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Lesley Parker Obituary

Springfield, Mo. - Lesley Black Parker, 24, Springfield, Mo., formerly of Lexington, Ky., wife of Eric Parker, died Sat., Aug. 16, 2008 from an auto accident. Born in Lexington, Ky., she was the daughter of Harold W. Black, DVM, Lexington, Ky. and Cheryl Roberts Black, Winchester, Ky.
Lesley graduated from the Lexington School, followed by St. Catherine's Boarding School in Richmond, Va. before graduating from Paul Lawrence Dunbar High School. She received her B.A. from Miami University (Ohio) and her Masters from Forest Institute of Professional Psychology. She was completing her internship for her Doctorate in Child Psychology at KidsPeace (Pa.).
She was an active member of Alpha Gamma Delta sorority, Kappa Phi faith-based sorority and served as the under-two coordinator for the Centenary United Methodist Church nursery, where she was a member. She loved horses, horseback riding and scrapbooking, but was most dedicated and devoted to children and helping children.
In addition to her husband and parents, she is survived by her brother, Hal (Jennifer) Black, Md.; nephew, Trey Black; maternal grandmother, Beunice Roberts; aunts, Peggy Burkholder, Winchester, Ky. and Trudy Smyth, Danville, Ky.; uncle, Kirby (Elwanda) Roberts, Winchester, Ky.; cousins, Johanna (Bill) Rice, Madalyne Rice, Keith (Sara) Roberts and Kristin (Doug) King; mother and father-in-law, David and Judy Parker; as well as other in-laws, Helen Parker, Ruby Hayes, Sandra and Henry Mauldin, Gail and Gene Moore, Libby and Gerald Whitley, as well as many extended cousins.
Services will be 10:30 a.m., Sat. at Centenary United Methodist Church. Committal services will follow at the Winchester Cemetery. Casket bearers will be Matt Jackson, Art Toal, Keith Roberts, Doug King, John Lange and Ryan Fitzpatric. Visitation will be 4:30 - 8 p.m., Fri. at the church. Memorials may be made to the The Land at Centenary United Methodist Church or The Lexington School. www.milwardfuneral.com.

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Published by Times Herald-Record on Aug. 21, 2008.

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Yvonne Bleam

August 29, 2008

Dear Eric and Family,
Lesley had just joined my in-home Beth Moore bible study in Allentown, PA. She and I hit it off the moment we met at Faith Church and her passion for life was contagious. Know that we are praying for you and would love to reach out to you in some way.

Jennifer Dietz

August 28, 2008

Dear Eric and family.
We were all so sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't know Lesley very well- we had just started a bible study together here in Allentown, PA. Please know you have a family here in Pennsylvania at Faith Church. Feel free to email me if there is anything we can help you with. May God pour out his love to you.

Charlie Nash

August 27, 2008

To the Parker Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Lesley. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Brian Sandoval

August 27, 2008

Dear Eric and the Black Family..

I wanted to extend my deepest simpathy to you for the loss of Lesley. I can't even imagine what you have been going through.

I have had many memorable moments with Lesley and respected her very much as a person. I am most thankful for the very last memory I have of her...which was the day before she left for internship. She was sitting with Eric in our library and I walked in very much stressed out about my exams. Lesley completely stopped what she was doing and took it upon herself to lend me a helping hand, teaching me everything I needed to know for about an hour. As I walked away I remember thinking how great of a person she was...

Lesley was one of a kind and I'll miss her dearly...

Lynn Brasher

August 26, 2008

Eric, I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss of Lesley from your mother, Judy. I remember your mother and I talking about your wedding, I think we discussed every detail! I cannot express with words, the sorrow I feel for you and your family. Allow the Lord to soothe your heart and don't forget to lean on those shoulders from time to time. You all are in my prayers.

