Frederick Annable Frye M.D.
1934 - 2021
BORN
1934
DIED
2021
Frederick Annable Frye, MD
November 12, 1934 - January 21, 2021
San Diego
Dr. Frederick Annable Frye, eldest son of Frank Augustus, Jr. and June A. Frye passed away quietly at home at the age of 86 surrounded by family on Thursday, January 21, 2021. He was a "Mercy baby", third generation Californian and second generation San Diegan.Childhood, Schools, Work:Fred attended Florence Elementary School, Francis W. Parker, Midland boarding school in Santa Ynez Valley, Stanford University where he received his BS, USC Medical School with a clerkship at Johns Hopkins during his senior year, Los Angeles County Hospital internship and Children's Hospital in Los Angeles where he completed a pediatric residency with the third year as Chief Resident. He married his college sweetheart, Joy, in 1955, moved back to his hometown San Diego in 1963 with two children and started his medical practice with Dr. Burch Mehlin, his own pediatrician, at Rees Stealy Clinic. After three years, he moved on to opening his own private practice. After more than 35 years he retired from the practice of pediatrics and went to work for AETNA as a regional medical director, then as a Global Medical Director for AETNA International in Hartford, CT, and then returned to San Diego, to work for Mercy Physicians Medical Group as a Medical Director for a few years until he retired fully.Sports:While Fred was in college he lettered in soccer and rugby and always loved running. He began to run seriously during the 70's and started with 5k's, 10k's, half-marathons and marathons. He eventually ran 13 marathons, the Bay to Breakers run in San Francisco and many shorter races over the years. He ran the Olympic Torch in San Diego in 1984 and in 1996. Fred trained every day except Sunday at 6AM and had a regular group of friends who ran with him. At Christmas time the running group ran up to Balboa Park wearing Santa hats, bells and antlers and handed out candy canes, muffins and coffee to the homeless people and anyone else who wanted a little treat. Fred never did anything halfway. He missed qualifying for the Boston Marathon by seconds (even though he knew he could enter as a physician he didn't think that would be legitimate). He learned to ski at Sun Valley and decided to organize a group called Bigway Adventures that took hundreds of San Diegans skiing every winter to Sun Valley, Park City and Banff Springs, Canada. He was always organizing something and never seemed to run out of ideas.Fred knew from an early age that he wanted to learn to sail. He did not grow up in a sailing family but he loved the water and was happiest when he was in the ocean body surfing or on the water boating. He learned to sail from his friend's father, Captain Rayburn in Navy knockabouts in Coronado. When he returned to San Diego after his medical training he joined the San Diego Yacht Club in 1964 and decided he wanted to race sailboats. He started with a small day-sailor and eventually owned a Swan 431 which he raced to Manzanillo, Mexico in 1976. He sailed from Newport to Ensenada 19 times, from San Diego to Manzanillo, Puerto Vallarta, Mazatln and Cabo San Lucas many times with the same crew members. He loved the races to Mexico and the Mexican people. Fred always had a competitive spirit. He wanted to better his PR in running and win sailboat races. He and his trusty crew sailed his boat from Los Angeles to Hawaii in a Transpac race and won their class. There were also numerous trips to Catalina every summer with children and grandchildren in all of the boats.Community Service:Fred was President of the San Diego Medical Society in 1979 during a time of change. He led with a steady and firm hand.Fred worked his way up the chairs at the San Diego Yacht Club to become Commodore in 1987. The America's Cup was won by Dennis Conner that year and an impossible challenge came from Michael Fay for the next race. The club kept the cup for ten years. He never stopped working for SDYC and was on the Future Planning Committee until he died. In 1990-91 Fred had worked up the ladder to become president of San Diego Rotary Club 33. The Rotary Motto was his personal mantra; "Service Above Self' was always foremost in his mind. His father and his maternal grandfather had both been Club 33 presidents (his grandfather was district governor). Sons Fred, Jr. and Christopher have been president of their respective rotaries and daughter Barbara is currently a new member of a Rotary club in Sacramento. The Rotary legacy is strong in this family.After returning from his time in Connecticut, Fred was elected to be President of the San Diego Zoo Global. He was already retired with time available and he went to work at the zoo every day for two years. Fred had