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Gary Grayson
November 22, 1952 - February 25, 2021
Sacramento, California -
Gary James Grayson was born to Hobert and Kay "Katie" Grayson on November 22, 1952, at Sacramento, California. He died unexpectedly on February 25. After overcoming many childhood illnesses, he grew into a robust and athletic young man. He attended local schools including Holy Spirit, Sam Brannan, C.K. McClatchy, Sacramento City College and graduated from UC Berkeley with a degree in business with an emphasis in marketing and finance. He earned a Masters in Public Administration. As he grew, he participated in many sports and social groups. Among his athletic endeavors he played Little League Baseball, competitive swimming (Park Terrace Swimming and Tennis Club and C.K McClatchy), water polo (Sacramento City College) and wrestling and cross country (McClatchy). While a member of Park Terrace he managed the snack bar. During high school he was an active member of Young Life. After graduating from UC Berkeley his initial employment was with Dunn & Bradstreet. He transitioned to work with the State of California working at various times in the Controller's Office, Department of Education and Department of Social Services, retiring after 35 years of state service. He served on the Board of Directors of the Placer County Food Bank. Always interested in youth he was able to use his scout training to lead the Boy Scout troop of Jon and Jeremy Abshire on hikes and camping trips. Other endeavors in which Gary spent his time were developing a time clock system for hospitals in California and Nevada and selling used cars. He was observed to be an excellent salsa dancer. Upon retirement from the State of California he worked part time selling real estate for Cook Reality. Gary was a member of the Placer County Search and Rescue Team, where he was involved in rescuing numerous people who had become lost in the American River Canyon. Gary had a passion for abalone diving and flying his plane He was an active member and past Exalted Ruler of Sacramento Elks Lodge #6, where he participated in the golf club (past president) and RV camp group. He was a man of many interests, he enjoyed traveling the world touring, snorkeling and motorcycle riding. He was a veteran of the US Navy. His regular attendance at the Mondavi Center and 49er games, where he held season tickets were an enjoyment he shared with friends. He was known for his quick wit and infectious smile and laugh. Gary leaves to celebrate a life well lived his sister, Judy Grayson;, a niece, Krista Gustafson; and great-niece, Emma; and cherished friends, Dr. Janet Abshire and Jeanne Arena. He will be missed by his many friends. Plans are being made for a Celebration of Life for Gary to be held at a future date.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Mar. 21, 2021.

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Randall Ishida

May 6, 2021

Gary —you were in intricate part of our CKM 1970 class reunion committee. I remember you in an English class in HS. We sat in the back and laughed about something that wasn’t related to the class. Lucky the teacher never had a clue & thought we were listening.~-RIP-~

Debra (Weis) Compson

April 11, 2021

I was so looking forward to our long awaited high school reunion to say hi and get reacquainted. Gary was a great guy. My condolences to the family. He will be missed.

Phil Lynn

March 21, 2021

Gary was always a person people could count on when the chips were down. Many times, Gary, with his medical training, came to the aid of friends and strangers in need of assistance.

Being a well prepared back packer, Gary earned the affectionate moniker, Gadget Grayson. I will always remember his infectious laugh, just before I get a tear in my eye. Rest in love, my friend.

Linda Donato

March 21, 2021

Known Gary since first grade. He will be sorely missed by his friends.

Rob Roudabush

March 18, 2021

Reflecting on Gary is a wonderful flash from the past. I was one of the Park Terrace and CK High School crew. We all seemed to enjoy life to the fullest and aggressively searched for fun. I left Ca after college and unfortunately lost touch with many of the crew. It makes me feel happy that Gary appears to have had a full and successful life. God bless.

Annette and Bill Palmer

March 17, 2021

I met Gary through the Sacramento 6 Elks Lodge the year before he became our Exalted Ruler. He was a good leader and accomplished many things despite his health issues at the time. We loved how involved he was with our Elkampers group and enjoyed his friendly personality. We will miss him very much.

DALE B ROBINS

March 17, 2021

Dang it Grayson. Since high school (and before) you always seemed to do things before me. When I thought I finally did something that you hadn't (WB6MYR), I find out you had (KK6LGK). Well, I'm thinking, at least I'm highest classification, Amateur Extra - and you say "Hey, me too". Finally first at HAM Radio, only to find out you had a bigger tower.

And now you beat me to it again. Going to be serious DX to connect now. Going to miss the motorcycle rides and RVing we've talked about.

Happy Trails Gary. Save spot at the bar for me - first round is on you......

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