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Tatem Carlile Obituary

CARLILE, TATEM
Age 19, of Massillon, OH died Sunday April 27, 2003 in Aultman Hospital from injuries sustained in an accident. Born May 23, 1983, she was the daughter of Alan and Paula (Romano) Carlile of Citrus Heights, CA. She was a member of the Holy Family Catholic Church in Citrus Heights and had attended Sierra College in Rocklin, CA and was a student at Stark State College. In addition to her parents, she is survived by sister, Alissa Carlile and brother, Zachary (Zac) Carlile, both of Citrus Heights; brothers and sisters-in-law, Adam & Wendy Carlile and Drew & Lisa Carlile all of Alliance, OH; grandparents, Frank & Mary Romano of Malvern, OH; Don & Emma Blevins of Jewett, OH; aunts and uncles, Cindy & Rex West of Malvern, OH, Molly & David Romano of Canton, OH, Denise Carlile of Damascus, OH, Gary Carlile of San Marcos, CA; cousins, Dana, Darcy & Clint West of Canton, OH, Michael & Julianne Romano of Canton, OH, David Fonner of Damascus, OH, Cobin Plessinger of Canton, OH and niece & nephew, Sydney & Alexander Carlile of Alliance, OH. A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, 126 Carrollton St., Malvern, OH at 11:00am on Friday, May 2, 2003 with Msgr. John Campbell as celebrant. Burial will be in St. Francis Xavier Cemetery. Calling hours will be held at the church on Thursday from 2-4 and 7-9pm. Friends unable to attend may register online at our wabsite www.bartleyfuneralhome.com. Memorial donations may be made to the Cindy West Benefit Fund at Consumers National Bank. Deckman-Bartley, 330-863-0441.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Apr. 30, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
for Tatem Carlile

20 Entries

Denice Ann Knutson

May 8, 2003

Al,Paula,Zac,and Alissa:

I just heard about the loss of Tatem. I don't know how to express my deepest simpathies and love to all of you and everyone who ever had the joy and privelage to know Tatem. I remember growing up around all of you, and being part of your extended family. I will always remember Tatem as the cute,sweet little girl that was my childhood boyfriends little sister, and my little sisters bestfriend.

If there is anything at all that I can do to help you get thru this terrible time, please feel free to call me anytime day or night, even if you just need another sister, daughter,or mother to talk to and cry on my shoulder. I will always be here for all of you. My phone number is 916-332-6381. My Parents are Steve and Billie Kimbrell, and my brother and sisters are Stevie,Christine,and Pammie, and all of them would also like to send there Simpathy to each and every one of you.

Again if there is anything I can do for any of you, please call me anytime.

With all of my Love: Denice Ann Knutson (formerly Kimbrell) and my family Brandon, Treay & Alexander

John Engbretson

May 3, 2003

Al and Paula,

I read of Tatem's passing a few days ago, and still can't express my true feelings in words. I won't pretend to know how you feel at this time, but want you to know that I feel a deep sadness for your loss.

Debbie Terry

May 2, 2003

I would like to send all of Tatem's friends and family my thoughts and prayers through their time of pain and sorrow. I went to school with Tatem for six years, and considered her one of my friends. She touched everyone's life, and forever became our friend. I will miss her beautiful smile, her cheerful laugh, and her friendship that changed my life. My thoughts and prayers are with those who are effected by this tragic loss. May she rest in peace, and forever be in our hearts! I love you Tatem, you are and always will be missed!

Jennifer Galli

May 2, 2003

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Carlile family. I had the honor to get to know Tatem during our high school years. She was a blessing to everyone who met her. She will always be in my heart and on my mind.

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Stefanie Cummings

May 2, 2003

To The Carlile Family~

I have never met you guys but I graduated with Tatem and had the privaledge getting to know Tatem on our Senior Trip to Mexico. She was such an amazing girl and I will never forget the wonderful times we had together. Your family is in my heart!

Alison Hammond

May 2, 2003

I am so sorry about your loss. Tatem was such a beautiful person inside and out. She always made me smile and laugh. My thoughts will be with your family throughout this difficult time. God Bless.

Rae Lynn Maley

May 2, 2003

Alan, Paula and Family

Our deepest sympathies go out to you all. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Jessica Bradley

May 2, 2003

Paula,Alan,Alissa,and Zack I'm sorry about Tatem. It hurts to lose someone that brought so much laughter to so many people. She was full of energy everytime I saw her. Her and I have very good memories together and I will never forget the friendship we had. Thinking of you. love Jessica.

Fritz Eberle

May 2, 2003

Alan and Paula and Family,

I am very very sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter Tatem. My deepest sympathy and condolences.

Jim & Betty Castellucci

May 2, 2003

WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. OUR HEARTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.

The Hanks Family

May 1, 2003

Al,Paula,Zac & Alyssa, There are no words to express our greif and sorrow over the loss of Tatem. Over the last 15 years we have come to love and care for your family and your loss is deeply felt by us. We watched Tatem grow from a little girl into a beautiful young lady and to lose her at so young an age is a terrible thing. If there is any thing that we can do to help you in your time of need we are right next door. Please know that your whole family is in our hearts and prayers.

With our deepest sympathies,

The Hanks Family

Tony

May 1, 2003

I was shocked when I heard about the loss of Tatem. I had the priviledge of coaching Tatem on her jv soccer team at Mesa Verde High School. Tatem was a strong team player with a strong, energetic character. I will not forget her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this difficult time. Sincerely, Tony.

Tori Swansiger

April 30, 2003

Tatem was in my Psych class at Stark State. I didn't get to talk to her much, or get to know her very well, but my heart hurts just the same. I lost my uncle a few months back, and I know how it feels to loose someone you love.

Freda Eberle

April 30, 2003

Dear Alan and Paula,

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I know she must have been deeply cherished and will be deeply missed.

My sincerest condolences,

Freda Eberle

Darcie Burkhead

April 30, 2003

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Tatem always will be a very beautiful energetic spirit. I'm very greatful to of had her for such a good friend. I will always love her and already miss her. I will keep all of you in my heart. If you need anything at all give me a call. 505-6295. xoxo

Ruth Mathews

April 30, 2003

Dear Paula, Alan, Allisa and Zac: Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Ruth and family

Kathy Mack

April 30, 2003

Paula, My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Deckman-Bartley Funeral Home

April 30, 2003

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

David Morris

April 29, 2003

So sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. You and your family are in my thoughts and my prayers.