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Ruby Pena Obituary
PENA, Ruby A.
Born Nov. 27, 1987 in Sacramento, passed away August 12, 2004. Ruby is the daughter of Laura Castellano and the late Ruben Pena; sisters, Olivia and Victoria Castellano; brother, Lil Ernie Moreno; stepfathers, Victor Castellano & Ernie Moreno Sr. Ruby was great-granddaughter of Jesse Soto, Mr. & Mrs. Ralph Cazares, Clara Gomez, and the late Mary Castro. Granddaughter of Mr. & Mrs. Ralph Gevara, Mr. & Mrs. Jose Villaneueva, Mr. & Mrs. Joe Pena. Niece of Mr. & Mrs. Salvador Cardenas, Mr. & Mrs. Guillermo Mendoza, Patty Hernandez, Mr. & Mrs. Danny Pena & Mr. & Mrs. Desi Pena, & Danielle Pena. Goddaughter of Wendy and the late Ralph Cazares. Ruby had other numerous aunts, uncles & cousins. We love you, our little angel "Dooba". You'll be in our hearts forever! Services will be held at Andrews & Greilich Mortuary located at 3939 Fruitridge Road, Thursday August 19. Viewing hrs from 9am-5:30pm followed by the Rosary at 6pm. Funeral services will be held Friday, August 20, 2004 at 9:30am at St. Rose's Church. Final resting place St. Mary's Cemetery.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ruby Pena
Sponsored by Rachel Minnick, in memory of Ruby, a beautiful girl.
Jessica Ramirez
July 29, 2025
Ruby I miss you so much our friendship will never be forgotten as August comes again I can´t help but think of you I love you
Amber Gallegos
August 7, 2021
Ruby my friend I miss you like crazy I miss our king talks and our party line days you were such a good friend to me and was alway there when I needed you to you helped me so much with my daughter letty and I pray you continue to help me and guild her in the right path I love u and I miss you my friend until we meet again I love u Amber
Amber Gallegos
January 10, 2019
Ruby I have our picture hanging in my house I see it everyday I miss you friend you were always there for me you and your strawberry cupcakes they were the best I wish you were here so you can see how big my daughter is she will be 18 in a couple months it's crazy huh You were a great friend and I will forever miss you love you Ruby Locz
Ashley Foster
September 5, 2011
Man its been too long girl been havin u on my mind lately I need u here wit me we had it together aha wen we was together girl I cant do it I nd u ma man I just wanna see u...dis is hell on earth..anyways.. Watch ova me I nd ur wings tonight bb girl xoxo
January 26, 2011
Jessika ramirez
January 26, 2011
I miss u ruby so much. Jessika ramirez
aarashia constant
November 25, 2008
Hey this is aarashia victorias friend..i dont know you but ive learned a lot about you im really sorry for wat happend 2 you but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
aashia constant
November 25, 2008
hey i know you dont know me but im 1 of your sisters friend my name is aashia...i hope your resting in peace say hi 2 my cousin roo 4 me shes up there 2 ..i always see your mom and your sister victoria crying because they really miss you and needs you i wanted 2 say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
laura castellano
November 25, 2008
I miss you .i think about you all the time...your birthday is coming in a couple of days.i wish you were here with us so we can have A
Big 21st Birthday party..life is not the same without you..you make every body laugh..we miss your help with cooking for Christmas and your favorite baking cookies.there is not a day that goes bye that you are not on our minds.we cant wait 4 you 2 vist us we are waiting 4 you.were going 2 be with you on your birthday 11/27/87..LOVE YOU VERY MUCH **YOUR MOTHER**
vicky locs castellano
November 25, 2008
hey sister i love yah nd mizz you your b-day iz coming up but i dont know what were goin 2 do but i wanted 2 tell u HAPPY BIRTHDAY RUBY LOCS!!!!!!
August 12, 2008
4 years wont change nothing i will always love you and miss you dearly. today will be sad but it will also be filled of memories to live forever. miss you love mz rosie
~FOREVER IN OUR HEART~
Angelica Mendoza
August 2, 2008
love u always RuBy always in our hearts and our thoughts.
