Henry Michael Oneida
Henry Michael Oneida 1956 ~ 2005 Henry Michael Oneida, age 49, passed away December 26, 2005. Born May 4th 1956 to Henry Oneida, Sr. and Marion Lukich Guerra. Married Bertha Mae Smith, March 25, 1975, later divorced. Three surviving children by this union, Country (Dan) Bray, Michael, and Trisha Oneida. Two grandchildren Kaitlyn and Ashlyn. Also survived by Jeff Oneida, Kurtis and Vicki Oneida, Marion and Cindy Oneida, stepfather, Eleuterio Guerra, sister Alicia Guerra, a loving companion Jaylene Hunsaker, grandma Sophie Lukich and Uncle Michael Lukich, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousin, nieces, nephews and many friends. He was preceded in death by his father Henry Oneida, Sr., beloved brother Owen Todd Oneida, sister Sophie Denise Oneida Pierce. Henry's interests were fishing, hunting, being outdoors with family and friends. He was a natural born leader, the steady rock of our family. He will be missed dearly by all who know him. Funeral Services will be Saturday, December 31, 2005 at 3:00 p.m. at Memorial Mortuary, 5850 South 900 East, Murray. Friends and family may visit from 2:00 to 2:45 prior to the service.
Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Dec. 29 to Dec. 30, 2005.
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Henry; May God help you to find a way to help your family learn to cope with the loss of someone they miss so badly that their hearts are breaking..You were a huge influence on their lives and have left them with a gigantic void which will take them the rest of their lives to TRY to fill..only to find that it will always be there..Hold them near in your heart, help them to feel your presence, let them know that you are never far from their sides and that, when their time comes, as it will for all of us..let them know, in their hearts that you will be there with arms out stretched waiting to welcome them home again.
Lynda Logan
January 28, 2006
Henry,

The kids and Birdie (as well as Todd even if he won't admit it :P) have been having such a hard time with losing you. You meant the world to the man that means the world to me. I know that you can see all of the hurt and sadness but want you to know that we will be strong like you have always been in life. I have heard so many stories by the ones that loved you MOST, like Aunt Lori, Tressie, Birdie and Todd and your kids. I know that you will be there for all of us that are grieving your loss of light and wisdom. I have said it before and will continue to say that the greatest tragity was not getting the chance to know you more. I can never forget the morning that I saw you last. I woke up, went to the kitchen to get a cup of coffee and told you Good Morning Dad, you looked at me with your patented smile and said "Do I know you?" At first I thought you were serious, but quickly turned to Birdie and she assured me that it was just your way to pull people's legs. I thank you for that, for one day Michael and I can tell our kids what a wonderful, strong willed, and funny man their grandfather was.

Please help me to help everyone through this VERY though time.

XOXOXOXO

Jenni
Jenni Clark
January 20, 2006
Daddy,
I am haveing a really bad today. I feel so so broken, You don't know what you got until it's gone. I knew I loved you so much but Dad I can't take this pain I feel. I want to thank you for being such an awsome daddy. You have been in my life since I was born. I remember when I was sick you would take care of me & carry me around the house like a sack of potatoes. I remember you taking me to kinderkarten & I would cry when you left. I remember every single fishing trip. DADDY"S fisher girl!!!*****FISH ON**********
Then I was a teenager and I still got brag that HENRY ONEIDA is MY DAD yes I was always so so so proud to be yours. And I still am. I promise you that my childeren will know who there grandpa was.
I miss you so much
SHINE DOWN ON ME
LOVE YOU Trisha MAGOO
Trisha Oneida
January 19, 2006
Hey Daddy,
I miss you so very very much I can't believe it still. IT seems like a dream. Dad it hurts so bad a part of my heart died when you did. And only when I see you again will I feel complete again. Please please IF you can come to me some how please just so I know your watching over me. I LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO much and I miss you even more.
LUV YA
LUV your lil Trisha Magoo Goofball
TRISHA ONEIDA
January 16, 2006
PROUD TO BE AN ONEIDA!!! UNCLE, I KNOW YOU ARE FEELING THIS IN HEAVEN WITH THE REST OF THE ONEIDA'S UP THERE. HERE'S A KISS TO YOU AND PASS IT ON TO ALL THE REST OF OUR FAMILY UP THERE. YOUR ONEIDA LEGACY LIVES ON IN YOUR KIDS, COUNTRY, TRISH AND BUBBA AND THOSE BEAUTIFUL LIL GRANDBABBIES...WE ARE STILL STANDING PROUD DOWN HERE AND MISSING YOU LIKE CRAZY. I AM SO VERY PROUD TO CALL YOU FAMILY, LOVE YOU LOTS...YOUR NIECE,
RY-RY MO-NI-NI!
RYANN ONEIDA
January 16, 2006
Henry;my God what a loss..you were always one of the most loving men I've ever known..always MY Brother-In-Law, always my Friend and always in my HEART..I see you in your childrens faces and feel you in my heart. You will never be far away. Every time I think of you I see your beautiful smile, your wonderful eyes (the mirror of your soul)I never saw a child that didn't instantly love you. You will be sorely missed.Watch out for your loved ones..help them to remember the LOVE you had for each one of them, as you loved us all.
May GOD hold you in the palm of his hand and keep you with him until we are all together again.
I Love You Brother..Lynda
Lynda Logan
January 10, 2006
Henry Michael
I know in my heart that you are at peace. Jay is going to be okay knowing that you loved her with all your heart. I am here to ask that you DeDe Grandpa Owen help the rest of us.. We are all wondering, asking, not understanding, so please if its within you all please give the comfort to the ones that need it the most and to the rest what they need to get through what is before them. I am thanking you all for letting me to be a part of this family. Go upon your journey's, as we will ours whatever our GOD has planned. We miss and love you all.
Vicki
Vicki Oneida
January 7, 2006
Well I don't even know what to say. I'm so sorry and I feel your pain.

