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ALAGAPPA ALAGAPPAN Obituary

ALAGAPPAN--Alagappa, A former United Nations official and founder of the Hindu Temple movement in North America, died in New Hyde Park, New York on Friday, October 24. He was 89 years old. Born in Kanadukathan, Tamil Nadu, India, Alagappan held five academic and professional degrees from institutions across the world. He received his B.A. and M.A. from Presidency College in Chennai, India and his M.Sc. from the London School of Economics. He later earned his LL.B. and was called to the Bar at the Middle Temple in London. Finally, he earned his Ph.D. in International Relations from New York University. While studying in London, Alagappan also worked as a journalist for the British Broadcasting Corporation, during which time he interviewed the Pope. Upon returning to India, he declined a bank job to work as a journalist for the Hindu Newspaper. He then applied to work at the United Nations, whose mission to promote world peace and socioeconomic equality resonated deeply with him. As a career official with the United Nations, first in Bangkok and then in New York, Alagappan served as Chief of the Water Resources Section and later Deputy Director of the Natural Resources and Energy Division. He was also elected Chairman of the staff of ten thousand employees of the United Nations. In his thirty years of service to the United Nations, Alagappan valued the opportunity to travel, visiting more than 90 countries during his career. After leaving the United Nations, Alagappan pursued a life of social service inspired by his professional career and his personal devotion to Hinduism. He maintained the deep conviction that faith heals and inspires. As Founder of the Hindu Temple Society of North America, he sought to create sacred spaces for worshippers visiting and living in the United States. In 1977, he established the Maha Vallabha Ganapati Temple in Flushing, New York. This granite stone temple was the first authentic Hindu Temple in North America with classical Indian architecture. Alagappan proposed that a large ecumenical icon at the temple's entrance display symbols of various worldwide religions. He said, "Just as all streams lead to the same greater body of water, and all mountain trails to the same summit, so do all world religions lead to the same God." Alagappan's most recent projects include the establishment of Arupadai Veedu, a single temple complex that houses replicas of six pilgrimage sites in an urban neighborhood in Chennai, making it accessible to people of all socioeconomic backgrounds. He also established the Saraswati Temple devoted to the transmission of knowledge and education. Alagappan maintained that education was the greatest gift parents could give their children. He credited his mother with instilling in him this principle, which guided his life and the lives of his children. His wife Visalakshi Alagappan said, "When I think of my husband, I think of Mahatma Gandhi's quotation: 'My life is my message.' Alagappan is survived by his beloved wife of 59 years, four children, Kumar, Arun, Vairam and Meena, and seven granddaughters, Lakshmi, Jyothi, Visala, Serena, Kaya, Uma and Vimala. Witty, kind, cheerful, dynamic, and creative, Dr. Alagappa Alagappan will be dearly missed by his family and friends. All who knew him were inspired by his compassion, magnetic morality, pragmatic spirit, and unwavering determination. Dr. Alagappa Alagappan's final words remind us of how he lived his life and urged others to live theirs. They are a testament to his avid pursuit of education, his loyalty to the United Nations, his decades-long commitment to temple projects, his dedication to social service, and his profound, pure love for his family. These words will serve as his legacy and epitaph: "I'm trying my best."

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Published by Redlands Daily Facts on Oct. 28, 2014.

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Saskia Ledezma-Campos

November 26, 2014

Dear Arun & Family,

I am very sorry for your loss. I wish to thank your father (and mother) for giving you life. For you have impacted mine so profoundly. I can only imagine that you must have made your father very proud of you and that wherever he is now, he is smiling.
God Bless.

~Saskia

Bob Keenan

November 4, 2014

Dear Kumar, Arun, Vairam, Meena and, of course, Visa,

The first image of Alagappa that always appears in my mind's eye is his pensive expression, a man of deep thought, with much to ponder, plans and details to organize and put into action. Watching him from a distance, walking along the sidewalks of Parkway Village, alone, his arms crossed behind him, I thought what an odd manner of locomotion and could only hazard a guess at what he contemplated - no doubt, how to put his dreams into action, how to address the issues his U.N. job presented, how to assure his family's well being.

