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Scott Coleman Obituary

White Lake, NY

Our Marine has gone to Heaven. Scott Thomas Coleman of White Lake died unexpectedly on Saturday, April 24, 2010 at the age of 25.

The son of Nelda Cortez Coleman and Thomas S. Coleman, he was born August 31, 1984 in San Angelo, TX.

A 2003 graduate of Monticello High School, Scott served our country with two tours of duty in the United States Marine Corps in Operation Iraqi Freedom. He was also an avid skier and former member of the Holiday Mountain Ski Club.

He is survived by his parents, Nelda and Tom Coleman of White Lake; a sister, Rita Coleman of Astoria; his paternal grandmother, Rita Coleman Radzieski of Scranton, PA; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends from all over. He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather, John F. Coleman and his maternal grandparents, Joe and Janie Cortez.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, April 27 from 6-9 p.m. at the VanInwegen-Kenny, Inc. Funeral Home, 401 Broadway in Monticello. His funeral mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, April 28 at 10 a.m. at St. Peter's Catholic Church, Broadway and Liberty Street in Monticello, with Fr. John Tran officiating. Burial with military honors will follow at the Evergreen Cemetery in Bethel.

Memorial contributions can be made to the Holiday Mtn. Ski Club, 99 Holiday Mtn. Road, Monticello, NY 12701.

Arrangements by VanInwegen-Kenny, Inc. Funeral Home of Monticello. For additional information, please visit www.kennyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Times Herald-Record on Apr. 26, 2010.

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Joanne Mansfield

May 17, 2010

I miss Scott as my student in barbering. Cutting layers bothers the strong marine's shoulder. We used to laugh about that. Seneca's father passed also yesterday. God promises peace that passeth understanding. May you and your family receive this healing peace. There were so many at the funeral; I didn,t get to speak to you. God bless you and keep you close.

Maria Oliveira

May 10, 2010

Dear Tom, Nelda and Rita,

I was deeply saddened when John told me of your great loss. I hope the love you all, and your family share will help confort each of you in the days ahead.

May God's blessings and peace fall upon your family.

With much sympathy,

Maria

Ashley

May 8, 2010

Rest in Peace Scott.

Art Lyons

May 3, 2010

Tom & Nelda,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Art

Mia Koerner

May 2, 2010

Dearest Nelda,
We just returned from our visit with our son in California to hear of the passing of yours. I will let Sara know of course and send you my whole hearted love to help fill the holes in your heart.

Tricia Gulotta

May 1, 2010

We are so sorry for you loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time.

Love the Gulotta Family

Maggie

April 30, 2010

Tom,Nelda & Rita - I am so very sorry and sad to read of Scotty's passing. My deepest sympathy

Elizabeth Coleman

April 30, 2010

Tommy, Nelda and Rita,

We are so sorry for your loss. We were so looking forward to seeing Scott at the wedding. We know he will be looking down on us now and always. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,

Elizabeth Coleman and Ryan McKenna

Della Garcia

April 29, 2010

My dearest Nelda, Tom and Rita; I only wish I could be there with you to give you comfort and support.My thoughts and prayers are with you in the days that follow. May the Lord give you strength thru this very diffuclt time.I Love You All Aunt Della

Jeffery and Tephanie Ziegler

April 28, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita, "It's only words, and words are all we have to take your ache away." We were deeply saddened to hear about the sudden death of Scotty. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Scott was a Brave man for the duites he took on. I only wish I could have known him better and had a chance to serve with him. We know you will miss Scott greatly. During this difficult time, we know you will draw upon your own strength and the strength of loved ones that hold you in their thoughts. You have our deepest sympathy. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We love you

Irene John Jr, Erica, Areanann Garcia

April 28, 2010

Tom Nelda And Rita,I,am so sorry for what has happen. Our deepest sympathy, God be with ya,ll and remember We Love you.

Percy & Terri Johnson

April 28, 2010

The Coleman Family:Our thoughts are with you at this time,Iam positive it will be diffilcult for a while keep talking,shedding tears,laughing,and remembering scotty.his strength is made perfect in our weakness pull from God you will have too.
Where there is doubt,(faith)
Where there is despair,(hope)
Where their is darkness,(light)
Our heart goes out to your family,we love you guys Terri & Percy

Percy Terri Johnson

April 28, 2010

Coleman Family: Our thoughts are with you at this time.I am positive it will be difficult for a while,keep talking shedding tears,laughing,and remembering Scott.
Where there is doubt,(faith)
Where there is despair,(hope)
Where there is darkness,(light)
his strength is made perfect in our weakest time,pull from God you have too.
Love You: Percy Terri

Josh & Jaed Altman

April 28, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita
Jead and i were so sad to hear of your loss. We had the most respect for Scott and he was a real stand up guy, keeping us safe while in harms way. We hope you can find peace. God bless you.

