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Maureen Sassi Obituary

Goshen, NY

Maureen Gobeo Sassi, a retired teacher of the Middletown City School District, and a lifelong area resident, entered into rest on Friday, March 5, 2010, at her home in Goshen, NY after a short illness. She was 49 years of age.

Born September 2, 1960 in Middletown, she was the daughter of the late Charles P. "Chubby" Gobeo and the late Jean Rosenstein Gobeo.

Maureen was an early retired teacher of the Middletown City School District in order to become the greatest mom, wife, sister and friend anyone could ever ask for. She was a tireless advocate for her handicapped son and best friend to her daughter. She loved both beyond words. She will be deeply missed.

She was a member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, and the Orange County Golf Club.

Survivors include her beloved husband of 25 years, Norman Martin Sassi; her son, Michael; her daughter, Jenna; her sister, Denise Davock and her husband, James of Medway, MA; her mother-in-law, Elaine Sassi; her brothers-in-law: Robert C. Sassi and his wife, Patricia of Pine Bush, Stephen D. Sassi and his wife, Lisa of Myrtle Beach, SC; nieces, Lauren Smith and Katherine "Katy" Sassi; nephews: Matthew Sassi, James Davock III, Connor Davock, Trevor Davock and Aidan Davock. She is also survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Friends may call at the Cornelius, Dodd and Connell Funeral Home, 26 Grove St., Middletown, today, Monday, March 8, from 3 to 8 p.m.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 11 a.m., Tuesday, March 9, at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, Euclid Ave. Ext., Middletown, with The Rev. Patrick McGuigan O'Carm, celebrant. Interment will follow in St. Joseph's Cemetery, Middletown.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Center for Discovery, PO Box 840, Harris, NY 12742, which is the school and residence of her beloved life work, Michael.

Arrangements are under the direction of Cornelius, Dodd & Connell Funeral Home; 845-343-2142. For directions or to send condolences, please visit www.connellfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times Herald-Record from Mar. 7 to Mar. 8, 2010.

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April 5, 2010

We are deeply sadenned by this tragedy; and would like to send are condolances.
David&Kathleen

Betsy Trotta (Shapiro)

April 1, 2010

Marti and family,

I am very sorry to hear about the passing of Maureen. I have such fond memories of her during our college years. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

Dede De Angelis

March 17, 2010

Maureen,
You bright light will burn forever in our hearts and minds.

March 13, 2010

Very sorry to learn of your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Joe & Rosemarie Malfatone

Jim&Theresa Cross

March 12, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ron & Lori Hoyt

March 12, 2010

Marti and family,
Our hearts go out to you. So upset to hear of this news. May your inner peace come through to deal with this tragic event. We always remember her smile and great laugh.

Ike & Carole Jennings

March 12, 2010

Dear Marty and Family:
Please know our thoughts are prayers are with you during this time. Maureen was such a wonderful woman and may memories of her always keep her alive in your heart. Remember she is always watching over you, making sure you are all doing well. With love and respect.

Gary Teachout

March 11, 2010

Marti and Family,

Though we have only known you and Maureen for such a short time, I wish to extend my sorrows. She was a beautiful lady, as is your family as well. I wish you peace and will miss you up here at the lake. You are in our thoughts. May God hold Maureen in the palm of his hand, till you meet again.

Joann (Worden) Stevens

March 11, 2010

Marti and Family,

I was so sad to hear of Maureens passing. It has been many years since i saw either of you but I will always remember her big smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Gob bless

Grace Roth

March 11, 2010

Dear Sassi and Gobeo family,
My deepest condolences on the loss of such a wonderful person.
I worked with Jean Gobeo at Truman Moon School and always heard of how proud she was of Maureen. Jean spoked so lovingly of her daughter.
My prayers go with you and may the Lord Jesus bless you all.
Sincerely, Grace Roth

Darci and Mark Strecker

March 10, 2010

Dear Marti and family, We will always remember Maureens beautiful smile and great love for her friends and family.We will remember her as a GREAT mom and a kind sool. She is now a shining star looking down on us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. In sympathy Mark and Darci Strecker

Ellen cotter

March 10, 2010

I remember Maureen when she was still in elementary school. Miss her, her dad and the furniture store.

Richard McPhillips

March 10, 2010

My thougths and prayers are with your and your family!

