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John Harn
July 12, 2023
RIP, Ralph. I was in your poetry workshop at the U of O for 3 years in the 80s. You had a kind and generous spirit and an awesome smile...
Carol Salisberry
November 1, 2017
I'm glad that Ralph lived to be 91. Condolences to all near and dear to him.
Suzanne Sigafoos
November 1, 2017
I feel richer, learning more about Ralph's life, reading this obituary. I feel richer, having met Ralph briefly, feeling the joy he felt, the joy he shared.
Suette King
October 31, 2017
I never met Ralph, but shared many emails as we traced our Salisbury ancestry. His stories and pictures made our story come alive. He will be missed.
My condolences to his family.
Cousin,
Suette Howard King
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Craig Kuehl
October 30, 2017
What a beautiful life, beautifully chronicled. Ingrid and family, Jane and I are very sorry for your loss. Ralph impressed us as a true artist, ardent liver of life and real gentleman.
In reading the obituary, I just discovered that Ralph was born in the same county as my mother, who died this past October 13, and they graduated from the same tiny high school, albeit four years apart. But surely they and their families knew each other.
This makes the connection seem even more poignant.
May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest. WS: Hamlet. Act V, Sc ii.
Steven Schreiner
October 29, 2017
In loving memory of Ralph, who was always so kind and supportive to all. I will never forget his generous nature, his encouragement and his knowledge and expertise in the world of poetry and writing. To Ingrid, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. The loving relationship you and Ralph shared was always so evident and inspiring.
Jean Rothfusz
October 29, 2017
This obituary is a testament to a long and well-lived life. It is so lovely to think of all the ways his impact continues to be felt in the lives of students, his writing, and his family. I will be happy to contribute to the ACLU in his name. Sending warm wishes to Ingrid.
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