April
August 6, 2007
Ruby, i just wanted to say..... I miss u & i well never forget u. I still have all the pics we took. I well never forget the fun times we had. I love u girl
~april
maria m.
July 26, 2007
hey girl i just wanted to stop by to say hi to you, i had a dream about you a while back and then i found a lil pic of me you and pricilla @ our 6th grade graduation and made me think of you even more! but anyways i hope you find yourself resting peacefully and watching over your family, you will always be rememberd...
July 24, 2007
HEY RUBY WE MISS YOU LOTS LUV YA
Raynaldo Surita
October 31, 2006
I Love U
Carmen De La Ro$a
March 31, 2006
Hey whats up Ruby.Itz been along time science i droped you a couple of lines.I was just thinking of you so i wanted to let you know that i didnt forget about you.I will always Remember you .
JUST ME
November 22, 2005
***HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETIE!! JUST WANTED TO SAY I LOVE YA AND MISS YOU. EVEN THOUGH I WISH YOU A HAPPY BIRTHDAY. IT WONT BE SO HAPPY FOR ME. ILL REMEMBER YOU ALWAYS. CANT EVEN BEGIN TO FORGET THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE.
Carmen De La Ro$a
August 12, 2005
Whats up girl?I was just thinking of you so i thought i would drop you acouple of lines to let you know that i will never forget about you.I miss you hella much.well i will write you later love always Carmen De La Rosa
ROSIE P
April 28, 2005
HI RUBY I WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU TODAY. I WENT TO THE CEMETARY TO JUST REFLECT ON OUR TIME TOGETHER. I WILL ALWAYS THINK OF YOU AS MY LIL COUSIN NO MATTER WHAT. I MISS EVERYONE AS YOU KNOW ME AND SLAM OUR NOT TOGETHER BUT YOU KNOW HOW MUCH LOVE I HAVE. I HAVENT SEEN YOUR MOM IN AWHILE HI LAURA HOWS THE GIRLS. I THINK ABOUT YOU GUYS. I THOUGHT ID WRITE ALITTLE SOMETHING SINCE I REALLY DONT GET TO SEE YOU OUR TALK TO YOU. RUBY MIJA I MISS YOU DEARLY I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AT THE GATES. P.S. WATCH OUT FOR SLAM PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!
Joanne
March 14, 2005
Ruby you have always been a beautiful angel,when you were a little girl I remember seeing you at your grandma Cocos house, you were so very sweet and pretty, now you are smiling down from heaven. I am sure your daddy is holding your hand in heaven pretty angel. God bless you and your family!!!
Ashley Foster Aka Minnie :- )
January 14, 2005
Hey Girl, it's me just thought i'd drop u a line to let you know how i'am doing. It's been a few month's since you've been sleeping with the angels and each day I have You on my mind. I am about 6 months along with my baby boy and I really wish we could have shared that together, we would have done it side by side two big belly's :-) well I have About 1 1/2 more months of college and I am done! thanks for watching out for me through these past months, You've Been that bright star in the sky I looked For all those nights i Thought I could'nt make it and you've Told me to not give up, I love You and until next time, Keep Shining For Us Ma!
*Carmen* ~De *La* Ro$a~
December 12, 2004
Ruby
Hey what's up girl?I was just thinking about you so I had to drop you acouple of lines.I just wanted to send my up most love to you and your familia.
I picture your face and I know its true,
Another minute flew by just thinking of you,
I sit here & I wonder I dream and I daze,
People try to follow my gaze,
Smiling and grinning wonderin too,
How many minutes flew by just thinking of you.
I close my eyes and what do I see,
your beautiful face staring back at me,
I'm alwayz happy dreaming about you,
I could sit here for hours just thinking of you.
