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for Barton Aspling
Richard & Sally Lane
January 12, 2010
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Bart's passing. Though we only saw each other at TC meets he had become one of our special friends and we always looked forward to seeing the family. This past year he even entrusted one of his TC's to us to drive on the rally so we wouldn't have to drive our rental car (a bright orange mustang :( )
May God wrap you in his comforting arms as only He can do. Bart will be truely missed.
Vicki Wise
January 4, 2010
Debbie: I was stunned and saddened to learn of Bart's passing. I worked with Bart for over 7 years and loved every minute of my employment with him. He was a true gentleman and always had a thank you for my hard work. He also was my recruiter when I joined the Air Force Reserve. We had many happy times together. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will truly miss him. Vicki & Bill Wise
Marilyn fuller
December 30, 2009
Bart was a fine gentleman. My thoughts are with all of you left. Debbie I have never forgotten your friendship you and Bart gave us. Love, Marilyn Fuller (Kobara)
December 28, 2009
Debbie and Family.
To know Bart was to 'love him' He will
be missed at each and every TC America
National. Your family the past 18 years has been such a part of the TCA
'family'. May God Bless you all.
Karleen Tarola
TC America, Inc.
Lisa Rascoe
December 27, 2009
Col Aspling -
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help out in any way.
Kathryn Cacic, Colonel(ret)
December 27, 2009
Dear Debbie and family,
I am shocked to learn of Bart's leaving us. I can remember the sunny days in Hawaii when you found each other. The joy you shared together has been a gift for all of us to watch, to see such love and admiration between two people. Debbie, I know Bart is with our Lord. The kindness and guidance he gave freely to many will never be forgotten. My prayers are with you and your family Debbie.
Julie Vanderschraaf
December 26, 2009
I am so sorry I could not be with you, but no one could ever take the place of Uncle Bart. He will so be missed.
Bob, Julie, Nathan, and Elizabeth Vanderschraaf
Mary Farrell
December 21, 2009
Dear Debbie and Family,
Dan and I are so very sad to hear of Bart's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Tim Martin
December 20, 2009
Bart was a true inspiration to everyone who ever worked for him, because you always knew you were working WITH him. He was one of the finest officers, commanders, and gentleman I ever had the honor of working with in more than 30 years of service.
Deb, I was so sorry to hear of your loss, and my heart goes out to you in this tough time, may God Bless you and keep you.
Robert Burns
December 19, 2009
Like Al Lamons, Karen Red, Stu McIntosh, and the many others of the 65th that I knew while there between 1973 and December 1981, I also greatly liked and appreciated Bart Aspling. He was a gentle spirited man, and always seemed upbeat.
Such people tend to be remembered because of their gentle humanity and kindness, as well has their unquestionable integrity.
My memories of my days with the 65th are filled with happy thoughts of the many wonderful people who seemed to be drawn to this organization because of a common interest in healing and helping others and one another. It was a GOOD place to be, as I grew into early manhood. I had many examples of excellent character to look upon as role models, both in the enlisted ranks and the officer ranks.
There are many people I sorely miss now, because I have lost contact with them. Among them were Karen Red, Al Lamons, Mary Clair Rohret, Sarah Gray, Gayle Gryphan, Sandy Miller, Captain Erikson and his wife Sandy Erikson, Jill Brown, Sgt.'s Sweet and Eckelburger, Ted Back, Craig Gorely (now somewhere in Iraq with the Army and a bird Colonel I am told).
Such wonderful people, all of them.
Some of you may not be aware that there is an annual party for 65th and 349th personnel, former and present each year. This year it is in March, I think, but if any of you were unaware of it and want to go, I believe I can find out when and where it is from either Doug Archdeacon or Sam Kittle. Just let me know or contact either of them yourself.
I wish you all well. Please feel free to contact me for any reason.