Gerry Stensland

April 28, 2010

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

April 28, 2010

My condolences go out to Scott's family. May he always watch over us with his beautiful brown eyes and keep us from danger. You will be missed by all who had the pleasure of meeting you. Rest in Peace.

Scott & Katherine Cowan

April 28, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita,
Our love and prayers are with you all. Have confidence in knowing that Scottie is in a better place. May God Bless you all and may he give you strengh. All of our love.

~Scott, Katherine, Ashten, Bridget, Stormi, Bo and Sterling Cowan

Harold & Debbie Schueler

April 28, 2010

Tom, Nelda & Rita,
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know our hearts and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and hold you close during this difficult time. All our love,

Allison Decker-Brundage

April 28, 2010

Dear Tom, Nelda, and Rita, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May god guide you thru this difficult time and guide you thru this aweful path. We will keep you in our prayers and our hearts. May god be with you.

Sincerely,

Allison Decker

alex salazar

April 28, 2010

deart tom, i am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your son. my deepest condolances go out to you and your family. you are all in my thoughts and prayers. may god guide you during this most difficult time.

Michelle & James Sheerer

April 28, 2010

Dearest Nelda, Tom and Rita,
Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rita Cobler

April 28, 2010

Dear Nelda, Tom and Rita. Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time; but just remember God is with you always. Look to him for help and comfort, it will help. I wish there was more we could do. We love you all, God bless you. Gary and Cricket(RITA).

Scott & Mara Bloxham

April 27, 2010

Tom, Nelda and Rita
Our hearts ache for you in this time of tragedy. No words can express the sadness that we feel on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
We love you guys.

April 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to you. Please know that you guys have family that is pray for you. You guys will never be out of our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you Scottie

Jerry & Jenn Peabody

April 27, 2010

Dear Tom, Nelda, And Rita,
We are shocked and saddened to hear about Scotty. All of you will be in our thoughts in these coming days, weeks, and months. I am very sorry we cannot make it down for the services. Take good care of each other.

Bridget Murray Markell

April 27, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.

David Schneyer

April 27, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this tragic time.

Mike and Kathi Lorino

April 27, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to the Nelda, Tom and family in their time of grief. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Jen VanKleeck

April 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy to your family

April 27, 2010

To Scott's family - My thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time. The world has lost a good man.

Rest in peace Scott. You were loved and you will be missed.

Vik Purewal

April 27, 2010

My love and deepest condolences to the Coleman family.

Evelin Hernandez-Schuster

April 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy to all of you. May you find comfort from family and friends to help you through this rough time.
Thoughts and wishes for your healing are going to you every day!

Nanci Lopez

April 27, 2010

Coleman Family,
My deepest condolences to your family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Scott at this time. May you find the stength to get through this nightmare. Scott was an amazing person.
God Bless.

Michael and Xiaotong

April 27, 2010

As much as we are saddened to hear this shocking news, we pray that in the days and weeks ahead you will find courage, wisdom and understanding.

Katherine Richardson

April 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to his family..

Denise Cedeira

April 27, 2010

Nelda, Tom, And Rita:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Jay and Sherri Blais

April 27, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Corinne Tetz

April 27, 2010

My heart goes out to you and your family. I was in complete shock when I found out. Angela's got him with open arms. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Margaret Katzenberger

April 27, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes out to you from my family to yours. I will always remember Scott with his big brown eyes and beautiful smile in my fourth grade class at KLR.

Steve & Lynn Collins

April 27, 2010

Tom, Nelda, Rita, peace be with you in this difficult time. This tragic loss is a shock to everyone. God bless Scotty.

Robyn Mendels

April 27, 2010

Nelda, Tom and Rita,
So sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Teresa & Roberto Gomez

April 26, 2010

Nelda and Tom, receive our condolences, from Roberto and Tere Gomez, right now from Lima Peru

Kahalia Butler-Robinson

April 26, 2010

Wow...Scottie...I just saw you..making fun of my crutches..lol..You never know when the last time..will be the last time..I appreciate your kindness and your big smile..Rest in peace..and May God..put his arms..around the Coleman Family....

Teresa Gomez

April 26, 2010

Nelda and Tom, receive our condolences, from Roberto and Tere Gomez, right now from Lima Peru

Jacki

April 26, 2010

Scott you will be deeply missed. You had a magnetic personality and it should not have been your time to go. My most sincere sympathies to the Coleman family.