~*Carmen*~ De *La *Ro$a
November 29, 2004
<3~*<3~*<3~*<3*Ruby*<3~*<3~*<3*~<3
As the last two months went by I have been thinking about you everyday.I still can't belive that you are gone.I still keep in touch with your prima Alexisse.Every time I think of the good old days I get a lil teary eyed,But alwayz remember that you will be on my mind and that I will never forget you.I will see you when I get up there so save a spot for me.Love Always your homegirl Carmen a.k.a Loca Baby....R.I.P. Ruby Locz<3
April Avalos
November 26, 2004
Ruby,
I know I havent talked to you in a couple of years. You were always a good friend to me no matter what. Every time I seen or talked to you, you were always so happy. I miss you so much & I'll be praying.
Love Always,
April
Ashley Foster AkA minnie
October 8, 2004
Hey girl,its me Thought i'd write a lil something to let you know how im doing. well im in college and i'll be graduating in about four months, i really miss you and i think about you every day. i just still cant believe your gone. I had a dream about you a couple nights ago, you came to my door and told me you were home now so dont worry and dont cry cause its all better now, you couldn't stay though you said you had to find your mom and take care of her, you said if i ever needed anything to come next door and talk to you, if that was really true ruby i'd never leave your side, you'd get tired of me:-)
Everyday when Im on my way to school I pass up that place downtown where your mom dropped us off to go get your hair dyed and you said it wouldn't take that long and I believed you! we were there for 4 hours! I fell asleep on the chair waiting 4 u until laura came and picked me up, u stayed and got picked up by one of your homegirls because you were going out that night. you were so happy that you got your hair done when i seen you thats all you could talk about! Well I would give anything to live that day just one more time ruby, just to see that smile that was on your face once more. I love you and your always on my mind girl.
Laura ALvarado
October 5, 2004
Hey Gurl well i still cant believe you're gone, i still remember you when we were in school together in Kindergarden-Middle school. We were in elementary school together and had you in all my classes. Ruby i'm a have you in my prayers and in my heart. ~~~R.I.P. Ruby ~~~
maria
September 18, 2004
hey girl well up until now i still cant believe that your gone, i mean im still in shock i knew you since 3rd grade. I know we had our differences in middle school but to me thats all in the past i want to pay my respects to you and your family. Take care of ur family 4rm up there because u know they love you! love alwayz lil maria
Dedicated to Ruby, Vanessa C.
September 17, 2004
Ruby,
It's me Vanessa! I'm sitting here thinking about the times we had at shool! Good and bad! We weren't the closest, but the memories I'am left with are worth having cause now they mean something!! Over the years we spent in school we grew our seperate ways, but we always had enough respect for each other to say what's up! When we were in class together at Legion, we were partners in crime!! I'm thankful for the times we had and words can't express how I feel now to know that you're gone, but it's never good-bye in my eyes!! It'll just be a while 'til we meet again!! My love and respects go to you and your familia!! I'll never forget you!! You'll always be in my heart!!!! Remember it's never Good-bye!!
DEDICATED TO RUBY
September 13, 2004
"REALLY, REALLY, LOVE YOU. OH YA! HONEST I DO, I DONT WANT TO LOSE YA I LOVE YOU TO MUCH. REALLY, REALLY, LOVE YOU". IN MEMORY OF YOU "NEVER GOOD BYE BABY IT'LL BE NEVER GOOD BYE BABY. THAT'S LONG YOU'LL BE IN MY HEART WHEN YOUR GONE NEVER GOOD BYE BABY IT'LL NEVER BE GOOD BYE BABY". "I SPEND MY SADDEST MOMENTS AFTER THE SUN GOES DOWN THAT'S WHEN MY HEART STARTS ACHING CAUSE I WANT YOU AROUND".
ROSIE
September 13, 2004
EVERDAY I PASS BY AND JUST THINK OF YOU AND THE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES YOU LEFT ME WITH. YOU WERE EVERYONE SHINING STAR AND YOU'LL ALWAYS WILL BE.
