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COOLEY, Darnell L.
Darnell L. Cooley was the only child born to the union of Gloria Phillips-Cooley and Ellis Cooley on July 25, 1964, in Stockton, California. He graduated from Franklin Unified High School in Stockton in 1982. He also graduated from University of California, Davis with a Bachelor of Science degree in Political Science - Public Service in 1987. He was united in holy matrimony with Patricia Renee' Morgan on August 30, 1986. In 1988, Darnell began a successful and illustrious employment career with the California State Legislature. During his tenure with the Legislature, he worked as a consultant with various elected officials including Speaker Willie L. Brown, Jr., Speaker Herbert J. Wesson, Jr. and Assembly members Mervyn Dymally, Barbara Lee and Roderick D. Wright. He also served as the chief staff person to the Legislative Black Caucus Darnell and was serving his second term as the 1st Vice President for the California State NAACP, and was a Silver Lifetime Member. Darnell was preceded in death by his father, Ellis Cooley, and leaves to cherish his memory his wife, Patricia, son Darnell, daughter Kaylah, all of Elk Grove, CA; his mother Gloria Phillips-Adams and step-father Andrew L. Adams, Sr., of Fresno, CA; a sister Maria Antoinette "Toni" Mc Alister, brother in-law Greg Mc Alister, step-sisters Beverly, Rhonda and Letha Adams, step-brother Andrew L. Adams II, niece Shinae Mc Alister, and nephew Terence Mc Alister. And, a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and other relatives and friends. Public Viewing will be held on Friday, October 13 from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. at the Greater St. Stephen Baptist Church, 6524 44th Street, Sacramento, California. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, October 14 at 11 am at the Greater St. Stephen Baptist Church, 6524 44th Street, Sacramento, California. All choir members from area churches are invited to meet at 10 am to participate in the Mass Choir during the service. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that gifts to be donated to the Darnell L. Cooley Memorial Fund, Account #313-70909-7, Washington Mutual, 801 K Street, Sacramento, CA 95814.
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Memories and Condolences
for Darnell Cooley
Robin Moore
October 7, 2007
Darnell, you are truly missed and it's still hard to believe that you are gone. I know your work down here was done and the Lord needed another angel in glory. May God continue to bless your children.
I miss you and if you don't know "You better ask somebody."
SGS Always
William "Will" Sanders
November 18, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Annie R. Kirk
October 29, 2006
My deepest sympathay at your loss. God knew best. You are in my prayers, may God's Angeles protect you.
Barbara Cook
October 17, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Darnell's family. He will definitely be missed.
The Cook Family
Jim Robison
October 15, 2006
This past weekend has been very, very difficult for Darnell's family and friends. They attended the wake Friday night and the funeral Saturday morning and afternoon. His wife and children will most certainly miss him as will his mother. They all need our love and prayers and presence when needed. Let's not forget the loved ones left behind...
The Chiles family
October 14, 2006
Thank you Darnell for your very special gift of friendship. Your passing leaves a void which can never be filled. Gone, but Not forgotten.
Dorissa "Dee" Rodgers
October 13, 2006
Dear Pat, "Li'l D" and Kaylah,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Always remember that God has not, nor will He ever, leave or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). We love you...
Dorissa, Khanlin and Kylea Rodgers (McCalister), and Mrs. Joe F. McCalister
Mychelle Thomas
October 13, 2006
Darnell,
I am truly going to miss you, your jokes & your loud comments during church services (YOU BETTER SANG YALL) ( SAY IT, SAY IT). I will miss seeing your smiling face and our little inside joke that always continued whenever we would see each other about OJ & NICHOL and you not sharing the PEPSI. :-) I was sad to hear about you leaving us but happy about your home going and I KNOW that you are now making a joyful noise in heaven singing the lead in heavens choir.
I am glad to have met you my bother in Chirst and your family. If there is anything that you need PAT, Darnell Jr & Kaylah please let me know, I am here for you guys that's what family is for.
Deepest sympathy,
Ida M Johnson
October 13, 2006
Darnell, was more than just a friend, he was a co-worker in the civil rights movement. We shared the work and the fun and I will truly miss him.
To his family know that the love of God surrounds and enfolds you as you pass through this time.
Evelyn Corbin
October 13, 2006
Darnell has gone on to be with the Father. Your job here on earth is finished and the Father says Well Done My Son. You leave behind a beautiful wife and children, we will always be available to them and we will love them as you did. Good bye Darnell. We will look for your smiling face when we come to the end of our journey. We miss you and we love you. Your journey is now over so rest in peace.
Friend in San Diego
October 13, 2006
Memories: Politics & Causes worth fighting for,Pepsi,Phillipie's Pizza Grotto, Chocalate cake, His children, family and friends,Fred, Gospel music, All the jokes & humor that came naturally.... And Walmart.
Yvette Porter Moore
October 13, 2006
Darnell,
Your life spoke volumes. Your humor, laughter, and friendship you brought to us will remain in the memory of all of us. You still tried to have the last word into eternity. Your legacy shines bright. God took one of the most unique and beautiful flowers for his garden. I know God has a sense of humor, because you really will keep Him and all the Angels in stitches.
Rest Our Soldier, Rest...... Love you always. Your friend.
