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Benjamin Fischlowitz Obituary

Benjamin Parker Fischlowitz January 22, 1972 - February 9, 2018 San Diego Ben Fischlowitz, age 46, died peacefully in his San Diego home. Ben was born in Vietnam, and adopted in 1975 in Maryland, by Merle Fischlowitz (San Diego) and Barbara Fischlowitz (now Barbara Fischlowitz-Leong, Honolulu, HI),who knew Ben had polio in Vietnam. With leg braces he learned to walk on his own. When Ben was 4 the family moved to Honolulu. As a child, he loved physical activity, learning to ride a two-wheel bike,playing goalie on AYSO soccer team, and wrestling in high school. He graduated from Punahou School; earned BFA from Chapman University, Orange, CA, and MFA from California Center for the Arts, Pasadena. He worked as a freelance artist. Ben made many friends in his favorite coffee shops and fine restaurants. He enjoyed lifeand rarely spoke of his childhood or his medical problems. Ben is survived his parents; his sister Dr. Sara F. Davis, (James T., Honolulu); half-sister Elodie F. McAllister, Florida; and half-brothers Arlen Fischlowitz (Patti) of Florida, Richard (Tammy) and Robert Fischlowitz of San Diego; and veryclose friend Olga Keegan, San Diego; as well as many loving nieces and nephews. Funeral services have been held in Honolulu. Donations in Ben's memory may be made to Post-Polio International(www.post-polio.org); Punahou School Scholarship Fund, 1601 Punahou St., Honolulu, HI 96822; or East County Youth Symphony (www.ecysymphony.com).Mortuary Service by Am Israel Mortuary, 619-583-8850.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Feb. 18, 2018.

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February 18, 2018

Dear Merle - Our thoughts and prayers go out to you on the loss of your son. With love and friendship.

Sam Osowski and Marilyn Fenwick, San Diego, CA

Jacqueline Silverman

February 18, 2018

Dear Merle,

I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts are with you, with love and light, Jacqueline Silverman

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