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Elsie Sand Obituary

ELSIE MARIE SAND, 85 STILLMAN VALLEY - Elsie Marie Sand , 85, of Stillman Valley died Tuesday, Feb. 22, 2011, in OSF Saint Anthony Medical Center, after a short illness. Born Aug. 24, 1925, in Rockford, the daughter of David and Marie (Carlson) Westergren. She was a 1943 graduate of East High School. Married Robert Sand on Aug. 9, 1947, in Rockford and lived in Stillman Valley since 1954. Elsie was active in 4-H, Cub Scouts, Stillman Valley Woman's Club, American Cancer Society, Stillman Valley Seniors Organization and was a Julia Hull Library Trustee. Member of the Ogle County Home Community Association for 40 years and a member of Stillman Valley Congregational Christian Church where she served on the Church Memorial Committee, Our Savior Cares Group and as a Deaconess. Elsie owned and operated Sand's Valley Variety from 1975 to 1987. This was one of the happiest times of her life as she was able to meet and serve so many local community members and friends. Survived by her loving family: husband of 64 years, Robert; children, Scott (Maureen) Sand, Craig (Anne) Sand and Karla (Greg) Shallenberger; grandchildren, Matthew (Becki) Sand, Erin (Drew) Eder, Michael Sand, Donene Sand, Tom Sand, Krista (Ryan) Burton and Kyle (Mackenzie) Shallenberger; and great-grandchildren, Jack Burton, Mia Burton, Ryan Sand and Kate Eder. Predeceased by her parents, and brother, Roland. Memorial service at 11 a.m. Saturday, Feb. 26, in Stillman Valley Congregational Church, with visitation beginning at 9:30 a.m.; Pastor Chris Brauns of the church will officiate. Private burial in Scandinavian Cemetery in Rockford. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Stillman Valley Congregational Church or the American Cancer Society. Farrell-Holland-Gale Funeral Home, Stillman Valley, assisted the family with arrangements, visit farrellhollandgale.com.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Feb. 24 to Feb. 25, 2011.

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Meg Bushnell

February 19, 2019

Oh, how I miss the coffee mornings at Elsie's. She didn't make a penny on the all the coffee she poured but was always gracious and greeted everryone warmly.
That was where we learned the news of the day, picked up greeting cards to send because of that news, found out who in SV needed help/assistance and talked about the weather, the high school sports scores and perhaps,? a little gossip too. Elsie was important to us in other ways too as she supported all the charities by ringing door bells to collect money, making dishes to pass, making costumes for May Pole, Halloween. Girl Scouts, rolling bandages for cancer care
and what ever else was needed. She was a delightful friend and should be remembered for her kindness. Meg Bushnell

George & Donna Glendenning

February 27, 2011

Bob and family.Our sincere sympathy to all of you. I have so
many good memories working with Elsie. Also the few times
I stopped for coffee and a nice visit. She was a special lady
and a dear friend. We will be remembering all of you in our
prayers.

Sue Diehl

February 27, 2011

Elsie was a lovely lady who treated everyone with kindness. As a young teacher in Stillman Valley, I vividly remember her sweet disposition and welcoming manner. I am sorry for your loss.

Gregory Wiltfang

February 25, 2011

Dear Bob, Craig, Karla and Scott, My thoughts have been in Stillman and with you this week. When I heard the news of Elsie's passing, I was sad, shed tears and was hit with a flood of fond memories. The "young boy's memories" that still live inside this grown man were of the good feelings I had standing outside your home on Grant, waiting for the familiar sound of Elsie opening the door, seeing her kind, warm smile and the greeting she gave me, as she welcomed me into your home and lives. Though it's been many years, since I last saw her, I still carry and treasure a lot of memories of Elsie and of you, her family. All of you were so good to me. You were an important part of my life then and the memories of those times, spent with "the Sands," now, long past, remain an important part of my life. Elsie and, you, Bob, Craig, Karla and Scott, will always have a special place in my heart. I hold you all, warmly in my thoughts. From "the kid down the block"...

Donna Walsh-Taffe

February 25, 2011

What a joy to have known this lovely lady for nearly 40 years. It was a pleasure to downnload these photos yesterday going back nearly 20 years to our great visits in Mesa, AZ. And how happy she and Bob looked at both Matthew and Erin's weddings. My prayers are with you all.

Loren & Elsie Richolson

February 25, 2011

Bob and family. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. We had so much fun together with Shrine functions and all the good times at Elsie's Variety Store. She will be greatly missed.

Diane Archer

February 25, 2011

Dear Sand family,
We were sad to hear of Elsie passing. She will truly be missed. I loved going to your home during high school days. She was a lovely hostess. Our prayers are with you in the coming days.

Desa Radowick

February 25, 2011

Matt:
Sam and I were so sorry to hear of the loss of your grandmother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

February 25, 2011

Craig and family my thoughts are with you.Your Mom was a very gentle soul.
Jeanette Thompson

Ron and Linda Kling

February 24, 2011

So sorry to hear the passing of Elsie.
Our prayers are with Bob, Craig, and all your family.

Connie Erdman

February 24, 2011

Robert and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Elsie was a wonderful lady and she will be truly missed.
Regards, Connie Richolson Erdman (Loren and Elsie's daughter)

Sand visit to Taffe family in AZ 1980s

DD Taffe

February 24, 2011

Elsie in front on church on Matthew's Big Day

DD Taffe

February 24, 2011

Bob and Elsie enter Erin and Drew's wedding

DD Taffe

February 24, 2011

Sand Family at Matthew and Becki's wedding

DD Taffe

February 24, 2011

Katie Surmo

February 24, 2011

I always will love and miss Aunt Elsie. I am glad we were able to get together around the holidays and share a lot of memories and have a wonderful time. My thoughts and prayers are with you Uncle Bob. Love you, Miss Katie.

February 24, 2011

Fred and I so regret the news of Elsie's death. What a lovely woman who meant a great deal to so many of us. All of you are in our prayers and will be in the days to come. Meg Bushnell

Joanne Johnson

February 24, 2011

My Stillman Valley after school mom so many nights through high school. You gave me many happy memories.

Marilyn & Dave Duhigg

February 24, 2011

Dear Bob and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Elsie was a wonderful lady, loved by all that knew her.

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