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Dr. Daksha A. Shah

1940 - 2018

Dr.  Daksha A. Shah obituary, 1940-2018, Sacramento, CA

BORN

1940

DIED

2018

Daksha Shah Obituary

February 6, 2018 Dr. Daksha A. Shah peacefully entered into rest, surrounded by her family, on February 6, 2018 in Sacramento, California after a long, hard-fought and courageous battle with ALS ("Lou Gehrig's Disease"). She was preceded in death by her parents Vidyaben and Dahyabhai Mehta and her sister Niruben. She is survived by her husband Arvind J. Shah; her children Neha and Cyril (Stephenie); her four grandchildren whom she cherished and adored--Kai, Jaden, Juliet and Palmer; her sister Renukaben; and her brothers Arunbhai and Rajabhai. She served as a dedicated physician for 40 years and will be missed dearly by her medical community as well as the greater Indian community in Sacramento of which she was an integral and dynamic part. Early Years Daksha was born in Ahmedabad, India in 1940, the youngest of five children. She was born a very premature baby, but she was a fighter from day one. She would continue to beat the odds and break barriers her entire life: moving far from her home in India to obtain the best medical education available; being the first in her family to travel across the globe to live in America; practicing medicine in what was then a field with very few immigrant women physicians; and specializing her obstetrics and gynecology practice in infertility with a fierce determination to make miracles happen, just as her own survival at birth itself was a miracle. Daksha's father was one of the organizers of Mahatma Gandhi's Freedom Movement in the State of Gujarat in India's quest to achieve independence. After his death, Daksha's mother ensured that all five of her children received the highest level of education possible, in addition to helping numerous students from rural villages who came to the city to obtain their education. Her parents' example explains so much about why Daksha has always been such an engaged and civic-minded member of the community and why she found it so natural in her adult life to care for and teach others and to provide her services to those less fortunate. She truly followed the precepts of Bhagavad Gita, serving humanity with her head, heart and hands. Medical Education and Career Daksha received her medical degree in Jamnagar, Gujarat, India in 1963, and then obtained her post-graduate medical degree in obstetrics and gyne-cology from B.J. Medical College in Ahmedabad in 1966. After marrying Arvind and moving to the United States in 1969, she practiced medicine in New Jersey and Pennsylvania before moving to California in 1979 and beginning her practice with Kaiser Permanente Medical Group in Sacramento (Morse Avenue, then Roseville). She devoted her life to her patients at Kaiser for 25 years, retiring in 2004. In addition to her clinical and surgical practice, she was an active member of numerous medical boards, and she volunteered her time and knowledge by providing services to patients at the county clinic, mentoring medical residents and presenting to large groups on a variety of health-related topics. Spare Time Daksha had an intense passion for music. She studied Indian classical music and sang with a group of dedicated vocalists and musicians in Sacramento for almost 30 years, performing regularly throughout Northern California. In her spare time, Daksha also loved to cook and treated everyone who came to her home with her delicious Indian culinary delights. She was a loyal friend who always showed up to lend a helping hand, and she traveled regularly to celebrate every milestone with her nieces and nephews. Above all else, she loved spending time with her children and grandchildren who were her pride and joy. ALS In 2014, Daksha was enjoying retired life when she was diagnosed with ALS, a neuro-degenerative disease that leaves the brain, memory and cognitive abilities intact, while viciously attacking one's muscles. She eventually became completely paralyzed, and by 2016 she could no longer speak. Thankfully, her family was able to grant her wish to endure this disease in the comfort of her own home, and she was surrounded by her loving husband, family, friends and extraordinary caregivers throughout her illness. It was extremely difficult for Daksha's loved ones to see this dynamo, who devoted her life to helping others, suffer so much. But Daksha continued to beat the odds of her prognosis and demonstrated her fighting spirit with profound grace, serenity and strength through her very last breath. Daksha will be remembered for her limitless generosity, boundless energy, larger-than-life personality, fierce loyalty to her family and friends, dedication to her community and patients, commitment to education, and a lifetime of service. Daksha's family will hold a memorial service and celebration of life in April to honor Daksha and her legacy. In Daksha's memory, her family has established the Dr. Daksha Shah Memorial Fund with the ALS Association, Greater Sacramento Chapter, to support local patient care and fund ALS research in the hope of finding a cure. Tax-deductible donations can be made online (http://bit.ly/2CpaiRk), by check to ALS Association Greater Sacramento, 2717 Cottage Way, Suite 17, Sacramento, CA 95825 (Memo: Dr. Daksha Shah Memorial Fund), or by credit card at (916) 979-9265 and referencing the fund.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Feb. 18, 2018.

