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Eric Stieg
August 15, 2025
Miss you my friend. I have this picture of Mike and my son on my night stand. It was taken in 2000 a couple days after our son was born.
Eric Stieg
April 29, 2023
I miss you my old friend! I miss your famous words, "look at you!" Although we were friends for only a short time, you left an impression on me and even though it´s been 19 years, I still think of our times at the football games, yelling at the TV, hanging out in Tahoe, and getting our families together to hang out, drink super-strong coffee, and talk "fast cars." I miss you my friend and look forward to one day seeing you at the Pearly Gates!
Becky Newhouse
May 20, 2006
My dearest brother Mike,
Well it has been nearly two years since you departed this earth. I think of you often, a song,a smile,a picture of your son who is your spitting image...so many reminders of you still linger. I miss your laugh, your fondness for Leatherby's,our golf matches, our football talk, your kindness and humbleness. You were the dream brother-inlaw....I always enjoyed our visits and conversations. I am having a hard time seeing Julie move on with this new husband Derek....he is a nice guy...just not you. I am so happy for Jordan he now has a man in his life he can look up to, he needs a father....you know that, your life seemed to fall apart after your father passed on. I wish we could go back and do something to change this outcome..unfortunately I will have to wait til I am called home and then I can catch you up on these great basketball playoffs you are missing!! Mike, you would be so proud of Jordan...he is such a great kid, he is going to be one heck of a golfer too!! Rest in peace my brother...Love, Becky
Karen Hein
August 15, 2005
Mike -
We only knew you for a short time. We're thankful we had the opportunity to experience your warm and loving heart. Jordan is a constant reminder of you in all of our hearts. You are loved and missed!
Love,
Kevin, Karen, Brady and Garrett Hein
Gail Hall
August 2, 2005
I miss my dear friend Mike. Sometimes I think I see you and then as quickly as a joy fills my heart I am once again saddened by the emptiness of a present and future without you. I miss your ever present smile and kindness. I enjoy remembering times our families were together; especially you and Jordan playing with an airplane and your eagerness to retrieve his plane for what seemed like the 100th time. just to see jordan enjoy another moment. I have wonderful memories to share with your prized treasure, Jordan. He will know what a wonderful father, husband and friend you were.
"Let your requests be made know to God;and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts." Philippians 4:6-7
Love, Gail
Jerry Hall
August 2, 2005
Dear Mike,
When I met you at your brother Chris' home 6 years ago I knew we would be friends. As your many other friends have noted, your were incredibly intelligent, gentle and kind. Your smile and that famous "Helwig Laugh" would light up a room.
Jordan was just a few months old at the time and is definitely your "mini me". When I see him now and he jumps up into my arms, I feel like I'm hugging both of you. I miss you.
Your friend - Jerry
Julie Helwig
July 26, 2005
My dearest Mike....as we come to the 1 year mark, I still struggle with the cold reality that you are no longer with us...will I ever accept this? I know you walk with the Heavenly Host and you are filled with His peace like we will never know in this temporal place...I long to see you one day, and even more for you to see your beautiful son who is your reflection. I thank God for you everyday...the life that you shared with me and the legacy that you left behind...I miss you deeply! love always, Juls
Monica (Alberto) Buttrey
September 7, 2004
I was so shocked to hear about Mike's passing. I was a friend of his at Mitty. He was such a gentle soul and I know how hard he worked to make his place in life a peaceful one. My thoughts are with all of you at this time. I am truly sorry for your loss.
sincerely, Monica Alberto
Michelle (Sanchez) Moore
September 2, 2004
Dear Helwig Family,
Mike was such an intelligent, sweet friend and gentle soul. I feel blessed to have shared many youthful memories, laughs and even hardships with him.
This quote provided some comfort to me when I heard the news as I hope it will for you: "Adversity is the diamond dust that heaven polishes its jewels with."
Mike truly was a jewel and he will be sorely missed.
Tamra Maydole (Wiggins)
September 1, 2004
I was a classmate's of Mike's at Mitty. I'm so sorry. He will be missed and remembered at our 20 year reunion. We all loved him.