Ashlie Williams

August 25, 2008

To Lesley's Family,
I was very taken back when I first heard about Lesley's accident. I saw her just before she left for internship, and as usual she was giving me guidance and advice about school and life. For some reason, Lesley took me under her wings and took me aside to share important aspects of the graduate school experience with me. The more I got to know her, the more I appreciated her passion for life and her love for psychology. As I have been very quite about her accident, I have noticed here at Forest that she is impacting people as much in her death as she did in life!! Her memory and tragic departure is inspiring people to become more involved with their families and take time to live the life that will be most fulfilling to them!! How wonderful are the blessing of the Lord that she can influence the lives of others from Heaven!

Linda Craley

August 25, 2008

Dear Parker & Black families, I want to express my deepest sympathy to all of you. I did not personally know Lesley, but my daughter jenna Dubbs was also an intern at Kids Peace, as soon as she heard of the accident she let all of her family know so we could all pray for her. From our church here in Pa. to her cousin in France to her brother's church and relatives from Ma. to Florida we all were praying for Lesley. Jenna told us of what a strong faith she had and how that must comfort all of you to know that she is now in God's loving arms. We send you all our prayers as you go through this difficult time. May God be with you. Linda Craley

Trina Friendy-Johns

August 24, 2008

Dear Black and Parker Families,
I am proud to speak on behalf of the KidsPeace-Diagnostic Program when I say that it was an honor to have worked with Lesley, even for a short time. Within seconds of meeting Lesley, you could tell what type of person she was: genuinely caring, pleasant and positive. Lesley had quickly become a part of the clinical team, sharing her thoughts on client care and building wonderful rapports with her co-workers and clients. We are all very saddened by this sudden loss and keep your families in our hearts and prayers.
Our Deepest Sympathies,
Trina M. Friendy-Johns
Program Manager
KidsPeace-Diagnostic Program

Carlton Taylor

August 23, 2008

Harold,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mike Martin

August 23, 2008

I grew up with Lesley's dad, Harold, and when he told me of her accident I immediately asked all friends to pray for her and the family. I continue praying for all as God is love and will fill the void in our hearts knowing that she is at peace with him watching over each of us.
Mike

August 22, 2008

To Judy and David Parker. I learned of your tragic loss only today and I know the grief you, David and especially Eric must be feeling. I am so so sorry and my heart breaks for you and your family. May God be with all of you and hold you close to him in this time of sadness. My deepest sympathy to all of Leslie's family.

Chuck and Rhonda Cliett

August 22, 2008

To Judy and David Parker. I learned of your tragic loss only today and I know the grief you, David and especially Eric must be feeling. I am so so sorry and my heart breaks for you and your family. May God be with all of you and hold you close to him in this time of sadness. My deepest sympathy to all of Leslie's family.

Stella Fernandez

August 22, 2008

Dear Eric and Black Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Leslie was dear to me and I will always remember her hugs, her smile, and all of the great dreams she shared with many of us. I miss her and think of her daily. She was so determined, interested in others, and she always made me feel accepted and cared for. I will never forget her!

August 22, 2008

Dear Eric and Black family,

On behalf of the Forest Institute community I offer my heartfelt and deepest sympathy on your loss of Lesley. She was dearly loved and respected by her fellow students, the staff and faculty here at the school. In as much as we can, we share in your grief.

The outpouring of emotion has been profound. Lesley's impact on many lives in the greater Springfield community has not, and will not, go unoticed. Many whom she served in our community had little material wealth and were in great need of kindness, understanding and compassion. During her training Lesley worked with many, who through her touch, experienced kindness, understanding and compassion and as a result are living significantly improved lives and have brighter futures.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sincerely,
Dr. Mark Skrade
President, The School of Professional Psychology at Forest Institute

Patsy Pierce

August 22, 2008

To the Family, I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I pray for God to give you all the strength that you need to deal with such a tragedy. God bless you.

