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Ehren Clark

1973 - 2017

Ehren Clark obituary, 1973-2017, Salt Lake City, UT

BORN

1973

DIED

2017

Ehren Clark Obituary

1973 ~ 2017
Ehren was born on December 9, 1973 in Provo, which is ironic since he is the only Ute in a family of Cougars. From an early age, Ehren was a sensitive boy. He was inquisitive, bright, creative and quick. At the end of high school, he confirmed what we all had known for a while- that he was gay. His conservative Mormon family and community responded with love and support.
If you knew Ehren, you know the man could write. His mind was quick and his words inspiring and thought provoking. Ehren worked as the the Senior Fashion writer at Fashionphile, on his own blog Mormon Existentialism and he wrote personally & prolifically to family and friends. But his passion was writing about the Utah Art Community. Nothing brought him more satisfaction than his work as "Utah's Art Critic". Oh how he loved seeing his words published on 15 Bytes, in City Weekly or Deseret News to name a few. He lived for the gallery strolls, museum crawls and every part of the process of interviewing and writing on the Utah artists that he admired so much.
Ehren loved people. He was fiercely loyal and generous beyond his means. If you got together with Ehren for lunch or a chat, he had something for you. He'd wrap it up and gift it with enthusiasm and a story. He was an avid collector of treasures which he packed into the tiny downtown SLC apartment home that he cherished so much. It was a tidy, full and fascinating place, carefully curated wall to wall, floor to ceiling with stacks of his favorite books and all of the "treasures" that he selected from his almost daily trips to DI.
Ehren loved his branch in Salt Lake. He was loved back and felt at home there. Throughout his life he was blessed with the ability to find friends that he called family all around him. He once said, "My faith in life, myself and those around me, most specifically my family, and my family everywhere… Adam, Tony from 7-11, Trista from Big Lots, Ken Sanders, Diane etc. etc. etc. there are billions- and I believe that as this family feels and understands me, my faith is elevated to belief."
But most of all, Ehren loved his family. He adored his nieces and nephews and will be missed terribly by Izzie, Aerie, Ike, Zoie, Sean, Ella, Owen, Quinn, Nikki, Brady, Brooke, Drew, Jace, Josie, Jonas, Justus, Atticus and Rosie. He showered them with gifts, love, attention and most importantly, time. He was very close with his sisters Sarah and Emily and his brothers Reuben, Jesse and David. And finally, he cherished his relationship with his parents, Eugene and Joanne Clark. We are all broken hearted at his passing.
Ehren suffered from schizoaffective disorder for the past 23 years. His mental illness robbed him of so much in his life. He was never satisfied with how his medications were working and wanted so desperately to achieve the goals he'd set for himself before his mind failed him. Unfortunately, he thought he knew better than his prescribers and constantly tweaked his prescriptions. He was wrong and he paid the ultimate price for it. Did you know that accidental overdoses of prescription medications kill more people every year than deaths from all illegal drugs combined? More people in our country die from accidental overdose of prescription drugs than die in automobile accidents. For whatever reason, if it was acquired by prescription, we assume it's less powerful and less likely to be potentially deadly if misused. That's not true. Something needs to be done. Our family will miss time together with Ehren, daily FaceTimes, mega-texts and lengthy emails. But the words "rest in peace" have never sounded so serene.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Jul. 8, 2017.

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Sarah-Jayne Khwaja nee Soverall

December 19, 2018

Wow we only just found out about this over a year after his passing. Ehren & I met whilst he was on a student exchange at my University in the UK. We went to church together and were pretty much inseparable! I'm so lucky to have known him and I know he will be missed. I had the chance to meet up with him again on a trip I took to Utah about 11 yeasts ago, he will always be cherrished. Joanne and family, I'm so sorry for your loss!

Adriana Kabler-Rodriguez

February 8, 2018

The last time I saw Ehren was in 2003- he came to Houston & my husband & I met up with him and Alison Rensink. Ehren was a dear friend of mine in high school. I have so so many fond memories of Ehren, and of his beautiful family. I woke up thinking about him yesterday and thought to look him up and reach out to re-connect, and that's when I found this page....my most heartfelt condolences to Ehrens family & all of those close to him.
I was also deeply saddened yesterday to learn of his fathers recent passing. I would love to get in touch with Mrs. Clark.
Fondly,
Adriana Kabler-Rodriguez
713-446-7010

Alison Rensink

February 7, 2018

I met Ehren in High School and we kept in touch on and off throughout the years, but this is the first time that I've heard about his passing. I can't begin to tell you all how deeply sorry I am. He was and will forever be such an amazing person who touched my life, as he has touched to many others.