Camille Baker
August 31, 2004
To Julie and Jordan,
I am just learning of the horrible incident that has occured and my deepest sympathy is with you. I will never forget the first time we met him at nordstrom and how i knew you to were meant for each other. Even though he is not with you physically we all know he is with you spiritually. God bless and if you need anything let me know.
Stephanie (Esparza) Mackey
August 27, 2004
To the Helwig Family:
I was both saddened and shocked to learn of Mike's passing. I have know Mike since the 1st grade, and went all through Sacred Heart and Mitty with him. While our friendship tapered off during the high school years, I will always remember him as being a very kind and generous person. He always had a kind word and a smile for me (even when other's didn't). It warms my heart to know that he had the Lord in his heart, and is now with his Saviour. My deepest sympathies to all of you.
Debbie Madden
August 24, 2004
Julie, Barbara, Ken, & Chris~
I was quite shocked and saddened to hear the news of your loss. I will always remember Mike's enthusiasm at 49er games; his smile, and his attitude.
Trust that he will always be with you, and that he is at peace, and in God's good care.
Bobby delgado
August 24, 2004
My prayers are with the entire Helwig family. I went to Mitty with Mike, although I was a year older Mike and I had some great times togeather. I last saw Mike at a restaurant in Santa Clara. He was his usual happy self. I will always remember his laugh and smile. God Bless his wife and Daughter.
Respectufully,
Bobby D
Denise Gila-Costa
August 23, 2004
Dear Helwig Family,
My heart goes out to all of you during this very sad time. Although I had not seen Mike since my Mitty days, I truly remember him for his awesome smile and gentle soul. May God bless your family and bring you strength and peace during these very difficult times.
Denise Gila-Costa (class of '83)
john montgomery
August 23, 2004
My prayers and thoughts are with all the family and friends who have lost a great man.
Mike and I were friends since 4th grade at Sacred Heart elementary school and through Mitty high. He was a great friend.
He will be missed!
The Montgomery Family
David Rosendin
August 23, 2004
Mike was a long time friend and one of my closest friends during high school. The whole Helwig family was like an extension of my own family. I am going to miss Mike. He was a good friend and a good person.
Tina Brown
August 23, 2004
To Mike's family-
I went to school with Mike all four years at Mitty, and will always remember him as one of the nicest, kindest and most gentle person. He was always smiling and was always such a supportive soul. Although I have not seen him in many years, I was heatbroken to hear the news of his passing. May his family and friends find peace and comfort at this very difficult time.
Tina (George) Brown
1984 Mitty Graduate with Mike
Tom Richards
August 23, 2004
Ken & Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Mike's passing. Although I never got to know Mike as many other HADCO/Sanmina folks did, I grieve nonetheless for your loss, Ken. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family and I pray that God may give you strength, courage, comfort, and peace during this time. Remember that God is God no matter what circumstances we find ourselves in. I'm sure Mike knew that and would want you to put your faith and trust in Him.
Kerri Daniels
August 23, 2004
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to Mike's Family and Friends.
Mike and I worked together while he was at Sanmina and I have a great affection for him. I know he is finally at peace and find comfort in that.
Maura Knobloch
August 23, 2004
Julie and Jordan,
It was with great sadness and shock that we discovered Mike's picture and funeral notice in the paper yesterday. While we were only neighbors for a short time, we really came to enjoy your family and Mike was always so kind and gentle towards our family. We know that he is in a much better place now and that brings us some measure of peace.
Our continued thoughts and prayers are with you and Jordan. God Bless you,
Maura and Donald
Kat Bacio
August 23, 2004
Ken and Mike's Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Mike and he always had a smile on his face. Him and Ken would always be out together and everyone would say there goes the Helwig brothers.I told him once that he looked like a young elvis and he strated laughing.He will be missed very much. You all will be in my prayers. God Bless you and give you the strength to help you through this tough time.
David Roberson
August 21, 2004
Ken, Chris
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Mike. I, too, will remember him for his beautiful smile and his infectious personality.
We all struggle with God's reasoning from time to time and I know this must be one for us all. May we all find strength in Him and take joy in knowing that Mike is at His side.
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