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Arthur Wilhelm Obituary

Arthur W. Wilhelm, age 83, of Palm Springs, CA, died from an accidental fall March 30, 2020.
The oldest child of the late John A. and Nellie J. Wilhelm of Salisbury, he was born July 5, 1936. Arthur is survived by his longtime companion, Larry Little, two sisters, Sarah W. Mantel and Jane Wilhelm, a brother, John Wilhelm (Janet), and many loving nieces and nephews.
Arthur graduated from China Grove High School, China Grove, and received a BA degree from Catawba College, Salisbury. He then went on to complete an MA from Emory University, and a PhD from Georgia State University. He taught AP English and AP French in the Atlanta City and Cobb County School systems for thirty years before retiring and moving to Palm Springs, CA. He joined the faculty at the Palm Valley School, teaching there for eight years. In 1990 Arthur was named Georgia teacher of the year. This honor granted him a one-year sabbatical during which time he completed work on his doctorate degree. In addition, he was the recipient of two fellowships to study French from the Alliance Française de Paris and the University of Besançon. Arthur was an accomplished academic, but his greatest legacy will be his dedication to social justice.
A voracious reader and a prolific writer, Arthur could be counted upon to take up the cause of those whose voices merited more volume than was given. His compassion extended from the political realm to the field of entertainment and his justification and promotion of social causes was a gift he offered his students over the years. He was the author of Rita Hayworth From American Love Goddess to the Face of Alzheimer's.
He will long be remembered for his intellect but long loved for his kindness and caring by his family, his friends and his students.
Condolences may be made to the Alzheimer's Association.

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Published by Salisbury Post on May 17, 2020.

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Duane Cooper

July 6, 2021

I am saddened to learn that Dr. Wilhelm passed last year. I did a search recently and found this obituary.
Then-Mr. Wilhelm taught me two years of French, 1975-77, at Atlanta's Southwest High School. He was excellent. Only later did I come to appreciate how much so.
My wife and I were fortunate to spend a few extensive summer vacations in Paris this past decade. She had French in college and reads the language better than I. But I speak French much better than she, *entirely* thanks to Arthur Wilhelm. No exaggeration, the highlight of my 2018 summer was when a clerk in a department store (les Galeries Lafayette) said to me, "Parlez bien français!" I beamed the entire summer! Mr. Wilhelm provided me knowledge and a foundation on which to build.
I wish I had shared that story before he passed, but next-best thing is to pass along to his loved ones and whoever later encounters this remembrance.

glenda cimino

May 23, 2020

I remember him when he taught us French at Southwest High School in Atlanta in the 60s. I thought he was 'old' -but now I see he was only 10 years older than us. He never boasted about his accomplishments, so only now do I see what a remarkable man he was, and we were lucky to have him.

Sarah Mantel

May 22, 2020

To all of those who have sent condolences, I fully appreciate the kind words and thoughts. It is hard to express my feelings about his passing. As his sister, I shall always miss him and shall do my best to honor his memory.

May 19, 2020

My prayers go out to Mr. Wilhelm's loved ones. Thank God for social media. A couple of years ago, I was able to locate and reconnect with him on Facebook. He said he remembered me well. He was well-ahead of his time. He accepted me with no regard to race. I will always remember him as a the gentle French teacher meticulously dressed, always tanned with a beautiful head of blond hair, and a wonderful smile. Rest In Peace, Mr. Wilhelm.
Pamela-Faith Jackson, Your French Student (SW HS C'69)

Carol Barnes

May 19, 2020

My memory fails me on a lot of things from my past, but I do remember Mr. Wilhelm's English classes at Southwest High School in Atlanta. It's a blessing & legacy to know that you made such an impression on a student. Rest in peace Mr Wilhelm.

Jane Wilhelm

May 17, 2020

Arthur was my older brother. I have been devastated by his passing. We communicated regularly. I shall truly miss him. In honor and memory of Arthur, donations may be made to The Alzheimer's and Related Disorders Assoc.

Sarah Mantel

May 17, 2020

The family requests that contributions be made in his memory to the Alzheimer's and Related Disorders Association.

Clyde Graeber

May 17, 2020

My wife and I are sorry to learn of Arthur's passing. We enjoyed visiting with him at our 50th high school reunion and found him to be a fascinating and stimulating conversationalist. RIP, Arthur.

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