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Rex Davis
November 30, 2020
Robert was my bishop in the 1980's and I have only known 3 or 4 people in my life that could challenge him as the most wonderful, compassionate person I have ever known. While serving as bishop and with a large family he came to my apartment on Christmas eve, brought me a book on Hugh B. Brown the Apostle and visited for well visited on 1/2 hour. Truly a disciple of Christ.
July 17, 2017
Without a doubt the nicest, most caring judge to ever take the bench in Utah. Here's an anecdote: I was getting ready to start a second career as a lawyer and since I lived in Park City, I called and left a message on his voice mail (at that time he was the Third District judge for Summit County) about my desire to learn the ropes by possibly clerking for him that Summer (before I even went to law school). He called me back three weeks later and apologized for not getting back to me sooner and then invited me over to his office where he took the better part of an hour getting to know me and then extending an invitation to clerk for him. Long story short we became friends and traded book titles for the next two decades. Perhaps ten years into my career I mentioned to an elder statesman that I had clerked for Judge Hilder and he responded "he probably ruined you for other judges." I asked "how so?" And the gentleman responded: "no other judge works as hard or cares as much, so pretty much it's all downhill after that!" He was never even remotely haughty, he always demonstrated respect for others, and he always found time for people no matter what their stature or position. He was unique among his peers and a great person.
D. Rosenbloom
Tim Holt
May 10, 2017
Dear Mrs. Hilder:
I never had the privilege to meet you. I went to law school with Robert, Actually I knew him for a couple of years before we got to law school. I moved to Phoenix after graduation and although I spoke to him occasionally we only saw each other once. A case brought us together for some depositions.
I am not sure I can say anything of real comfort, but I wanted you to know how much I admired and respected Robert. I was proud to tell people that he was a friend of mine. I will miss him.
Tim Holt
May 8, 2017
I am sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort be with you during your time of mourning. Isaiah 61:1,2 ; Matthew 5:4
Vicki Firestack
May 4, 2017
Dear Jan & Family:
I was so sorry to hear of Robert's death. I know you know how much I adored this man. I really admired him and am so grateful I had the opportunity to work for him at Christensen & Jensen. He did evoke all of the things that other people have written. Jan, my wish for you is that you will have all the joy you remember from the years you were together and read the wonderful comments people said about him. Read them often and smile or have a cry.
Love
Margie Millard
May 3, 2017
Judge Hilder was an inspiration to me in my quest to attend and complete law school. He was someone to look up to, who was fair and even handed, and who genuinely appreciated people and their situations. Our legal community has suffered a great loss. My condolences to the family.
Russell Cline
April 30, 2017
I went through law school with Robert. We were on the law review together for two years. He was a fine person and a friend. He had some extraordinary personal gifts. He had a quiet dignity about him. He extended himself in genuine friendship to others. He was humble. He will be missed.
Edward Havas
April 30, 2017
It was a pleasure knowing Robert, both as a friend and as a colleague. Whether as advocate/adversary, judge, or mediator/arbitrator, Robert was guided by principles of fairness, humanity, and humility. He was genuine and sincere, and never failed to make me feel valued and appreciated. I suspect that characteristic was common to all of his interactions, marking him for the great guy he was.
My sympathies to his family. Robert will be missed.
Steven & Maureen Stauffer
April 30, 2017
It was a privilege knowing Robert for years in our church ward.
He was truly a good friend to all. He will be missed by so many.
Kris Campbell
April 29, 2017
I had the privilege of working as a court clerk for Judge Hilder. He brought compassion and kindness to every person who came before him. It was an honor to know him - he will be missed.
TERRY& JOAN SHUMAN
April 29, 2017
I loved Robert hilder, he was our neighbor for many years. He helped me and our family very much! he will be greatly missed!
Jill Baeder
April 28, 2017
Lest we ever forget such a wonderful human being. He will be dearly missed by many. Our love, faith and blessings go out to Jan and family.
Brian Johnson
April 28, 2017
Judge Hilder remains to me one of the truly terrific men I've had the pleasure to know professionally and personally. In the law, whether he ruled against my client or for my client, he uniformly brought humility and intellect to his decision. in life, his shared insights on kindness and service will stay with me forever. He will endure.
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