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Mary Martha Waldron Carpenter

Mary Carpenter Obituary

New Hampton, NY

At about 8:30 this Friday, October 2, 2009 morning, Mary Martha Waldron Carpenter of New Hampton entered into Heavenly rest and joined God's Angels, along with her mother, father and brother, Ed. She was 74.

Mary was born in Erie, PA on June 29, 1935, the daughter of The Very Reverend Kenneth R. and Mary Horton Waldron. She graduated from Avalon High School, Avalon, PA, Slippery Rock State University, Slippery Rock, PA with a Bachelor's degree in Education. She taught in Shaler Township, PA, Mount Vernon, NY and retired from Middletown School District as an Elementary Teacher.

She was a communicant of Grace Episcopal Church in Middletown; served as a Sunday School Teacher, a member of the Vestry and clerk of the Vestry, Head Acolyte, lector, Lay Eucharistic Minister; member of the Guild of St. Margaret; founded Gifts of Grace Gift Shop; member of R.E.N.T., and was a member of the Mid Hudson Regional Council, Episcopal Diocese of New York.

She is survived by her husband, Kenneth Carpenter, whom she married in 1960; her daughter, Carolyn Sue Carpenter Barnes and her husband, Kenneth of New Hampton; her son, Joseph Frances Carpenter and his wife, Susan of Mattituck; two grandsons, Nicholas Kenneth Barnes and Coleman Joseph Barnes of New Hampton; brother, John Friend Waldron and his wife, Janet of Ocala, FL; two sisters, Jane Luella Banning of Philadelphia, PA and Sara Mae Doughtery and her husband, Joe of Pittsburg, PA; 13 nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents and brother, The Rev. Edward Owen Waldron.

A Requiem Mass will be announced and celebrated at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Guild of St. Margaret, 12 Depot St., Middletown, NY 10940.

Arrangements are under the guidance of Morse Funeral Home, Inc., 33 Railroad Ave., Middletown, NY; 845-343-6918.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record on Oct. 3, 2009.

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Patricia Valentine

October 8, 2009

Dear Ken and family,

I am so sorry to hear of Mary's passing - my deepest sympathy to all of you. As evidenced by the comments in the Guest Book, she touched the lives of many people. I have so many happy memories of Mary from my time at Academy Avenue. Those of us who knew her were blessed.
My prayers are with all of you.

Claire Riley

October 5, 2009

Carolyn & family, my heart aches for you right now, knowing your pain. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories of your loved one and the vision of her with our Lord & Savior and the loved ones who were waiting to greet her! Will continue to keep you all in my prayers!

Carol Odevseff

October 4, 2009

I send my prayers to Ken & his family to comfort them in this time of great sorrow. Mary was a wonderful, dedicated, vibrant and blessed person. I am so sorry to hear of her passing. May your heart be filled with wonderful memories of her life.

October 3, 2009

To Ken and family,

Like many people, I was deeply saddened to hear of Mary's passing into spirit. I will always treasure the wonderful prayer throw she made for me and the lunches and high teas we enjoyed in NYC with my mom.

My deepest sympathy,
Jackie Carter

Deb Cuddy

October 3, 2009

Ken, My prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. Mary was such a wonderful person and I feel so blessed to have known her.

Nettie Scherne

October 3, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Barbara & Thomas LaBagh

October 3, 2009

I shed tears when I learned of Marys passing. She was such a wonderful person, a true friend with a pure heart who was a blessing to me and my grandmother Vera Weale. Mary and Ken helped my grandmother in so many way, they have their place in heaven.

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