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Ralph Salisbury Obituary

Ralph Salisbury

January 24, 1926 -
October 9, 2017

Ralph James Salisbury, poet, writer, editor, and professor emeritus at the University of Oregon, died peacefully on October 9, 2017. He was 91.

He was born January 24, 1926, in Fayette County, Iowa, where he grew up hunting and trapping for meat and pelts, and working on his family's farm, which had no electricity or running water. After surviving a lightning strike at age 15, he was left with "a sense of awe and an intense love of life."

Ralph graduated from Aurora (Iowa) High School at age 16, and the following year, enlisted in the Air Force, with dreams of rescuing his older brother, who had been captured by Germans in North Africa and was being held as a POW in Italy. He never engaged in active duty, for which he was grateful; he said that the only killing he did during his military service, was the rabid skunk he shot, while on guard duty one night, at an airbase near McCook, Nebraska.

Through World War II Air Force service, Ralph earned six years of university education, including an MFA from the University of Iowa Writer's Workshop, where he studied under the poet Robert Lowell. During the Korean War he became a conscientious objector, pacifist, and activist in the early civil rights movement.

Ralph published 11 collections of poetry, including Rainbows of Stone (2000) and Like the Sun in Storm (2012), both finalists for the Oregon Book Award, and Light from a Bullet Hole (2009), nominated for the Pulitzer Prize. He also published three short-story collections and a memoir, So Far, So Good (2013), which received the RiverTeeth Book Award for Literary Nonfiction.

His work reflects his Native American (Cherokee, Shawnee) heritage and family history, his pacifism, and what he described as a "devotion to harmony with nature." His poem "In the Children's Museum in Nashville" was published in the New Yorker in 1960, and has attracted attention as a precursor to the contemporary Native American literary movement.

Dedicated, as he said, to the Tribe of the World, Ralph wrote: "Though I have lived and worked among the intelligentsia of many nations, my writing comes from being a questing, mixed-race, working-class individual in a violent world. My work is offered to the spirit of human goodness, which unites all people in the eternal struggle against evil, a struggle to prevail against global extinction."

For six years the editor-in-chief of Northwest Review, he also edited A Nation Within, an anthology of contemporary Native American writing, and co-translated two books by Sámi (Lapp) poet Nils-Aslak Valkeappää: Trekways of the Wind and The Sun, My Father.







He was Professor Emeritus of Creative Writing and Literature at the University of Oregon, where he began teaching in 1960, and directed the MFA in Creative Writing program, which he helped to develop. Besides the University of Oregon, Ralph also taught at Drake University, Texas A & M University, the University of Frankfurt, and the University of Freiburg (Germany).

A disciplined and prolific writer, Ralph's literary legacy, passion for justice, truth and beauty, and his far-reaching influence as beloved teacher and friend, is carried on in the lives of his students, many of whom have, in turn, gone on to distinguished literary careers.

A winner of the Northwest Poetry Award, he was also a Rockefeller Foundation Resident at the Villa Serbelloni in Bellagio, Italy. A three-time Fulbright Professor in Germany and a Fulbright translation grant recipient in Norway, he also received an AMPARTS lectureship in India. In 2015, he was honored with the C.E.S Wood Retrospective Award, one of the Oregon Book Awards, celebrating a distinguished career in Oregon Letters.

Over the years, he presented his work in hundreds of poetry readings, on stage, on the radio, and on TV, throughout North America, Europe, the former Soviet Union, and India.

Ralph married Joyce Hurlbert in 1948, and they had two sons, Jeffrey and Brian. He and Joyce later divorced. In the spring of 1969, he married poet and writer Ingrid Wendt at Sahalie Falls, along the McKenzie River in the Cascade Mountains of Oregon. They had one daughter, Martina. Ralph and Ingrid recently celebrated 48 years of shared artistic careers, visions, dreams, and adventures.

He is survived by his wife Ingrid of Eugene; sons Jeff and Brian of Eugene; daughter Martina and son-in-law Franco of Brooklyn, NY; four grandchildren: Connor, Travis, Gemma and Gavino; and several generations of nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Olive McAllister and Charles Salisbury, his beloved Aunt Jennie, and five siblings, Robert, Ray, Ruth, Rex, and Leland.

Private burial services will be held at the Eugene Masonic Cemetery. A memorial celebration will be held at 3 p.m. Sunday, January 14, 2018, at Gerlinger Alumni Lounge on the University of Oregon Campus.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that gifts in memory of Ralph's lifelong devotion to peace, justice, human rights, and the preservation of indigenous cultures through literature, may be sent to Returning the Gift: A Native and Indigenous Literary Festival (https://rtglitfest.org), the American Civil Liberties Union (https://action.aclu.org/donate), or Mercy Corps (https://www.mercycorps.org/donate).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Eugene Register-Guard on Oct. 29, 2017.

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John Harn

July 12, 2023

RIP, Ralph. I was in your poetry workshop at the U of O for 3 years in the 80s. You had a kind and generous spirit and an awesome smile...

Carol Salisberry

November 1, 2017

I'm glad that Ralph lived to be 91. Condolences to all near and dear to him.

Suzanne Sigafoos

November 1, 2017

I feel richer, learning more about Ralph's life, reading this obituary. I feel richer, having met Ralph briefly, feeling the joy he felt, the joy he shared.

Suette King

October 31, 2017

I never met Ralph, but shared many emails as we traced our Salisbury ancestry. His stories and pictures made our story come alive. He will be missed.
My condolences to his family.

Cousin,
Suette Howard King

Craig Kuehl

October 30, 2017

What a beautiful life, beautifully chronicled. Ingrid and family, Jane and I are very sorry for your loss. Ralph impressed us as a true artist, ardent liver of life and real gentleman.

In reading the obituary, I just discovered that Ralph was born in the same county as my mother, who died this past October 13, and they graduated from the same tiny high school, albeit four years apart. But surely they and their families knew each other.

This makes the connection seem even more poignant.

May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. WS: Hamlet. Act V, Sc ii.

Steven Schreiner

October 29, 2017

In loving memory of Ralph, who was always so kind and supportive to all. I will never forget his generous nature, his encouragement and his knowledge and expertise in the world of poetry and writing. To Ingrid, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. The loving relationship you and Ralph shared was always so evident and inspiring.

Jean Rothfusz

October 29, 2017

This obituary is a testament to a long and well-lived life. It is so lovely to think of all the ways his impact continues to be felt in the lives of students, his writing, and his family. I will be happy to contribute to the ACLU in his name. Sending warm wishes to Ingrid.

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