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Dr. John Nessly Livesay

1953 - 2025

Dr.  John Nessly Livesay obituary, 1953-2025, San Antonio, TX

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John Livesay Obituary

DR. JOHN NESSLY LIVESAY
October 31, 1953 - May 4, 2025
Dr. John Nessly Livesay died on May 4, 2025, in the company of his close friends.

John was born in San Antonio, TX, on October 31, 1953, to Betty "Beany" and Harvey "Robin" Livesay. John attended Cambridge Elementary School and Alamo Heights High School. An indelible memory of his days at Cambridge Elementary was his having witnessed, with his fourth-grade class, the motorcade carrying President John F. Kennedy on November 21, 1963. In his home, John proudly displayed a photo of his class posing just behind the President's convertible only one day prior to the historic assassination.

John distinguished himself in early life by becoming an Eagle Scout. He developed a lifelong interest in vintage automobiles after maintaining his neighbor's MG T-series sports car. In addition, he built a backyard greenhouse, an endeavor which led to his passion for gardening and growing orchids.

John attended Rice University and the University of Texas, eventually receiving his MD degree. He went on to become a Board-Certified Anesthesiologist, practicing primarily at the Texas Womans Hospital in Houston. There he made many friends whom he entertained with his unique and often acerbic sense of humor.

John spent his vacation days traveling to Paris, Monaco, and Bavaria. He also maintained a cabin in Big Bear, California, and, later, in the Carmel Valley. He improved this latter property by planting fir and spruce trees, a giant Sequoia, and thousands of daffodils, thus assuring beauty for all of time. In California, John was a frequent attendee at the Pebble Beach Auto Show, where he once displayed a Rolls Royce.

Whereas the practice of Anesthesiology consumed nearly 40 years of John's life, he never abandoned his hobbies of bodybuilding, car collecting, and cultivating the outdoor beauty of his Houston home. Those fortunate persons whom he regarded as friends were continually gifted with his generous spirit, his abiding humor, and his open sharing of his many life passions.

John is survived by his brother, George Livesay and wife Saifon of San Antonio.

A memorial service will be held for John on Tuesday, May 20, 2025 - 11:00 AM at The First Presbyterian Church, 404 N. Alamo, San Antonio. Honorary pallbearers will be Carey Sakert, Dr. Elaine Peltier, Dr. Don Quast, Don Whitehead, Betty Bowers, and Dr. Susan Carlyle.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The First Presbyterian Church of San Antonio or the Humane Society of San Antonio.

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on May 14, 2025.

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Buddy zuverino

August 21, 2025

John I am very sad to just now hear of your passing. In the brief time that I did know you I really enjoyed your company and humor. You were always a laugh and upbeat. Just fun to be around. Love you my friend. Hope our paths cross again. Cheers.

Amber

May 28, 2025

What a unique and impressive life story, thank you for sharing. We had a few really good laughs over the years. I always enjoyed our humor filled chats and catching up on the latest news or books. One of the toughest days of my career we saved a patient together with true heroic action. Rest in peace.

Valentin Jabes

May 15, 2025

I have known John since 1994.
We spent very good time traveling together in California : Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, when I used to live in NJ. France : Nice, Saint-Tropez, Monte-Carlo : Monaco, and of course Paris. We share the same passion in sport. I won´t forget in the last months when we were texting each other you were sending me all the pictures of every French meals you were making and, Pictures of your flowers! The last picture you sent me was the snow in Houston. When I saw no more texting I knew you were on the way to leave us. You will be missed. My condolences to your brother and to your friends. You will be always in my heart.
Love from Valentin. From Paris France.

Alan Kost

May 15, 2025

John, after decades apart, I'm glad we got to speak again at a Heights event a coupler year back. I'll be thinking about. Alan

Anne Harwood

May 14, 2025

George, John was a wonderful person, charming and funny. I know he will leave a big hole in many lives, especially in yours. I´m sorry for your loss. Anne.

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Alex Biserchich

May 13, 2025

John I will miss are long conversations about life and politics. I am a better person for knowing you. May god be with you and rest in peace.

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