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Robert Chad Gardner "Chad" Chad passed August 18, 2005, from complications due to pancreatic cancer in Salt Lake City, UT. Born December 31, 1951 in Vernal, Utah, to Annie Ella Hall and Harold J. Gardner, Sr. Preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Jay, Ken and Kevin; sisters, Patsy Anne and Marjorie Jane. He is survived by wife of 21 years and best friend, Deanna; son, Chris (Tiffany); daughter, Collette (Tod) Marchant; grandsons, Skyler, Caden and Caleb; granddaughter, Madalyn; sisters, Suanne and Maridee. Chad attended elementary in the Glendale, UT area. Attended high school in San Jose, CA, and graduated from South High School in Salt Lake City, UT. Chad attended SLCC earning a 3.95 GPA in Paralegal Science. In 1971 was married to Diane Stensrud of Salt Lake City, Utah, later divorced. Chad managed Discount Records in downtown Salt Lake in the early '70s. Musiclands in Boulder, CO, Layton and Ogden, UT. In 1980 Chad drove pilot cars with his mother and partner, Annie, forming Gardner Pilot Service and continued following her death until 2001 safely delivering hundreds of over-sized loads across the nation including parts of the space shuttle after the Challenger disaster, sections of "The Tree" outside Wendover and mining equipment for Kennecott. Chad's "religion" throughout his life was music. His first job as a kid was cleaning the KNAK Radio station to earn 45's. He ran the radio station at Piedmont Hills High School in San Jose, ran lights and sound for the band, Hotspurz, and later DJ'd "Thursday Night Oldies" at the Bongo Lounge. In 2002 it was Chad's pleasure to be a driver for NBC employees and celebrities during the Salt Lake City Winter Olympics. Highlights of Chad's life include meeting Robert Kennedy three days prior to his assassination, attending high school with the original Doobie Brothers, attending PE class taught by Coach McBride, interviewing the Doors and Youngbloods and meeting and forming friendships with several musicians and politicians. Chad believed in good music, lyrics that mean something, equal rights, fair play, truth and reality. He loved to travel and enjoyed the diversity of our nation's beauty and the many cultures of our people. Chad was a great cook who loved to create and will always be remembered as the "Living Legend of the BBQ". Chad was a very passionate person who always had a hand to give to anyone who was in need. He gave many hours of love and dedication raising money for MS research. His quick and intellectual wit was rarely surpassed. He loved a great joke and always had one at the ready! He enjoyed informed and educated discussions on politics, ecology, and sociology. Chad was a diplomatic individual with incredible grace and integrity. Those of us who were part of Chad's life are the richer for it- those who never knew him missed out on a fantastic journey. A Celebration of Life service and interment will be held Wednesday, August 24th at 2 p.m. at Elysian Burial Gardens, 1075 East 4580 South, Murray. A wake will be held Tuesday, August 23rd, at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, where friends are invited to call upon the family between the hours of 5-9 p.m. Valet parking will be provided by the mortuary. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Dr Ray Price, Dr Peter Nielsen, the staff of LDS West 6th and ICU and all the friends who comforted Chad during his illness. Chad was never afraid to die because he was never afraid to live.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Aug. 21, 2005.

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Kari Kimball

September 16, 2005

Dear Sweet Deanna:

I cannot tell you how sorry am I'm for your loss. You have always meant so much to me and I wish that I could take away your pain. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you to give you the comfort you need. I miss seeing you every Monday morning to discuss our favorite show and I do think of you often.

Always a friend,

Kari Kimball and John D. Wathen

Jennifer Robison

September 5, 2005

Aunt Deanna, Chris, & Collette,

I am so sorry Chad was taken from us so soon. Deanna you and Chad were always like a seconed set of parents to me. You were always there when I needed you, no matter how small the reason. That is why when I married Mark I couldn't think of anyone better to ask to give me away than "Uncle Chaddy." Aunt Deanna, he loved you very much and you were the love of his life and his best friend. He always made sure everyone knew that no matter how long he had known them. Chris and Collette, your dad was always talking about you and how proud he was of you and how happy he was that he was a grandpa. I always got the lattest news on how you two were doing and the new cute things your children were doing whenever I would go over to visit or call him to say hi. Uncle Chad, I will always remember all the runs I went on with you and the neat places we got to see. I will never forget" The Claw" or you pretending to be Yogi the Bear over the CB on one of our many trips together. I may not have gotten my first record from you like some of my other cousins, but I was privilidged to have tasted lots of your wonderful cooking and be taught a small portion of your music knowledge. I love you tons and will miss you terribly.

Becky Adams

September 1, 2005

Deanna

I am so sorry for your loss. I just heard today I feel so bad that I wasn't there to give you a hug.I just wanted to tell you my prayers are with you. You are a very special lady please take care.

Judy and Mike Arrington

September 1, 2005

Hi neighbor,

We missed out on a lot - that's painfully clear!

We're only a few steps away and "we'll leave the porch light on."

Roxann Nielson

August 26, 2005

Deanna,

My deepest sympathy in the loss of such a wonderful man. His battle was a valiant one in which he fought with dignity & grace. You both are amazing people & examples to all. May time ease your pain and renew the pleasant loving memories of your husband & best friend, Chad.

Jessica Paxman

August 25, 2005

Deanna,

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so sad for your loss, please let me know if you need anything.