been a member of and had gone to the zoo since he was a small child and his mother dropped him off to spend the day with Belle Benchley. He loved the zoo and was determined to continue the good works of past chairmen. He organized the first conference on "The Future of Zoos" which helped to determine what direction zoos should go toward the conservation of endangered species and how they could all work together to insure the future survival of these wonderful creatures. Before and after his time in Connecticut Fred served on the Board of Directors of the Maritime Museum of San Diego. He finally had to step down from his position due to health reasons. He was a staunch supporter of the San Salvador project and contributed to its building. The grateful museum director and staff organized a "scandalizing of the spars" on the Star of India after he passed away. Organizations/Interests:When he and Joy reached their 25th anniversary she said she needed a break from cooking so he took cooking classes from George Munger at the Perfect Pan and obtained his diploma from the cooking school. For the next 20 years, he did most of the cooking at home and they collaborated for dinner parties. He also planned the menus and did most of the cooking on sailboat races. This sparked his interest in wines and that's when he started collecting. That led to his becoming a member of the Chevaliers du Tastevin, a Burgundy based wine and food organization with chapters world-wide. Again, he worked his way up the channels to become first a local then national officer in the organization which led to many friendships and trips to Paris and Burgundy in France and many cities in the U.S. where there are chapters.Also, a member and recently President of The La Jolla Wine and Food Society, he studied everything he could about wines around the world outside of Burgundy. When Covid struck in March, Fred was one of the first people to use Zoom as a communications tool. There were regular family Zooms on Sundays where he saw all his children, grandchildren and sometimes the great-grandchildren. He set up regular cocktail hour zooms with friends once a week and other zoom meetings with Wine and Food and Chevalier friends.Of course, he attended zoom meetings for Rotary, SDYC and other groups from time to time.He was awarded gold and silver medals for his service to the Wine and Food Society and in November he was named Mr. San Diego by Rotary Club 33 for all of his years of service to the San Diego Community. It was a great honor.He loved his children dearly and was very proud of their accomplishments. He set a very high bar for them to follow and they are all very competent and caring adults who are raising wonderful children.Fred lived life to the fullest and set a great example for us all. He was a high achiever with high energy, a hard worker and loved life. He made everything fun.Fred is survived by his wife of 65 years, Joy, brothers Frank A. Frye, III (Linda) and Milton Frye (Carolyn), Daughter Barbara Singleterry (Shawn), sons Fred Frye, Jr. DVM (Diane), Christopher Frye (Jamie) and Robert Frye (Steven Naugle), Grandchildren Nolan Mooney, Daniel Mooney (Lindsey), Christopher Mooney, Hannah Frye, Emma Singleterry and James Frye, Great Grandchildren Aidan Mooney, Annabelle Mooney, Ethan Mooney and Finnley Mooney.In lieu of flowers the family suggests a donation to The San Diego Zoo Global, Rady Children's Hospital or the Maritime Museum of San Diego.
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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Feb. 7, 2021.
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Dr. Frye was the best! Although I never looked forward to the shots as a child he had a way to make everything better. I’m very lucky to have known him.
Robert D
Friend
May 1, 2021
Irma Freeman
March 24, 2021
It is with great sadness to learn of Dr. "French Frye's" recent passing. He was a wonderful pediatrician for my children. He had endless patience and an abundance of kindness as a person, a physician and a friend. I was fortunate to have Fred for a friend of our little family group, and as a professional mentor. He was so helpful and so happy for us when we got our sailboat which provided years of fun. He even accompanied us to the Marine Supply Store in Pt. Loma and introduced the kids to the owner, a friendly lady by the name of Tommie. The kids would head to the room where she kept huge bags of popcorn. Fred was truly a pillar in the community and contributed in so many ways. Certainly he has left a wonderful legacy and made a definite impact on the lives of so many people. RIP, Fred. Blessings to his family and friends, as the void he leaves is pretty big. Heaven has a special place for him. Love, the "Whitwers" Jan, Jonathan and Bethany.
