hero!!! G6 HELPDESK 4 EVER!!!!
Peggy Childers
March 16, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
Always remembering Carlos. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
March 16, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
Please accept my remembrance of Carlos on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Susan Pozdzioch
March 15, 2011
God bless your family, we will never for get the sacrifice Carlos gave for his country. Prayers and peace always.
L Neal
March 12, 2011
To the family of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Matt Polizzano
May 15, 2010
I just wanted to drop by and tell ya i miss ya bro. wish you were here to meet your neice and nephew. hope ur having fun up there. love ya bro
April 4, 2010
God Bless!
Kristina Gonzalez
April 3, 2010
hey carlos!! i miss and love you so much..i wish the heartache would go away but it never will because everyday i get to see you through isabella she is getting so big and i know you are watching over her she loves you very much and looks like you more and more everyday...we love you!!!!
Joanne Hargrove
March 19, 2010
Carlos, You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Especially around now, it is Tim's birthday and the anniversary of your passing. We miss you so much. You are still very much a part of our family. Anytime we talk about the things you kids did you are mentioned, you always made us laugh. Carlos I'm so proud to say I knew you, and so sorry that you were taken so soon. You will always be remembered and always be loved.
March 18, 2010
HEY GONZALEZ!! I KNOW YOU ARE RESTING IN PEACE....IT'S CRAZY CUZ WE JUST GOT A NEW PFC TO THE G6 HELPDEDSK AND HIS NAME IS PFC GONZALEZ. IT FEELS SO WEIRD TALKING TO HIM AND SAYING HIS NAME. WE ALL STILL THINK ABOUT YOU!! YOU ARE GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTON!!!!
Rachel McFadden-Hobbs
March 17, 2010
Carlos, Its been 4 years since you left us and even 4 years later the void is still very much empty! I can still see your face and hear your laugh that moring and I wish our conversation could have been longer!! I am always thinking about you!
Luc Allmon
March 16, 2010
Today is March 16, 2010. I randomly thought of you and googled you to find that it has been exactly 4 years since you died. Wow, has it been that long. I still have your number in my phone. Miss ya bro.
Peggy Childers
March 16, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
Remembering Carlos on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Matt Polizzano
December 11, 2009
Hey C, Its funny i was just thinking about you and this showed up in my e-mail. just wanted to stop by and tell ya im still thinking bout you. Just wish you were here to meet your new nephew. well anyways i love ya bro hope your having fun up there!
MICHAEL RIVERA
December 8, 2009
HEY GONZO, I MISS YOU BRO!! IRAQ WAS NEVER THE SAME WITHOUT YOU, BUT THEN AGAIN NEVER WAS HOME THE SAME EITHER!! I'LL NEVER FORGET MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER!!! PEACE OUT I KNOW YOUR LOOKING DOWN UPON US PROTECTING US FROM HARM!! LOVE YOU BROTHER!!!
Joanne Hargrove
May 28, 2009
Carlos, 3 years have come and gone since you left us. Hardly a day goes by that your not in my thoughts. Your birthday was the other day and 2 days later was Memorial Day, you were thought of so much that weekend. We all miss you so much. I see your face everywhere I go, everytime I see someone with their hair gelled I think of you. You will never be forgotten Carlos. We loved you then and we love you now. Rest In Peace My friend!
Kenna Larra
April 21, 2009
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Peggy Childers
March 16, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
Carlos gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Charlie Gili
December 13, 2008
Our deepest sympathy and respect to your family,
Please let us know how we can make a donation for Isabella Maria. We would like to send something in the name of Carlos, for his daughter. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of NYS Hockey Players Support Our Troops!
Gil Ludlow
December 6, 2008
Almost going on 3 years now since Carlos's passing... it still feels like yesterday. :-( My Pray's still go out to his Family and the rest of us here in NY that were and still are his friend, and all the other people that are his friend through out the world. My wishes for a very blessed and safe Holiday season to us all. God Bless all of the other Man and Woman who will be over sea's this holiday season, and praying for a safe and quick return home.
