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Dion Alan Barca

1968 - 2023

Dion Alan Barca obituary, 1968-2023, La Jolla, CA

Dion Barca Obituary


Dion died unexpectedly on Saturday, just hours before he was to begin the trip of a lifetime to Sicily and Isola di Salina. Dion had taught himself the Eolianu dialect of Sicilian, the language of his great-grandparents. Dion planned to research the Barca family history and obtain birth certificates of his grandparents and great-grandparents so that he and family members could apply for Italian citizenship. Dion was fluent in French and planned to visit Paris while on this trip. He was also teaching himself Spanish and Italian.
He was born at Scripps Hospital in La Jolla, California. He spent his younger years moving between La Jolla and Jackson Hole, Wyoming and attended school in both states, La Jolla Elementary and Wilson School in Wyoming, Muirlands Jr. High and Bishops School in La Jolla, and Torrey Pines High School in Del Mar. He loved school and went to several colleges, graduating from University of California Davis and studied his graduate courses at St. Mary's in Lafayette, California and also at San Diego State University.
He loved teaching. He taught at MTS San Diego Metropolitan Transit and cherished the friends he made there.
He had an adventurer's spirit and drove the length of the Baja peninsula many times. He traveled to Puerto Rico to visit his Aunt Micke who lived there training horses. Also, he visited Italy with his family twice before.
Dion was an idea man and was always thinking of new businesses and new adventures to undertake. He was a caring, kind man who would help anyone in need. He was a light in the darkness. His family and friends miss him very much. He was loved very much.
He is survived by his wife, Shelly Barca, whom he loved and adored; his loving mother Grace Barca, of Jackson Hole, and his father Joseph Barca, of Encinitas.
He was a loving devoted father to his children from his first marriage to Becky Norton-Westbrook: Ira, Eliora, and Robin; as well as his stepson, Tyler Lowry. His older brother, Marc, was always an inspiration, and Dion loved him dearly. He also loved his younger brother, Desmond, and younger sister, Baelin, and their children: Mina and Felix Barca, and Isla, Liam, and Isabella Suggs.
In lieu of flowers, Andrew Arellano is organizing a gofundme fundraiser on behalf of Shelly Barca. Fundraiser for Shelly Barca by Andrew Arellano : Dion Barca gofundme.com)
We are having a Celebration of Life on Saturday, 30 September 2023, 11:00 AM to 3:00 PM at the La Jolla Community Center, 6811 LJ Blvd, La Jolla, CA 92037.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Sep. 30, 2023.

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Lucinda Rearwin

June 4, 2024

Thinking of the Barca family and wishing peace and healing.
Love,
Cinda

Theresa Kaluzny

October 8, 2023

My condolences to Dion's family. I knew Dion when I worked at MTS . Dion was beautiful person. He always had a smile for everyone he met. May he rest in peace. I pray for his family to have peace and strength during this time. In Jesus's holy name amen.

Felix Rivera

October 8, 2023

My condolences to Dion's family and friends. He was a good friend of my family and a brother. We will love you and miss you always.

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Kim Cox

October 4, 2023

Dear Grace and family,
We are extremely sorry for your loss. Travel prevented us from attending Dion´s celebration of life. With deepest sympathy, Kim and Anne

Gwyn Allison McDonnell

October 1, 2023

All my love to Gracie and all of Dion´s family. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Dion as such a bright, energetic and adventurous child. I know he will live in your hearts forever.

Debbie Damato

September 30, 2023

Thinking of Dion´s family, friends all who knew and loved him. I always remember Dion as a sweet, kind, gentle person. Sending much love from your cousin Debbie

Gerry Barca

September 28, 2023

My nephew Dion was far to young to leave us. We will miss him. I always had and always will have nothing but warm thoughts of him. Dion did so much in life, and would have done so much more. Sadly, he will not be there for his children as they grow older. May he rest in peace.

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