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Valerie Wheeler Obituary

Dr. Valerie Wheeler, Professor Emerita of Anthropology at California State University - Sacramento, died on January 16, 2017, after a sudden and brief battle with leukemia. Born on July 19, 1940, Dr. Wheeler spent her early childhood on farms in Ohio and Michigan, studied briefly at Oberlin College, then graduated from the University of Nebraska in Lincoln. She earned her master's and Ph.D. degrees in Anthropology at the University of Oregon, then taught Anthropology at California State for 40 years, as well as courses in sustainable agriculture in its Environmental Studies program. She conducted research on many topics, including cross-cultural studies of warfare and particularly ethnographic studies of sustainable organic farming families in Ohio, California and France. She also shared ownership of a nearly 200-year-old family farm in Ohio that had been owned by Thomas Edison's sister and her husband; Edison himself was her great-great-uncle. Dr. Wheeler had an early and lifelong interest in photography, which she combined with her ethnographic research. In 2003 she was chosen by the Sac State Faculty Senate to present the Livingston Lecture, one of the university's highest honors; her topic was "The Art of Farming: Ethnography Enlightened by Photography." In retirement she earned an additional master's degree in photographic arts from Cal State, assisted in courses in the Art Department, and used traditional but rare platinum printing techniques to produce black-and-white art photographs of subjects from flowers to photo documentation of Sacramento's Italian men's outdoor bocce bowling community. An avid reader and intellectual, she also loved sewing, quilting and other artistic crafts. Dr. Wheeler was married to philosopher Jamil Nammour for 13 years, then for 32 years to fellow anthropologist Peter Esainko. She was the beloved and beautiful mother of two sons, filmmaker Edouard Nammour of New York (married to Nina Orville) and pianist Kymry Esainko of the San Francisco Bay area (married to Rebecca Burrington). She also leaves a sister, Hannah Wheeler Andrews and brother-in-law Pete Andrews of Chapel Hill, North Carolina; a cousin, Robert Wheeler, of Milan, Ohio; four grandchildren, Remy and Lucas Nammour and Kai and Stella Esainko; a niece, a nephew, and five great-nieces and great-nephews. Dr. Wheeler cared deeply about progressive political ideals. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her name are welcome to Doctors Without Borders. For further information, Edouard Nammour can be contacted at [email protected].

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jan. 21 to Jan. 22, 2017.

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Jann C Belcher

February 14, 2021

My memories of Valerie Wheeler are "Dr. Wheeler. Mentor. Example. Friend" She influenced my academic career and my goal was to be as good of a teacher and professor. So sorry to read of this struggle.

Martin D Hemminger

August 5, 2020

I was hoping to visit again with Valerie and with Peter. She graciously shared a breakfast at the home of Homer Page with me and my wife Celine. She was interested with what we were doing with our organic farm. The last time that we visited with het was in Columbus, Ohio, at Ohio State University. We send our condolences with a saddened heart.

Jann Belcher

February 27, 2018

I am just learning of the passing of a dear friend, mentor, and professor that influenced my life in a positive and energetic way. I am sorry to hear she has passed. I express my deepest sympathy and caring to her family. I sincerely hope she did not suffer greatly.

Jennifer Bravo

December 14, 2017

Valerie was a bright and shining light in my life. She was a mother figure, a mentor... a strong, progressive woman who pushed her students to be the best they could be. After I graduated from undergrad, Valerie and I kept in touch. I have so many wonderful memories of her... but I wish I could speak with her one last time, to let her know how important she was to me and my educational and political development.

Holly Cronin

October 21, 2017

I am so sad that Valerie is gone. She was the mom I needed to provide the moral and intellectual foundation for my entire life. I was always in awe of her and (as so accurately stated by D.Wheeler below) she turned my head around and taught me about the world as no other individual could. Her compelling lectures and ever patient (but always exquisite) commentary seriously changed my life and helped me through the most difficult part of the next several decades have unfolded. Honestly, I feel as though I would be nothing if not for her - I'm so very sad she is gone. I will miss knowing she is gracing the planet =o( r.i.p. my hero of all time

David Wheeler

March 25, 2017

I'm deeply saddened by Valerie's passing. She was more than just my undergraduate advisor in the late 80s and early 90s, but also "Mom" to me and a slew of my fellow anthropology majors. Such a great, inspiring teacher, who taught me to view the world through the lens of culture, so that I saw it in a completely new way. It was eye-opening, and had such an impact that I could never close them again. And for that, I wanted to do well, to make her proud. She expected a lot, and I wanted to meet those expectations. It made me a better person, a more thoughtful person. And I could not appreciate it more. I'm sorry not to have kept in better touch, and so sad that the world has lost such a compassionate, wonderful person. I will carry some of that with me for the remainder of my life. Valerie's impact was great, and I'm grateful to have had her in my life. My condolences to her family.

Cathy (Johnstone) Mitchell

February 25, 2017

Shocked and saddened by the news. Many moons ago I worked w/ her at the Environmental Studies Program. She was such a smart, funny, warm and trail blazing woman. This is such sad news

Angus Wright

February 11, 2017

Just heard of Valerie's death. She was a wonderful, warm, and intelligent person and an always passionately dedicated teacher and scholar. As a fellow prof., I learned more than I can say from our many rich conversations. What a surprising and dramatic loss!

Amy Fransen

February 10, 2017

Dear, dear Valerie. She was my professor for many classes and I was proud to call her a friend. Her radiance will be missed. Condolences to everyone whose lives she touched.

Denise Jurich

February 5, 2017

Dr. Wheeler was one of my favorite professors. She was kind, intelligent, funny, and a role model for many students. I will miss her. My condolences to her family, friends, and former students.

Vicki Hall

January 25, 2017

Just heard of Valerie's passing from a student this afternoon. I am very sorry to hear she is no longer with us. I was always impressed with your mother's energy and active lifestyle. I am looking forward to the exhibition of her photographs planned at CSUS.

Valerie Wheeler in a bird blind at Grey Lodge Wildlife Refuge

Anita Scharf

January 25, 2017

Ed Bettinelli

January 25, 2017

What an incredible woman(the apple didn't fall far from the tree)! Our deepest condolences go out to the wonderful Nammour family, R.I.P. Valerie! With love The Bettinelli's.

Patsy & Nicolai Laquaglia

January 22, 2017

Nicolai and I consider it a privilege to have been friends of this wonderful woman. She was always the picture of health with her sparkling eyes, rosy cheeks and radiant smile. We will miss her so much. We send heartfelt condolences to her family.

Terri Castaneda

January 22, 2017

I was so saddened to hear of Valerie's passing. Some of my fondest memories of her involve working with her to develop the 2003 Anthropology Museum exhibit "The Art of Farming: Photographs from Fieldwork in the US and France, by Valerie Wheeler. Over the course of our work, she shared many childhood memories and treasured photographs of her family's farm that really spoke to her deep love of the land and the people who work it. At the close of the exhibit, she very generously gave me the photograph that she had learned was my favorite. It was taken in France and features two organic farmers selling their produce at market. It has graced my kitchen ever since and reminds me of her daily. She will be missed. My condolences to Peter and family.

Della deCorse

January 21, 2017

I was saddened to hear of Valerie's passing. She has been a wonderful person and a long standing member of the Sacramento Iris Society. She will be deeply missed

Dotty Theodoratus

January 21, 2017

Condolences to Valerie's family

Gerald Heine

January 21, 2017

My deepest condolences to Varerie's family and friends.
I worked with her for about 30 years and will always remember her as a soft spoken friend and colleague.

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