Shelley Pennington, 65, of San Antonio TX, passed away in NJ on June 25, 2021 after a valiant battle with ovarian cancer.
Shelley was born in Hawaii. She was the second of five children of Naval officer Jack Pennington and his wife Betty Jo. Shelley followed her father in serving in the US Navy, beginning with the Reserve Officers' Training Corp while a student at her beloved Rice University. Shelley played basketball in college all four years. After graduating with a degree in computer science, Shelley completed Naval flight training as part of the second class that allowed women to train as pilots. She was one of 16 women in a class of over 1,000.
TWA recruited Shelley in 1985. Shelley resigned from the active military to transfer to the US Navy Reserves in which she served with honor for three decades. Shelley was courted by many airlines and family lore maintains that Shelley opted for TWA because that airline offered the most generous travel benefits for her ever-frugal parents, who then took great joy in travelling the world first class, compliments of TWA.
After 10 years of flying with TWA, Shelley was recruited by UPS where she was promoted several times, ending her career as the Chief of Pilot Safety for the 757 and 767 aircrafts. In that position she had many responsibilities, including being alerted at random days and times of a flight mishap. She would then fly to various UPS sites around the world to investigate and resolve issues. Her keen intellect and logical, dispassionate analysis of mechanical, procedural, human and structural contributors to an issue allowed her to pinpoint fixes to increase safety and efficiency.
Shelley satisfied her drive to compete athletically by competing with and leading teams of military reservists from many NATO nations in an annual 3 day pentathlon of orienteering and specialist military skills. Each year Shelley would coach and encourage her team for months while also engaging in grueling training herself. She earned the respect of her teammates and competitors, and made many lifelong friends in her two decades of involvement.
Like her father, Shelley was an avid amateur distance runner, qualifying for and competing in the Boston Marathon for many years, along with racing in numerous other races. Exceptional in her ability to "gut it out" and prevail in long, challenging feats of physical prowess and endurance, Shelley found her "favorite" event to be four days of road racing competition at Florida's Disneyworld: a 5K followed by a 10K race on day 2, then a half-marathon on the 3rd day and culminating with a full marathon on day 4. She tremendously enjoyed the companionship of running friends and buddies at this event. Summers also found Shelley biking across Iowa with thousands of others and her with her dearest pal and fellow competitor Trish Gibbs.
Shelley retired from UPS in 2012 to return to care for her mother and her father in their final years, moving between their residence in San Antonio TX, which became her home, and their summer home in Pennington NJ.
Shelley will be dearly missed by her four siblings, numerous nieces and nephews, and friends throughout the world.

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Joanne Elliott
July 5, 2023
Served with Shelley at NASJRB Willow Grove. She was a great officer and an inspiration to many. Gone too soon.
Mary Brigden
February 19, 2023
I am so sorry to learn (so belatedly) of Shelley's passing. I flew with Shelley in VQ-4 and she was always a positive, funny, confident force of nature! I am sorry that I lost touch with Shelley after the Navy, and my condolences to her family for your loss.
Laura Manning
November 3, 2021
So sad to read of Shelley's passing. We played basketball together at Rice University. I remember Shelley fondly as a great teammate and a never-ending source of entertainment on team road trips! RIP
Anita Locy Johnson
October 17, 2021
I'm so sorry to hear of her passing. Shelley was a good friend at Rice U through thick and thin and hilarious times. We had an epic road trip together in her ancient station wagon (9 mpg) from Houston to Pennington and then Boston in the summer of '77 -- a great memory. Not surprised to read about her successes and distinguished career in the beautiful obituary here. She will be missed and fondly remembered by all of her Rice friends.
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Becky Condon
September 22, 2021
Oh, I am so sad to hear this. Shelley was a long time friend even though we lost close track of each other in these later years. We met at our NROTC Midshipman summer training between sophomore and junior years. I´d never met such a smart, athletic, and sweet funny girl who was friends to all. Next we were in the same class of Student Naval Aviators, 2 of the 15 women selected for Navy Flight School that year. Next we ended up in the same squadron flying EC-130´s. She was always a great friend and well-liked coworker.
Over the years I thought of her often and always with a smile at her sweet friendship, helpful attitude for whatever needed doing, and lively sense of humor and fun. She will be missed, remembered fondly, and never forgotten.
Lucy Young
September 22, 2021
I met her in 1981. She played basketball at NAS Corpus Christi TX with the energy and passion that she applied to all her endeavors. A fine person and fellow naval officer, she had a stellar career in both the Navy reserve and the airlines.
Joanne Elliott
September 20, 2021
Capt Pennington was a great officer and mentor. I will pass the word to her Shipmates from the Grove
Ron Ronyecs
July 18, 2021
My sister Michele & Shelly we´re good friends back in high school at Hoval..they were both avid athletes and fitness nuts..we lost Michele to cancer 12 years ago..I know they are together now running marathons and shooting hoops.
Mike Braun
July 11, 2021
I remember Shelly from when we were both flight instructors in the T-28 at Naval Air Station Corpus Christi, TX. She did a great job and was fun to be around. Sorry to hear of hear of her passing. Fair winds and following seas my friend.
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