The Blackburns

August 22, 2008

Dear Parker Family,
We are deeply sorry to hear about Lesley. We will always cherrish the many visits that she made to Waynesboro. She was such a happy person and we will remember her bubbling personality and her love for family. Our hearts are with you and we will keep you in prayers in the days to come. Be strong.
Much love to all,

Steve, Jan, Anna Marie &
Sally Kate

Ted & Elaine Lundy

August 22, 2008

Dear Eric, Judy & David,
No words can express the sorrow you must feel. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.We are so sorry for your loss and we know that your faith will sustain you.

Anna Sparks

August 22, 2008

Dear Eric and Black family,

I am immensely saddened at the loss of Lesley. I am so sorry for your suffering. She was a very lively, wonderful young lady. She was also a great friend. She would do anything for her friends and family. My heart goes out to you during this tragic time. I am so sorry for your loss. Our earthly are but a vapor, but we will see her again one sweet day. I'll be praying for you and all those who loved her!

Shane Kiser

August 22, 2008

Dr. Black,
It is with great sorrow that i read of your daughters tragic ending. I did not know Leslie well. But the time that i spent working for you gave me time to get to know you both and how well God has blessed your family. I pray for you and your family in hope that your faith and love will keep you strong.

Sharon & David Lavery

August 22, 2008

Eric, Judy and David,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

DELILAH VANOVER (BECK)

August 21, 2008

I AM SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF LESLEY BLACK PARKER , I HAVE KNOWN HER FOR SO MANY YEARS SHE TOUCH EVERYBODY HEARTS. SHE WAS A PERSON THAT SHE HAVE FRIENDS EVERY PLACE SHE WENT CAUSE SHE WAS SO NICE TO PEOPLE AND EASY TO MAKE FRIENDS . WE WILL HAVE THE PARKER FAMILY AND THE BLACK FAMILY IN MEMORY WITH THE LOSS OF THERE WIFE AND DAUGHTER. YOU WILL BE IN OUR THOUGHS AND PRAYERS .

Betty Howard

August 21, 2008

Eric, Judy and David,
To our special Georgia family, we send you our prayers, love and our support in this sad time. Lesley will be missed.
Grandma Betty and Pa Hoby

Cecilia shore

August 21, 2008

Dear Eric and the Black Family,
I was a teachef of Lesley's at Miami University. I was pleased when Lesley approached me about advising her senior honors project. Lesley’s hypothesis was that children who better understand other people’s perspectives are likely to be more empathic and prosocial. It is so typical of her that her study was about how to help children get along better with others. She had very good interpersonal skills. Lesley trained and supervised several less-experienced undergraduates to assist her in data collection. She did a beautiful job of constructing her testing materials, and related well to the preschool teachers where she collected data.
In her senior year, Lesley was a member of a seminar on “Theories and Methods of Developmental Psychology”. This was a special challenge, since the course consisted of both graduate and undergraduate students. Lesley did a good job with her presentation, which reflected her long-standing interest in parent -infant relattionships.

I was impressed with Lesley's high level of commitment to a clinical career, and her loyalty to the families and church that she served. I hope you can find some comfort in the thoughts and prayers of others who knew her.

Brittany Clevenger

August 21, 2008

Eric and Family
Lesley was one of my best friends whom I met at Forest and one of my bridesmaids. She was such a special, wonderful, and patient person. She would take the time to help others and always had a smile on her face. I will always cherish the memories of the times we had. I am honored just to be touched by her friendship. I will keep everyone in my prayers during this difficult time.