All true but far from the entirety of him. Al was a careful listener, too, a man of questions that led you to conclusions, whose smile would suddenly banish his serious expression once his point was grasped. Often when he shared words of advice with my parents, I saw that wonderful, broad smile brighten his face. Often, as well, I saw that same smile as he simply joked with us, laughed at my Dad's teasing him and/or Visa.

My parents truly loved him, and Visa, admired them, and appreciated the same respect and love they returned, always there, whether the time of life for the Keenan's was comfortable and joyous or overwhelmed with grief and loss. Al and Visa are and always will be held as true friends in our hearts.

Al was, indeed, such an admirable man and in ways measured beyond his level of education or high office and success and esteem. His respect for others matched if not out-shined his worldly accomplishments, which perhaps were a consequence of his humility.

Your Dad, your husband, dearest Visa, would never hesitate to ask my Dad, Frank, for advice, as well. Al's humility never, ever permitted pride the opportunity to blind him to the true worth of others. The size of someone's bank account, their station in life or even their level of education mattered little to him, though he did greatly encourage all whom he loved to educate themselves as best as possible. Rather, he looked in others for what he himself held so dear, the same kindness, the same open-hearted caring and level of integrity that guided his life, the same love of family and faithful, unfailing commitment to their well being.

The world is always a little bit less buoyant, less hopeful when women and men such as Al eventually move-on, as all of us must. I suppose, in the meantime, our job is to continue our parents' good works, to live the ideals they instilled in us and to thank God for the blessing of having them as our parents. I hope Al and my Mom and Dad are once again sharing their hopes, dreams and laughter, and that those hopes and dreams continue to bear fruit in this world.

And the laughter continues in our lives, as well.

Bobby :-)
RAKeenan.com

November 4, 2014

Dear Visalakshi Achi,
we are shocked and grieved by the sudden news of our beloved Dr Alagappan reaching the Lotus Feet of LORD MURUGA on the Skandasashti first day. He was much more than my own brother and we had been seeing each other frequently in India or communicating over the phone. We are missing him every moment . He will continue to guide us in our activities. May Lord Muruga give you and your family enough strength to bear this great loss.
Kamini and Dr. Sundaram, Besant Nagar Chennai

Palaniappa&Vallikannu Chidambaram

November 2, 2014

Dear Visalkshi your husband DR.Alagappa Alagappan was a great man, we are very sorry to hear. May his soul rest in peace. May God give the strength to face this loss.
We are DR.Anbu's sister and her husband

November 2, 2014

Led us by example. No better way to live -

A grateful Hindu Indian American

November 2, 2014

So sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Stan Shanies

Arjun Mallik

November 2, 2014

The late Dr. Alagappa Alagappan was a great pioneer in establishing the first Hindu Temple of lNorth America , New York, NY. He had the blessing of Dr. C.V. Narasimhan, Undersecretary General of the United Nations at New York.
I had the pleasure of his cooperation in organizing the first Pooja Committee of the Temple Society. Arjun Mallik, Then President of Bhaarathi Society of N.Y.(USA).

S.N. Sridhar

November 2, 2014

His vision and dedication made it possible for hundreds of thousands of Indian Americans to pursue their religious faith and also paved the way for numerous communities of Hindu Americans around the country to exercise their religious freedoms, making for a truly pluralistic America. A truly historic, epoch-making contribution by Sri Alagappan!

November 1, 2014

Mr. Alagappan was my first boss at the UN. He was a remarkable and lovely man. I know he will be greatly missed by family and friends. Maggie Howard, Tyringham, MA.

Beth Russell

November 1, 2014

Sincere condolences to the family.

Arjun and Saroja Mallik

October 31, 2014

Dear Visala and family: we just learnt of the sad demise of Shri. Alagappan. We fondly remember our times in Queens New York in the seventies. He inspired the Hindu community and the creation of the Flushing temple the first of its kind in the U.S.A. GOD BLESS his Soul and give you the strength to bear the loss. With our prayers Saroja and Mallikarjuneswara. (Balambal mami's daughter and son-in -law)

Prasad Rajhans

October 30, 2014

Dear Kumar,
I am very sorry to hear about your fathers demise.
May his soul rest in peace.
May God give you the courage and strength to face this loss.