God Bless Us All
Cheryl A.Smith
June 14, 2008
TO A FALLEN HERO: MAY YOU REST IN PEACE! THANK YOU FOR FIGHTING FOR OUR COUNTRY AND FOR OUR FREEDOMS!YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN! MY SYMPATHIES GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
May 26, 2008
On this Memorial Day you are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Gonzalez!
Melanie Lledo (Mitchell)
May 21, 2008
Gone but never forgotten! Carlos will always be greatly missed! Thoughts of Carlos laughing, smiling, and being an all around good guy remain with me still today.
Cheryl Blauvelt
May 5, 2008
Dear Gonzalez Family,
My son went to school with Carlos and talks about him a lot to me. I wanted to send you all of my heartfelt thanks and prayers for having a son that was willing to put his life on the line to protect his country and its people. Nobody stands higher in honor than a proud and honorable soldier, especially the ones that succumb to the battle. I wish you peace and happiness and please know that I will pray for your loved one, just as I pray for all of the other soldiers. He is in God's hands and he is protecting all of us from Heaven now.
Erin Lacenere (Mac Ilvane)
March 28, 2008
I was a friend of Carlos's in high school and am a fellow soldier. He was a wonderful guy and Im sure an excelent soldier. I think of him often and always with a smile.To the Gonzales falmily you are all in my prayers always, and thank you for giving us such a wonderful friend and hero.
SHEENA SMITH
March 17, 2008
TO GHE GONZALEZ FAMILY, CPL GONZALEZ WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. MARCH 16TH 2006 WE LOST A GOOD SOLDIER AND HE AND HIS FAMILY HAS BEEN IN MY PRAYERS EVER SINCE!!!
SPC SMITH
Rachel McFadden
March 17, 2008
I love and miss you G! Even though I didnt get the chance to post here yesterday on the day of your passing, I was thinking about you almost every sec! I miss you terribly! Its hard to believe its been 2 years already, it feels like it was yesterday! Its especially hard, when on the day of remembrance most of Charlie Company heads off for another deployment!!! Well G- you are always in my heart, as is your family! WE MISS AND LOVE YOU!
Thomas Maher Jr
March 16, 2008
Tonight we conducted a rememberance ceremony for Carlos and Amanda. My heart-felt sympathy and well wishes go the the Gonzalez family, his wife Kristina and his daughter Isabella. Your Soldier will never be forgotten and part of our duty as Soldiers, NCOs and Leaders is to make sure that they are always remembered for the heroes they truly are. I know that there are no words that can ever truly express your loss, but because of this forum and others like it I had the honor to get to know him through their words and I hope that his and Amanda's sacrifice helps remind my Soldiers to cherish their friendships and always tell their families and friends how much they love and care for them. I wish you all the best.
Very Respectfully,
Master Sergeant Tom Maher
1st Armored Division G2 Sergeant Major
Multi-National Division-North (TASK FORCE IRON)
CPL Freeman
March 15, 2008
It will be 2 years tomorrow since we lost CPL Gonzalez though it only feels like yesterday. I am working on a 2nd tour in iraq and I think of him everyday. We all miss him so very much.
Ross Osborne
November 10, 2007
To the Gonzalez family - Our thoughts and prayers remain with you. LTC and Mrs. Ross Osborne
Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez
August 31, 2007
Bliven Family
August 17, 2007
Dear Gonzalez Family,
I realize there is NOTHING that could be said to you that could ever ease the loss that your family has endured... I wouldn't even begin to try.
I simply felt the need to convey my deepest, heart felt condolences, to those that lived nearest me...
I SIMPLY HAD TO reach out to those that lived closest to me and let their families know that the sacrifice that their SONS & DAUGHTERS have made ARE NOT, and WILL NOT be forgotten, and were not made in vain!