Jan
Friend
March 19, 2021
Fred was a friend for more than 50 years and was my sponsor for the SDYC. He was my Children's pediatrician and was in the operating room for their birth and immediately came out to congratulate me on their birth. He was a true gentleman and a man of many talents. I will miss seeing him in our Point Loma neighborhood but hope to continue to see his wife Joy.
Bob Faucett and Penny Faucett
Friend
March 13, 2021
We are so saddened by Dr. Frye's passing. When my son Chuck was born my dad, Dr. Charles Isham OB/GYN, recommended Dr. Frye as his pediatrician. Fred was a fantastic doctor, friend and human being. We know everyone who knew him loved him.
The Isham Family
Friend
February 16, 2021
Dr. Frye was my children's pediatrician for so many years. He was such a wonderful man. Our whole family remembers his sweet, down to earth, approach to everything - We loved him and will miss him dearly
Sharon Robinson
Friend
February 11, 2021
Sending condolences to Joy and the family for your loss. Dr. Frye was quite an amazing man and he will be deeply missed in San Diego. The John Starkey Family
Kristina Starkey
Friend
February 11, 2021
We feel so lucky to have known such a generous, giving, & kind man. Love and condolences to wonderful Joy and family.
Jack & Karolyn Dorsee
Friend
February 10, 2021
Dear Joy,
So sorry for your loss. Fred was an amazing man who made our community a better place. He will be missed.
Clarice Perkins
Friend
February 9, 2021
I will always remember Fred. He truly was a great friend, pediatrician, mentor, and kind and generous man. I owe him a great deal for his help in getting me started in pediatric practice in San Diego. The office at First and Juniper was a special place when he was there. Thank you, Fred.
Ron Lehman, MD
Friend
February 9, 2021
Fred was the first person I met attending my first Grand Conseil as the soon to be inducted GS of Miami. We hit it off right away. I really enjoyed all of our conversations each year.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal"
Michael Battle
Acquaintance
February 9, 2021
Having friendly chats with Fred before and after committee meetings at the Zoo (and occasionally at the Globe) was a highlight of my time on the Development committee. He was a true gentlemen, and always kind. My deepest condolences to his family and friends -- having a person like Fred in your life is a rare gift.
Marisa SorBello
Acquaintance
February 8, 2021
Those of us that had the good fortune to be Fred’s friends, will always fondly remember this amazing man and will enjoy to reminisce the times we have spent in his company. Fred will be greatly missed but never forgotten. I love you, my dear friend.
Bruno and Kim Cumar
Friend
February 8, 2021
Fred was one of the nicest, kindest and all around most wonderful man anyone could have the good fortune of knowing. So thankful to have been counted in his circle of friends. He will be deeply missed.
Pam Kelly
Friend
February 7, 2021
Dr. Fred Frye was a wonderful pediatrician and a good friend. He will be greatly missed by his many friends and patients.
Charlotte E. Thompson, M.D.
Charltote E. Thompson, M.D.
Friend
February 7, 2021
There is a large hole in our hearts for our friend, Fred. We'll miss the runs, the sailboat races, Rotary meetings, and the infamous Sailing Arts and Science Awards (the awards ceremony that became the NYEEMA awards at SDYC). But we have his family to continue to enjoy especially Joy. Rest in peace, skipper.
Sandy Purdon
February 7, 2021
Mim Sellgren
February 7, 2021
I feel very fortunate to have met and spent time with Fred
Don Howells
Friend
February 7, 2021
Joy: Fred was a great mentor, friend and wonderful person. All the best to you and the Family.

Tory and Rick Gulley
Friend
February 7, 2021
I have fine memories of his work for foster children in his office in my work as a county social worker in the sixties. He was always kind and considerate of children, foster parents and social workers!
Sandra Dysart
Friend
February 7, 2021
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