Rosa Perez
September 1, 2004
To my dearest family the Guevara's I will never forget the first time I met you Laura and the girls. It was about 6years ago. Oh my how time does fly by over the years your family has been kind enough to embrace me as family therfore Ruby is truly my little cousin and always will be. Remember the time me and slam went swimming at the apartment with the kids Ruby was only 10 then. I have always thought she was such a beautiful person. I truly loved her as one of my own. I won't forget all those memories Me and Slam shared with your family. You know Thanksgivings and Christmas. I just makes me laugh to think about her baby doll voice, her beautiful hair and the way she made me laugh. I liked when Slam use to mess with her she use to say I'll just tell my grandpa. It was like yesterday that we were all gathered for another family function at your dad's house and all the kids were around. I thanked god today for giving me a chance to watch such a beautiful young girl grow into a beautiful young lady. Me and Slam truly love you and will always be around. Ruby was our little cousin who was tragically taken from us but we know in our hearts shes always with us. I know words will never ease the pain but memories will make it better because no one can take that away from us. WE LOVE YOU RUBY
Renee Espinosa
August 24, 2004
To the family and friends of Ruby, I am very sorry for the pain that you're enduring. My heart and prayers are with you. Although the memories of Ruby will make you laugh and cry at the same time, they will be forever cherished. May God Bless all of you, forever in our hearts! Renee Espinosa, Eric A. Minjares Jr. and Alyssa Placencia
Whitebird Ceremonial Dove Releases
August 20, 2004
It was such an honor to be part of Ruby's beautiful graveside service today. I hope the outpouring of love of family and friends, as well as the sweet memories you share of her are giving you comfort. And I hope releasing the doves helped, too. Please call me, (916) 443-2165, if there is anything else I can do to be of assistance to your family.
Anna Lisa Hernandez
china minjares
August 20, 2004
laura y familia,their is nothing to say that will make you feel better, pero dios es muy grande and he forgets about "no one". May God bless you and your familia. You are in our prayers; eric,china & martita minjares...
DANITA OKUNGBOWA
August 20, 2004
EVEN THOUGH I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SWEET ANGEL. I SEND OUT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES AND PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY. LET IT BE KNOWN THAT GOD HAS RECEIVED A SWEET ANGEL IN HEAVEN.
Syephanie A.K.A. Boxer
August 20, 2004
Laura and Familia,
My heart can't even express how much this all hurts I just wish I could do something to make all the pain and suffering all better. I am sorry about all this I love each and everyone of you so much. Hope and my prayers are with you at this time of need R.I.P Lil Ruby xoxo Stephanie
Stephanie A.K.A Boxer
August 20, 2004
Ruby,
Hey lil one I just can't belive this went down the way it did. My heart is so hurt over all this my words will never truly express the way I truly feel for you I remember all those nights that we spent on the phone laughing,crying and yelling at each over drama. (mostly chatine drama) LOL well n ways I miss you so very very much I am sorry that I wasn't there we you needed a friend the most you will forever be in my heart and mind I MISS YOU GIRL I wish we could turn back the hands of time. But until we meet again I will be missing you so much xoxo...... Steph
P.s. smile for me
Empera Moreno-Genzoli
August 20, 2004
Heaven and Earth
For Laura, Ernie, Victor and Family...
When the warmth of the sun touches our face
We see your smile and feel your embrace.
We hear the whisper of love in the wind
And we know that you are close to us again.
The rain speaks of tears and the thunder of pain,
But soon the sun comes the earth to reclaim.
As the days come and go and the world moves on,
We know you're still here, you'll never be gone.
On the night the Angel came and took your hand,
We cried as you left for an unknown land.
But Heaven rejoiced as you came into sight,
For your soul was a diamond, shining so bright!
Brenda Gaines
August 20, 2004
Ralph& Family,
My deepest condolenses to you & your family. My prayers are also with you and your family. Stay strong and may God Bless.
Brenda & Family
MARIAH NOBIDA
August 20, 2004
LAURA&VICTOR,tragically her life was taken from you,but she's now in a better place with her father,uncle ralph,aunt rosie,and paco.Who is forever missed!!!!!
