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Pamela Jacoby Obituary

JACOBY, Pamela
Born in San Rafael, CA, on May 22, 1968, she left us on October 14, 2005, after a courageous battle with breast cancer. A 1986 San Marin High graduate, she received her B.S.W and M.S.W. from CSUS. Pam is survived by her mother Sandra Jacoby of Elk Grove, CA, and father Richard Jacoby (Claudine) of Novato, CA, her children Briana and Dominic, her brother Cory, stepsiblings Krista and Todd Michals. Visitation on Oct. 19 from 3:00-8:00 PM and service on Oct. 20 at 2:00 PM at South East Lawn Memorial Park, 9189 E.Stockton Blvd., Elk Grove, CA 95624. In lieu of flowers donations to a trust fund for Pam's children may be made at Washington Mutual (#1003988508).

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Oct. 18, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Pamela Jacoby

30 Entries

VERA SCHATZ

November 15, 2005

very very sorry for the lost I was the person the haired Pam at Kair and she will be missed in my heart always I really liked her and her great smile may the best come to you all by GOD

Candy Horigan

November 2, 2005

Sandy,Bri,Dominic,Jeff

Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. Bri if you ever need someone to talk to, Megan would love to get back in touch with you, she thinks of all of you often. Megan's email address is as follows: [email protected]. Take care each every one of you. We all feel your pain. Pam was a very special person and touched the hearts of all that she came in contact with. She will be missed but not forgotten, for she will live on in our hearts and memories forever.

Norma Freeman

October 29, 2005

Sandy my thoughts and prayers are with you and your grandchildren at this difficult time.

Savanna Quam

October 25, 2005

I can't even begin to imagine how hard it would be to loose a mother. I don't know what I would do. Briana and Dominic, I pray that you guys are doing great. I love you both soooo much. Even though we don't get to talk much, you guys are my family. We just have to understand that, God must have had some awful big, excitting plans for Pam. Now she can be out of her pain and relax. She's still with you and looking over you. I love all of you.. Pam,Briana,Dominic,and Sandy. God Bless!

<3

Patsy Dillon

October 24, 2005

I never had the pleasure of meeting Pam in person but enjoyed our chats on line and emails. It was a comfort to talk to her about her cancer and share stories about loosing our hair. She seemed to have a way of making a joke out of it all. I have prayed for her and her family this past year and will continue to keep you in my prayers. She is at peace now and does not have to suffer cancer anymore. She was truely an inspiration to anyone who knew her. God Bless you and Comfort you.

Courtney Quam

October 23, 2005

Pam I love you. I love having you guys come down and visit... I know how much you were strugeling.. and I know now you must feel relived from being in pain.. but we all love you. Brianna and Dominic- I'm sure that you guys will be okay.. you mom has raised you this far.. and you guys have turned out great Always keep your mom in your heart..and Do the things that would make her proud..<3 I love you guys with all of my heart...<3

JULIE DANIELS

October 23, 2005

Aunt Sandy and family,

I feel so lucky to have had a cousin like Pam. She was warm and funny and always had that great laugh! It would make me laugh. I wish we could have had more time with her. I pray every night that she will help you all get thru your grief. She is our Angel now. Pam was so strong and positive thru all of this. Aunt Sandy, she got her strength from you. You were a great mother and friend to her. I'm sure you will do the same with Briana and Dominic. They are lucky to have you in their lives. God bless all of you. I love you all! I will never forget Pam.

Love, Julie

Cindy Moser

October 22, 2005

It's so hard to be here when all I want to do is be there and hug you all. Please know that I am there in my heart and that I love you all.

I'll miss Pam's big laugh and beautiful smile. She could really liven up a get together. I wish we could've spent more time together as we were growing up. We did have a lot of laughs the last time she was home.

Sandy, Dick, Claudine, Brianne, Dominic - you are all in my thougts and prayers. Love you all.

Sandra Gomez

October 22, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carrie Havlik

October 21, 2005

Pam, I wish we'd had more time together as we were all growing up, but I'll cherish the memories I have of your visits back to Iowa. I'll always think of you and love you, you were always a lot of fun to have around.

To the rest of family, I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and my prayers, I love you all. Briana and Dominic, I know your mom is very proud of you and her memory will guide you as you grow up to be wonderful and loving people.

Antonette

October 20, 2005

Brie & Dominic,

My heart goes out to the both of you.Brie, Sweetie I love you like my own maybe even more than my own. You know you can always count on me I will be there when ever you need me. I love you, Antonette

Dan Marweg

October 19, 2005

I met Pam when we were kids. She was cheerleading and I played Pop Warner -- Her house across the street from the field. I still can read the yearbooks she signed. The memories are dear. We lost touch after highschool, but she found me a couple years ago. We talked as if it was just yesterday we were at SMHS, or even Sinaloa...We reminisced about a more innocent time. I will miss Pam. My thousghts and prayers are with the kids and the family. Dan

April Learson

October 19, 2005

Pam I know you are in a better place now and you will always be in our hearts. Sandra, Brianna & Dom, stay strong because your daughter/mom will always be looking down on you and loves you all very much. Pam you will be missed from us all and we all love you very much lady.

