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Ray Atkins Obituary

Ray Atkins, 69, of Salem, Va., passed away Thursday, February 3, 2011. He was born on September 25, 1941, to the late Willard Jackson Atkins and Grace Gantt Atkins. He was a faithful and active member of Our Lady of Nazareth Catholic Church, and a previous member of The Knights of Columbus. He was also a very dedicated and faithful employee of Valleydale Foods where he will truly be missed by many co-workers, as well as clients he served. Besides his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Brenda Tomes. He was survived by his loving wife, Kathy Atkins; two sons, Mark Atkins and wife, Clori, and Kirk Raymond Atkins; one daughter, Kelly Stallard and husband, Dipper; four grandchildren, Taylor and Jake Atkins, and Cody and Parker Stallard; his faithful dog, Sammie; and a dear friend, Jamie Boston and wife, Lisa. Funeral Services will be conducted 11 a.m. on Monday, February 7, 2011, at Our Lady of Nazareth Catholic Church, with Father Joe Lehman officiating. Burial will follow in St. Andrews Catholic Cemetery, Roanoke. The family will receive friends on Sunday, February 6, 2011, from 2 to 4 p.m. at John M. Oakey & Son Funeral Home, Salem. Friends and family wishing to extend their condolences may do so at www.johnmoakey.com. 540-389-5441.
Published by Roanoke Times on Feb. 5, 2011.

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Tom Harper

February 1, 2025

Well another year has passed (14) since my neighbor and friend Ray left this world. I think of Ray, Willard, Grace, Brenda often. Please accept my condolences for the Atkins family . I miss all of you from the old neighborhood !

January 29, 2021

Kathy and family, It’s been 45 years since my Dad, your brother, passed away. Can’t believe it! Still think of Ray every year on our wedding anniversary as he did our reception ! Hoping my youngest, Lauren, will get married this year, if the Governo4 will allow. Love, Kim Kennedy

Tommy Harper

January 29, 2021

To Kathy and family, it’s been ten years since Ray passed . Since then my Mom,Catherine passed in 2015 and dad in 2018 ! Ray, Grace, Brenda, Willard were my mothers favorite in the neighborhood ! I often think of them when I was young ! Please know I will never forget the times we shared back then! Hope this message finds you well ! God bless You and your family !

Tommy Harper

February 14, 2011

Dear Kathy and Family,
We just heard about Ray and wish to extend our condolences to all of you.
The last time we spoke was at Grace Marie's service. Please know that old friends in Richmond will never forget you and will keep you in our prayers.
Tommy Harper, Catherine, Cecil

Larry/Alma Hart

February 11, 2011

Dear Kathy and Family,
We just heard about Ray and we are deeply saddened to hear our Friend of many years, who worked so hard for All Saints Church and our George Brenet Council. Alma and I have been talking about all the good times we all shared together Kathy. Our prayers and thoughts go with you and the family.

February 7, 2011

Ray was always one of my favorite people to work with because he was always smiling and so pleasant and charming. When my father was sick Ray would even come to the hospital to visit him and let Dad know he was thinking about him. Ray was a remarkable man who will be sorely missed. Our deepest sympathy. Joy and Lynn Gunnoe

Kim Kennedy

February 7, 2011

Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
So sorry to hear about Ray, but, I know there will be a party when he and my Dad, Sonny, will be together! Please let us know if you need anything,
Love, Kim, Bryan, Lindsey and Lauren

Roni Arven

February 6, 2011

Ray,

You were a person that loved life and most of all loved your family. You always had a smile on your face and you had the best personality of anyone that I have known. I will always remember working with you at Valleydale and the good times we had on trips and the get together's at the cabin. You were the life of the party and I'm sure that will never change. The good lord has received alot of great people in the last year. Keep the party going Ray!!

