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for Vincent Lumia
Judith
January 9, 2023
I still can´t believe you´re gone.
I will never forget you.
Judith Starchild
January 9, 2021
I will never forget Vincent. And I will never forget that he was taken from us unfairly ...and too soon.
Rest in peace, my beautiful friend.
Janet Francis
February 13, 2009
Valerie and John,
I'm so sorry this has happened. I remember VJ from 5th grade until graduation and what good times he and Steve had. I'm praying for you all and VJ. Know that this tragedy has hit a lot of people hard and that Vince had an impact on many people during his life.
Mike and Brandie King
February 12, 2009
Our deep and heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of VJ's family, especially Mr and Mrs Beasley. Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Michael Altizer
February 8, 2009
V.J. was one of the truly great people. He was kind to everyone and loved life. I have known him since elementary school, but only came in contact with him a few times since graduation, which I painfully regret. He left behind many great memories and I will never forget him. I believe that anyone who was his friend is a better person now.
Beth Anne Burton
January 21, 2009
Valerie & Ken,
my thoughts and prayers are with you both during such a heartbreaking time. Vincent was a very special person and he will be dearly missed.
Angie Simpkins
January 18, 2009
My heart is full of sorrow for the family and everyone that knew V.J. I met V.J. in high school, and our friendship continued throughout my college days. He was an awesome athlete, and I am glad that I was given the opportunity to know him. V.J. befriended so many people and touched a lot of lives. Although his life was cut short, I firmly believe that he lived his life to the fullest and did not let a single day pass him by. V.J. was a handsome young man and he had a heart to match his adorable exterior. I hope that the family can find solace in knowing that V.J. is missed by so many, and that he is watching over them now.
Bobbie Simpkins
January 18, 2009
To V.J.'s entire family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. V.J. went to school with my daughter, and I came to know him through sports. V.J. was a very kind, respectful, and handsome young man. He was an exceptional athlete also. I can't imagine what you're going through, so please accept this writing as my deepest sympathies.
phil smith
January 17, 2009
This is my third attempt at signing Vinces guest book. it doesnt appear. but ill try again. Vince I know from Stuart, The vince I know would enjoy candle or firelight music, with us all playing different instruments, wether it be sax, drums, whatever, he was happiest when we were happy, I will always remember him being that way. The Chris Cornell" of my scene. My friend, ill miss you dearly. Phillip Smith, yes, bro, i am a yankee, lol. Smiles for you. see you soon, P.
Phillip Smith Sr.
January 17, 2009
Valerie, {my older sisters name, whem we sadly lost Aug 6, 2005, ive spoke to Vince on several occasions, he helped me to understand that she was in a better place. I beleive now that Vince is with my big sister Valerie, and looking at us and smiling. thank you, for giving me a wonderfull friend, Phil Smith , Providence R.I. , 401 331 2937.
William & Ellen Poff
January 17, 2009
Mr. & Mrs. Beasley I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you can fine peace. in the days to come.
Phillip Smith
January 17, 2009
Phillip A. Smith Sr. I am Vinces friend through David, and have many times sat with Vince and we played guitar together and he had several ideas for my percussion ideas. Sadly we never got the chance to go forward with it. Vince was a person unlike any ive ever met, and though im alot older than he, we got along like brothers. Not much to say to each other, but we felt the same about alot of things. I will remember him in a good way, and never think badly of my friend Vince. Thanks for being my friend, bro, ill think of you often, Phillip.
Carrie (Bishop) Magill
January 17, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers and we will indeed remember VJ each time we visit the Blue Ridge. He set a beautiful example in loving the gift we as humans are given.
Jason Owens
January 17, 2009
I met VJ in the 3rd grade at Riner elementary. He was my best friend. We both had big imaginations. I remember playing a lot of Indiana Jones and cowboys together. We butted heads over having a crush on the same girl but remained friends. Events in my life meant I had to move away from the NRV but we managed to hang out each summer for several years after that. There is no doubt that VJ was a very unique soul, and a very good natured person. Sometimes pain that won't go away turns to anger. Anger is the most unfair emotion because it really does hurt us more than those who have wronged us. I believe the best way to honor anyone's life is to make the most of what we have left. We will remeber VJ, but we all have to move forward for ourself and for him. VJ was a part of some of the best times in my life and I will never forget him. VJ is free of his struggles, he has flown away.
Kathy Quesenberry
January 17, 2009
Vincent, has been in my life for the past fourteen years. He was such a loving soul. There is no wonder as to why I loved him so much.He truely touched me, there are so many memories that I will cherish. He will forever live within my heart and soul. He will greatly be missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with Valerie, John, and his many friends.
Lots of love
Kathy Quesenberry (Christiansburg, VA)
"Life is quicker than the wink of
an eye
Love is hello and goodbye
Until we meet again,
my dear friend."
Judith Starchild
January 17, 2009
My heart is broken. I am at a loss for words. The world is a diminished place for the loss of someone so absolutely special. May God give his family a clear path to Peace.
Into the Light , Vincent.
Dona Wheeler
January 17, 2009
I wish you heartfelt prayers for your loss, and though I have no knowledge of your family or your beautiful son, I would hope you might contact me; as I might be able to shine a light..