-Robert M. Burns
Denise Pronesti
December 19, 2009
Dear Debbie and family,
There aren't any words that can express my shock,sorrow at the passing of Bart. I know in my heart he is in a better place, but I feel a loss for you, your family and all of us...his military friends. He has left a lasting impression on all our lives. Come visit me when you need to get away. Please accept my condolensces.
Much love and Aloha
Paulette Haskins
December 18, 2009
So sorry to hear of Bart's passing. I remember him from the 65th AES & always admired his professionalism and helpful attitude. Many blessings to Debbie and children & may the Lord comfort you during this difficult time.
Taylor Dowtin
December 18, 2009
Col Bart Aspling was always someone who would take time to speak with you or share a thought to help you make sense of something that was going wrong for you at the time. I had the honor and priviledge to serve with Col Aspling in the 65/349 AES until he left to become commander of the 349 ASTS. He leaves behind a wonderful wife and family who love him and will miss him very much but more than that he leaves behind a legacy that will be hard to match by many that follow him.
December 18, 2009
Aspling Family, Charlene and I are so sorry to hear about Bart. He was a great man and Officer. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Randy & Charlene White (Lodi, CA)
December 18, 2009
My prayer to you John and your family, my deepest sympathy. TSgt Garcia (Sacramento CA)
John and Anita Valentino
December 18, 2009
The Aspling Family,
A leader, a gentleman and a friend, Bart was all this and more. We will miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sorrowful time.
December 17, 2009
December 17, 2009
Debbie and family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear about Bart. He was truly an outstanding officer and gentleman. I shall never forget the Thanksgiving we shared in Alaska prior to our deployment to Desert Shield/Storm.
Our prayers are that God will sustain you through these difficult times.
Al and Julia Lamons
Debra Macri Clemons
December 17, 2009
Deb,
I can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Losing such a wonderful man is very difficult and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
I lost my wonderful husand John of 12 yrs, 2 yrs ago and the pain is always present.
December 17, 2009
Deb
Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of Bart. He brought joy, fun, and friendship to all on our shared missions. He will be missed.
Jayma Valentine, Sacramento, CA
Wendie Skala
December 17, 2009
Dear Deb and family,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my prayers during this time of grief.
Wendie Skala
Barbara Cummins
December 17, 2009
Debbie and family,
What a huge loss to your family and to the world. Bart was truly an officer and a gentleman.
Barbara Cummins, Sacramento
Christine & David Palmer
December 17, 2009
Col Aspling and Family: We were saddened when we heard of the loss of Bart. When I first came into the 65/349 AES back in 1994, I remember his kind words to me whenever he saw me. Flying with him was always a pleasure and honor back then. He will be missed by all who knew, respected and loved him. Our prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Wanda Bauder
December 17, 2009
Deb,
My heart goes out to you & your family. Bart was a very kind & special man. I will miss him.
Wanda
December 17, 2009
God and soul are permanent. My prayers are with Col Aspling as his subtle body becomes a permanent soul and my thoughts are with the Aspling families at this time.
Lt Col Julie Harmon, USAF
San Antonio, TX
Paula Creamer
December 17, 2009
Deb,
Words cannot express how I feel about your loss. Bart was a charming and caring gentleman. My prayers are with your family.
Thompson Torres Family
December 17, 2009
What can anyone say but great things about this man of honor? Kind, gentle spirited, loving father, even keeled, and hard working man. Our family is grateful for his years of service but moreover his personal attention to making his acquaintances feel like long time friends.
To Deb and the Aspling family, we are rest assured Bart is now enjoying a new life in heaven with Christ. May the Lord give you comfort and a joyous heart to know that he is with Him.
Karen Redd
December 17, 2009
Dear Deb and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bart was probably the kindest man I've ever met...he always had a smile and a good word for everyone. I remember the good times from the 65th AES and what a fine officer he was. He will be missed by all of us.