Also, if you want to hear something a little funny, I had a huge crush on Ehren in High School We actually went to a school dance together, and I wondered why he didn't feel the same, until he called me when I was in college to let me know why - I guess I should have known because he is one of the sweetest and most sensitive men that I've ever met

He will be deeply missed, but he will always have a very special place in my heart-

Please let me know if there is a foundation or any way to give back to him on his behalf-

Love,
Alison Rensink-Wharton

281-221-5848

Ricky

August 16, 2017

I haven't spoken to Ehren for a few years but had many long, memorable and pleasant conversations with him back when I managed an art gallery in salt lake. He was such a passionate, bright and fun person. I am sorry hear of his passing.

Reuben Clark

August 8, 2017

Reuben Clark

August 8, 2017

Reuben Clark

August 8, 2017

Reuben Clark

August 8, 2017

Some things in life are different, but all are glorious.

Kjirstin Youngberg

July 25, 2017

Ehren was a light to all who knew him. Our paths crossed only twice, but both occasions were memorable. I was struck by his directness, which caused us to converse a full hour. This, with a perfect stranger.

The second time was many years later. He remembered my name. I was sad I'd forgotten his, because of how good he made me feel about "...life, the universe, and everything."

You raised a fine son, and I join with many in sorrow for his loss.

Our family also lost a son. Our daughter and her friend recorded this for us for Mother's Day. Perhaps it will bring you a small measure of joy, or at least, understanding. This arrangement was written by her to record the slow process toward death, until spirited away by angels. That part gets me every time. I know we continue, and I know Ehren is at peace in a joyful place. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_Y3Xo4M3pA

Elena Martínez

July 12, 2017

I knew Ehren and he was the sweetest man I ever met. I just read about this terrible loss. I'm so heart-broken I can't hardly write anything right now. My sweet child... this world should have more people like him in it.
My condolences to his family and closed friends. He will be in my heart forever.

July 9, 2017

To the family of Ehren,
I did not know him and I don't know you.
I'm impressed that the love you had for him was unconditional.
You did not stop loving him because he was gay you accepted him for the person he was.
I am so sorry for your loss. God will love and accept him as he is one of his children and you will meet again. I'm sure you know this.
RIP Ehren, Blessings to the family and friends

Chris Pyne

July 9, 2017

I don't know you or your wonderful son but this obituary had me in tears. I'm so sorry for your loss. My son also suffers from a mental illness and struggles. Prayers for your family.

Katie Tobler (Hale)

July 9, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. Ehren was a wonderful man filled with kindness and love. He was a fiercely loyal person to his friends. He truly made an impact in my life.

Robert

July 9, 2017

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and honest obituary. I didn't know Ehren but he sounds like a wonderful person. I lost my mother to issues related to prescription medicine. I agree that it is a serious problem and deeply hurts families like both of ours. My sincerest condolences. I'm so sorry for your loss.

July 8, 2017

I am very very sorry for your loss. I did not know Ehren or your family, but I want to thank for a beautiful and respectful obituary. I know it will help other families

Sara Green

July 8, 2017

What a beautiful tribute to what must have been an amazing person. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing his story.

Jayne

July 8, 2017

May God comfort all who knew Ehren and may Ehren enjoy a peace here-to-for unknown to him. Thank you for your kindness Ehren. It has meant so much.

ann smith

July 8, 2017

I am sorry for your loss. I too have family members with the same issues. May Ehren rest in peace and struggle no more.

July 8, 2017

Beautiful obituary. The obvious love this family has is wonderful. Sincere condolences.

July 8, 2017

I didn't know Erhen but he sounded like a wonderful man with a family that understood the true meaning of unconditional love. Thank you for sharing this beautiful and detailed obituary. Hopefully it will inspire other families to accept with their hearts those who may not agree with their idea of perfect. God bless your family Erhen and the message they shared here today about mental illness and life choices. May you rest in peace.

July 1, 2017

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. May the God of all comfort grant you strength and peace, and his promises give you hope. 1 Thessalonians 4:14.

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