She was born Dec. 25, 1928, and raised in Fairmont. Her parents were Jasper Cornelius Griffin and Ruth Andrews Griffin. She was the youngest of the family with five sisters and three stepbrothers, who all spoiled her. Lola graduated from Fairmont High School and attended East Carolina University until she met the love of her life, her "Shug," Rufus Rockwell Nye Jr. and married him Jan. 1, 1950. They were married for 37 wonderful years, until his passing in July 1988.

Her life was devoted to her heavenly father, husband, family and friends. She loved being a homemaker and staying home raising her children. Later in her life she worked as a teacher's assistant in the Robeson County school system and a hospital volunteer. She was a devoted Christian and longtime active member of Orrum Baptist Church where she was on many committees, served as secretary and taught a Sunday School class.

Lola left behind a legacy. She is survived by a son and two daughters, Jasper Nye of Arrat, Virginia, Ruth Ann (Greg) Struble of Wilmington, and Beth (Mark) Johnson of Charlotte; eight much-loved grandchildren, Angie (Pat) Czeck, Mendy (Chris) Melton, Sammy (Meredith) Nye, Blair (Chris) Deen, Kelly (Michael) Ensley, Wells (Kelly) Struble, Zack Johnson and Alex Johnson; eight great-grandchildren, Braxtyn, Gwen and Coltyn Melton, Joseph and Charlotte Nye, Noah and Kate Ensley, and James Deen; and nieces and nephews who she treated like her own children.

In the last 10 years she moved to be closer to her girls and has lived in Charlotte, Raleigh and Wilmington. Lola had many passions in life: sitting in her Shug's lap; spending time with her family; being a momma and grandma; eating ice cream; working in her yard; canning vegetables, and making fudge pecan pie for her family; walking on the beach and searching for shells and sharks' teeth; and she was a master puzzle putterer togetherer.

Lola will be dearly missed and forever in our hearts.

Due to COVID-19 restrictions, there will be a family graveside service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Orrum Baptist Church in her memory.

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Published by The Robesonian from Jul. 17 to Jul. 18, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Lola Nye

19 Entries

Jeff Nye

July 20, 2020

My sincere condolences to the family of Mrs. Nye, she was a great lady and had a good sense of humor and a true southern charm. It was my great pleasure to have known and conversed with this lady.

Laura Myers

July 19, 2020

RuthAnn and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Just reading all about Mrs. Lolas beautiful life is a testament to the legacy she has left those she loved so much. We will be praying that the beautiful memories of the past will help you on those days when you feel her absence so much. Heaven will seem closer
Love, Laura Moffett Myers

Louise Grier

July 19, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief in the next days, weeks, months...
Ms Lola had so much spunk and energy, a distinct kackle when something was funny, a kind word about anyone she knew, and a cordially welcoming smile for every child (from infant to adult). It was an honor to know Ms Lola Nye. Her presence was missed in Robeson Co when she moved away, but I know she's having a heckofa happy time now, facing the King of Kings and Lord of Lords... and joining Mr Rufus hand in hand once again.
May God continue to bless and keep each family member and friend in His care.

Frankie & Frankie Britt

July 18, 2020

Prayers for the family. Lola was always so sweet.

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William Lawson

July 18, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kathy Rooks

July 18, 2020

Lola was the sweetest lady ever. I worked with her at Long Branch School and I'll always cherish the memories. I know she is happy to be with the love of her life "shug". Praying for your family and God Bless You.

Betty Peyer

July 18, 2020

Lola and I made a great team as volunteers at the hospital doing the coffee cart during our years with JCP in Lumberton! She was so kind and caring and full of fun . Our sympathy to all her family....she loved you all so much! So did I.

Barbara Collins Sealey

July 18, 2020

So sorry to read of Lolas passing. I always
Enjoyed seeing and talking with her. She had that great smile and uplifting way.
May all of your happy memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.

Deborrah Parker Sisty

July 17, 2020

Lola was a sweet friend who was always there for you.

Rene Britt

July 17, 2020

Ms Lola was a wonderful lady. My prayers are with you.

Robert & Vickie Britt

July 17, 2020

So, so sorry for the loss of your precious Mama. Prayers of peace for you all. Many sweet memories of visiting with Beth and Mrs. Lola. Love and peace to you all!!

Nonnie, Peggy, and Michael

July 17, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Marilyn Lee

July 17, 2020

What a special lady! Many happy memories with her family! Love and prayers to you all!

Nancy Johnson

July 17, 2020

She always had a smile for everyone she met. Talking with her was always a joy.

Margo Walters Foster

July 17, 2020

Thinking of you, during this time over the loss of your dear Mom. Lola was a good friend to our family when we all lived in Orrum.
Fondly,
Delores Walters Well

Jody & Judy Allen

July 17, 2020

We are so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. May God bless and comfort all of you in the days ahead. May you feel Gods daily presence. Lifting you and your family up in prayer!

Margo Walters Foster

July 17, 2020

Dearest Jasper, Ruth Ann, and Beth
Sorry to learn of Lola's passing. God gave her a wonderful husband and precious children, and I am honored to have lived and grown up with you guys in Orrum. My Mother (Hazel Warwick Walters Smith) and I, along with Louise Britt, kept up with Lola and even called her a couple of times after she moved to Charlotte. The last time I saw her was a Sunday years ago when Mother and I were visiting Orrum church, and coincidently Lola was visiting that day. She was a dear, and I remember our "good ole days" in Orrum. Your Mom always had a smile on her face, showing her dimples. She was a strong lady. May God provide comfort and wrap his arms around you. Take one day at a time.
Much love and peace to you and Family,
Margo

Sheriff Burnis Wilkins

July 17, 2020

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Ms. Lola Nye during this most difficult time. Please accept my most sincere condolences and may God ease the pain of your loss.

Sheriff Burnis Wilkins

July 17, 2020

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family of Ms. Lola Nye during this most difficult time. Please accept my most sincere condolences and may God ease the pain of your loss.

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