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Louis Helion Blair

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Louis Helion Blair obituary, 1939-2020, Rockbridge Baths, VA

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Louis Helion

February 9, 1939

September 5, 2020

Louis Helion Blair, who tried not to squander a minute of life, lost his on Saturday, September 5, 2020, after 81 years of cultivating future leaders, preparing French meals and inviting serendipity into his life. He died of pneumonia, a result of doing something he loved, kayaking the Maury River near his home in Rockbridge Baths.

Blair was a retired visiting professor at Virginia Military Institute; former mayor of Falls Church, Va.; a collector and lover of people, animals, mushrooms and birds; a 36-year survivor of stage 4 throat cancer; and, above all, beloved by leaders across the United States because of his 17-year direction of the Harry S. Truman Scholarship Foundation.

Blair was born in Richmond on February 9, 1939. His mother, Jean Blair Helion, was from a prominent Richmond family. His father was Jean Helion, a leading French abstract painter of the 1930s. His father returned to France, and his mother died when he was five, leaving him essentially orphaned.

In a private reflection written in 2018, Blair wrote that he was shaped by two women: first, his Great-Aunt Jean, who became his formidable caretaker when he was five; the other his wife, Suzanne Sessoms Lemon Blair, who brought him "unquestioning love" and taught him to share the same with others after they married in 1982.

Suzanne, he said in a 2009 interview, was central to his life and "the wind beneath my wings." In the same interview he explained he relished helping people find a way to change their lives. "If you've helped one person outside your family, you've made a difference."

Lawton Cummings, a lawyer, Truman Scholar and wife of Truman Scholar Craig Cummings, recalled one such story, "In 2009, I was diagnosed with cancer, and Craig just shut down and wouldn't talk about it. Louis called him to ask how he was doing, and Craig said he had nothing to say."

Blair got in his car and drove three and a half hours to their Northern Virginia home, took Craig by the hand, and the two went for a walk. "'You're going to have to open up, Son,'" he told Craig, she recalled. "When they came back, he was totally changed."

Though Blair grew up in rather impoverished circumstances, a "proverbial rich uncle" sent him to the University of Virginia. After college and a master's degree in engineering from Massachusetts Institute of Technology, he moved to Washington, where his jobs included staff positions in the Senate and White House. In 1971 he was elected Falls Church mayor after knocking on every door in the city.

Serendipity, Blair liked to say, led to his favorite job: A friend he played squash with introduced him to the scholarship honoring President Truman. In 1989, he took over as its executive secretary.

The foundation provides grants yearly to students planning graduate study to prepare for public service. When Blair arrived, it mostly wrote checks that helped promising students.

Bill Mercer, a Truman Scholar from Montana who went on to leadership roles in the Justice Department and worked with the foundation for years, said Blair recruited veterans of the program to mentor students in a way that created a community—an enduring network—of people dedicated to public service. "It was a revolutionary change."

When Blair retired from the foundation in 2006, he moved to a white-fenced farm in Rockbridge Baths, where he rode horses and his mule, Molly, and created habitat to encourage nesting by the rare golden-winged warbler.

And again, it was serendipity that led to his appointment as visiting professor at VMI after he wrote a letter about scholarships to the dean of faculty. For more than a decade he taught in the International Studies department, using his expertise to encourage cadets to win Truman, Marshall, Gates-Cambridge and Rhodes scholarships.

He also developed from scratch and personally funded a minor in national security, VMI professor Col. Howard Sanborn said. "It has become one of the more prestigious academic endeavors on Post. It is an important legacy: the promotion of critical thinking skills and the motivation of academically inspired work. He was an incredible champion, leader and friend, and a great colleague."

"I called him Dad," said Craig Cummings, one of the first two Truman Scholars Blair recruited from the U.S. Military Academy at West Point. "If I were to take an inventory of what he gave me? To be a warm and loving father; patience; interest in other people's lives; and to be successful – successful as a kind human being – as a way to honor him and to make him proud," said the Austin, Tex., venture capitalist. "His patience and warmth have been a North Star for me."

Many of Cummings' favorite memories center around food and wine at Blair's table. Trained at a cooking school in Paris, Blair was an inventive chef who so admired French cuisine he spent vacations working in the kitchen of a friend's restaurant in Calais.

"I am a foodie," he once told an interviewer. "It's not that I'm obsessed with food, it's just that I don't think about anything else."

His friends and his family of Truman Scholars recite Blair menus from memory. "Key to the experience was his discipline in the kitchen," said Craig Cummings. "He was your personal trainer for cooking. It wasn't a ton of fun while it was happening, but you're going to love it when you get to the table to eat the food and drink the wine."

Long after his throat cancer ended his ability to swallow and forced him to use a stomach feeding tube, Blair cooked gourmet meals for his friends, recruiting them as sous chefs in his kitchen to learn techniques and his top-notch dishes.

