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Lillian Swanson Obituary
She was born on November 10, 1930 in Amenia, N.Y., to Charles and Elsie Platt Wilkinson. She was the widow of Kenneth G. Swanson.
Lillian and her husband, owned and operated the Quassaick Delicatessen in New Windsor for many years. Lillian subsequently managed a Perkins Pancake House in Vails Gate, served as an office manager for dermatologist Dr. Allyn in New Windsor. Her final position was at the Storm King Art Center where she left many good friends.
Lillian wore several hats and left her family and friends with many wonderful memories to hold and cherish.
Survivors include her sons, Kenneth G. Swanson, II of Cranston, R.I., and Karl S. Swanson of Newburgh; the "loves of her life", grandchildren, Michelle and Kevin Swanson of the Town of Newburgh; devoted sister, Evelyn Brewer with whom she made her home; brother, Everett Wilkinson of Cornwall and wife, Margaret; sisters, Lucille Wilson, and Beatrice Abernathy of Kingsport, Tenn.; brothers, Charles Wilkinson and wife, Ezora of Dover Plains, N.Y., and Walter Wilkinson of Live Oak, Fla. Also surviving is her special niece, Jill Brewer who loved her "Mizz Molly", and 24 additional nieces and nephews who all loved their "Aunt Lil".
She was predeceased by her brother, Ellsworth Wilkinson.
Funeral services will be held at the Coloni Funeral Home, 3001 Rt. 9W, New Windsor, on Wednesday, April 25, at 11 a.m. Cremation and interment of her ashes in the Woodlawn Cemetery, New Windsor will take place at a later date.
In lieu of flowers the family request that donations be made to the American Cancer Society.
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Memories and Condolences
for Lillian Swanson
Michelle
April 20, 2017
It's been ten years Nana, and we still miss you every day. I keep you in my heart wherever I go.
Marlene Hernandez / PPSD
May 4, 2007
Mr. Swanson:
My sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jerry Schimmel
April 27, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Geri Elmer
April 26, 2007
Ken, my prayers are with you and your family as you go through this sad time.
Glenda Guglielmo
April 26, 2007
Dear Ken, Karl, Michelle and Kevin,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother and grandmother. What a wonderful woman! I will miss the fun we used to have during our card games. She was such a delight. Words seem so inadequate at a time like this, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Try to gain comfort from the many fond memories you have of her.
Love,
Glenda
Tony Antosh
April 25, 2007
Ken,
My condolences. You're in my thoughts. If there's anything I can do, just email.
Susan Donovan
April 25, 2007
Dear Ken,
My deepest sympathy.
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michelle Mendez
April 24, 2007
Michelle & family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your nana seemed like a great, caring, very kind woman. Just from the few times I met her she seemed like a wonderful person. My prayers go out to you.
Michele Simpson
April 24, 2007
Ken,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your wonderful memories of your mom bring you comfort through this very touching time. Your mom will always be with you in your heart.
Fondly
Michele
Helen Giorgio
April 24, 2007
Ken,
I hope that your loving family and friends can be some support during this time. I was fortunate enough to meet your mother and realized what a loving, happy, caring person she was. She provided you with a wonderful life and she will always be in our thoughts and prayers. My deepest regrets. Helen
Bob Lynch
April 24, 2007
Ken,
We are sorry for your loss; our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Bob and Joanne Lynch
Deb Belanger
April 24, 2007
Dear Ken,
Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Deb
Amy Cohen Soscia
April 24, 2007
Ken,
So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She will always be etched in your heart. May the love she had for you and the memories she created carry you during this difficult time.
Thinking of you, Amy
Walter Wilkinson
April 24, 2007
To Ken Swanson and Family: Heart felt condolences for the loss of your most loved one..She will be missed.
Love,
Uncle Walt
Roy and Anne Seitsinger
April 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Craig Enos
April 23, 2007
Ken - Our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother. Her love and spirit will always be with you.
The "Northern" Guys
Bud, Craig, Bob and bob
Ina Woolman
April 23, 2007
Ken and family,
You are all surrounded by the caring thoughts of so many people - I hope you will feel comforted by the warmth of this support, and that it will help you find peace. My heartfelt sympathy,
Brian & Jeff
April 23, 2007
Ken & Family,
Words are inadequate to help you all ease the pain of your loss, but please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Mary-Beth Fafard
April 23, 2007
Ken,
Your mother will always be there in spirit and in your heart. May memories, family, and friends help as you experience her loss.
Vanessa Cooley
April 23, 2007
Ken,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Celine Johnson
April 23, 2007
Dear Ken,
I'm sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. Celine Johnson
Paula Rossi
April 23, 2007
Ken, your mother was blessed to have such a loving and wonderful family to care for her during her illness. I know that it is hard to accept that she could have gone so quickly. You will all treasure your memories of her and she will live on through the ones she loved and touched.
I am here if you need anything.
Sincerely
Paula
Lisa Sinapi
April 23, 2007
Ken,
So sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dave & Lisa Sinapi
Sally Arsenault
April 23, 2007
It was a pleasure to have met Lillian, and it was obvious that she was a lovely, giving, down-to-earth person who was devoted to her family. Im sure you will all miss her very much and carry her in your hearts--she'll always be a part of who you are.
Mary Hagan
April 23, 2007
Ken, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ruth Furia
April 23, 2007
Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and payers are with you.
Peggy Hayden
April 23, 2007
I am so very sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts are with you during this sad time.
Sheila Beliveau
April 23, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Angela Teixeira
April 23, 2007
Ken...We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if we can be of any help at this time. Todd and I are only a phone call away in case you need anything. May your mom rest in peace.
Angela
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