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Patricia VanEtten Obituary

Patricia A. Van Etten
February 2, 1934 - July 14, 2020
Monticello, NY
Patricia Ann Van Etten, 86 and lifelong resident of Monticello, passed away peacefully on July 14, 2020 in her home surrounded by her loving family.
Patricia was born in Monticello on February 2, 1934 to Franklyn and Elizabeth Laufersweiler. She graduated from Monticello High School in 1951 and went on to receive her nursing degree from Orange County Community College.
She married the love of her life, Robert "Bob" Arthur Van Etten, on November 6, 1954. Family and home were Pat's passion and, together with Bob, they created a warm and loving home, in which they raised five children.
Patricia worked as a registered nurse at Hamilton Avenue Hospital for many years. She became school nurse at Monticello High School where she worked until her retirement. Pat's compassion and giving spirit permeated her work and home life. She found the most joy in raising her children and taking care of her husband. Her loving and nurturing way touched all and created a welcoming and open home which was often the location of many family and social gatherings.
After retirement Bob and Pat spent many happy and adventuresome years of travel in their motor home. Their journeys allowed them to enjoy the beauty of North America while visiting with family and friends. They found friendship and community during their decades of travel as they attended blue grass festivals and motor coach rallies.
Patricia is survived by her loving and devoted husband of 65 years, Robert; daughters: Jody Lounsbury and her husband, Gregg, Peggy Dennin and her husband, Greg, Kathy Perna and her husband, Fred; son, Peter Van Etten and his wife, Tiffany. She is predeceased by her son, Robert Van Etten, Jr. (Ann). She is also survived by her sisters, Elizabeth Mulvey and Lois Fleming. She is predeceased by sister, Lucille Farchione and brother, Franklyn Laufersweiler. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Meghan Lee (Mathew), Alyson Wild (Arhm), Lindsay DeWitt (Austin), Emily Dennin, Maggie Bruns (Conner), Sean Dennin, Christopher Perna, Robert Van Etten lll (Katie), Victoria Van Etten, Carley Van Etten, Cole Van Etten, and Keely Van Etten; as well as her great-grandchildren: Olivia Lee, Camden Lee, Andi DeWitt, Jacqueline DeWitt, Olivia Van Etten and Robert Van Etten lV.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, July 21 at St Joseph's Catholic Church in Wurtsboro, NY. Due to the current health crisis, social distancing guidelines must be met - a limited number of people at one time will be allowed in the church, and facemasks are required.
Donations can be made in Patricia's memory to The Robert Van Etten, Jr. Fund at Community Foundation of Orange and Sullivan www.cfosny.org or to Hospice of Orange and Sullivan Counties
Arrangements are under the direction of the VanInwegen-Kenny, Inc. Funeral Home of Monticello NY; for additional information or to send an online condolence, please visit www.kennyfuneralhome.com

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Jul. 17 to Jul. 18, 2020.

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Peggy Coats

July 11, 2023

Yesterday our family celebrated our granddaughter Pasquale's 14th birthday and I thought with gratitude about of my dear sister-in-law, Pat. Fortunately Pasquale is surrounded by a loving family including her wonderful mother, all of her grandparents, and even her great-grandmother. My younger brother and I lost our mother to breast cancer when we were both young children and Pat was always there for us when we needed the help, advice, and support of a loving motherly woman. I'm sending love to everyone who knew Pat and benefited from her generous loving care.

Peggy Coats

July 13, 2022

Remembering your loving kindness always.

Karen & arthur Dressler

July 23, 2020

Our heartfelt sincere condolences to the Van Ettan family. Rest in peace, Pat. You will be missed immensely. Xoxoxo

tabetha Unser

July 20, 2020

Deepest Sympathies From Evelyn Culligan and Family

Peggy VanEtten Coats

July 17, 2020

Love and comfort to all the family. Such a great loss to everyone who has known Pats warm, loving, and generous spirit. Were so grateful for all she taught us about kindness and understanding. Rest in peace dear Pat.

Michelle Schoonmaker Albrecht

July 17, 2020

My heart felt sympathy for the entire Van Etten Family.

Michelle Schoonmaker Albrecht

July 17, 2020

My heart felt sympathy for the entire Van Etten Family.

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