To my mom, Owen, Henry, and old gramps; we love and miss you all very much. Pleae watch over us, guide us, help us, protect us, and keep us safe. Thank you! Amen
Miranda Pierce
January 5, 2006
Henry
For the last 5 1/2 yrs you have been in and out of our lives like the wind that you lived on. I have had the chance to love you, dislike you, and love you again. I remember the last night you were here right before Thanksgiving, helping me with my car and Curtis and you messing with the CD's and pictures of the family. I remember the time that you told me I was a gift you were giving to Curtis and the proof was in the video of Owen's benefit...where you filmed me zooming in when at that time I did not even know that there were older brothers to Owen and Marion. I laughed at you but now I feel different after what you gave us on the night of the 30th of December 05 AND I CAN ONLY SAY THAT YOU WERE THE BIG BROTHER IN THIS LIFE AS YOU ARE NOW AND I THANK YOU SO MUCH. KNOW HOW MUCH YOU ARE MISSED BUT CARRY ON YOUR JOURNEY GOING HOME WATCH OVER ALL OF US SO WE MAY SEE YOU AGAIN.
WE LOVE YOU
CURTIS AND VICKI
Vicki Oneida
January 4, 2006
Birdie & Todd, Country & Dan, Trisha & Chris, Bubba & Jenny,

I am going to miss Henry so much.
I remember when I was little and we would go to Price to stay for summer vacation and the thing that I remember the most is that he LOVED his family everything about them we always called them PEANUT BUTTER AND JELLY because they were all perfect for each other. I remember him playing Candyland with us kids until 11pm and his laughing and saying if we told our Mom he would make us eat one of the suprise cans in the cupboard with no label (They were always something sick like canned carrots or Lima Beans) He took us down to the river and showed us the Indian marbles. They were our treasures I think DJ still has some. BUT THE THING I REMEMBER THE MOST IS HE LOVED HIS FAMILY and he always called Trisha his Little Trisha Magoo Goofball Oneida!! I LOVE you all and miss Uncle Henry.

Love Kimmie Logan
Kimberlie Logan
January 4, 2006
Henry
The last 5 1/2yrs I have had a chance to meet you love you dislike you and again love you. You would come into our lives like the wind you lived on and leave the same way. The last time you were here right before Thanksgiving was one of the most calm times of all. You helping me with my car and Curtis helping you with the pictures and CD's that is something I will always hold dear to me. You gave me and your baby brother something that will always be so wonderful. Remember the tape of Owens benfit when you tape and zoomed in on me and later said that I was a gift that you helped give to Curtis, I laughed then but now I think twice because what you did for us on the night of Dec 30, 05 was exactly what you said it would take also. I thank you from the most deep love of my heart I will miss you. Keep watch over all of us and tell the rest of the family we love them all
Vicki & Curtis
Vicki Oneida
January 3, 2006
Vicki Oneida
January 3, 2006
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