April 26, 2010

Nelda, Tom and Rita,
Words can not express our sadness at Scott's passing. He truly was a HERO! We will continue to keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathleen & Alison Lashinsky

shawn connolly

April 26, 2010

Nelda, Tom ,Rita, my prayers are with you all , semper fi scott

April 26, 2010

Rita, Nelda,& Tom,

I am sure that there are no words that can make you feel any better at this time, just know that so many people are here for you, and that we all cherish your sons memories, and we hope those memories can help you get through this terrible tragic time. There is no worse tragedy than losing a child or sibling. Scott was such an awesome person, and his smile would light up the room. We will all miss him. You are all in our thoughts and Prayers. We are so truly deeply sorry for your loss. All our Love- Katie Hawks& Erin Gluck

Kathy Calvello

April 26, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terrible time. May God Bless you and keep you strong..

Kathy Calvello

April 26, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in your time of grief.

Andrea Garcia

April 26, 2010

My thoughts & prayers are with you Nelda, Tom & Rita. May God Bless you & your family.
Love Your Cousin

Diane Levine

April 26, 2010

Dear Nelda, Tom, and family,
I have no words to express the deep sorrow I feel for you. All my sympathy is with you at this terrible time.

April 26, 2010

Rest in peace The DiCostanzo Family

Martena and Delshonda Kimble

April 26, 2010

R.I.P Scott you will be missed you were a great friend to everyone. Now your with the angels.

April 26, 2010

dear Coleman Family,
My deepest regrets go out to your family. i've known Scott for 20 years. we grew up through school together. Most of us loved him like a brother, cause all of us were one big family. Only the good die young, Scott you were our hero fighting for our country. ONe love Brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Coreen Ferber

April 26, 2010

Nelda,Tom and Rita
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God be with you

TARA ROSSI

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelga, and Rita,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sara Zimmerman

April 26, 2010

My son and your son were and will always be friends and brothers. In my heart that makes Scott part of us. I send my condolences to your family, Scott's friends and everyone whom Scott's life touched. I want to thank you Scott for your service to our country!!!

Greg & Diane Massey

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda & Rita - You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless during this time. Our deepest & heartfelt sympathy, more than words can say.

Cindy Clark

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita- My deepest sympathy and lots of love and prayers go out to you and your family.

Scotty- Gone too soon. Keep the Lord company,and keep smiling down on us. I love you.

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda and Rita...it's with my deepest sympathy for you all at this time. I pray for God to give you strength to get you through this most tragic time. I am so sorry. Scott, has always meant a lot to me and been a great friend, he will be more than missed...I hope you find peace in a time of sorrow. Love always,
Ashli Tolli

Doug Kay

April 26, 2010

Tom,Nelda,
Memories of ones life can never be taken from our hearts.
You raised a wonderful son who would make any parent so proud.
Life in itself is much too short however the accomplishments Scott made in the only too few years he graced this world is a reflection on his wonderful and loving parents.
We send our love to you as a family and this love is the bond you will forever keep with Scott, a hero to us all.

Doug Kay

Shannon Keesler

April 26, 2010

Coleman Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this awful time. I will always remember Scott and his smile. May god give his family and many many friends strength.

Beth Weiss

April 26, 2010

Dear Nelda,
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing, I can't imagine a greater heartache. I am sending you love and strength from my family to yours.

Judy Russo

April 26, 2010

Scott you will be missed dearly. May the lord give your family strength to get through these sadden times. Love you Scott and I know you are looking down from heaven.

Lindsey Zimmerman

April 26, 2010

Scott, I can't believe you're truly gone. You will never be forgotten and my thoughts and prayers are with your family. I know you are with us all in spirit and I will miss you my friend!!!

christie miller

April 26, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

melissa strang

April 26, 2010

Tom,Nelda&Rita,
I am soo very sorry for the loss of Scott~What a fine soul he was.Let his memory live on forever&ever~He truely is OUR HERO~
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Richard Taylor

April 26, 2010

I was very shocked to hear about this. I haven't been back to Monticello or even remotely close to the area since High School graduation. Scott and I were in many classes together and I feel that we were somewhat close. He was truly an inspiration and this is so hard to comprehend and absorb. My heart goes out to the Coleman family and his closest friends. I lost my grandfather about a year ago, and it is still hard. I can only imagine what you must be going through. I wouldn't be able to live. Keep strong for Scott. That is what he would want you to do. He was a hero for us all. God Bless! Richard Taylor

Scott Ruppert

April 26, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ashleigh Lowndes

April 26, 2010

RIP Scott. Another one too young, too soon.