Peggy Dickerson

February 6, 2011

Kathy and family I am so sorry to hear about Ray he was such a great person I will never forget his wonderful smile and his great sense of humor May God be with you today and all the days ahead in this difficut time--you are in my prayers

February 6, 2011

Mrs Atkins,
We are so sorry to hear about your husband. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

With Christian Love,
Dan,Margaret,Kim,Daniel,Jamie,and Erin Gills

Julie Shires

February 6, 2011

Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
I was so sad to hear of your loss. Ray was such a special person and he will be missed. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Lipes Shires

February 6, 2011

Kathy,

I was so sorry to hear of Ray's death. Please know that your friends in Richmond and from St. Patrick's are thinking of you and keeping you and your family in our prayers. God Bless.

Trisha Branch Bradley

Jay, Amy and Evin Finch

February 5, 2011

Kelly, Dipper and family,
We are keeping your family in our hearts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.

Russ and Beth Stockton

February 5, 2011

Kelly, Dipper and family,
We are so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you and your family.
Russ and Beth Stockton

February 5, 2011

Kathy and family,
Ray will be really missed. He was a friend to all. He was compassionate, giving and caring. I will miss his voice and his hugs.
Sharon M. Glbert
Lafayette, In.

February 5, 2011

Kathy and family,
Ray will be really missed. He was a friend to all. He was compassionate, giving and caring. I will miss his voice most of all.
Sharon M. Glbert
Lafayette, In.

Robin Garrett

February 5, 2011

Kathy and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoy waiting on him at Kmart pharmacy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ashley Hanson

February 5, 2011

Kelly, Dipper and family,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I can still remember your dad when I would come over or we were heading out in the Chevette and him telling us to be careful and where we headed to now! He was always smiling and made me feel welcome. I know your heart is aching and the pain and grieving you will go through, but always keep the memories alive everyday.
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers and know that God has called him home and he is a new angel looking down upon you!
Ashley and family

Vicki Arven

February 5, 2011

Ray: You will forever be loved and missed. I never could have made it through this past year without you and Kathy. But you are at peace now, with your best buddy Ted.

Ellen Louise & Elsie Elliott and Gantt

February 5, 2011

Kathy,Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
We are so sorry to hear about our cousin Raymond. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
When our time on earth has come to an end we will dwell in God's presence sharing in eternity and enjoying all of His blessings. There will be no need for sun like the one that shines above for God's glory will light up heaven and our portion will be His.

Kaithe Crotty-Clark

February 5, 2011

The world has lost another bright spot...May the memories of an always smiling Ray shine on! My heartfelt condolences to the Atkins Family. I am blessed to have known him.

Andy Young

February 5, 2011

Kathy & Family,
Our deepest sympathy on our loss . He was always a ray of sunshine to anyone he met and then there friend. We have such great memories of our short visits together. Andy & Linda

February 5, 2011

Kathy and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Jody Riffey

February 5, 2011

Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
So sorry to hear about Ray. Thought of you often. Love and prayers to all.
Vickie and Pat

February 5, 2011

Kathy, Mark, Kirk and Kelly,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Remember the good times.
Love, Joe and Sharon Gillock (Leland NC)

Letty Parks

February 5, 2011

My deepest sympathies to the Atkins family. Have known Ray for years since I was part of the Valleydale group. I will truly miss him. God Bless

Christy Miller

February 5, 2011

I am so sorry that Uncle Ray has passed. I am thankful that I was always his "pudding" - whether I was 7 or 37. I find it comforting that he passed 27 years to the day after Mom. I bet there was one heck of a party in heaven that night! I imagine it was like the old dances we used to come for at the Knights of Columbus in Manassas. Heaven was surely rocking on Thursday night! I love you guys. Love, Christy

February 4, 2011

Ms. Kathy, Kelly, Dan, Cody and Parker,
We pray that God will bring peace in your hearts and fill your minds with wonderful memories of Mr. Ray. He was a sweet man. Please let us know if there is anything that you need.
Love, Alice and Eric Gordon

The Tensen Family

February 4, 2011

So very sorry for your loss.

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