Tom Harper
February 1, 2025
Well another year has passed (14) since my neighbor and friend Ray left this world. I think of Ray, Willard, Grace, Brenda often. Please accept my condolences for the Atkins family . I miss all of you from the old neighborhood !
January 29, 2021
Kathy and family, It’s been 45 years since my Dad, your brother, passed away. Can’t believe it! Still think of Ray every year on our wedding anniversary as he did our reception ! Hoping my youngest, Lauren, will get married this year, if the Governo4 will allow. Love, Kim Kennedy
Tommy Harper
January 29, 2021
To Kathy and family, it’s been ten years since Ray passed . Since then my Mom,Catherine passed in 2015 and dad in 2018 ! Ray, Grace, Brenda, Willard were my mothers favorite in the neighborhood ! I often think of them when I was young ! Please know I will never forget the times we shared back then! Hope this message finds you well ! God bless You and your family !
Tommy Harper
February 14, 2011
Dear Kathy and Family,
We just heard about Ray and wish to extend our condolences to all of you.
The last time we spoke was at Grace Marie's service. Please know that old friends in Richmond will never forget you and will keep you in our prayers.
Tommy Harper, Catherine, Cecil
Larry/Alma Hart
February 11, 2011
Dear Kathy and Family,
We just heard about Ray and we are deeply saddened to hear our Friend of many years, who worked so hard for All Saints Church and our George Brenet Council. Alma and I have been talking about all the good times we all shared together Kathy. Our prayers and thoughts go with you and the family.
February 7, 2011
Ray was always one of my favorite people to work with because he was always smiling and so pleasant and charming. When my father was sick Ray would even come to the hospital to visit him and let Dad know he was thinking about him. Ray was a remarkable man who will be sorely missed. Our deepest sympathy. Joy and Lynn Gunnoe
Kim Kennedy
February 7, 2011
Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
So sorry to hear about Ray, but, I know there will be a party when he and my Dad, Sonny, will be together! Please let us know if you need anything,
Love, Kim, Bryan, Lindsey and Lauren
Roni Arven
February 6, 2011
Ray,
You were a person that loved life and most of all loved your family. You always had a smile on your face and you had the best personality of anyone that I have known. I will always remember working with you at Valleydale and the good times we had on trips and the get together's at the cabin. You were the life of the party and I'm sure that will never change. The good lord has received alot of great people in the last year. Keep the party going Ray!!
Peggy Dickerson
February 6, 2011
Kathy and family I am so sorry to hear about Ray he was such a great person I will never forget his wonderful smile and his great sense of humor May God be with you today and all the days ahead in this difficut time--you are in my prayers
February 6, 2011
Mrs Atkins,
We are so sorry to hear about your husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
With Christian Love,
Dan,Margaret,Kim,Daniel,Jamie,and Erin Gills
Julie Shires
February 6, 2011
Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. Ray was such a special person and he will be missed. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Lipes Shires
February 6, 2011
Kathy,
I was so sorry to hear of Ray's death. Please know that your friends in Richmond and from St. Patrick's are thinking of you and keeping you and your family in our prayers. God Bless.
Trisha Branch Bradley
Jay, Amy and Evin Finch
February 5, 2011
Kelly, Dipper and family,
We are keeping your family in our hearts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
Russ and Beth Stockton
February 5, 2011
Kelly, Dipper and family,
We are so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you and your family.
Russ and Beth Stockton
February 5, 2011
Kathy and family,
Ray will be really missed. He was a friend to all. He was compassionate, giving and caring. I will miss his voice and his hugs.
Sharon M. Glbert
Lafayette, In.
February 5, 2011
Kathy and family,
Ray will be really missed. He was a friend to all. He was compassionate, giving and caring. I will miss his voice most of all.
Sharon M. Glbert
Lafayette, In.
Robin Garrett
February 5, 2011
Kathy and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoy waiting on him at Kmart pharmacy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ashley Hanson
February 5, 2011
Kelly, Dipper and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I can still remember your dad when I would come over or we were heading out in the Chevette and him telling us to be careful and where we headed to now! He was always smiling and made me feel welcome. I know your heart is aching and the pain and grieving you will go through, but always keep the memories alive everyday.
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers and know that God has called him home and he is a new angel looking down upon you!
Ashley and family
Vicki Arven
February 5, 2011
Ray: You will forever be loved and missed. I never could have made it through this past year without you and Kathy. But you are at peace now, with your best buddy Ted.
Ellen Louise & Elsie Elliott and Gantt
February 5, 2011
Kathy,Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
We are so sorry to hear about our cousin Raymond. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
When our time on earth has come to an end we will dwell in God's presence sharing in eternity and enjoying all of His blessings. There will be no need for sun like the one that shines above for God's glory will light up heaven and our portion will be His.
Kaithe Crotty-Clark
February 5, 2011
The world has lost another bright spot...May the memories of an always smiling Ray shine on! My heartfelt condolences to the Atkins Family. I am blessed to have known him.
Andy Young
February 5, 2011
Kathy & Family,
Our deepest sympathy on our loss . He was always a ray of sunshine to anyone he met and then there friend. We have such great memories of our short visits together. Andy & Linda
February 5, 2011
Kathy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Jody Riffey
February 5, 2011
Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
So sorry to hear about Ray. Thought of you often. Love and prayers to all.
Vickie and Pat
February 5, 2011
Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Remember the good times.
Love, Joe and Sharon Gillock (Leland NC)
Letty Parks
February 5, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the Atkins family. Have known Ray for years since I was part of the Valleydale group. I will truly miss him. God Bless
Christy Miller
February 5, 2011
I am so sorry that Uncle Ray has passed. I am thankful that I was always his "pudding" - whether I was 7 or 37. I find it comforting that he passed 27 years to the day after Mom. I bet there was one heck of a party in heaven that night! I imagine it was like the old dances we used to come for at the Knights of Columbus in Manassas. Heaven was surely rocking on Thursday night! I love you guys. Love, Christy
February 4, 2011
Ms. Kathy, Kelly, Dan, Cody and Parker,
We pray that God will bring peace in your hearts and fill your minds with wonderful memories of Mr. Ray. He was a sweet man. Please let us know if there is anything that you need.
Love, Alice and Eric Gordon
The Tensen Family
February 4, 2011
So very sorry for your loss.
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