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Raymond Aiello Obituary
March 19, 1989 - May 6, 2020
Rosceo, NY
Raymond Charles Aiello of Roscoe, NY, a lifelong resident of Sullivan County, passed away on May 6th, 2020, surrounded by family. He was 31 years old. Born on March 19th, 1989 in Harris, NY, he is the son of Calogero "Charlie" Aiello and Carolyn Matri Kavarnos.
Raymond was a graduate of Roscoe Central School and received his high school diploma in 2007. He grew up in Anawanda Lake where he discovered that fishing was his true passion and found peace whenever he was out on the water with his brother, Michael. He had a love of the land, especially gardening and landscaping, which he learned from his mother. Even as a child, Raymond showed an aptitude for building houses and repairing anything he could get his hands on. It is no surprise that he would become an excellent cook as his family owns Raimondo's Ristorante and Pizzeria, where he developed his skills, and worked every day with his father and Michael at his side.
He is survived by his parents; one sister, Alexandra Aiello; and five brothers: Michael Aiello, Daniel Aiello, Ethan Kavarnos, Mark Aiello, and Luke Kavarnos; his stepparents, James Kavarnos and Anna Maria Aiello; his nonna, Maria Aiello; his aunts, Marilyn Verderame and her husband, Lance and Antonina Di Vita and her husband, Fortunato; his uncle, Henry Matri and his wife, Marie, his uncles, Stephen and Richard Matri; his great aunt, Ruth Matrisciani; and his cousins: Matthew and Kimberly Verderame, Angelica and Marinella Di Vita, Dawn, Michael, Amy, Mark, Stephen Jr., Jessica, Paul, and Charlotte Matri, in addition to many loving extended cousins and adoring pets.
He is predeceased by his grandfather and grandmother, Mario and Ida Matri, his nonno, Raimondo Aiello, and his great-uncle, Arthur Matrisciani.
Due to the current health crisis visitation and funeral services will be private.
Arrangements have been entrusted to the Harris Funeral Home, Railroad Avenue, Roscoe, NY. 607-498-4929 www.Harris-FH.com
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muka 77
May 6, 2025
Thinking of you Carolyn and family today. May Ray rest in peace. Muka
Muka 77
May 3, 2024
Thinking of you Carolyn, and family at this time. God Bless Ray , and on this anniversary and always may you always have comfort and strength in his beautiful memories.
Muka 77
May 3, 2021
Remembering Ray
M
May 20, 2020
I'm so sad to learn this.. my deepest condolences
Kimberle Burke
May 15, 2020
Ms. Carolyn, my heart breaks for you with the loss of your beautiful boy. You so generously share your love and pain for Ray. That helps us other mothers who have also lost. Remember this Law of The Universe: Energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Love is energy. Prayers for you and your family.
Diane Powell
May 13, 2020
My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to Carolyn, Jimi, and the rest of Ray's family. May your memories of Ray comfort you in your time of grief.
Jasmine
May 12, 2020
Thinking about you and your family today and sending love and prayers to you all. May your beautiful son Raymond sleep in peace until you are all together again♥
Allyson
May 12, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Laura
May 12, 2020
Prayers that Ray is at peace with his loved ones that passed before him. Continued prayers , condolences & love to Carolyn & all his family & friends.
Catherine Snowman
May 11, 2020
My heart hurts for you and your family Carolyn. Your son Ray looks to be a fine young man, but it is sad that his time here with his family was cut short. Ray looks like he was a Master Fisherman and was in zen while fishing. It has been a pure pleasure getting to know your family thru you channel. Peace, love and strength to you and yours.
Carol Plante
May 11, 2020
My deepest condolences Carolyn to you and your beautiful family on the loss of Ray. May God bless you now and always. A subscriber and forever supporter to your channel. You all mean so much to me.
Laura
May 10, 2020
May God Bless you Carolyn , Jimi & your beautiful family . My deepest condolences for the loss of your son
May 10, 2020
Carolyn and family, my deepest condolences for your loss. Im so glad to have known Ray through the beautiful and funny stories you told on your channel. God bless you and fill your hearts with peace. ✝
Mari Campos
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May 10, 2020
My deepest condolences to Carolyn, Jimi, and your beautiful children. Prayers and Love to you all
Tamara Prangle
May 10, 2020
My heartfelt sympathies
Diane Patchen
May 10, 2020
God bless Carolyn and Jimi thru this hard time.. He will be missed..
My
May 10, 2020
Wishing and hoping that Carolyn and Rays entire family finds peace and comfort at this time of unbearable pain. Im so terribly sorry for your loss.
Susan Heart
May 10, 2020
Wishing and hoping that Carolyn and Rays entire family finds peace and comfort at this time of unbearable pain. Im so terribly sorry for your loss.
annette chapel
May 10, 2020
may ray r.i.p carolyn and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers..carolyn it seems like you and ray had an excellent relationship always hold onto that.stay strong im sure he would want you to be as strong as you can be
Muka 77
May 9, 2020
I'm sending my heartfelt condolences to Carolyn, and entire family. May Ray be at peace, and prayers for strength and comfort. Much love and hugs.
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