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Girdhari Lalwani (Electrical Engineer)

July 5, 2023

Dear Arvind Shah,
I came across this message, and I am sorry to see the loss of your loving wife, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this grieving time
Gary Lalwani

January 16, 2019

My husband and I tried for 10 years to have a baby. We had just about given up when Dr Shah came into our lives. She and her wonderful knowledge, helped us have our miracle baby boy.
When I had breast cancer surgery seven years later, she came by my room to check on me even though she had been up all night!
Thank you Dr Shah for giving us our wonderful miracle who is now a teacher and proud daddy himself!
Love and rest in peace Debbie Usrey

Savitri Ermini

April 14, 2018

Although I had only met Daksha a couple of times before her onset of ALS I was relieved that she responded so well to Monica and received such supportive and loving care throughout her very difficult ordeal. I enjoyed getting to know her better through this loving and beautifully written tribute. I hope you, your children, and your grandchildren receive the loving support you need to help you during this time of mourning. Namaste.

Bree Hann

March 5, 2018

What a loving tribute and absolutely amazing person. We are sending so much love to her family.

Barbara DiRegolo

February 23, 2018

It was an honor and a privilege to work with Daksha at Kaiser Morse Avenue in Labor and Delivery. I lovingly called her Doc Shah for years before I realized her first name was Daksha! She brightened every room she entered and we all loved her dearly. I will always remember your loving heart. You reminded us all that the best medical practice in the world is empty if not delivered with kindness and compassion. Rest in peace, dear friend.

Gregory A Herrera

February 19, 2018

Happy-Sad with this, I was in Hawaii at the time I heard.

I saw her several
months ago and it was sad to see that ALS was not kind for her.

I first met her in Pittsburgh PA when she was working at Allegheny General Hospital (agony general it was joking called) and I was at Magee Woman's Hospital (Univ of Pittsburgh) in the late 1970's. No disrespect, but when I first met her I thought people were calling Doc Shah and I thought that was inappropriate and disrespectful.
Trying to stick up for her I asked her why do you let people talk to you that way? and she said "what way? Thats my name! and she explained things to me.
When I started at Kaiser Morse Ave, there she was. Smiling.
Always enthusiastic and excited about things: especially people, patients, friends, colleagues and the practice of OB-GYN. She delivered lots of babies.

"Greg Im so glad to see you.
That was a phrase that always brought a smile to my face (even when I knew on occasion that some work or a "special task" might be involved).
She always meant it.
She loved her patients and her patients loved her , as did her friends. And she had many friends.
I can't walk into the Mandarin Restaurant, or get my hair cut, or the grocery store, or see other OB-GYN's, physicians and many people who were mutual patients and acquaintances without an inquire as to how's Daksha doing?"
Daksha arranged and hosted a baby shower for My wife Sarah and me. She told me with a private word: Greg you better take care of Sarah or you will have to answer to me. Then she smiled and hugged me and said I know you will.
That was Daksha, always personal.
Sarah and I once ran into her randomly at Macy's with our youngest son Stephen one day (Stephen was about 11) and Daksha insisted on buying him a winter coat. That also was Daksha: always generous, always involved, she always cared.

I have wet eyes now. Even though it was painful to see her with ALS, failing, and in the end I hardly saw her at allI still felt the world had an energy of kindness with her in it. For me I can still feel this kindness in our world even with her passing because I knew her when she was in it, and I was lucky enough to be liked by her, and even more lucky to have had the time to get to know her.

Rest in peace Daksha.

Greg Herrera.

Cathy Kitts

February 18, 2018

I am sadden to read of Dr Shah passing. I was a patient from 1983 until she retired and am blessed with 2 children because of caring and diligence to help me get pregnant. I loved all the words of wisdom she would pass my way. I am honored to have known her.

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