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DESMOND, Richard F.
Passed away June 16, 2004, at his home in Carmichael. Mr. Desmond is survived by his beloved wife, Doris; nine adoring children, Ann, Daniel, Meg, Janie, John, Peter, Madeline, Tess, and Richard Jr.; twenty-one grandchildren, Christopher, Jessica, Madeline, Cameron, Carolyn, Adam, Megan, Emily, Daniel, Jr., Kayla, Hope, Stephen, Katie, Peter, Ryan, Garrett, Michael, Tessie, Kaylee, Adam and Alexandria; and siblings Louis Desmond, Mary Mastalski, and Denise Franzoia. Mr. Desmond was born November 13, 1923, in Sacramento to the late Senator Earl and Mrs. Edna Desmond. He was preceded in death by his siblings, Clare Lagomarsino, Michael and Buddy. Mr. Desmond spent most of his youth working on the family's ranch north of Galt. After graduating from Christian Brothers High School and Saint Mary's College, Mr. Desmond was drafted by the United States Army during World War II. He served as an Army journalist in Japan during the post-war reconstruction. After the war, he returned stateside and attended law school at the University of San Francisco. There he met the love of his life and future wife of 54 years, Doris. After law school, Mr. Desmond served another stint in the Army as a 1st Lieutenant in the Judge Advocate General Corps during the Korean War. In 1953, Mr. Desmond joined Desmond, Miller & Desmond, the Sacramento law firm founded by his father in 1938. He remained active in private law practice until his death. One of Californias pre-eminent condemnation attorneys, Mr. Desmond spent nearly fifty years defending the rights of private property owners. He recently won hard-fought victories for hundreds of flood victims in Rio Linda, Strawberry Manor, Linda, and Olivehurst after their homes and businesses were destroyed by the floods of 1986. In 2000, Mr. Desmond participated in the People to People Ambassador Programs American Lawyers and Judges Delegation to South Africa to advise representatives of that country's bench and bar on constitutional and human rights issues. Mr. Desmond was an active member of the Christian Brothers alumni Brotherhood group and the Grandfathers Club. He was also a past exalted ruler of the Sacramento Elks and a longtime Jesuit Booster. Mr. Desmond enjoyed a rich life outside of his law practice as a farmer, world traveler, armchair historian, and model railroader. His favorite roles, however, were as adoring Poppy to his twenty-one grandchildren and beloved patriarch of his family. We will miss his integrity, honesty, generosity, and even his stubbornness. Most of all we will miss tractor rides, fresh fruits and vegetables, his Christmas poem and the Candle Story. He left an impression on everyone who met him and was loved more than he ever knew. A funeral mass and celebration of Mr. Desmond's life will be held on Saturday, June 19, 2004, at 12:00 PM at Our Lady of the Assumption Church at 5055 Cottage Way in Carmichael. A rosary service will be held at the same location on Friday, June 18, at 7:00 PM. Donations may be made in Mr. Desmond's name to the Christian Brothers High School Desmond Family Scholarship or Jesuit High School Capital Campaign.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jun. 17 to Jun. 18, 2004.

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Michael Velasquez

July 6, 2004

To all of my extended family,

I was first introduced to the Desmond family at Cal Poly in 1983. There is a special photo that was taken of several of us including Richard. That year I was John's college roommate. After graduating in 1984 I became best friends with Peter. Richard was like a father to me. I was over at the house constantly eating their food.



Since I have become a father myself, he has always loved my children and shared his trains with them. I will truely miss him.



Michael Velasquez and Family

Sharon Gonzales

July 1, 2004

Dear Mrs. Desmond and the Entire Desmond Family:



There isn't a thing I can think of to add that hasn't already been said here about Richard. I loved him. He's the best and most fun boss I ever had. The office sure isn't the same - and I never get fired anymore! That was our favorite thing - he would fire me at least once a day. I think of your entire family every day and what a huge emptiness he leaves behind. With love, Sharon aka Richard's "Lousy Secretary" :-)

James Martin Sweigert

June 22, 2004

Dear Aunt Doie & Family -

I am so sad to be so far away during this difficult time. Mom said the party was great, as Uncle Richard would have wanted it. I last remember he and a soaking wet aunt Claire by the edge of the pool laughing, as all were being baptized "Palm Drive style". Those are some of my last memories of him, laughing, the king of his castle, happy as could be.

As a man of solid character, Uncle Richard stood for everything I strive for as a man and he served as great role model to those of us who were commonly at the receiving end of his firm guidance. The memories, Pismo Beach, Carmel, Santa Cruz, Tahoe, go carts, the ranch, and yes, ahh yes, the home made ice cream. 4th of July will never be the same. I miss you all.



From Beaconsfield, England

Love always,



Jimmy

Ted Kranz

June 21, 2004

To the Desmond Family



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



We are long time friends of Dan and Kelsey. We on occation met Poppy when he visited Virginia. Poppy like Dan have much in common they both have deep character, strong family focus and seek adventure in life. Dan often spoke of his dad and wished he could sail more on Poppy.



Ted and Betty Kranz

Paul O'Neil

June 21, 2004

I was saddened to hear of the death of Richard. Being a classmate of Peter's, I remember him vividly driving us to summer classes at OLA in the beige Volkswagen Van. Although, I was very young, his integrity and his love for his family was very evident; he was a very kind man.

