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Julie
July 25, 2008
Our "crew" will never be the same without our beloved Lily sitting amongst us. Her quick wit, beautiful smile and infectious laugh will be held in our hearts forever. We find comfort in knowing Lily will continue to join us in spirit for all our future gatherings-birthday lunches, weekend getaways and dinner parties.
Here's to you Lily...may you rest in peace. Until we meet again,
Your eternal friends,
Diana, Julie, Marla, Melodie, Sandy and Teresa.
Teresa Howarth
July 12, 2008
Dearest Ron, Despina, Jimmy, Debbie, Tom and Angie,
It has'nt been a month yet and and I still can't believe that LilyMoo is gone. I keep hoping the phone or doorbell will ring and she will be there, I miss my Lily too. God bless you all. God Bless LILY , MY BEST FRIEND.
Aimee Anderson
July 6, 2008
Dear Ron, Despina, Debbie, Jimmy, Tom, and Angela,
I am praying for peace of heart and much comfort to each of you at this most difficult time. You have such a strong family; you will find much support from each other. It was a privilege for Marquita and me to assist you via the CAST program of Chula Vista. Marquita and I have become very attached to your family. You will always have a special place in our hearts.
Much love and concern,
Aimee and Marquita
Tina Kearney
July 6, 2008
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bob, Tina and Cassandra Kearney
Dina & Jim Daglas
July 4, 2008
Dear Jim, Debbie, Tom, Ron & Despina, We are so sorry about Lily. We have such wonderful memories of her in our hearts that will never be forgotten. She was a beautiful lady and will be missed by all. Our prayers and love are sent to you.
Lisa & John Daglas
July 3, 2008
Dear Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Lily. She will always be remembered with love and respect. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robyn Buttitta
July 2, 2008
I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Lily when her daughter, Despina, joined Sound Unlimited. It was obvious from the start that she was a very special woman. Lily had the unique ability to make everyone she met feel special. Her positive energy, loving personality and warmth, touched all who were fortunate enough to know her. Our hearts and prayers go out to her family. She will be greatly missed.
Christi Zalesky
June 30, 2008
Uncle Ron and Despina,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Aunt Lily will always hold a special place in all of our hearts. With Love: Josh, Christi, Beckie and Jon (your nieces and nephews and cousin)
June 30, 2008
To The Daglas / Coca Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Lili was an amazing woman & we will always have fond memories of her. We miss & Love you all, Debbie, Jimmy, Tom, Ron & Despina. You will be in our thoughts & Prayers.
Love,
Kim & Christina
john saucedo
June 30, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
mel carolus
June 29, 2008
For Lils loving family...Jimmy, Debbie,Tom.Words could never convey the saddnes you are feeling. My prayers & thoughts are with you all, may you find solice in this time of great need. Sincerely, Melodie Carolus
melodie carolus
June 29, 2008
Dearest Ron & Despina... in such times of extreme sorrow and heavy hearts...please remember, we are all here to LOVE, to help, to share in your sadness and time of need.We are sincerelly sorry for your loss, your friends...Melodie & Doug
Jodi King
June 29, 2008
I had the privilage of meeting Lilly last year when my daughter became a member of Sound. Lilly was a huge part of Sound and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Catherine Anzuoni
June 29, 2008
I only met Lily a few years ago, when Despina joined Sound Unlimited Show Choir at the high school and Lily right away began volunteering to drive the girls to shows, chaperone trips, and joined our casino night fundraising committee. She was such an asset to all of us, with her vivacious personality, and good humor. Right away, she volunteered her parent's home for several Saturdays as we made decorations and baskets (Thanks again, Debbie and James). She didn't hesitate to volunteer Ron's services as he build cabinets at the theatre and the homecoming display. Lily, you always had such a good heart, and we will truly miss you!
Elaine Pilafas-Geschke
June 29, 2008
To The Daglas Family, I was so shocked to hear of Lilys passing. When we attended Patrick Henry HS , so many years ago, Lily, Georganne and myself were the best of friends. We attended church, concerts and did so many wonderful teenage things together. I remember, we would walk to Lilys for lunch, and her Dad, would always make us lunch and then drive us back to school. As I look back ,I have such wonderful memories of being so young and naive. May God give her whole family the wisdom and strength, to endure your heartache.Rest in peace our Orthodox Sister. Love,Elaine Pilafas-Geschke
RICKY HIATT
June 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
June 28, 2008
Psalm 62:8
O my people, trust in him at all times.Pour out your heart to him,for God is our refuge.
Psalm 91:2 This I declare about the Lord:He alone is my refuge, my place of safety;he is my God, and I trust him.
Stephanie Runyon
June 28, 2008
Jimmy,Debbie and Tom
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Iris Pillafas
June 28, 2008
My children were such good friends with Lilly as they were growing up. May our dear Lord be with you all at this time of grief, there aren't any words I can say to ease your pain.She was a lovely young lady ,may her memory be eternal.God bless you and your entire family.Iris Pilafas
Iris Daglas
June 28, 2008
My beautiful girl. We will always have you on our minds and in our heart. Yiayia and papou have welcomed you to heaven. May your memory be eternal. Your loving aunt Iris Daglas
Angie Fedele
June 28, 2008
Bob and I were privileged to know Lily and are deeply saddened by her passing. Our hearts go out to Ron, Despina, Jimmy, Debbie and all of the family.
Becky walters
June 28, 2008
Lily, You will be missed by all.
Jimmy, Becky, John, Jeni Aileen and Loukas Papadimitriou family
Father John Pilafas
June 28, 2008
Dear Debbie, James, and Tom..My sisters Elaine and Georganne were best friends with Lily when you first moved to San Diego. I was stunned to hear about Lily, she was also my friend. My prayers are with you and I will conduct a memorial service tomorrow at my church St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church. Know that as an Orthodox Christian Lily is with the Risen Christ and is where no pain, sorrow, or sighing are present. Please contact me when you can..Eternal Be Her Memory..Eonia I Mnimi
Peggy Wilhelm
June 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jessica Kemler
June 28, 2008
What an amazing woman! We loved Lily, and we will miss seeing her smile and hearing her laugh. She was a genuine friend to us all, and the world seems a lesser place without her in it. With Love, The Kemlers
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