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CHUCK SCHOENFELDT
July 30, 2024
PAT WAS A GOOD GUY AND A GOOD FRIEND... I DID A LOT WITH PAT, BOB SHAAR AND MIKE VITUG (ALL THREE ARE GONE NOW)... I WAS THE ONLY NON-POLICE OFFICER OF THE GROUP - 3 OR 4 TIMES A MONTH WE WOULD ALL MEET FOR BREAKFAST IN ANNAPOLIS
CHUCK SCHOENFELDT
August 13, 2021
I WORKED A NUMBER OF YEARS WITH PAT, BOB SCHAAR AND MIKE VITUG... WITH OUT THEIR HELP I WOULD HAVE BEEN FIRED - THEY ALWAYS - ESPECIALLY PAT - TOOK THE TIME TO TELL ME "MEASURE THIS - MARK THAT - HOW SLICK IS THE GRASS" AND SO ON..
NICE GUYS - ALL WERE NEEDED IN HEAVEN

Ray RODRIGUEZ
July 30, 2021
Patrick was good man live life and enjoyed it. Miss him as person in the world and as friend. RIP brother.
The Rocks
August 17, 2010
Our best to Sandra and all those who loved Pat. Our memories of Uncle Buck will always bring a smile to our faces. We always enjoyed his funny stories, and all the different foods he always dropped off!!! What a wonderful person who gave so very much to all those around him. Don't throw the swans! Our love, Karin, Dan, Maddy, Lexi, and Chuck
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Jerome Billick
August 16, 2010
Dear Mrs. Urban
I went to school with Pat in Duryea and was a friend of his throughout high school, although i haven't seen him during the last 25 years, i have never forgotten him. He was a great friend. My deepest sympathy.
August 16, 2010
Dear Sandra,
We left for a vacation in England on Aug 3. Got back yesterday. I went to Mass this morning and picked up a Bulletin from Saturday. Have been running errands, checking mail, doing laundry, etc. Just took a break to read the Bulletin and am heart broken. I didn't know Pat long - we were pew partners often at daily Mass and sat side by side. I sent a couple of cards but missed my side kick. We are truly sorry for your loss. Even though we knew each other a short time I truly enjoyed the friendship. I am not doing well with his passing as we know you aren't either. Will never forget his always positive attitude. Please let us know if we can help you in any way. Chris and Mac McClean
Jean Marie Chilek Hoover
August 16, 2010
Dear Sandra,
I was a classmate of Pat's. It has been over 30 years since I last seen him. I can still picture him walking around town, on the football field, baseball diamond and basketball court. He was a great guy. He will remain in my memory for ever..
I am very sorry for your lose. May God be with you and your family!
Eric Mines
August 11, 2010
Dear Sandra,
I offer my sincere condolences to you and your family. I had the honor of serving with Pat on the DCPD from 1970 in the old Traffic Division until he retired from the TEB. Pat was a genuinely good person who was able to have a positive effect on all of those around him. My prayers are with you at this time of sadness.
August 11, 2010
Dear Sandra, our hearts go out to you and your family - Pat was a true friend and always so positive - He was a great help to me in preparing major accident reports - I will never forget the time we had at IPTM.. without his help I never would have passed!!
Joyce & Chuck Schoenfeldt
Janet Polansky
August 9, 2010
He fought the good fight and now is at home with God.We will all miss him.
August 9, 2010
Sandy,
Our deepest Sympathy goes out to you.
Love from us all up here.
Don and Emily Krause
August 8, 2010
Dear Sandra, We just heard the news of Pat's passing, on Friday. We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful man, & we always enjoyed being with both of you. Keeping you & your family in our prayers.
Pam & Jeff Bradley, Hollywood Park, Texas
Ray Rodriguez
August 7, 2010
Dear Sandra, Condolences on Patrick passing. Patrick was a very special person. We had just spoke a few weeks ago. We spoke after the last state meeting and reminisced of your visit with the guys after one of the state meeting in DFW few years back. Will miss my friend but have some great memories.
Jim Tighe
August 6, 2010
Dear Sandra,
Pat was a special person, i recall him coming to one of my little league games at the Duryea field. It was the first time we met, he had such words of encouragement and a smile that could light up a room-that day i got my first hit. My prayers are with you and your family.
Richard Alvarado
August 6, 2010
My prayers are with Patrick as he embarks on his life with God and with all of you in this time of sadness.
Holy Trinity Parishoner
Sharri Farrell Honeycutt
August 5, 2010
Sandra, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when Cousin Pat came to live with us. He took Chrisi and me to the movies to see a comedy. He laughed louder than anyone in the theatre. It was so funny. He was always so kind and fun to be around.
Charles Resavy
August 5, 2010
Dear Sandra,
You both may have lived away, but Pat was always special to Kathleen and I. When I first started dating Kathleen, I would often carry Pat to bed, heavy though he was, and I'm proud to say I also helped him learn to read.Though it was many years ago, the memories are still fresh.
Sandra, only those of us who have lost a spouse really understand it's meaning.
You'll always be in my prayers.
Charles
Bobby Lasky
August 5, 2010
Dear Sandra, All of the Lasky Family back in the Wyoming Valley are sorry for your loss. We all loved him and we will miss him greatly. Love Uncle Bobby, Aunt Ethie, Uncle Andy, and Aunt Lucy
Anne Farrell
August 5, 2010
Sandra. It seems like yesterday that Jack recuited "Cousin Pat" for the DC Police Department. He had such a positiove attitude, was always happy, joking and smiling, you just wanted to be near him. He had a great love for his family and friends and they had the same for him. We have such beautiful memories of him. May God watch over you and give you strength.
"Cousin Anne"
Lorraine Steckelmeyer
August 5, 2010
Dear Sandra and all of Pat's loved ones: Please know that all who knew him,loved him. His winning personality and cheery optimism drew us to him.May your wonderful memories and God's loving arms sustain you in your grief. Henry and Lorraine love you and share your sorrow.
amy cantu
August 5, 2010
I am very honored to have had the opportunity to have met and known Mr. Urban while he was treated for his cancer. Myself and the entire 3rd floor of START will miss Patrick very much. He was definately an inspiration to others while they were fighting their battles with cancer.
Treatment room (3rd floor) START
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