Richard B MC Phillips Jr

Kathleen Hunt and Family

March 10, 2010

To the Gobeo and Sassi Families,
We were shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Maureen's passing. As you know we were very long time neighbors, first with the Gobeo family, and then when Maureen and Marty married and moved a house away from us, and were then blessed with their children Michael and Jenna. Maureen was a beautiful person both inside and out. Words cannot express the sympathy we feel. We will be praying for God to see you through these darkest days and for faith to sustain you.

Leanne Wood

March 10, 2010

Dear Marti, Michael and Jenna,
Please accept my most heartfelt condolences during this time of sorrow. I was a high school classmate of Maureen's and I was deeply saddened when I heard of her passing. May your memories and God's promise of eternal life bring you comfort and peace.

In Sympathy,
Leanne Amelio Wood

Sherry Calogero

March 9, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Ellen and Jim Demetrious

March 9, 2010

Peace be with you.

March 9, 2010

There are no words to express how we feel about the loss of Maureen to the Sassi family at this time. We we keep all of you in our prayers and thoughts.
Love
The Fox Family
Lucy, Larry,and Sean Fox

March 9, 2010

Marti,Michael,Jenna & Denise and family..My prayers are with you all.Very very sorry.Brian M. Hayden

Sheila Slater Gateley

March 9, 2010

It has been many, many years since I have seen Maureen. My Mom, Rosalie French (Rosalie Gobeo Slater) sent me the information from the Record newspaper and I remember the family living over by the "now" Middletown High School. I remember Uncle Chubby very much and knew there were at least 2 girls in the Gobeo Family. We all know Maureen is at peace and may God assist you in the time of sorrow.

Duggan Family

March 9, 2010

Marti and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nancy Faller

March 9, 2010

I had the rare pleasure of Maureen's company whenever she came into Monte's office. She was a hurricane of positivity and a natural comedienne. Despite the challenges life presented to her, she always had an encouraging word, a happy spin on the daily grind, and an aura of all that is beautiful in life surrounding her. A rare and beautiful spirit. Marty, I wish for you and Michael and Jenna the strength and love that your sweet Maureen leaves behind. God bless you all.

Leo Raponi

March 9, 2010

Remembering Maureen and our days at St. Joes. Though it was many years ago, I can still see her smile. My deepest sympathies.

March 9, 2010

Dear Marty and family,

My deepest sympathies to all of you at this sad time. Maureen was always such a sweetheart with an infectious smile. She will be missed.

My prayers for comfort and peace are with you!

Sincerely,

Debbie(Gillen)Fello

Tim and Anita Hoppe

March 9, 2010

Marti and family;
We were saddened to hear of the loss of your wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

Susan Kelvasa

March 9, 2010

What sad news, I too immediately thought of Barry White and Maureen singing at the top of her lungs. My condolences are with you all.

Peter Diakopoulos

March 8, 2010

Upon hearing of one of my fellow classmate, Maureen's passing. My deepest condolences & sympathies go out to both of you and your families. I will never forget the High School years me and Maureen shared. May God be with you.

March 8, 2010

Dear Marti, Michael, Jenna, Denise & Jim and family,
Laugh, laugh, laugh! We can't recall a time spent together when Maureen didn't have us crying we were laughing so hard!
While at the moment we share tears of sorrow for your loss, we will smile and laugh again as we celebrate her life with wonderful memories.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, may God bless.
---There is no fear, there is no pain, when I see Him, who called my name. Peace be to all---

Love you,
Steve & Maggie

Brian Reed

March 8, 2010

Marty,
We were saddened with news of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brian Reed(Red)
and Family

JoAnn Sultana-Farina

March 8, 2010

Marti,
While I haven't seen Maureen since our first high school reunion, I remember her most from our high school days. Always that wonderful smile but her greatest beauty was her generous and kind nature that stands out to me. I am so very sorry Marti. May God grant you comfort and peace. You and your family are in my prayers.

Steve Dineen

March 8, 2010

Marti and Family

My sincerest condolences, my prayers are with you and your family.

Tony Visca

March 8, 2010

Denise & Marty,

I am shocked to hear of Maureen's passing. My deepest condolences & sympathies go out to both of you and your families.

Tony Visca

Don and Diane Busse

March 8, 2010

Marty and entire Family,

We were both shocked and saddened to hear about Maureen. Please know our hearts are with you.