I AM FREE
DON'T GRIEVE FOR ME,FOR I AM FREE!!!I'M FOLLWING THE PATH GOD LAID FOR ME.I TOOK HIS HAND WHEN I HEARD HIM CALL,I TURNED MY BACK&LEFT IT ALL.I COULD NOT STAY ANOTHER DAY,TO LAUGH,TO LOVE,TO WORK OR PLAY.TASKS LEFT UNDONE,MUST STAY THAT WAY.I FOUND PEACE AT CLOSE OF DAY.IF MY PARTING HAS LEFT A VOID,THEN FILL IT WITH REMEMBERING JOY!!!BE NOT BURDENED WITH TIMES OF SORROW,I WISH YOU THE HAPPINESS OF TOMORROW.MY LIFE HAS BEEN FULL OF FAMILY,GOOD FRIENDS,AND GOOD TIMES.PERHAPS MY TIME SEEMED ALL TO BRIEF,DON'T LENGTHEN IT NOW WITH UNDUE GRIEF.LIFT UP YOUR HEART AND SHARE WITH ME,GOD WANTED ME NOW,HE SET ME FREE!!!!!
DAVID KINCANNON
August 19, 2004
TO LAURA AND FAMILY,
SORRY FOR YOUR TRAGIC LOSS, MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Anita Gonzales
August 19, 2004
Laura,there are no words that could ease your pain during this horriable time,but try to find strengh in knowing that she is safe with her father.My prayers are with you always.
MINNIE
August 19, 2004
HEY RUBY LOCS ITS ME MINNIE, I CANT STOP THINKING OF YOU, YOU WERE ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS AND I CANT BELIEVE SOMEONE TOOK U AWAY FROM ME I LOVE YOU ANDI MISS YOU SO MUCH ITS WEIRD NOW BECAUSE I WAS USED TO SEEING YOU ALMOST EVERY DAY, YOU WOULD COME NEXT DOOR TO MY HOUSE AND WAKE ME UP IN THE MORNINGS BEFORE U WOULD GO TO SCHOOL OR WORK AND BRING ME A HI C. WE WOULD TALK AND LAUGH BEFORE IT WAS TIME FOR U TO LEAVE. DANG GURL NOW UR WITH GOD AND BRINGING HIM THE JOY YOU WOULD BRING ME. TODAY IS YOUR VIEWING AND I AM GOING AFTER MY CLASS TO SEE YOU I JUST HOPE YOU GIVE ME THE STRENGTH TO SEE YOU AND NOT BREAK DOWN, IM TRYING SO HARD RUBY BUT ITS TOUGH I KNOW ITS GOING TO COME SOONER OR LATER SO I HOPE YOUR WITH ME. I LOVE YOU BABY GIRL REST IN PEACE CAUSE YOUR SLEEPING WITH THE ANGELS NOW, MUAHZ!
LOVE ALWAYS MINNIE.
Rosa Roa
August 19, 2004
To Ruby's family: I was told the terrible news. I am sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to each and everyone of you. May she rest in peace. God bless you, Ruby and family.
Grandpa Jim Castellano
August 18, 2004
Dearest Ruby:
Even with a broken heart i remember many wonderful things about you. Like the way you were loved by your grandma Petra, grandpa Ralph and grandma Coco. The joy you brought your mom, my son Victor, your little sisters Olivia, Victoria, also little Ernie. The love you got from all your aunties, uncles, cousins and great grandarents. The many happy times we had at grandpa, and grandma Llano's house with uncle Bob, aunties Liv, Vivianne, and Bonnie. James, Michelle, Christine, Angela, adn Jenny. Uncle Rick and John. And lets not forget the most wonderful times we had with our favorite lovable Aunt Liv who took us everywhere and bought us food and goodies. Although her heart is broken she will miss you dearly and remember you always. Wow, what an abundance of love you shared with all of us. Ruby you became my Grand daughter the minute i saw you in my sons arms at Grandma Llano's house. We all fell in love with you, and i will never forget you. May Jahovah God, be with you always. Till we meet again with Jesus in paradise. You are forever in my heart,
Love your Grandpa Jim
Rosa Islas
August 18, 2004
Although I now live far from Sacramento, and although the year in which Ruby was my student has long since passed, I remember her and grieve this loss. When I looked into my students' faces this morning, my heart ached at the memory of a similar young student who was kind to all and very respectful toward adults. I pray for comfort and my sincere sympathy is expressed to her family and friends.
Across the miles, I send a warm embrace.