penny goodrick
January 2, 2006
Hey Daddy,
It's me your little Trisha!!!
I love you so much daddy you meant so much more to me than you will ever know. I am so grateful getting the chance to get so close to you in the last 3 -4 years. Daddy I always had the dream of being daddy's little girl for as long as i can remember and in the last 3-4 years you made my dreams comd true. I took advantage of every call i made to you to yell at you for not paying your bills on time. And every time I got to see you (when you would actually take the time to come and see us) I took advatage of every hug and kiss i got from you. I remember every single one too. I love you more than anything in this world Daddy I know that you can now see what my heart truely has inside. I LOVE YOU DADDY!!!
your little Trisha Magoo
Trisha Oneida
December 31, 2005
Birdie, Country, Trisha and Micheal
I am truely sorry for the loss of your beloved Henry. My heart and Prayers go out to your enitre family. Henry is and will always be a very loving, honest, giving and a awesome father and an awesome person.
God bless you all.
Patricia Smith
December 31, 2005
HENRY AT ONE TIME WAS APART OF PACIFIC CENTRAL STEEL WHEN WE MET HIM. HE WAS A KIND OF A GUY WHO WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR ANYONE. HE WILL BE MISSED. MAY HIS FAMILY BE BLESSED AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.
DANNY & TRACIE COLEMAN
December 30, 2005
So much loss in our family right now, the only comfort I have is knowing we'll all be together again. Uncle, you were a man of few words, so here's a few for you, I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU...
Fly Free Bird! Love your niece, Ryann...
Ryann Oneida
December 30, 2005
Country,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know than my parents and I are thinking of you and your family.

Love,
Nessa
Vanessa Compagni
December 30, 2005
Henry,
You will be greatly missed. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your family for the past 12 months. I am grateful for your son and daughters. I know that you will be with us all through this very trying time.

Until we see you again.

Jenni Clark

P.S. I will always try to take care of Jay, and the kids as well as Birdie and Todd.

XOXOXOXOX
Jenni Clark
December 29, 2005
are prayers are with you all and know time will help with the pain.

Don Byrge, Connie Waddell
Connie Waddell
December 29, 2005
~ Jay ~

Losing Henry is the same as losing part of yourself & we are so very sorry! You & Henry loved each other so much, you lived together, you worked together, in essence you were one & we just cannot fathom the pain & great loss you are feeling now.

Know that Henry shall be by your side as your angel just as he was by your side in this life. Bless you Jay & Bless you Henry!
Your Friends
December 29, 2005
BLESS THE IRONWORKER IN THE SKY!
Your Friends & Bodell Crew
December 29, 2005
Dear Country, and Family:
Bob and I are sorry for your loss. I remember your dad at John and Jessica's wedding reception and how he was so helpful to all of us.
May God Bless all of you.

Bob and Barbara Adams
Barbara Adams
December 29, 2005
Mom (Jay) and The Oneida Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of such a loved man! I feel very fortunate to have been blessed with him in mine and my childrens lives!! He was a wonderful grandpa to my children and made my mother very happy! We will miss him greatly!
Stephanie Powell
December 29, 2005
The Oneida Family,
I have been a friend of the family for many years and everything you guys have been through would shatter a family. You guys have stayed strong through everything and I admire the strength of the Oneida family. It makes me very grateful and honored to have been part of some of your lifes. I say to you all, I love you and just remember god is with you all. REST IN PEACE, GRANDPA HENRY, HENRY MICHAEL,OWEN & MRS. DEDE. LOVE SABRINA RANDOLPH(MURRAY)
Sabrina Randolph (Murray
December 29, 2005
country,trisha,& michael
I beleive that christmas night is the holiest night of the year.Its the one night where heavens gates are open wide for only the best of angels. I beleive that is why grandma had to go,she had to hold the gate open for Henry because she loved him so.My dear sweet cousins,my heart is broken not only for you but for myself as your Dad was a verry special Uncle to me and I love him dearly. May you find a little comfort in knowing that I know Grandma made sure he knew where he was going. I love you all dearly D.J.
darlene (d.j.) logan
December 29, 2005
Henry was a good man & a good friend to everyone who knew him. He was a giving soul who always put the needs of others before his own. He was a leader & a strong source of encouragement. A good father to his children, friend to all that knew him & companion to Jay whom he loved dearly.

Rest in Peace now Henry.
Pat, Twila & Katie Martak
December 29, 2005
Ironworkers are the first to tell you they’re a little crazy. It’s a quality they’re proud of, along with their courage and craft. They call themselves "cowboys of the sky."

YOU WILL BE MISSED HENRY!

Jimmy, Tami, Tomi Lee & Eric
Pat, Twila & Katie
Big Dave & Davey
Gordon & Donna
Mac & Sheli
Forest
Brent
Scott
Just a Few of Your Friends
December 29, 2005
Curtis and Vickie,

We are sorry to hear about Henry. We want you to know that we love you and if there is anything we can do don't hesitate to ask. Please know that Heavenly Father is watching over you and Curtis at this time.

We will keep you in our prayers in this time of need.

Love,

The Gallegos Family
December 29, 2005
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