Danny and Sandra Binkowski

March 8, 2010

Marty,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

John & Teresa Wagner

March 8, 2010

Dear Sassi & Davock Families

Our thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy are with you at this time.
Love John & Teresa

Ellen Kowitz Miller

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty and family,

I was so saddened by the news of Maureen's untimely passing. She was a ray of sunshine every day and she will be missed.

Warm regards,

Ellen Kowitz Miller

March 8, 2010

I am so saddened by the loss of your loved one,Maureen. I was a classmate (one year behind) of Maureens, and was always blown away by her love of life, incomparable love of her children, and dedication to her beloved husband, Marty.Maureen will be sorely missed, but her smile, laughter and again, love of family, will always be remembered. Sincerely, Jaye Kurdyla(Smith) and family

margo claster

March 8, 2010

Maureen had an amazing way of making everyone she met feel special.She was a beautiful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love will hold her place! Margo Claster

Kimberly & Gregory Palen

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty & family - We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

March 8, 2010

Our hearts go out to you and your family at this difficult time.
Brad & Barbara Johnson

Cynthia Carey

March 8, 2010

Dear Marti, Denise and family,

After hearing the horrific news on Friday, I was in a state of shock and disbelief.

That evening I found myself listening to Barry White and closing my eyes, so many memories flooded my mind, bringing tears to my eyes and a smile to my face.

My heart is breaking for you all. This world has lost a beautiful and wonderful person.

As you journey through this most difficult of times, please know there are so many people holding you in their arms and wrapping you in their love.

My condolences to you all.
Peace and love,
Cindy Newkirk Carey

WAYNE WALTON

March 8, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joanmarie Livoti

March 8, 2010

Dear Sassi family,
I worked with Maureen at Mechancistown. She often spoke about her children which she loved so much. She was a beautiful person, who touched the lives of so many people. She will be missed, but remembered in the hearts of all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Charles Carnes

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty and Family, We are very sorry for your loss. You and Maureen are great parents and people who have given a lot to many others.God Bless,Charlie and Bernadette Carnes

Jennifer Dempsey

March 8, 2010

Marti, Jenna, Michael & Denise,

I am heartbroken over the loss of your wonderful wife, mother and sister.

Maureen was kind, generous and special beyond words, with a magical smile and laugh that brightened every room she entered.

She was a wonderful friend to so many of us and she will be remembered fondly and often by us all. I loved her and will miss her.

My deepest sympathies,
Jennifer Jorgensen Dempsey

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty and Sassi family,
Beautiful memories can never be erased from the heart. With sincere sympathy,
Frank and Dorathea McBride

March 8, 2010

Marty: My heart goes out to you on your sudden loss of Maureen. I can only say that time will pass and memories will sustain. Nancy Schneider

Eileen & Fred Reichle

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty & Family - Words do not seem enough at this difficult time. In time, may memories of happier times replace the grief you feel now. Know that your friends & family are there for you. Our thoughts & prayers are with you. God bless all of you!

Bridget Janiak

March 8, 2010

Denise & the entire Gobeo/Sassi family. Vinnie & I send our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts & prayers and may God bless you all.

Janet & Jim English

March 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mary Radivoy

March 8, 2010

Marti and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cecelia Morris

March 8, 2010

Dear Marty & family,
Words cannot express how very sad I am to hear of your loss. Maureen was an excellent teacher, a great friend & classmate. My thoughts are with you & your family.
Sincere sympathy, from Australia

Sue & Tom Lapertosa

March 7, 2010

Marty, Michael, Jenna, Denise & Family,
Heartfelt sympathy to all of you. May the many memories you each have of Maureen offer some comfort at this most difficult time.

March 7, 2010

Marti,
I am so saddened to learn of your loss. Our deepest sympathy goes out to your and your family. Maureen was a funny & lovely person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Celine & Eric Maxwell

March 7, 2010

Dear Marty, Michael and Jenna,
We may not understand why, but we do know Maureen will be met with open arms by our Lord when she enters into heaven.
Sincere Sympathy,
John & Shelly Gray-Molpus

Toni Pugliese

March 7, 2010

Dear Denise and Family
I am so sorry -if you remember me, my mom took care of you and Maureen and i always enjoyed both of you-so sorry

Danny Clemmer

March 7, 2010

my prayers are with you and I wish I could be with you . maureen was a wonderful cousin and will be missed

Tara Klein

March 7, 2010

Dear Marty & Family~ Our thought's & prayers are with you all during this difficult time! Tara & All the Girls @ Masci & Hale

Michele and Michael Bahery and family

March 7, 2010

Dear Denise,Jim,and family
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mary M. Dean

March 7, 2010

I knew Maureen as a loving mother to her son, Michael, for whom I was his one-on-one aid for three years in BOCES. I know she will be deeply missed by her family and by all who knew her. My condolences and prayers for you all.