Holly (Link)Sparrer
January 16, 2009
Valerie and John,
I was so sorry to hear about VJ. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Glenn & Joey Mcghee
January 16, 2009
John and Valerie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Jeana King
January 16, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with VJ's family during this difficult time. VJ was a great person and always a joy to be around in school. May God give you all the strength you need to walk the path you are on.
Beth Nunley Lancaster
January 16, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of such a kind,outstanding person. I remember VJ from AHS. He was just an all around great person. This world has lost a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. God Bless.
michael toney
January 16, 2009
my thoughts and prayers are with you all. may he rest in peace.
Moe Mattox
January 16, 2009
John and Valerie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family during this difficult time.
"Moe" and Carol Mattox
Tommy & Shirley Altizer
January 16, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this sorrowful time. VJ was a kind caring young man. We loved him and would have been there and were there when he needed us.
Leisia Cooley
January 16, 2009
Such a beautiful life...such a tragic ending. May God Bless & Keep you during this season of grief.
Nickie Martin
January 16, 2009
To the Family and Friends Of V.J.~
My heart is broken. This world just lost one of it's kindest souls. During this time I plan to reflect on the wonderful memories I was able to create with V.J. I enjoyed his smile and heart. He was beautiful. As I read all the other entries I realize how many people he touched in this world and I smile. However, like Tracie told me, nobody will ever really know the impact he truly had on all of us. I feel honored to have known him & call him my friend.
It is my hope that each of us will be able to embrace our memories, and in doing so will receive some kind of comfort.
You will be missed my friend.
Respectfully,
Butch Robertson
January 16, 2009
My thougts and prayers are with you.
Natosha (Saunders) Croy
January 15, 2009
VJ was a beautiful person inside and out. He will be missed by all who knew him. My heart goes out to the family during this difficult time.
Frances Hodges
January 15, 2009
Valerie and John. God grant you comfort in this trying time. As you know I loved VJ when he and I both were at AHS. He was a talented, caring, charming young man with lots of life. The loss is going to be almost unbearable but please lean on God and let Him give you comfort. Love to you both
Heather Harrison
January 15, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God wrap his arms around you during this time of need. I knew VJ from school he will be greatly missed. I will always remember seeing him here and there and he would always have a smile on his face.
Joan Janney
January 15, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about Vincent. I knew him only briefly but was impressed with his Kindness and gentle nature.
He will be missed.
Nichole (Blankenship) Kobia
January 15, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I knew VJ from high school. I pray that God will comfort you and wrap His arms of love around you and your family during this time.
Melissa Smith-Breeden & Rebecca Hosey
January 15, 2009
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.We will definitely miss V.J.!
Christy (Price) Albert
January 15, 2009
You will be miss VJ. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends.
Marlo B Dean
January 15, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of great loss. I have lost contact with VJ since we graduated highschool, but I have not forgot who he was. I remember in grade school he was the only kid with an Indiana Jones hat. How cool is that. That is what I will remember about VJ that adventurous spirit about him. He was quite the athlete to. I remember the slam dunks in basketball. My heart gose out to the family and friends who where close to him at this time.
Ellen Kimberlin
January 15, 2009
I waited on Vince several times at the Christiansburg Allstate. He was always so friendly. I'll never forget his pretty sky blue eyes. May God comfort you both in a way only he can. You have my prayers.
Derek (Dee) Bobbitt
January 15, 2009
VJ, Valerie, and John,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of despair as well as healing. VJ stands as a remarkable example for people to live life to the fullest and never take anything for granted. I am so grateful to know you all and will continue to remember VJ throughout my life as a positive example, not only concerning mental health, but life as a whole.
My love to you all.
Jennifer Spain (Hurd)
January 15, 2009
I have known V.J. since the 3rd grade when he came to Riner Elementary school. V.J was always one of the nicest people I knew, it didn't matter if you were in his "click" or not he was nice to everyone. When running in to him here and there over the years he always had a big hug and a kind word for me, he will be truly missed by everyone who knew him. My thoughts, prayers and heart are with you now John and Valerie, I am truly sorry for your loss.
Deanna
January 15, 2009
John and Valerie, I just don't know what to say. I am so sorry it had to happen this way. I am being flooded by all the childhood memories growing up as neighbors and the friendships that were shared between our families. My heart goes out to you. He will always be V.J. to me and I will certainly miss him.
Amy Reedy Robson
January 15, 2009
My heart goes out to V.J.'s family. He will be missed dearly by all who knew him.
Misty Graham
January 15, 2009
May god be with you all in this time of sorrow.Our thoughts and prayers will be with you always.
Melody Martin
January 15, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you Valerie. So sorry you are having to go thru this. If you need anything, please call me. Love Melody
Phill Stevens
January 15, 2009
My condolences and prayers go out the the family. VJ had a kind soul and was the kind of friend that after times away, you could get back together and pick up right where you left off. We shared a love of art and music, and he will be missed.
Christy Price - Albert
January 15, 2009
You will be miss VJ. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Karyn Kelly-Michael
January 15, 2009
I met Vince several times while visiting with my brother in the Mountains. Vince was an interesting person to talk with. Please accept our condolences.
-- Karyn Kelly-Michael, Lester & Wanda Kelly
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