Cecilia Shore

August 21, 2008

Dear Eric and the Black Family,
I was a teacher of Lesley's at Miami University. I was pleased when Lesley approached me about advising her senior honors project. Lesley’s hypothesis was that children who better understand other people’s perspectives are likely to be more empathic and prosocial. It was especially typical of her that her research interests were about how to help children get along better with others. She had good interpersonal skills. Lesley trained and supervised several less-experienced undergraduates to assist her in data collection. She did a beautiful job of constructing her testing materials, and related well to the staff of the preschools where she interviewed children.
In her senior year, Lesley was a member of a seminar on “Theories and Methods of Developmental Psychology”. This was a special challenge, since the course consisted of both graduate and undergraduate students. Lesley did a good job with her presentation, which reflected her long-standing interest in parent-child relaionships.
I was impressed by Lesley's high level of commitment to a clinical career, and her loyalty to the families and church that she served. I offer you my deepest sympathies and hope that you can find comfort in the thoughts and prayers of others who knew her.

John Wooten

August 21, 2008

Harold and family - I was shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of Lesley. No one should ever lose a daughter. The thoughts and prayers of your Sigma Nu brothers are with you.

Robin Patton

August 21, 2008

Eric, Judy & David, I am very sorry to hear of this tragedy that took the life of your wife and daughter-in-law. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Thomas H. Coffey

August 21, 2008

Harold, I cannot imagine your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

tonia lloyd

August 21, 2008

Dear Parker family,
In the brief time that I have got to know Lesley, I already knew that she was a great person. She cared a great deal for the clients that she worked with here at KidsPeace. I had the pleasure of meeting Lesley when she came to work on our unit. She will be sorely missed by all of us. Again my deepest condolences to all who loved her.
May God contiune to Bless you.
sincerely,
tonia (co-worker to Lesley)

Athena,John, Creighton, Alexander & Isabella Noal

August 21, 2008

Dear Dr. Black,

We are sadded and just sick to hear the news.

Lesley was such a wonderful and loving woman. She was my boys only babysitter and friend for years.

Lesley helped us so much when we lived overseas and would return to Lexington for holidays. We still read many of the books that she gave my children as gifts. We have beautful notes written in these books from her that we will always cherish.

She indeed is a special gift, always followed through with her dreams, loved God immensly, loved children and it showed in everything she did.

Our hearts and prayers are with you -

Trey Faucher and Denise Ricks

August 21, 2008

Dear Parker Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of Lesley. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Barbara Fusia

August 21, 2008

Judy Parker and family,
Judy I am so sorry about your loss and prayers are for you and your family. Just know that Edward Jones BOA's are here for you.

Adena Shoshan

August 21, 2008

Dear Eric and Lesley's family,
Lesley was such a vibrant and sweet woman and this is such a horrible loss. She will be missed by many people in many places. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Watkinsville First United Methodist Youth

August 21, 2008

Dear Eric and the Black Family,
The Youth Group of Watkinsville First United Methodist Church is praying for you in this great loss. May God's grace be with you through this dark time.

Randy and Jerrie Blackburn

August 21, 2008

Dear Aunt Bea and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Lesley. Please know that we are with you all even though we cannot be there. You are all in our thoughts and in our prayers.
We love you all very much.

Mandy and Bryan Underwood

August 21, 2008

Aunt B and Family, We were so sorry to hear about Lesley. She was such a beautiful person. She always had a smile on her face and loved to be with the Blackburn family.

Patty, Tommy and Melissa Scharko

August 21, 2008

Dear Harold,

We would not have met if it were not for Lesley's interactions with Melissa at several veterinary conferences. It has been great following her career. What a shock to hear about this tragic accident. Our hearts and prayers extend to the Black and Parker families.

Louise Cook (KVMA)

August 21, 2008

Dear Dr. Black:
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I can remember Lesley attending Morehead Clinic Day with you when she was younger. She was your very special little girl.

August 21, 2008

Aunt Bea & Family,
All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We have such great memories of Lesley's visits. We are very proud of her many accomplishments and talents. We love you all. Rickie, Jeanie, Jason, Ben, & Jan Blackburn

Bradford Blain

August 21, 2008

Harold,

I was shocked to read about your daughter's death in this morning's paper. My sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Susan Campbell

August 21, 2008

Lesley was a truly unique individual that touched everyone she came into contact with. I feel blessed to have gotten to know her and work one on one with her at Forest. She was full of energy and passion and will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, her loved ones, in this difficult and trying time. I know that she is with the angels and in a place where she will never have to know pain again.