Cindy Wardell

August 25, 2005

Dear Deanna and Family - My deepest regards for your loss of Chad. I wish I was able to get to know him better than I did. After attending the funeral I saw how many people he affected and now I regret the chances I had over the years I have known the both of you. That was the neatest funeral I have been to! It made me cry a lot, yet, it made me laugh a lot too. You and your family had a great loss but with all of those memories, he will be with you every single day! I will not forget him for a very long time either.



My thoughts are with you and your family.



With Love

Roger DeMarsh

August 24, 2005

Chad and Deanna were a super companions. They lived and cared for each other through out their entire friendship and marriage. My wife, Marion, and I considered Chad not only as a son-in-law, but also a great friend.

Brandi Aleman

August 23, 2005

Deanna & Chris-



You and your families have been through so much over the past months, but your strength through all of this is amazing. You're in my prayers and if you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask.

Love,

Terrie Reedy

August 23, 2005

Deanna and Chris I am very sorry for your loss. You have both been in my thoughts and prayers hoping that you find comfort in the love you shared with your husband and father. Some people leave this world never knowing how much they were loved but I know Chad felt the love of his family every single day. God bless.

Sunny and Stephanie Sawyer

August 23, 2005

Deanna and family Stephanie and I are very sad to read of your loss. Knowing and working with Chad was an experience I'll never forget. His wit and humor always cheered me up when I was down.He holds a special place in our hearts as the one who joined Steph and I in marriage. Bless you all through this trying time.

Suanne & Robert Lusk & Booth

August 23, 2005

my sweetheart brother

-was-

bright,funny,excitable,loving

and loved life,music and beer.



interested in the world and

people he loved,he like cats.



loved to cook,read the paper

being a d.j. At the bongo room.



had a great son and daughter

four grandkids he was crazy over



-Disliked-



mean spirted people,games,religon

doing repairs of any kinds.



people who were negative and didn't

care to give back to the world.



food that wasn't flavorful,cilantro



-Because-



he was jay's little bitty buddy

and was unlce stan's ole



he was my sweetheart little

brother,so cute,witty,and kind.



thank you god for letting us be

in the same family here on earth

Jaime Condie

August 22, 2005

Chris and Co:



I am so sorry for your loss. I love you guys very much. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Ron Gardner

August 22, 2005

Our family has lost one of its shining stars. Quick witted and hilariously funny, compassionate, a peace-maker, a friend. Everyone's favorite uncle. All of this describes Chad. My first record too, (The Unicorn Song by the Irish Rovers) came on a 45 from Chad when I was 5 years old. I have that song in my collection and played it this weekend, crying and smiling at our loss, and at our great good fortune in having our memories of this amazing man. Deanna, we love you, and want you to know you are in our hearts and prayers. Chris and Collette, make sure your kids know how great their Grandpa was, and how much he loved them.

Sheila Stensrud

August 22, 2005

Dear Chris and Collette,

We are so sorry for the loss of your dad. We love you both so much and are so proud of you and your sweet families. What a beautiful obituary. Whoever wrote this did such an incredible job of letting the world know about Chad. Dave and I never saw him that he did not pull Dave aside a have a joke or two to tell him...he saved the "milder" ones for me. I will never forget the first day I met Chad, he was larger than life.....He was fun to be around and made sure he kept us all entertained.....May you two be blessed and watched over as you and your families mourn the loss of your DAD....We love you, Aunt Sheila and Uncle Dave

Laurie McIntosh

August 22, 2005

Deanna & Chris:

I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend, husband, and father. My prayers are with both of you.

Deidra Nordahl

August 22, 2005

Dearest Deanna,

We feel so fortunate to have been able to visit with Chad before he passed. We are so sorry for your loss, he was indeed a very "unique" man. We loved him dearly.



Mark & Deidra Nordahl(Win Trucking)

Sue Hodges

August 22, 2005

Dear Deanna, Chris and family,



Our hearts and prayers are there for you. I am truly sorry for your loss. Deanna-you are the strongest woman I know! God bless you for your strength and patience. Chad left the world in such loving arms.



Love you,

Kami Kent

August 21, 2005

Deanna,



Your strength in this difficult time has amazed me. You are truly an inspiration. My prayers will include you and Chris in hopes that you find comfort. Always know that Chad is your angel, he will always be with you.



Love always!

Kami

Jaylyn Curtis

August 21, 2005

Dear Uncle Chad, Aug 21,2005

I have such happy memories of you becasuse you were always so happy and full of life.Including our last conversation, even though you were really having a rough time.

You told me that you were ok, that it had been a a great life,that you had loved, and been loved more than most. You said you could not ask for more. Thanks for all the love you always showed me. On July 7th 1978 you married Marty & I and you said to us "Drink from the same pitcure, but from separate glasses" I always remembed that.

Thank you,it worked

And of course as Jeff, said thanks for all the records including my first.

Jeff Gardner

August 21, 2005

Oh Chad..,

How can you be gone - it makes no sense to me. I know that over the past years we did not see a lot of each other but I always liked to count myself among your favorite nephews. You were so alive and youthful to me, I some how thought that you would always be there in SLC. So much for the imagination of little boys...

Thank you for the gift of your life, all the laughs, and of course, the records.



Jeff Gardner

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