Betty Williams-Curtis
October 13, 2006
I was shocked to have heard of young Darnell's passing. He always appeared to have been a well-mannered young man growing up in Stockton. I am sure that his passing is an immeasurable loss to his loved ones. I was a colleague of his father, Ellis. My deepest sympathy is with Darnell's family and friends.
charlotte cooley
October 12, 2006
To know Darnell was to love him. He will be greatly missed. He's been such a great inspiration to our family. We will always love and cherish his memories. Pat, may god bless and keep you and the children in his loving arms. We love you.
Your aunt and uncle,
Charlotte and Reuben Cooley Jr.
Steven Gulley
October 12, 2006
You'll forever be remembered, my brother!
The Calvetti and Quintero Family
October 12, 2006
Patricia, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Darnell Jr. and Kaylah, your father will continue live in you as you continue his legacy.
Albert Brown III
October 12, 2006
To the Darnell Cooley family,
My prayers are with you. God only the very best flowers for his garden.
Etta Brown
October 12, 2006
To the Darnell Cooley family, God has choosen a lovely flower from his garden.He will be missed but his love shall live on forever.
Nafeesah Mustafa-Rasheed
October 12, 2006
Darnell you were one of a kind. I will always cherish the years at UC Davis. You will be missed! My heartfelt thoughts are with your family.
Brooklyn Nelson
October 12, 2006
To: Patricia, Darnell and Kaylah
All of you know how much I appreciated and enjoyed Darnell he was a good friend, Christian brother to me. We will all miss him greatly. We never know why God does what he does, but he is all wise. Keep on trusting God even more in this hard time. Lean on him and never give up on God because he sure won't give up on you.
Love all y'all
Rev. Nelson
Tarnecia Mack
October 12, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to our special family friends. To Pat, Darnell, and Kaylah, you will always be welcome in our home. We will miss Darnell, our brother in Christ, resides now in Heaven. Our prayers are with you and your family during this emotional time. We love you,
Tarnecia, Clark and Sons
Geraldine Davis
October 12, 2006
Did I ever say thank you for finding
my Pastor? If not it is never too late.I'll always miss you and remember you.
love always Gerry Davis
ASHLEE CUMMINGS
October 12, 2006
IT'S JUST SO HARD TO SEE THAT YOUR GONE, ARE FAMILY WAS REALLY CLOSE AND WE WAS LIKE FAMILY AND DONT GET ME WRONG WE STILL ARE AND YOU WAS LIKE AN UNLCE TO ME AND THE KIDS WAS MY COUSIN'S WHEN I HEARD ABOUT THIS I JUST STARTED TO CRY WELL I LOVE YOU AND YOU WILL BE MISSED
LOVE ASHLEE CUMMINGS
Willie Douglas
October 12, 2006
Honorable Darnell Cooley:
There are no words that can express the loss of your presence at this level of existence.
You have touched and blessed in many ways, even during your period of grwth of which African americans in the Stockton, CA area can be proud of.
As I continue to ponder why must your deeds of love and service must be shorten on earth, I heed not to question the MAKER, of whom I know has a greater need for your works through the level of eternity.
That's the the gratifying pleeasure I have, in knowing one day I too will be blessed with the honor of eternity, and I surely will be be seeking you out.
Until then while I no more can see you through the lenses of my eye, or touch with the feelings of presence, the beat of who you were and how much you meant will remain in my heart.
Thank you for your works of GOD during the time he had for you to carry it on.
Brother Darnell as I continue in prayer, tell the others we know, that we will keep the unity of love, bond and peace forewever until the time we are all joined togethr in the Spirit of The GOD Family with radiant love and works of justice throughout eternity.
Brother Darnell, I love you, GOD blessings of love will remain with your loved ones (family), and the othrs who shared the righeous walk with dignity with you.
AMEN
Minister/Rev. Willie A. Douglas
Michele Dyke
October 12, 2006
Friends forever!
Elizabeth Stewart
October 12, 2006
Darnell, you will be so missed! Your smile will continue to glow in the hearts of many. Prayers go out to your family, Pat, lil Darnell and Kayla.
Monica Ford
October 12, 2006
I can't believe it's true. Darnell was so full of life, I thought he'd be around forever. Pat and family, you are in our prayers. May God continue to sustain you during this time.
Love,
The Ford Family
Myrna Sykes
October 12, 2006
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time of need. I will miss you Darnell singing in the choirs together.
Erin Stewart
October 12, 2006
Darnell, my brother in Christ. You are so deeply missed. Darnell was one of the first friends I met when I moved to Sacramento and we remained friends. Pat, Darnell and Kaylah me and my family are here for you and are praying for you.
Jessica Houston
October 12, 2006
To the Cooley Family and Friends,
Our prayers are with you all. As the Song says 'When my Season comes I'll be alright.'May God continue to Bless and keep you all.
Pastor Robert and Sis. Jessica Houston
Alicia Gaytan
October 12, 2006
We will miss you dearly, you were part of our family Darnell was once our Realtor, will always be our brother and a loving friend, he was always happy and asking how we were doing. Love ya! Pat love you and kids too let me know if we can do anything for you.
Doris Alkebulan
October 12, 2006
We loved our neighbor. He will be missed dearly. Pepsi, kool-aid and our sign;)
Ken & Melanie Barnes
October 12, 2006
Melanie and I were saddened to hear about the loss of our friend, mentor and even one-time Realtor. However, our sadness turns to happiness when we think about visiting with Darnell on the other side. We will always love you.
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