When the pandemic put these dinners on pause, Blair invited friends to pick up dinners-to-go or chanterelle mushrooms he had found.

"Yesterday I had a grand forage in Bath County and came home with 21 pounds of chanterelles ... and left hundreds," he emailed on August 10. "Just too tired to lean down and harvest them.

"Would you like a batch?"

In the 2009 interview on YouTube, a viewer hears Blair's distinctive cancer-inflected voice share his reflections on life and work.

"Somebody asked me recently had I made any mistakes in life. And of course, everybody makes mistakes, but I don't have any major regrets about where I am or what I'm doing or who I'm married to or who my friends are."

And how would you like to be remembered? he was asked.

After a pause, he said, "With a smile."

Louis Helion Blair is survived by his wife, Suzanne, of Rockbridge Baths, Va.; his daughter, Kate Blair of Los Angeles; his son-in-law, John Holmes of Rockbridge Baths; and his cousins, Jean Matthews of Kentucky and Martha Blair of Oregon.

A celebration of his life will be planned in the future. No funeral service will be held. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the Community Foundation for Rockbridge, Bath and Alleghany, PO Box 20, Lexington, Va. 24450.
Published by Roanoke Times on Sep. 11, 2020.

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Kathy Feild Parker

October 11, 2020

I'm sorry to hear that Louie has passed on. I will always remember him from Rockbridge Baths. He and Aunt Jean would be there at times when we came to our tiny cabin on the Maury. Swimming in Pierre and Louise's pool, and attending the wedding of he and Suzanne. He was a wonderful person.And I will always remember him with a smile.

DIDIER TOQUE

October 5, 2020

Le 28 juillet 2011, j'ai eu la chance de le rencontrer. Je ma souviens de cette belle journée, où nous avions marché sur les traces de son père à Couterne. J'ai une pensée attristée pour sa famille.

Andy H

September 15, 2020

Mr. Blair is a legendary man in the truest sense of the word. I was blessed to have him as an academic advisor and instructor. And his mentorship truly went beyond the classroom. I can say confidently that without Mr. Blair’s nudge even against my most stubborn of ways, that I would not be where I am today. He demanded excellence while simultaneously pulling excellence out of everyone he came in contact with. It brings joy to my heart to know that although this country lost a hero, that heaven gained and an angel and he went out doing what he loved. Mr. Blair refused to accept the tough hand he was often dealt. One of my life goals is to leave everything I come in contact with better than I found it; Mr. Blair embodies that and will serve as my motivation continually moving forward.

I will end with two bible passages that reflect Louis Blair perfectly:

7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. - 2 Timothy

Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness! - Matthew 25:23

Mr. Blair - you have fought the good fight and you have kept the faith. Well done to you - an incredible man.

The VMI Community is thankful for your service.

Jonathan Bukowski

September 15, 2020

A friend, a mentor, a public servant. Those are the three words that immediately come to mind when I think of Louis H Blair, or “LHB” as students liked to call him and what he sometimes had sewn on his collared shirts he wore to Scott Shipp Hall. The careers and life trajectories of many, including myself, would be drastically different were it not for LHB’s caring hand and guiding heart. Take one look at his resume, and you think to yourself “what didn’t he do?” Get to know him, and you realize the real reasons why so many peoples loved him and kept him close in their lives. It wasn’t because he was the mayor of a city, worked in the White House, or transformed the Truman Scholarship. It was because he worked so diligently to ensure you, the ones he mentored, were future mayors. To ensure you may one day step foot in the Oval Office. To ensure you received a prestigious scholarship so you could get a graduate degree to one day publicly serve, as he did. And despite his age and his health, LHB continued to live his life to the fullest, cherishing every moment he had in nature and with loved ones.

Robert Stuart

September 12, 2020

We will miss you, Louis,—longtime family friend! Your generous, kind, loving spirit will be remembered. Thank you for treating us so well!

Ian Boden

September 11, 2020

From all the staff from the old Staunton Grocery, thank you Louis for being that friend and inspiration! We love you man! And yes we will always remember the smile!!!!

Lori Turner

September 11, 2020

It is such an honor to have known this wonderful man. Louis was kind, caring and always genuine. His smile brought a sense of peace and he listened attentively to every word spoken to him. I will miss hearing his stories and encouraging words, as he never failed to say something motivational every time we spoke. Louis inspired me in so many ways and made me a better person. Many prayers and love to Suzanne during this difficult time.

Tonya Moore

September 10, 2020

I had the honor to met Louis while working at Virginia Military Institute. I have never met a kinder, more caring person. He had a genuine interest in people and always had a smile on his face and a kind word to share. He was the quintessential gentlemen and always referred to his wife Suzanne as the love of his life. In the short time that I knew him, I developed great respect and admiration for his humanity and zest for life. He was one of a kind and will be sorely missed. He has left the world a better place through his remarkable life.

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