Pari & Nithya

October 30, 2014

Dear Kumar,
Though I have met your father several times, I was not aware of his accomplishments- what a great man! May his soul rest in peace. Our condolences to you and your family.

EILEEN DAVIDOFF

October 29, 2014

Meena- i am so sorry for your loss- please give your mom and brothers and their families my sympathy. What an accomplished man- how proud you must be.

Ganesh Vaidyanathan

October 29, 2014

Aunty Visa, Kumar, Arun, Meena, Vairam and families

Heartfelt condolences from all of us on your loss. Uncle was a great man and an inspiration to all of us. His life's work speaks for itself. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Gachu and the Vaidyanathan family.

Esther Caulcrick

October 29, 2014

What an awesome accomplished life he lived. He touched may lives and exhausted all opportunities to assist the United Nations and to promote the Hindu Faith. May his family find peace in his repose.

Richard Lachmann

October 29, 2014

Kumar,
I am so sorry to learn of your father's passing. I remember the many times he and your mother welcomed me into their home. It is good to remember his important contributions to the UN, India, and to building the Hindu community in New York. My thoughts are with you, your siblings and your mother.
Richard

Noel

October 29, 2014

A great obituary for a great man. I always admired the accomplishments of Kumar and his siblings. Now I know where their inspiration came from.
With love and sympathy.

Rebecca Finn

October 28, 2014

I wish I had known Dr Alagappan. I feel like I got a glimpse of what an incredible person he was from the obituary and even more from Meena's stories. It is clear he will be remembered even beyond our lifetimes

I wish I could make your family feel better though this time of sorrow. My prayers and love are with your family

October 28, 2014

I wish I had know him. I feel a little like I got to know him from this wonderful obituary, but even more from Meena's stories about him.

I wish I could make you feel better and I send you my thoughts and love in this time of sorrow.

Rebecca Finn

Dilip Barman

October 28, 2014

Meena, please accept my family's condolences. I knew that your Dad was a great guy but didn't realize just how great! Clearly the world is a much better place because of him, and he will live on through you. May your family, especially your dear Mom, find strength to get through this difficult time.

Amie Hamlin

October 28, 2014

To Meena and your family. My sincerest condolences. I can see that you father was an amazing and loving man. I am so sorry for your loss.

October 28, 2014

Deep sympathy is extended to your family at this difficult time. Please know that thoughts are with you.

Valli Gupta

October 28, 2014

A lovely tribute to an amazing person.

Laura Heffron

October 28, 2014

In memory of a wonderful father who gave all of his children the gift of education. Please accept our sincere condolences.

The UNIS Community

C.S. Pitchumoni

October 28, 2014

A great man who cotributed to establishment of a Hindu Temple in New York .
He was the spirit behind establishment of many other temples in United States. A brilliant man, highly spiritual, always impressed people with words of wisdom.Meritorious service to the nation and world while at the UN cannot be forgotten. Our sincere condolences, we will miss him but his contributions will remain for ever. .
DR C S Pitchumoni and family

The Taylor Family

October 28, 2014

We would like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family. What a special individual he was. May his ideas and inspirations live on.

peter frorer

October 28, 2014

What a dear, sweet and wise man. What a privilege it is to have known him and be able to call him a friend.

Corinne Tobin

October 28, 2014

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. He sounds like an extrasdinary man!

Palaniappa Krishnan

October 27, 2014

To: Mrs. Salachi Alagappan, Dr Kumar, Arun, Vairam, and Meena
From: Palaniappa and Chitra P. Krishnan, Prashanth and Menaka

Please accept our sincere condolences on the demise of Dr. Alagappan annan. You all will be in our prayers. May Dr. Alagappan's soul rest in peace .

Chandrasekar Meyyappan & Family

October 26, 2014

Dear Dr.Alagappan:

We're sorry for your loss. Please convey our sympathy to your mom, Mrs. Alagappan.

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