Con carino,
Ms. Islas
Sophia Munoz
August 18, 2004
To the family of Ruby,
I have read of your loss and my heart goes out to you. I wish your family healing and peace. I felt compelled to share this famous poem with you.
I Did Not Die
Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.
Poem By,
Melinda Sue Pacho
Joe Castellano
August 18, 2004
Prayer of Saint Francis Assisi
Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace!
That where there is hatred, I may bring love.
That where there is wrong,
....I may bring the spirit of forgiveness.
That where there is discord, I may bring harmony.
That where there is error, I may bring truth.
That where there is doubt, I may bring faith.
That where there is despair, I may bring hope.
That where there are shadows, I may bring light.
That where there is sadness, I may bring joy.
Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort,
....than to be comforted.
To understand, than to be understood.
To love, than to be loved.
For it is by self-forgetting that one finds.
It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.
It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life.
Alicia Diaz
August 18, 2004
Laura and kids and the Pena family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
"Blessed are they who mourn,
for they will be comforted."
Matthew 5:4 (NAB)
M Gonzales
August 18, 2004
"There is wonderful joy ahead,
even though it is necessary for you
to endure many trials for a while.
These trials are only to test your faith,
to show that it is strong and pure.
It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold,
and your faith is far more precious
to God than mere gold.
So if your faith remains strong
after being tried by fiery trials,
it will bring you much praise and
glory and honor on the day when
Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world."
(1 Peter 1:6-7)God Bless you Laura and family. Ruby is safe now and in the arms of the angels and her father. Finally he gets to hold his babygirl.
Marie Salas
August 18, 2004
I thought I saw your face today,
in the sparkle of the morning sun.
And then I heard the angel say,
"Their work on earth is done."
I thought I heard your voice today,
then laugh your hearty laugh.
And then I heard the angel say,
"There's peace dear one at last."
I thought I felt your touch today,
in the breeze that rustled by.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The spirit never dies."
I thought I saw my broken heart,
in the crescent of the moon.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The Lord is coming soon."
I thought that you had left me,
for the stars so far above.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They left you with their love."
I thought that I would miss you so,
and never find my way.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They're with you every day."
"The sun, the wind, the moon, the stars,
will forever be around,
reminding you of the love you shared,
and the peace they've finally found."
Teresa Gonzalez - Sanchez
August 18, 2004
My heart felt sympathy in the loss of such a beautiful young lady, Ruby Pena and our prayers go out to you all on this time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy, Teresa Gonzalez and family
Barbara
August 18, 2004
I don't personally know your family but wanted to let you know that you and your family will be in my prayers. To Ruby's family remember she will no longer feel pain of this world and she is now rejoicing amongst the angels. Know that she is now looking down on all of her loved ones to watch over you. You are blessed to have such a precious angel taking care of you.
God Bless Ruby's Family and Friends
Petra Gonzalez - Esparza
August 18, 2004
To my Comadre Coco and family,
My heart is heavy with sadness when I heard about your granddaughter Ruby Pena. You and I have suffered a great loss with the death of our sons, my godson Ruben and my son Albert who I can still envision them playing together as young children. We will find strength in knowing that we will someday be together with them again.
With my deepest sympathy, you’re Comadre Petra.
LIZ MONTOYA
August 18, 2004
TO RUBY'S FAMILY, MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO EACH & EVERYONE OF YOU, SHE IS NOW WITH THE LORD UP ABOVE & SHE WILL BE WATCHING OVER EACH ONE OF YOU, GOD BLESS
Heather Martinez
August 18, 2004
Ruby,
I know nothing about you my dear but i knew i had to send you a message. After tragically losing my best friend a year ago at such a young age like yourself. It is horrriible that another family has to feel that pain. You will be in my prayers and i wish the very best to your family in this ruff time of grief and sarrow. Watch over your loved ones while they haved prayed for you and will always have you in their hearts
Irene Ramirez
August 18, 2004
To Laura & Family.