Mark Liss

March 7, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so deeply sorry for your loss.

Ellen Roesch

March 7, 2010

I stood watching as the little ship sailed out to sea. The setting sun tinted its white sails with a golden light. And as it disappeared from view, a voice at my side whispered, she is gone.

But the sea was a narrow one, and on the furthest shore, a little band of friends had gathered to watch in happy expectation. Suddenly, they caught sight of the tiny sail.

And at the very moment when my companion had whispered she is gone, a glad shout went up in joyous welcome with the words, yes, here she comes!

Marty, Denise, family and friends, may you find comfort knowing that those with her now recognize the gift they have.

Love,

Ellen

John Dragone

March 7, 2010

Dear Sassi and Davock families,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.

Ann Sassi

March 7, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time. I will be there to give each of you a big hug and all my love.
Aunt Ann Sassi

March 7, 2010

Dear Marti
Our love, prayers and deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Nancy and Jim Beairsto

Laura Springstead

March 7, 2010

Dearest Marti, Michael, Jenna, Denise & family,

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, and your beloved Maureen. Her loss is so profound, there are no words...

In deepest sympathy and hope,

Ann Marie Schupper

March 7, 2010

Dear Marty, Michael and Jenna and the entire Sassi/Gobeo family:

It it with deep sadness that we learned of Maureen's passing. May God's loving grace be with you all in the days and weeks ahead. Please know that many people are praying for all of you in this time of sorrow.

With Love and prayers
Ann & Bob Schupper

Cindy and Jim Sia and Family

March 7, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Selena Fischer

March 7, 2010

Marty,
Please know that my sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. I knew Maureen as a mom, a colleague and a friend. Here spirit will be forever in your hearts.

Jamie Adams

March 7, 2010

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Maureen was such a kind woman and such a wonderful mother for which I admired. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

March 7, 2010

Marty & family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children during this very difficult time. Maureen was loved by all who came in touch with her. Cherish your memories. My deepest condolences.
Patti Meyers

March 7, 2010

Marty, Michael, Jenna, Denise and Family,

I close my eyes and all I see is that infectious smile of Hers...I am one of the lucky ones who had the privledge of being friends with Moe for over 40 years. Dear God I will hold each and every memory that we have in my heart always!! Rest in Peace My Dear Friend
I Love You !!!

Mary Beairsto Zahorchak

Joseph Lyons Critelli

March 7, 2010

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of a great friend. Heaven now has an angel named Maureen. Moe you will always be in my heart and I will never forget the fun we had and the laughs we shared. Joe (Josephine) Lyons

Anthony & Barbara Amelio

March 7, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jackie Dufresne

March 7, 2010

Marti-

Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Maureen was a lovely woman and will be sadly missed.

Sheila Ferrucci

March 7, 2010

I will miss my dear, sweet cousin deeply. Her generous, warm heart was second to none, as was her laugh and gentle, kind soul. I share the entire family's profound grief

March 7, 2010

Dear sassi Family ,
our thoughts and prays are with you all . Maureen willbe greatly missed ,she always had a beautiful smile and was a very caring person.
our deepest sympathy
Josie & Dave Clark

March 7, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family at this sorrowful time. Cherish the memories. Maureen will be missed by all but will remain in our hearts forever.
Love,
Bill and Shelley

P.J. Labanowski

March 7, 2010

Marti,
There are no words to describe how sorry we are for your loss. Please accept our condolences.

Love,
The Labanowski Family

Arlene, Kayla and Abby Stevens

March 7, 2010

I cannot put into words the sadness that is felt from the loss of such a wonderful person. Marti, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children at this time. We are so sorry.

March 7, 2010

Marty - We are so very sorry to learn about the loss of your beloved Maureen. We were so blessed to know and enjoy her company during her high school years as she was a part of our daughter Cynthia's circle of friends. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Charlie & Barbara Newkirk.

Jeff and Lisette May

March 7, 2010

God Bless you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, with our deepest sympathy.

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