Judy Foles

June 21, 2004

Sorry to hear of your loss, I will be thinking of your family.

Bill Sweigert

June 19, 2004

My Dear Doie and wonderful family:

Billy informed me of your loss about 9pm last nite (Friday) upon my return from a week away. Trudi joins me in sending our condolences in this painful time. Be happy tho with the wonderful memories which will endure forever. Richard (not Dick) and I have always remained close, thank God. You are one of my favorite ladies and Trudi and I will be in touch soon. Love, Bill

Rick Linson

June 19, 2004

We are sorry for you loss. Gina and I will keep your family in our prayers during this difficult time in your lives. GOD speed.



Rick and Gina Linson

Br. George Van Grieken, FSC

June 18, 2004

To the Desmond family,



A bright presence has moved ahead of us – as usual – with the passing of Mr. Desmond. Over my last five years at C.B. I’ve learned to appreciate his authenticity, intellect, genuine care for others, directness, and sense of humor. From my first lunch with the Brother Hoods, when I remember thinking “Boy, who’s this guy?”, to my last conversation with him about a book that I had loaned him called “The Gift of Pain,” he was someone whom you couldn’t ignore at the start and didn’t want to ignore at the end. He seemed to be the kind of person for whom nothing was too big or small to tackle and everything deserved his full attention. It was a pleasure and an honor to have known him. Christian Brothers High School and Saint Mary’s College were privileged to have been part of his life. He touched each person he met in a way that we could all hope to do – with that bit of God’s presence given to us to share. May his life in God's embrace be the fullness of what we saw through a glass darkly.

Yasha Rahimzadeh

June 18, 2004

It was an honor and privilege to work with Mr. Desmond for the year and a half that I was employed by his firm. My condolences go out to his family for the loss of this great man.

Carla & Larry Risse

June 18, 2004

My father and I were saddened to hear the news that Richard had passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Tina Spyksma

June 18, 2004

Peter Michael and Family,



With deepest sympathy in the loss of Mr. Desmond. May you find comfort in celebrating his life and recall all the precious memories you will keep with you forever.



May the Lord keep you all in His care during this difficult time.

Norm Matteoni

June 18, 2004

To Dorie and the Desmond Family



Dick was a most terrific and dynamic person and outstanding lawyer and leader. As you know I first knew him thru the Condemnation Attorneys Group and continued to see him most every spring over the last 25 or so years.

I really cannot think of that Group without Dick; his personal stamp is embedded there. He was also a mentor, tapping me about 12 years ago to be president. Some candles cannot be blown out.



Norm Matteoni

Laura Lee & Randy Brennan

June 18, 2004

A living and forever legend...we will miss you dearly and regularly refer back to your lessons of 'living strong' Mr. Desmond. Our sincerest sympathies and big hugs to the entire family.

All our best, Laura Lee & Randy

Mark Thompson

June 17, 2004

Mary and I are deeply saddened by Richard's passing. He was always a gracious host at family events. Doie and her children are in our prayers.

Mark and Mary

Sharon Sacher Andrews

June 17, 2004

Pete M. and Family-

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Your father was an incredible man.

Madeline Spitz

June 17, 2004

I was so blessed to have had the most wonderful man in the world not only as my neighbor for 23 years, but also to have had him as my "Poppy." He was such an amazing human being...brilliant, confident, generous and above all, the most devoted family man. You will be truly missed, Poppy and forever in my heart. All my love, Maddy

Marina Carboni-Montoya

June 17, 2004

Although I only worked for Richard for a very short time several years ago, I left with an impression of a man that was greater than life itself. His compassion for human beings and his love of family and God and his beloved love of law made me realize that great men do great things. His gentleness and caring was very apparent and his lust for life and humor can never be compromised. You were a great man Richard Desmond who inspired us all, and you will be dearly missed.

mary frances dee buckley

June 17, 2004

I was saddened to hear this morning from my mother Judie Dee of Dick's passing. I had the pleasure of seeing both Dick and Doie at my recent march wedding. Dick was a very special friend to my late father John Dee and will be greatly missed by our family. My deepest condolences to the whole family.

irving perluss

June 17, 2004

Dick appeared before me many times. He was a fine lawyer, sincere, trustworthy and ethical. I shall miss him. Irving H. Perluss, Judge of the Superior Court(Retired)

Nicole Looney

June 17, 2004

My deepest sympathy for your family during this difficult time. God Bless.

DOROTHEA JONES

June 17, 2004

I HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING MR. DESMOND AT THE BANKRUPTCY COURT WHERE I WAS EMPLOYED WITH HIS SON

PETER MICHAEL DESMOND. HE WILL BE SURELY MISSED. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP THE FAMILY STRONG DURING THEIR GRIEF.

John & Betty Vaillant

June 17, 2004

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jill Hunter

June 17, 2004

To the Desmond Family-

My parents, Sally and Al, truly loved Dick. Because of their love for the Desmond family, we Franklin kids (Jill, Carol, Meg, AJ and Sally) also loved Dick. He was an inspiration to us.

Craig Hunter

June 17, 2004

Dick was a very kind and generous man who I always enjoyed seeing and talking to. He will be missed.

Robert E Carroll

June 17, 2004

It's been a long time since 22nd St.

So long! Bob & Jean

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