December 17, 2009
Dear Debbie,
I am so very sorry to hear of Bart's passing. He was a true gentleman. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
Cynthia Gomez
Sutter Medical Group
December 17, 2009
Deb, I was so saddened by the news. Bart was a true gentleman and will surely be missed by all who crossed his path. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sue Milovich
December 17, 2009
Debbie and Family, Bart was such a kind and caring man. It was a pleasure to have known him and worked with him. You will be kept in my prayers. God Bless. Jenny Lance, CMSgt, Ret, USAF, Bradford, PA
Sandra Ackerman
December 17, 2009
Deb and family, my heart is heavy and I am thinking about you. It has been some time since we last saw one another but COL Esque keeps me posted on all of the 65th OLD TIMERS. I know I live far away but should there be anything I can do for you please let me know.
Sandi Ackerman
Barbara Halpin
December 17, 2009
Dear Debbie,
We are so sorry to hear of Bart's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family.
From your friends at Kaiser Permanente.
John Bartrum
December 17, 2009
Deb and Family,
Me and my families deepest empathy, prayers, and thoughts are with you.
Bart (Col Aspling) was a true leader, gentleman, friend and mentor. I will miss his charm and kind words of wisdom that touched me in many positive ways. He was a friend who by his action demonstrated that while being a reservist we should not forget to put our family before self. He will not be forgotten.
My God Bless and keep you and your family under his wing of comfort.
Brenda Kurth
December 17, 2009
Colonel Aspling -
I was so saddened to receive the news. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please take comfort that he is at peace.
Sharon Billings
December 16, 2009
Dear Steven, David and Laura:
In the middle 3rd of his life, your dad was the "spark plug" of what he called our "jet set." His ideas, his energy, his sense of fun, his ability to travel more places in one night than anyone else we knew, were his calling card. All agreed he was the truest of friends.
He was one of 4 generations of Aspling/Billings friendship and Christian service on your gramma's side, spanning Illinois to California.
How unspeakably much he will be missed! Love to you each and the rest of your family at this difficult time.
Tak Saito
December 16, 2009
Dear Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.
December 16, 2009
Bart Aspling was my commander of the 349th ASTS. He was a kind and gentle spirit. He smile warmed any room that was fortunate enough to be near it. His patriotism, integrity and honor I will always remember. God Bless his Family. My thoughts and prayers.
SMSGt RET Romel Billeci
December 16, 2009
Dear Deb and Children,
We're so sorry to hear about Bart's passing. He was such a good man.
With our deepest sympathy,
Judy Roberson and Family
Conrad Lara
December 16, 2009
Bart was my supervisor with the Dept of Education for 3 yrs. He was outstanding. I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone. He never showed anger. For me, his smile was all you needed to interpret if he was happy or not. He was one of a kind. My prayers are with Bart and his family.
Mary Jane Cahill
December 16, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Col Aspling's passing. He was always happy to share his time and energy when we worked together at the 65th AES/349 AES. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family
Suzy Gray
December 16, 2009
Debbie and Kristen, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Bart was such an inspiration to so many and is already missed. Please don't hesitate to call if there is anything we can do to help. Your friends, Suzy & Jeff Gray and Heather & Stacy Wilson
Joni (Tuck) Smalley
December 16, 2009
What a truly inspiring individual! It was an honor to work under his command at the 349th ASTS! He will be greatly missed.
Rick & Kathy Stahlman
December 16, 2009
Deb & family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy! Though our friendship with Bart had just begun, we saw him as a sweet, caring, fun, wonderful person. He will be missed by everyone who knew him. Our prayers are with all of you.
Mark Wilbur
December 16, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 16, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time. Lodi Memorial Home Health Department
Ron Rondeau
December 16, 2009
Bart was a friend, a brother, a mentor, and an inspiration. I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone, and I don't think he had an enemy in the world. He was the gentleman's gentleman, and gave more of himself than anyone I ever met. He will be in our hearts always.
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