I know there are no words that can ease the pain of separation. My heart cries in pain for you. Words cannot adequately express the sadness you are feeling. We have lost a beautiful girl, who was beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. Ruby will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Irene & Family
angell
August 18, 2004
my prayers are with your family Ruby, i remember you as everyone has discribed you. i was very sad to read of what happened to you, you did not deserve to be taken from your family so soon, but god has his reasons, and you are in a better place. rest in peace sweetheart.
Paul Salas
August 18, 2004
cousin ruby...it is so hard to believe that we have had another death in our family..it was not ur time to leave yet..but know you are safe with god now..you'll be in mine and the families' prayers and hearts forever..rest in peace cousin
tanya aguilar
August 17, 2004
for rubys mom im sorry for your lost of your beautiful babygirl.
may god be with all of you.
REBECCA AGUILAR
August 17, 2004
MY DEAR FRIEND RUBY IT IS SO SAD THAT YOU ARE GONE.IM GOING TO MISS YOU SO MUCH.YOU WERE SO COOL. AND BEAUTIFUL.I REMEMBER WHEN YOU WOULD COME AND SPEND THE NIHGHT WE WOULD STAY UP ALL NIGHT AND TALK AND TALK. AND I WOULD SPEND THE NIGHT AT YOUR HOUSE.I REMEMBER WHEN IT WAS STORMY WE WOULD GET SCARED.NOW YOU WONT GET SCARED BECAUSE YOU ARE SAFE WITH GOD I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU HOMEGIRL MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Diana and Quentin
August 17, 2004
To Victor and the family of Ruby, we are truly sorry for the loss of this beautiful girl. We can't begin to imagine what you are going through. If there is anything that we can do please let us know? You will all be in our prayers.
Nicole Santos
August 17, 2004
Even though I didn't know Ruby at all I feel compelled to let her family know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you through this difficult time. Please accept my condolences.
LOLA GARCIA
August 17, 2004
OUR CONDOLENSES GO OUT TO LAURA & VICTOR AND WHOLE FAMILY. MAY RUBY REST IN PEACE ALONG WITH HER FATHER.
YOU WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS....LOLA,JOSIE,YOLANDA GARCIA..& BERNICE DE ANDA.
Empera Moreno-Genzoli
August 17, 2004
To my Brother Ernie, Laura,Victoria,Olivia and Lil Ernie, I just wanted to tell you how deeply sorry we are for your loss. I never really had a chance to get to know Ruby but saw her in passing many times when Dad was sick, she was a beautiful girl and it's heartbreaking to even fathom the pain you all must be feeling from this.
Our family has felt much pain in the last year and lost two very special people, she is with our Lord now. Always keep in your heart that an Angel will be beside you at all times, a special angel to watch over all of you now, she may not be here physically but the memories everyone has, will keep her with us forever...
Love Your Big Sister, Empera...
Shirley Roa
August 17, 2004
My condolences to the Castellano and Gevara family- Our heart and prayers go out to you. I can't think of any words that will help to ease your pain, just know that Ruby knows how much you love her and is watching from above. God Bless you all. Love Shirley and Kids
DEBRA M. CRUZ-GARCIA
August 17, 2004
RUBY,
WE WILL NOT BE REMEMBERED BY OUR WORDS, BUT BY OUR DEEDS.
LIFE IS NOT MEASURED BY THE BREATHS WE TAKE, BUT BY THE MOMENTS THAT TAKE OUR BREATH.
THEY SAY IT TAKES A MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON, AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM, A DAY TO LOVE THEM, BUT AN ENTIRE LIFE TO FORGET THEM. MARIA VELA AND HER MOM WILL ALWAYS KEEP YOUR MEMORIES CLOSE TO OUR HEARTS. "REST IN PEACE"
Marcy and Jaime Rodriguez
August 17, 2004
To Victor Castellano and all of your loved ones suffering from this tragedy, may you find some sort of comfort during this time. Our deepest sympathy to you. Your family is in my prayers, Vic. God Bless.
Respectfully,
Mr. and Mrs. Jaime Rodriguez
Trish Kampmeinert
August 17, 2004
To Ruby's family. Since Ruby started at my school I got to know her these past few years. What a beautiful person. Seeing Ruby come in for her school appointments always brought a smile to my face. She wanted to graduate and the way she was going that was going to happen for her. My prayers are with all the people in her life.