Pam, Amy, Matt Sussman

April 26, 2010

From our family to yours, sincerest sympathy to all of you. It is often difficult to choose the right words-especially when a tragedy such as this occurs.May you find comfort from family,friends, and special memories.

Great Times with Great Friends!

Chris Robinson

April 26, 2010

My heart pours out to you Tom, Nelda and Rita who have to be going through the worst possible nightmare ever. This has truly suprised and hurt everyone Scott knew tremendously! A personality like Scott's can never be forgotten only missed! I lost more than a friend in Scott on Saturday I lost my brother.
Christopher Robinson

Jan Meyer

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita,
I was shocked and saddened when I heard of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you will be able to find some comfort in your memories of happier times and peace in the knowledge that Scott is with the Lord.

April 26, 2010

Tom ,Nelda and Rita,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Terry,Ken,Nicole and Chelsye Wallack

Anthony Carlucci

April 26, 2010

Scotty....i will miss you buddy....it is such a shock that this happened...your family we'll be in my thoughts.

Cristina Bendi

April 26, 2010

You served our country to protect us from evil. You are a hero in every way and will be forever in our hearts. Scott I can not thank you enough for the accomplishments you have made in your life. Now you are at peace watching over us. I love you

Ryan Colman

April 26, 2010

Hey Scott God bless you. It was good working with you, and I'll miss the times we used to joke around.

Teresa Bendle

April 26, 2010

Tom,Nelda and Rita,
We will keep you in our prayers. We have known all of you for many years and consider you part of our family. Scott was a fine young man and it was a pleasure knowing him for as long as God intended it to be. May God keep you strong at this difficult time. Love Teresa and Curt Bendle

Cindy Babcock

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda, Rita, No words can express the sadness I feel for you and your family. May your hearts be filled with the wonderful memories of a wonderful son and brother. With deepest sympathy.

Corinne Tetz

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda, and Rita,
Please except my deepest sympathy. I don't know what to say. I know the pain you must be going through. Angela's been gone 9 years yesterday and it doesn't seem possible.
Love,
Corinne

Steven McCague

April 26, 2010

Tom, Nelda & Rita - Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sorrowful time. - The McCague Family

April Lapidus

April 26, 2010

Nelda, Tom and Rita,
We are so deeply saddened; we cry and hurt with you ... at a loss for words.
You are in our prayers for strength and comfort at this difficult time.

April, Rachel & Matt Lapidus
Kevin Rieber and Family

Francesca Theriot-Carney

April 26, 2010

R.I.P. Scott. It is a tragedy that you left this world so quickly. May this candle light your way. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

April 26, 2010

Nelda, Tom and Rita,
There are no words to express our deepest sympathy to all of you. Scott will always be remembered as a wonderful man and hero to all of us. Please know our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Peace and love Joan, Joe Cerrone, Family and Angel Sierra.

Brenda Robinson

April 26, 2010

I am broken. I just lost my son-in-law two weeks ago. And now a son. Lord pls take care of them. we are going to miss you . You are part of my family always will be. Son rest in peace.Love you Scott.
love mom
Brenda robinson
heart is broken.

Dorothy Keesler

April 26, 2010

When I first heard this news I was deeply saddened. I will always remember Scott from our little ski trips with the Bethel Youth Group. I can still see that bright smile and energetic boy as he tackled the hills. My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time.

Lucille Pagano

April 26, 2010

Tom, So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Lucille Pagano - Selective

April 26, 2010

Nelda, Tom, and Rita,
We are so very sorry to read and hear about your loss of Scott. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. If you need us for anything just give the word. We go back a long time and have always considered you as true friends.May God grant you extra blessings and strength during this time of sorrow.
Love,
Bob and Karen Hutchinson

Joan McCague

April 26, 2010

Nelda,Tom and Rita iam really sorry for your loss

PAT&BILL BUNCE

April 26, 2010

OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU BOTH AND TO RITA.

Michelle Albrecht

April 26, 2010

Nelda and Family, With deepest sympathy, my heart goes out to you all. I pray that one day you will find comfort in knowing that Scott is at peace with God. Your love and family will see you through.

Rev.Ross A. Licata

April 26, 2010

Dear Family, We have lost another Hero. Praying for you at this time of sorrow,but, be assured,Scott is in a better place.
Sempre Fi, Marine. Rev.Ross US Navy Nam '63-'64

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