We gladly add your beloved son to our prayers, along with ALL of our other fallen Sons & Daughters!
God Bless YOU and YOUR FAMILY, and "MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD BE WITH YOU!"
PROUD UNCLE OF THREE (3) "CURRENTLY SERVING" U.S. SOLDIERS
James A. (U.S. Army)
Justin B. (U.S. Army)
Charles C. (U.S. Air Force)
.
August 6, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 26, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Gonzalez and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Jessica O'Connor
July 10, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Gonzalez,
I was a closr friend of Carlos's in high school. I am so sorry for your loss. He was a well loved guy. He was great. He will be missed. Your in my thoughts all the time. Alex too. Best wishes
Grace Z
May 28, 2007
Tell them of us and say,
For their tomorrows,
We gave our today.
-- The Kohima Epitaph
We will never forget,
NJ Marine Moms
SPC JOEL E. BAPTISTA
May 18, 2007
CARLOS,TODAY IS FRIDAY DIVISION REVIEW DAY OF WEEK OF THE EAGLES AND YOU WERE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE ON THE PARADE FIELD WITH THE EAGLES BUT YOU WERE UP ABOVE WATCHING DOWN ON US ALL, YOUR DAUGHTER AND WIFE ARE STONG AND DOING WELL THEY MISS YOU VERY MUCH AND SO DOES MY FAMILY AND MYSELF, SAVE A PLACE UP THERE FOR ME AND THE REST OF THE SCREAMING EAGLES FOR ONE DAY WE WILL MEET AGAIN.
SSG Brad & Brenda Hall
March 18, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Gonzalez,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time. Brad and myself think about Carlos and your family daily. He will never be forgotten.
Rachel McFadden( Cummings)
March 16, 2007
So here we are, exactly one year ago today, we lost a truly wonderful man and soldier. Here at Ft Campbell, we had a moment of silence in Carlos's name. Although, its been a year, the pain and heartache we here at Charlie Company feel will never subside he left a great impact on us all and he is deeply missed. Anna and family you are all in our prayers and hearts.
Garnet Jenkins
March 16, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I was to learn of the loss of Spc. Carlos M. Gonzalez, one year ago today.
The price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Carlos rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord continue to be with the Gonzalez family.
There will Never be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
May the Peace of God and your memories of Carlos, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Reese
March 13, 2007
I think of Carlos and his family often. As the anniversary of his death comes upon us, I pray that his parents have the strength to cope with the heart ache. I think of Carlos every time I get into my car and see the St. Christopher medal that is in his memory. You are missed Carlos!
Mariela Anderson
September 16, 2006
Dear Anna & Carlos,
My deepest condolenses on your lose of your son Carlos. I was told about him by my shipmate, your sister Sydel. We are in the same unit getting ready to deploy to Kuwait. Sydel talks about Carlos often and is very proud of him! Hope to meet you and your family when we get back! I will keep an eye on Sydel, we will be working together. May God Bless you and your family.
Rachel Cummings
July 9, 2006
I miss G! He became such a special person in my life when i came to FEP. Ihave many memories of him, his daughter and his wife(whom i miss dearly) Gonazales was a wonderful solider and even better friend. He had crazy hair, horrible driving and a laugh that could make you laugh so hard youd cry. He is so grealty missed. Our section has been deeply affected, and wll always have a void, taht will never be filled. I LOVE YA G.
joyce blank
June 23, 2006
dear anna, carlos, and family,
i'm so sorry for your loss of such a great hero. my prayers and thoughts are with you.
ROBYN GARSIDE
April 25, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENSES. YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE WILL CONTINUE TO SHINE. STAY STRONG. SEMPER FI
Alex Rhodes
April 5, 2006
You have my most heart felt sympathy. Carlos were in JROTC together and i remember that smile of his. I just wish i had gotten to know him better. He lived as a great man and died a hero. He will always be in my heart.
