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Ruby Trayner Haslam 1922 ~ 2006 Ruby Trayner Haslam passed away peacefully on January 5, 2006 in Salt Lake City surrounded by her loving family. She was born August 30, 1922 in Salt Lake City to Herbert O. Trayner Sr. and Ruby Larsen. She had three brothers who survive her: Herbert O. Trayner Jr., James L. Trayner, Dennis M. Trayner. She spent her childhood in Salt Lake, graduating from South High School with the class of 1940. She married her eternal companion Ronald Howard Haslam on January 17, 1942 in the Salt Lake Temple. To this union were born seven children. Survivors include Maureen H. Booth (Craig), Ronda H. Bennett (Gregory), Marsha H. Killpack (Charles), Bryan (Pat), Kent (Michelle), Preston (Tracy). Also survived by 25 grandchildren and 34 great-grandchildren. Ruby was an accomplished swimmer in her youth, painter, avid genealogist, and served in many capacities in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as an active member including presidencies in the Relief Society, Primary, and Stake Relief Society. Ron and Ruby served two missions, one to Florida Tallahassee and one to Louisiana Baton Rouge. She sewed dresses for her daughters when they were small, decorated many a birthday cake for her grandchildren, and hosted fabulous family parties in her backyard. She was a member of two literary clubs: Alice Louise Reynolds Club in St. George and Agalia Mu in Salt Lake City. She was a hostess at the Church Office Building for several years. She lived in St. George for 15 years, leaving many friends in that community. She and Ron would have celebrated 64 wonderful years on January 17th. She was preceded in death by her parents, her daughter Claudia H. Summers, her son-in-law Stephen O. Summers, grandson Todd Bennett, and great-granddaughter Virginia Marie Booth. Funeral services will be held on Monday, January 9, 2006 at 12 Noon at the Murray 8th Ward, 4600 S. 160 E. Friends and family may pay their respects on Sunday evening at Larkin Mortuary, 260 E. South Temple, from 6-8 p.m. or Monday at the church from 10:30 - 11:45 a.m. prior to the services. Interment, Holladay Memorial Park. For online condolences www.larkinmortuary.com

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jan. 7 to Jan. 8, 2006.

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January 13, 2006

Dear Haslam family,We were so sorry to here of Ruby's passing. She was a beutiful person and such a joy to visit with. We will miss her shining personality! Our thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.

Dr. Scott Featherstone

Dr. Chris Goodman & staff

Connie Hill

January 13, 2006

Ron and family



Ken and I just heard yesterday of Ruby's passing. We wish to express our heart felt condelences. We know she is at peace now and no longer struggling. All our Love

Ken and Connie Hill

Michael Bawden

January 9, 2006

Dear Haslam family,

I extend the good wishes of the Murray Utah Stake and its members at this time of loss, temporarily from your mother, grandmother, friend and certainly wonderful Latter-day Saint.

I had intended to be at the funeral, but due to recent sinus infections and Dr. recommendations to avoid as many 'public' gatherings as possible, was unable to attend.

We discussed your Mother's passing in our stake meetings yesterday and extend our love and condolances to each of you. You are in our daily prayers and hearts.

Sincerely and with love,

Michael W. Bawden

President, Murray UT Stake

Henri Bonan

January 9, 2006

Words can't express our feelings..I still miss my mother who passed away 8 years ago. Remember the wonderful things she gave you. All the love and care and concern she showed. She is at peace and enjoying the company of love ones. Our hearts go out to you.

Claron & Claudia Bradshaw

January 8, 2006

Our deepest sympathies in the loss of your wife. May God bless and Keep you with Peace.

Don and Mary Phillips

January 8, 2006

Dear Family,

We want to extend our Sympathies and Love to you for the Loss of your Eternal Companion and Sweetheart, mother & grandmother. Ruby will truly be Missed. The members of the 8th ward felt of your loss today. May Our Father in Heaven Comfort You and Your Family at this time. "Families Are Forever" and you both made a "Heaven On Earth" raising such a wonderful family. Love to You Always,

Lida Larkin

January 7, 2006

Maureen, so saddened to hear of the passing of your mother. I certainly can understand how you feel. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that others care. I'll include you in my prayers. love, Lida Brooks Larkin

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