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Phillip Larrea Obituary
April 26, 1956 - April 1, 2024
Folsom, California - Phillip Larrea passed away unexpectedly on April 1,2024. He was born in Sacramento, CA to Joseph Martin and Patricia Floy Larrea, Sr. on April 26, 1956. Phillip attended Holy Spirit Elementary School and Christian Brothers High School. He graduated from Christian Brothers in 1974 and was the valedictorian of his class. Phillip completed his education at UC Davis. After college, he moved to New York City, where he met and married Jeanne Sarquiz and became the very proud father of Ray Larrea.
Phillip worked in management at Barnes and Noble for many years, before returning to Sacramento and becoming a financial advisor in 1983. Phillip was very involved in the arts. He was a community actor, an author and a prolific poet. He invented a new form of poetry called the Tri Cube. Above all, Phillip was a bright light in this world. His memory will be one of laughter and a very special spirit.
He is predeceased by his parents and his brother, Paul. He is survived by his son, Ray and siblings: Bernadette, Joseph, Michelle and Marta Larrea, as well as many loving nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.
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Memories and Condolences
for Phillip Larrea
Denise Delaney
April 25, 2025
Denise Delaney
April 25, 2025
Dear Phillip,
It´s April - and so it is that April will always be a month we pause to think of you, starting with April 1 - the day we lost you. A month of family birthdays, including yours now - April 26 - when we honor, treasure, and celebrate You!
Pictures of our trip to Alaska bring to life a spirit you gave to all, and the essence that you are still here with us! With love, we hold you close, and thank you for enriching our lives so much!
Cliff Ernandes
December 10, 2024
Sorry to hear of Phil´s passing.
I´m the guy that hired him to work at Barnes & Noble back in 83 he was an actor who would recite "she stood on the balcony inexplicably mimicking him hiccuping while amicably welcoming him in" I used to get a kick out that. Rest in Peace
Denise Delaney
April 26, 2024
Swathi & Ramesh
July 29, 2024
We are very sorry and shocked to hear the news. Phillip had been a close confidante (financial advisor) and a friend over many years.
His positive outlook and his contagious smile/laugh will be great missed.
-Swathi & Ramesh
Kimberly A Edwards
May 21, 2024
I first met Phillip through his laughter when he moved into my condo development. You knew when he and Denise were home by the sound of giggles rising over the stucco patio wall and sweeping across the parking lot. Never have I heard two people having such fun and giggling in unison. I will always remember the joy he brought.
During Phillip´s years here, he started a Writer´s Workshop in the clubhouse. There residents read what they wrote, listened to others reading their own work, listened to Phillip talk about writing, or sat with him at a table for one-on-one tutoring. So popular did this series become that the HOA began listing the sessions in the newsletter monthly calendar.
Phillip was also active in the Sacramento Poetry Center. He also gave readings around town. His essays appeared in local media. As president of a local writers club, I thought of inviting him to speak at my club, but never seemed to have time to follow up. I now I regret this lack of action, as he would have brought a wealth of enthusiasm. I can only imagine how many writers he inspired. We need more like Phillip generous with their time. And how many people did he entertain with his memorable laugh, an affirmation of life. Clearly, gone too soon, but left a legacy.
Dallas Toto
May 19, 2024
Both Lorraine and I are still so very heartbroken. Your infectious laugh and smile was so supportive no matter how hard a time we y going through. 20 plus years.. just not enough. My dear friend we miss you so much. All we keep saying is WHY?? Love Dallas and Lorraine
Ling
April 29, 2024
Phillip was one of the most unique individuals we ever met... He was a true Renaissance man who contributed greatly to everyones´ lives!
Phillip is the very reason why we are financially balanced and secured for the remainder of our lives. He has served my family and I for over 10 years and always encouraged us even when the stock market was headed for doom! Phillip will be remembered for his sharp wit and compassionate heart! Gone much too soon!
RIP Sir
Jason Murray
April 27, 2024
Our family will miss you my friend. I will miss our times sitting in the backyard and listening to your life stories and stock tips. Thank you for watching the cats and the kids.
Denise Delaney
April 26, 2024
Denise Delaney
April 26, 2024
Denise Delaney
April 26, 2024
Hidden Treasure and The Pearl
(inspired by Matthew 13)
I continually marveled across the living room floor at being married to such a fine gem returned to Sacramento, post New York - `Christian Brothers meets St. Francis´ - `Sparks´ and the `Moon´ - privy to such witty banter daily - your talents, gifts, thoughts, and ideas - `Wit & Wisdom´ like no other. Your poem, `Falling Time' - a treasured masterpiece.
You made a difference in people´s lives, lifting them up with your kindness, laughter, brilliance, and inspiration to share, whether be it on stage, in a client´s living room, or in a grocery store planning your next entertaining meal. I miss engaging in and watching the special relationship between you and your son, Ray, and all your valued family and friends.
~~~
With loving thoughts today on Phillip´s Birthday (4/26/24), my condolences to all of you who loved him - for whom he took such pride and care to love in return, I am sharing ...
the `Hidden Treasure´ and `Pearl of Great Price´ - will be deeply missed - but forever valued.
Mary Hanrahan
April 25, 2024
Marta and family, I am so sorry to hear of Phillip´s passing. God bless him and all of you. Always grateful for all our years together at Holy Spirit.
Mary Souza Hanrahan
Christine Feiling
April 23, 2024
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family is this sad time.
Christine L. Feiling
JT O'Dochartaigh
April 23, 2024
My deepest condolences to Phillip's family. As one of the multitude of people who connected with through writing, I spent some very pleasant times listening to his readings of his "tricubes" and talking about theater and poetry.
Scott Nipper
April 22, 2024
Phillip was a great friend. We´ve known him for 20 years. He was my financial advisor and is responsible for us having what we have and living the life we want. He´s the reason I was able to retire when I did. He was such a friend of my bands and keen supporter of our shows. I came as such a shock when I heard the news of his death. He spoke so highly of Ray. He had an infectious positive attitude and laugh I´ll never forget. Our world will be a much worse place without you in it. We will miss you. RIP
Linda Papenfus
April 22, 2024
I have had the pleasure of knowing Phillip for the last 10 years and it has been a pleasure indeed to get to know him. He was such a versatile, gentle, compassionate man With his keen knowledge of financial matters and his poetry. He and his marvelous smile will be greatly missed. Rest in peace, Phillip. Thank you for having the pleasure of being your friend. Linda Papenfus.
Richard Kassis
April 22, 2024
Phil was a good childhood friend of mine at Holy Spirit and Christian Brothers (we graduated 50 years ago next month). Phil had a great sense of humor and an outgoing personality. He will be missed.
David Ross
April 21, 2024
RIP Phillip. Wish I had been more active in keeping up over the years. I will miss your wry wit, precision insight, and infectious laughter.
Scott Kessler
April 21, 2024
An utterly original and vivid presence in the world. I miss you, my friend.
Paula Jordan
April 21, 2024
Deep condolences, Bernadette, Joe, Michelle & Marta. Go in Peace, Phillip ~ Paula Hanley Jordan, Columbus, NC (formerly of Sacto. in another century...)
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