Kenan Gunseli
April 4, 2006
cool web
Christina Presson
April 2, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the Gonzalez family. My prayers are with you in such a difficult time. May God give you the strength to pull through. Carlos will never be forgotten.
Bernie Dallio
April 1, 2006
Dear Anna, Carlos, and Family:
No words can make the pain, and suffering you have go away.
Know that you are not alone in your loss.
May your troubled heart
find peace and comfort in the knowledge that you are never alone.
May God's presence ease
your trembling spirit and give you rest.
He knows how you feel.
He is ever aware of your circumstances and ready to be your strength, your grace, and your peace.
He is there to cast sunlight
into all of your darkened shadows,
to send encouragement through the love of friends and family, and
to replace your weariness with new hope.
God is your stronghold,
and with Him as your guide,
you need never be afraid.
No circumstances can block His love.
No grief is too hard for Him to bear.
No task is too difficult
for Him to complete.
When what you are feeling
is simply too deep for words
and nothing anyone does or says
can provide you with the relief you need,
God understands.
He is your provider --
today, tomorrow, and always.
And He loves you.
Cast all of your cares on Him...
and believe.
Bernie Dallio and Family
Connie Leach
March 31, 2006
Enough credit is never given to the military men & women that risk their lives every single day to protect our country, our homes, our families and our freedom. Saying thank you is so simple yet it is never said enough. So I would like to say THANK YOU to the Gonzalez family for sharing Carlos with all of us and standing by him while he did the work he loved so much. My deepest sympathy to all of you for the loss of your husband, father, son, friend & comrad. He's in God's hands now where he will be cherished and treated with the utmost care and respect for all eternity. Never say good-bye. Say, until we meet again.
SPC Julie Freeman
March 31, 2006
SPC Gonzalez will forever be in my heart. He was in my platoon and always brightened up the room with his energy and smile. I will never forget his laugh. Gonzalez was a great soldier. As the senior specialist of our section he was always there eager to help me with any tasks i needed to accomplish. He will be missed very much.
PFC Smith Sheena
March 31, 2006
To everyone who reads this I want u to know Gonzo was a really good person. He was funny and the funniest thing I remember about him is how he couldnt drive. He thought it was so funny. He's crazy. To his wife I am so sorry for u and your daughter's loss. He always spoke of u. Gonzo God Bless U and u are really in a better place. Please watch over us down here un IRAQ! U will never be 4gotten!!! 1
Spc. Joseph Groom
March 31, 2006
Spc Carlos Gonzalez was a great friend, father, husband, and soldier. He touched each one of our lives in different ways. We would always joke with him about the time where he wrecked two different cars in the same day or the way he would make us laugh just by listening to him laugh. He was always there for me through good times and bad times. He has truely left a mark on my life and everyone else he came in contact with. I will always keep this fine young man and his family in my prayers. He will always be considered a brother to me and there won’t be a day that goes by where I won’t think about him. It’s not how a person dies we should remember, but how he lived.
Jeff Irons
March 31, 2006
As I reflect back to the memories of Carlos I realize that all of us will carry a piece of him in our hearts forever. I have spent many hours of many days with him and his smile and laugh will keep me going for many years to come. As we feel the loss of Carlos with every heartbeat, we draw closer to one another. There are never enough words to fill the space that Carlos has left in all of us but as I honor him I realize that he will always be with us in his own way.
SGT Kevin Murray
March 31, 2006
Dear Gonzalez family, It is an honor to have served with my hero. SPC Gonzo was one of my soldiers who I truly looked up to. His eagerness to learn and his special laugh made him truley a special soldier. We truly lost a great man and father that day. I will never forget Gonzo and his hair gel.... He was my pretty boy soldier. You are truly missed but in a safer place.......You could make the office shine with your smile..... I will never forget my fallen soldier and I will thank of you everyday cause you are a hero... My hero.....Air Assault.......
