VIOLET LEIGH HARPER LANIER

1940 - 2025

VIOLET LEIGH HARPER LANIER ROCKY MOUNT - Violet Leigh Harper Lanier, age 85, passed away on Sunday, November 16, 2025, leaving behind a legacy as warm and unforgettable as the life she lived. Born in Red Oak, NC on June 22, 1940, she was the daughter of the late Clarence Lee Harper and Annie Laurie Etheridge Harper. She was also preceded in death by her sister, Martha Jane Harper Pitt and her cherished friend, Dewey "Buddy" Hull.

Violet is survived by her beloved daughters, Jan Jackson of Ocean Isle Beach and Leigh Anne Lanier of Holly Springs, as well as her niece, Leslie Ellen Pitt, all of whom adored her deeply and will carry her memory forward with love.

Violet was known for her beauty, her radiant smile, and generous spirit. Violet adored her two daughters Jan and Leigh Anne, who were the joy and purpose of her life. She was an extraordinary mother-nurturing, supportive, and fiercely devoted. Jan and Leigh Anne were equally proud of her-of the woman she was, the strength she carried, and the way she showed them what it meant to love deeply, live joyfully, and stand gracefully through every season of life. Their bond was one of infectious laughter, shared resilience, and a closeness that will never be replaced. Violet was generous in every way that mattered-quick to comfort and make those around her feel special with thoughtful tokens of love. She had a playful, mischievous sense of humor that made life lighter for those around her, and she was, without question, one of the most fun friends anyone could ever have. Her laughter, wit, and joyful spirit made ordinary moments feel unforgettable. Violet's generosity and bright spirit will live on in the hearts of all who loved her. She showed those around her how to embrace life with joy, kindness, and a little sparkle. Her absence leaves a space that cannot be filled, but her memory will forever guide and warm the lives she touched.

To know her was to love her-and to love her was the greatest gift.

A Funeral Service to celebrate Violet's life will be held on Friday, November 21, 2025, at 11:00 AM in the Red Oak Baptist Church, 5515 Red Oak Rd, Red Oak, NC 27868, with Rev. Roger Fields officiating. Burial will follow the service at Red Oak Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Violet's name to the Red Oak Baptist Church Making Room Campaign (Building Campaign), 4861 Church Street, Battleboro, NC 27809.

Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.