Evan & Marilyn Matthews

October 19, 2005

Sandy, We were all very saddened to hear about Pam. I know, from hearing the other cousins talk, she fought hard to whip this thing. Wish we were there to help. Know we are thinking about you and Pam's family. God bless you, your family, and Pam's kids.

Cindy Stieber (Grady)

October 19, 2005

To Pam's Family - I went to high school and graduated with Pam from San Marin. I was so sad to hear of her passing. Pam was such an outgoing and popular girl in school - everyone knew who she was because of her beauiful blonde hair and wonderful personality. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of sadness.

Phyllis & Vernon Houtz

October 19, 2005

Sandra, you have our deepest sympathy. Just wanted to let you we are thinking of you. Take care.

Cousin Phyllis

Gene Matthews

October 19, 2005

We share your grief and pray God presence with you in this time of loss.

Kate & Don Saar

October 19, 2005

Sandra, Our hearts go out to you and your family. I'm so glad that Joyce and Janet are with you to give comefort and support at this time. I hope you find comfort knowing that family and friends across the miles share your grief.

Love, Kate and Don

larry johnson

October 19, 2005

Pam

Your aunt Janet I will miss you very much, You were a wonderful addition to our family. Always happy always smiling.I always enjoyed you being here with us. Im sure God will greet you with open arms. We will think of you and love you forever.

Uncle Larry

Bob & Joan Matthews

October 19, 2005

Dear Sandra, We are saddened by your loss and want you to know that your cousins in Iowa share your grief. There is no way we can send a hug nor our love via this method, but please know that in our hearts we have done that.

Cousin Bob and Joan

A Friend

October 18, 2005

Briana and Dominic: Always remember how proud your mother was of you. You were the first thing she talked about when you would see her. Dominic - I will never forget your mom telling me that you had made your school's Honor Roll for the first time. She was beaming and so very proud of you! Briana - She was so proud of the wonderful young lady that you were growing up to be!!! Your mom will live on in you!!!!

Eddie Gardner II

October 18, 2005

Dominic, Briana, Im sorry you guys lost your mom. This is Eddie, ethans brother. It made my stomach sick to hear that. I would die if it happened to any of us. May Jehovah(God) be with you.

Signed,

Terry Cole

October 18, 2005

There are no words to express the loss of a loved one and Pam was truly loved by many and will be missed deeply. The lives she touched are forever changed and I am honored to have shared a part of her journey. Our work in South Sac changed my life forever and truly was one of the greatest experiences in my own life. I will always admire her courage, strength,and dedication to advocate for others.

To all of you Bri, Dominic, her Mom, Sandy, brother Cory, her Dad, Claudine, and Jordan(Jeff), my thoughts and prayers are with you each of you. Know that I am here for you. God Bless

Rich Mendelsohn

October 18, 2005

There is a hole in our collective soul here at Kair In. Pam was a social worker here. Pam often was called on to step outside her self to go beyound what is required of social workers. Her smile and caring goes on in the people she touched. She touched the minds and hearts of the foster children under her watch. Our hope is that one day breast cancer will be cured and persons as young and as caring need not suffer need not die. Somewhere up in heaven Pam is doing social work god speed Pam

Zulma I. Rojas

October 18, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

orajorie brooks

October 18, 2005

HUGS & FRIENDSHIP

Hugs come in every shape and size and mean so many things (this was Pam). Like the hug that say I'm happy for the joy our friendship brought. There are hugs for saying I'm so proud of all the things you did. There's no one else in all the world like you. There are gentle hugs, and tender ones for feelings that are sad, Hugs that say I'm sorry when someone's feeling bad. There are hugs for all occasions,and reasons big hugs short to extra tall! But the nicest hug is one that says I'm always thinking of you. The special kind you brought your way, was the hugs that said I'LL LOVE YOU ALWAYS.

"OUR FRIENDSHIP TO THE END".

THE ORAJORIE BROOKS & FAMILY

Connie Raid Martin

October 18, 2005

On behalf of the BHS Class of '59, please accept our sincere sympathies. I can't imagine your pain. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Sue McKinnie

October 18, 2005

My prayers are with the family. Pam is now in Gods memory and no longer suffering. Briana and Dominic stay strong and remember your mothers love for you. Jeff, stay close to your children, they need you more now than ever. Even though your heart is saddened with the lose of Pam in your life your children are also hurting and understand less than you as an adult do.

Caryn L. Gardner

October 17, 2005

I met Pamela on a field trip to the Crocker Art Museum and State Capitol when our children were in 3rd grade. We spent the day talking about our children and joking about having to walk so much on the field trip. Dominic is again in the same class as my son Ethan, and I am sad to say that I had no idea that Pamela was sick. I am saddened at the loss of a wonderful woman and mother. May God give your family strength to endure in this time of grief. I lost my grandmother last year and I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. On the hardest days I find that remembering the good times and cherished memories I have of her help me get through the day. I hope your memories can do the same for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Gardner Family

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