SGT Murray
SFC John Tighe
March 31, 2006
To the Family, Friends and Co-Workers of SPC Carlos Gonzalez;
Nothing I can say will make any of your pain go away, and for his loss I am trully sorry. I can say that as his NCOIC while we were together in Iraq, he made an indelable impression on anyone he met. His ability to work with anyone no matter how iritating they may be helped our Detachment come together as a unit. His ready smile and comical laugh kept all of us in good spirits during the deployment. I will always remember him as an loving family man, a great friend and an outstanding soldier. I consider myself luck to have known him and it was an honor to have served beside him.
SPC DevRon Gardner
March 30, 2006
To the family of SPC Gonzalez "Gonzo"
I served with "Gonzo" from the time he arrived at our company till his untimely passing. It was an honor, he took great pride in his duties as a soldier. He was eager to learn and always talked of how great his family is and how much they meant to him. His mom sent care packages that basically took care of the whole section and his spirit was one of of the things that kept morale high amongst his peers. Carlos was a credit to the 101st and not a day goes by where we don't remember what he meant to us. When things like this happen we with faith question someone with so much potential being taken from us so early. The void and the pain we have subsides slightly when we remember his laugh, his dedication to his family, his willingness to help his peers and superiors. It's little consolation for such a loss. I can only hope that his sacrifice and the sacrifice of others serves as notice to those who protect freedom worldwide. He lives in the heart of every soldier here especially our section who felt the loss dearest. For as long as we are assembled together it will always be a "missing" man formation. Our condolences for your loss which was much greater than ours. We lost a brother..... Your loss was so much greater than ours. He will not be forgotten, we won't let him be...For you and your families sacrifice I can only thank you, small words after such a sacrifice but I hope that you can heal and be able to take comfort in the fact that he brought such a zeal and happiness to others around him, and he helped supply the freedom that others take for granted daily. Thanks for your support of him being a good soldier and a great friend..
Respectfully
Melanie Mitchell
March 30, 2006
This picture is just how I remember Gonzalez just before we left for Iraq. I could remember all of us joking about his hair care routine and how much gel it would take to maintain that hair style for a whole year while we were deployed. Just would like to remember some of the fun stuff. Carlos was one really good person who will be greatly missed by all.
Tom Karas
March 30, 2006
Rest in peace and god bless you and your family.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
March 30, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
Sondra Cobane
March 28, 2006
Dear Kristina, I have been thinking of you and Isabella every day and have felt the sadness of your loss. I am praying for you and your family daily. I know that God is with you and will help you in this time of need.
Aunt Sondra and Uncle Don
Elyse Gonzalez
March 28, 2006
When i heard that Carlos had passed i didnt know what to think. I knew carlos in high school. We always joked saying that he was my brother from another mother. when ever i forgot my name plate for jrotc he would lend me his since our last names are the same. The last time i saw him was two years ago, he told me he was getting married and having a baby. I was so happy for him, i never thought that would have been the last time though. my heart and prays go out to his family. He was such an awesome person and always made me laugh. He will be in everyones hearts forever. God Bless
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 27, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gonzalez family in the loss of Carlos. I did not know Carlos, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Carlos you are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Nena Hernandez
March 25, 2006
To Carlos & Family,
I send my deepest condolences for your loss. My prayers are always with you and your family. May god bless you always.
Nena Hernandez
Lisa Sheikowitz
March 25, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Gonzalez,
I just wanted a chance to express my condolances. In High School, I considered Carlos a great friend. I remember the time when I had a friend bail on me right before prom, Carlos took me and brought me the nicest pink roses. Even though he and I have lost touch over the last couple years, I will always remember him fondly. You and your family are in my prayers.
Phillip Royal
March 24, 2006
Calos,
My heart goes out to you and your family. Having a son myself in the Army who has been their I still can't imagine what you are going thru but it hurts me too everytime I hear of a lost such as this even though I didn't know him personally. My God bless you and your family.