Carole Richardson

August 21, 2008

Dear Dr Black and Cheryl,
I was so sorry to hear about Lesley. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers these next few days and weeks.

frances hill

August 21, 2008

We are thinking about you.

The Flooring and Furniture Gallery

August 21, 2008

To Johanna and the Black Family:
We are deeply sorry for your lost and will keep your family in our prayers.

Dolly Bechtell

August 21, 2008

Eric and family,

Please know that we are prayerfully thinking of you at this time.

Cheri Strotman

August 21, 2008

I am sorry for your loss. Lesley was such a wonderful and kind person. My prayers are with your family in this difficult time.

Cheri Strotman (Cantonwine)
(Alpha Gamma Delta Sister)

Caroll Garriott

August 21, 2008

Parker Family - You are in our thoughts and prayers in your time of loss. May God Bless and Keep You.

Jo Harrison

August 21, 2008

David and Judy,

I just learned of the tragedy that took your beautiful daughter-in-law. I am so sorry to hear of this...and want you to know that you and Eric are all in my prayers.

Cecilia&Danny Sams

August 21, 2008

Black Family,Our hearts are greiving with you. Danny and I remember Lesley and Kellen playing in our barn and having such a good time. Becky, Dana, and all our family will keep you in our prayers. With loving sympathy

Jean and Clint Bookout

August 21, 2008

Dr Black and Eric,
We were so saddened by this tragic accident.
Lesley was in my daughter Brittany's wedding on August 2. That is the first time i met her. Eric and Lesley were wonderful friends to Brittany while she was in Springfield, Mo. She was a lovely person. She will be truly missed. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Danielle Stanback

August 20, 2008

What a terrible thing to have happened to a sweet kind, and loving friend.. I will really miss seeing her at church. My Prayers go out to her family...

Teri Makosiej

August 20, 2008

Eric and Dr. Black,
Lesley was my best friend at Forest. She was always willing to help others, no matter what. I have had so many good times with her, I can't even begin to name them all. She was vibrant and full of life. She knew what she wanted out of life and she went for it. I miss Lesley and I loved her deeply. I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.

Lisa Casullo

August 20, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of the accident. Lesley's passion and committment will be deeply missed by everyone who had the chance to meet her either personally or professionally (and personally I will miss our chats that began during bible study at Forest). I am sending love and prayers to you~

Leslie McMillan

August 20, 2008

Dear Eric and Lesley's family, I was turely sorry to hear about Lesley. I loved her very much we always talked about going horseback riding and we shared our love of horses. I will miss her very much. She was a shinning light for everyone around her and any one who knew her was truely blessed.

Meleia Browning

August 20, 2008

To Lesley's loved ones,
Lesley was a beautiful, ambitious young woman and has touched the lives of so many. She opened my eyes when I first came to school, to the idea that with enough work, anything is possible. She will be truly missed. Your family is in my prayers.

April Statt

August 20, 2008

Dear Eric and Dr. Black,
Very sorry to hear about Lesley. She was a wonderful person who always brought a positive attitude and laughter to the room. I will miss her.
April Statt
(Lesley's Big sister from Alpha Gamma Delta)

Bob, Carol & JR White

August 20, 2008

Eric, we were so deeply distressed to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and to Lesley's and your families. You are in our prayers.

Jill Richeson

August 20, 2008

Dr Black,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Lesley was a bright beautiful young lady who will live in the hearts of all of the people she has touched. God bless you and your family.

Jill Richeson
(from Dr Furlow's office)

James Codell

August 20, 2008

Harold: Jeanne joins me in expressing our deepest sympathy on your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and you during this extremely difficult period.

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