Ruby sisneros
August 17, 2004
laura my deepest sympathy to you and your family i remember when we were in school together at american legion and we were both pregnant with our babys you told me u were naming her ruby like my name but after her dad our prayers are with you from ruby cerda sisneros and john john mcmahan
Tina
August 17, 2004
To Laura & Family.
I didn't know Ruby but I did get the chance to work with Laura at Target. My prayers go out to the family it was terrible loss to lose a sweet girl. May God & Ruby be watching over Laura and love ones.
shantel franklin
August 17, 2004
To the family and friends of Ruby,
I am sorry for the loss of such a young person. I didnt know her, however I wanted to offer some words from my forefathers from the Native American Culture.
There is no death, only a change of worlds.
-Chief Seattle
Life is not seperate from death, it only looks that way.
-Blackfoot
They are not dead who live in the hearts they leave behind.
- Tuscaora
love and blessings,
Shantel Franklin and Rudy Hader
Chela Cardenas
August 17, 2004
Laura, I didn't know your daughter Ruby, but did have the opportunity to run into you and her, through out the years. You were blessed with a beautiful girl. I am sorry for your loss; my prayers go out to you and your family. May God Bless you Ruby as you will now watch over your loved ones.
Karla Lopez
August 17, 2004
Laura&Ernie and family
I want you to know that my hart and prayers are with you I know the pain in your hart but keep faith in god and he will help you go through this . may god bless you.
Marcelina Hernandez
August 17, 2004
To: Victor Castellano, Laura Castellano and Ernie Moreno....I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Angel, Ruby. I can only hope that my thoughts and prayers will somehow comfort and console you. Ruby's w/ our Lord and his son Jesus, smiling down upon us. May God Bless your entire family. With Love, Marcelina
Rachel Minnick
August 17, 2004
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of this young woman. I didn't know Ruby personally, she was the beautiful girl behind the counter at the Terriyaki Bowl where I would go for lunch sometimes. She seemed like a regular teen girl and reminded me of myself at that age. She was even sweet enough to put a few cents in the cash register once when I didn't bring enough money for my lunch. I thought that was so sweet. To me, that showed she who she was and showed that somebody raised her right. To her family, my prayers are for you as well as the prayers of others at the Sacramento Children's Home who knew of Ruby from the Terriyaki Bowl restaurant. Much love and support to you at this time.
Rachel M
Monique Garay
August 17, 2004
Ruby, you will always be missed and never 4gotten, you were a coo homegirl since the first time i met u at cal middle....everynight you'll be in my prayers as will your family, rest in peace babygirl ur in a better place now.
Ted and Cathy Aggergard
August 17, 2004
Your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers. We have learned so much about Ruby and her family through our neice Jessica Ramirez.
Maggie Sanchez Vela
August 17, 2004
All of the Sanchez family send our condolences to you and the family during this difficult time. I always will remember Ruby when you brought her to the easter egg hunt at the house. You and the family were so happy. Those our the memories I will keep of her. You have alot of family here for you to help you through this hang in there.
Lucinda Murillo-Simnick
August 17, 2004
Our prayers for your family and friends. May your soul rest in peace. In Christ Love, Lucinda (Daughter of Valentino & MaryLou (Gomez) Murillo.
Larina Rodriquez
August 17, 2004
I can remeber as if it was just yesterday you had called me for a ride home are to go out. Now you are at home with God. Even though your time here was short you still touch everyone in you own special way. You will always be in our hearts. Love you! your cousin Larina Rodriquez
April Allen
August 16, 2004
well i don't know if ruby would remember me but we used to kick it together and my parents knew her whole family but all i can really say is that she will be remembered as the cheerful person that che was she could put a smile on anyones face she stud up for herself and she will be missed by everyone on the BLVD. she knows who everyone is we love you Ruby Lokz love april LiL Gigglez
William J. Gevara
August 16, 2004
Laura Castellano&family: Your loss is in our heart. Juanita Hammer and family also William J. Gevara and family
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