JOHN DOLAN
March 24, 2006
Carlos I am very sadden to hear about your loss. You and your family will
be in my prayers.
Gary Wolsky
March 24, 2006
Dear Carlos and family,
Our sincerest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gary & Emily Wolsky
James Kelly
March 24, 2006
Carlos, sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayes are with you and your family.
Suzzette Grant-Phillips
March 24, 2006
Carlos,
May God be with you and your family in this time of loss and sorrow. May He strengthen you and keep you in His perfect peace. My prayer is that you will be comforted in this time and remember that God love you and your family.
Proud American
March 24, 2006
I just wanted to thank Carlos for fighting for our freedom. Although I did not know him-all members of the armed forces deserve the upmost respect for doing the worst job ever...protecting us. To his family, I am very sorry for your loss I can only imagine the amazing person he must have been. RIP Carlos...you've done America Proud
Dianne Werner
March 24, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Carlos M. Gonzalez, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Spc. Gonzalez is truly a hero. America honors you. I pray you find peace and comfort in Jesus' arms. Thank you for your ultimate sacrifice.
A Proud 172 Stryker Mom
Dianne Werner
Sterling & Ellen Deck
March 24, 2006
We are so sad for your loss. As parents of a son in the 501st we share your grief and sorrow. We know what a sacrifice Carlos has made. God bless you all. Carlos will never be forgotten.
sheila
March 23, 2006
To Carlos' family- I am so sorry for your loss. It certainly sounds like he was a great person and will be missed by so many. He looks so kind in his photo.
My sympathy and gratitude to you.
Susan Pozdzioch
March 23, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Carlos M. Gonzalez;
It is my deepest sympathy to hear of the loss of your son, brother, husband, father and grandson.
I only knew of Carlos through the Any Soldiers support program. When I had sent out a package to his group (G6 Help Desk) I receive a heart felt letter back from Sgt. Tammy Darden. She gave me a little bio on each of the soldiers that I was supporting. This is what she wrote about Carlos. "He's married with a 2 year old daughter. He's from NY and is very proud of his Cuban heritage. He loves all music and watching romantic movies". When she informed me that she had lost one of her dear friends and soldier. I knew it was not only a loss for the troops, your family but also a loss for America. Thank you for sharing Carlos with us all. It is an honor to support him and all the soldiers fighting for freedom. He will be thought of often in our prayers now and forever. May God be with you in the difficult days ahead.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Susan Pozdzioch and Family
Pat Meehan
March 23, 2006
Anna & family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. I hope you can take comfort in the fact that your son was an honorable man proudly serving our country and we are so very thankful to him. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Meehan & family
Kim Duffy
March 23, 2006
Carlos and Family,
My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. May God help you through this devastating tragedy.
Janette Warren
March 23, 2006
Anna and Carlos I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to understand what you are going through. My heart broke for you and your family when I heard the news. I know there are no words at this time that can make any sense of this or lessen your pain. Keep Carlos in your heart. Please know that everyone's thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
March 23, 2006
john lockwood
March 22, 2006
When i heard the news of the tragic events of 3-16-06 my heart dropped and felt like the world stopped i can not express the unimaginable sorrow i felt and can only hope that his friends, family, and especially his wife Kristina and his beautiful little girl isabella and that they always know they have many people looking out for them and if they need anything i will always be there for them from the bottom of my heart i will alwats miss and love Carlos, my friend, my brother and most of all my hero you will never be forgotten
A Proud American Citizen
March 22, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the Gonzalez family. I did not know Carlos but he must have been a fine man to go and fight for our country. I will pray for all of his family. Again, my condolences.
COREY VAN HORN
March 22, 2006
TO CARLOS
LISTEN BRO U WERE A GREAT FRIEND ALL THE YRS I KNOW U . I LOVED U LIKE A BROTHER. ALL THE FUN TIMES WE HAD IS SCHOOL,JROTC. JUST HANGING OUT WITH U WAS A BLAST AND I WILL NEVER FORGET U. U MEAN'T ALOT TO ME AS A FRIEND AND THAT IS WHY I WILL ALWAYS LOVE U AS A BROTHER. LUV U ALWAYS BUDDY COREY VAN HORN P.S I WILL NEVER EVER FORGET U , U WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHTS NOW AND FOREVER
Emily Reineke
March 22, 2006
Thank you for sharing your life with us, Carlos. You are loved and missed everyday. You've touched my life and the lives of many around us- You and your family are forever in my prayers.
Joanne Hargrove
March 22, 2006
Carlos was a young man I will never forget. He touched our lives with his smile and sense of humor. I will always remember his gelled hair and "big" pants. He was an honorable man. Carlos made all the right choices in life. He was a tribute to his parents Carlos & Anna. Bella we will never let you forget your daddy. You all are in our prayers. Your friend, Joanne
Joel Loeb
March 22, 2006
Anna and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for peace in your heart as you face this very difficult time.
Joel Loeb (from Marriott) and family
Garland Ware
March 22, 2006
I was so sorry and wanted to offer my condolences to this wonderful family, I have known for about 12 years. When I heard this tragic news, I could only think about the pain you are feeling because of this great loss.
I reflected back when I first met this family, as they purchased their home located in a beautiful neighborhood near Minisink Valley. I could see his two sons, my two daughters and several other children, running and playing together at the housewarming. My oldest daughter (Marissa) is the same age as Carlos Jr. and my second daughter (Monica) is the same age as Alex. I have a son (Justin) who will be 17 this July. I can only imagine how difficult this must has been for the two of you, Carlos and Anna, to have received the worst news a parent could hear.
There is obviously no good time or way for someone whom you love to die, and again I am sorry to hear that your son died in Iraq. I think back to the summer of 2005, when my brother passed away and how my much pain and emotion my parents went through. It’s so unfair to have to say goodbye to your child, due to death.
I have read in the newspaper and listened to tragedies as this, however, the impact of it all is not the same, until you hear about it happening to someone you know. I send the prayers of my family to your family Carlos, until I can convey my condolences in person. However, at the very least I want you to know Carlos & Anna, that I care and if there is anything I can do, just give me a call.
Sincerely,
Garland Ware
&
Family
Matt Polizzano
March 22, 2006
I know I have said it a thousand times but i'm very sorry for your loss. That day we lost a good soldier, a Great Father, and incredible Brother Friend and Son.
SSG Greg & Susie Morris
March 22, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers. I didn't know your son/husband personally but my husband is also with the 501st stationed in Tikrit.May you find comfort in God's Holy Word.
Shanda Wills-Athill
March 22, 2006
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and condolences to you and the family.
Laura Aquino
March 22, 2006
I remember Carlos from school and he was a great guy. He served our country proud. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Lauren Bowker
March 22, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. I also lost a loved one in Iraq in April 2005. Please accept my deepest sympathies and I know what you are going through. It does not get any easier, but my memories of my Joey will always be with me, just as Carlos will always be with the ones that loved him. Again, please accept my deepest condolences.
Lauren Bowker
pfc raymond borges
March 22, 2006
my heartfelt condolences to your family god bless
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
March 21, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
Also, the Moving Tribute is was beautiful! Cherish those memories forever!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
March 21, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Carlos M. Gonzalez:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young man who gave his life so selflessly. We lost our son 12/1/05.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. Our heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this horrible situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so sad and heartbroken at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. They will never be able to be replaced, but know they will NEVER be forgotten either - not by us, their commrades or by the thousands of people that sign these guestbooks and care about these fine men and women. Sometime, someday your memories will sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away. God Bless this courageous soldier and his family.
Bill and Pam Adams (Proud parents of SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
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